SparkPeople GLBTQ Spark Network: We Are Family Team Messageboard http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/groups_individual.asp?gid=940 For gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning Sparkers and those who love and support them. Welcome! SparkPeople GLBTQ Spark Network: We Are Family Team Messageboard http://www.sparkpeople.com/assets/nav/nav_logo_v3.gif http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/groups_individual.asp?gid=940 Hello everyone! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x53387545 I've been posting here a little bit for a while, but haven't formally introduced myself, so here goes! <BR> <BR> I'm a 47-year-old lesbian, living in Los Angeles. I'm single, with an 11-year-old daughter. I share custody 50/50 with my ex-domestic partner. <BR> <BR> I work as an Early Interventionist, which means that I provide educational services to infants and toddlers with developmental disabilities. I go into families' homes and provide directed play, parent coaching, and resources... Sat, 18 May 2013 11:45:10 EST Crimes Against Gays http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x53333441 or anyone, for that matter. <BR> <BR> The story in this link disturbs me! <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/12/ru<BR>ssian-gay-man-torture_n_3263406.html?i<BR>r=Gay%20Voices&utm_campaign=051313&utm<BR>_medium=email&utm_source=Alert-gay-voi<BR>ces&utm_content=Photo </link> Mon, 13 May 2013 19:56:17 EST Mothers! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53309977 It's Mothers' (or Mother's...depending if you're thinking of just yours or all of them ;) Day tomorrow. <BR> <BR> Father's Day is soon to come. <BR> <BR> You may be a parent yourself. <BR> <BR> I'm curious, if you'd like to share, about others' relationships with their parents. Have you come out to them? How did they react? How is their attitude toward your dates/partners? <BR> <BR> I feel we should honor our parents on their special days. Even if they were the world's worst, they still g... Sat, 11 May 2013 22:55:08 EST 5.10.13: How have you challenged yourself lately? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53294626 What have you done lately to push yourself our of your "comfort zone"? <BR> <BR> I performed some live music (1 song), and did 4 karaoke songs! I'm normally pretty shy about performing ANYTHING. <BR> <BR> What have you done lately? It could be a new physical activity, a personal challenge, a new food you've tried... anything that challenged you and that you felt good about trying. Fri, 10 May 2013 15:21:25 EST Hi! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x53242671 Should get around to introducing myself - I have too long had the habit of lurking in the shadows. Now that i have taken control of myself, rebuilding myself as I go along, my shyness has to go away too. <BR> <BR> My name is Erik and I am from Eau Claire, WI. I joined SparkPeople not just to diet and exercise, but to go back 30 years. Why 30 years? and how does that work? - 30 years ago I buried who I truly was because I nearly killed my best friend with a stupid prank. I hid behind a mi... Mon, 6 May 2013 14:04:14 EST Let this poor little one go to sleep! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53210485 he doesn't even understand the concepts at 3, do you agree? <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/03/au<BR>stralian-toddler-husband_n_3208880.html </link> Fri, 3 May 2013 21:28:18 EST 5.1.2013 More States Getting Behind Marriage Equal http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53175874 Delaware and Rhode Island have passed laws recently to start the process of making gay marriage legal and Colorado seems to be right behind them. We are getting there one state at a time! <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563az7r3.168/UYAndcJSbCunOX5fB<BR>bdad </link> Wed, 1 May 2013 08:16:25 EST 4/30/2013 Athletes coming out http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53168477 So Brittney Griner comes out last week AND lands the Nike contract. Yet the world kinda shrugged it off until Jason Collins came out (plays NBA basketball). Because of course it's all about the macho sports (football,baseball, basketball & hockey). Seriously? GRRRR. I am glad there is another role model and I am happy we are a little closer to maybe not giving a rat's a$$ what someone's sexual orientation is because it means nothing to their athleticism. <BR> <BR> <link>www.nytimes.... Tue, 30 Apr 2013 17:03:10 EST 4.27: Dove's Ad Campaign - Another Take http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53131470 Saw this today and thought it might be of interest: <BR> <BR> "Don't Drop the Soap: Gay Body Image and Dove's Latest Viral Video" <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/carl-sandler/<BR>dont-drop-the-soap-gay-body-image-and-<BR>doves-latest-viral-video_b_3149454.html </link> Sat, 27 Apr 2013 20:07:07 EST 4.24.2013 More Marriage Equality http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53088226 France has just legalized gay marriage. It is just another major step for us in the eyes of the world. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563ayt45.16r/UXbxosJSSC5-QfM8B<BR>f5c5 </link> Wed, 24 Apr 2013 05:28:23 EST "Brave" Sara Bareillis http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53088180 <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwTr_CRw3GY </link> <BR> <BR> A new song by Sara Bareillis - inspired by a friend of hers who was struggling with coming out. <BR> <BR> The song was cowritten by Jack Antonoff, who describes it as a "civil rights anthem of our time" and I agree - a song to inspire strength in marginalized (all) people. <BR> <BR> Be brave everyone!! <BR> <em>26</em> Wed, 24 Apr 2013 05:12:25 EST 4/23/2013 Chaz Bono http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53086525 Chaz Bono has lost 60 lbs and is looking so much healthier. He avoid grains and starches, so meats and vegetables and fruits are his main diet. He used the Freshology system which is a meal delivery system (3 meals and one snack). He does martial arts and still dances. <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/22/ch<BR>az-bono-weight-loss-photo_n_3133029.ht<BR>ml#slide=more224610 </link> <BR> <BR> Kudo's to him for losing! I am curious: what type of eating plan are we all doing? I kn... Tue, 23 Apr 2013 23:11:12 EST Not a lot of room; no equipment - I can do this! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x53042098 She's cute, too! <BR> <BR> I recommend a couple minutes just marching in place for cool down and then some more stretching. After that: <em>91</em> <em>265</em> <em>247</em> <BR> <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/resource/videos-<BR>detail.asp?video=33 </link> Sat, 20 Apr 2013 12:46:34 EST 4.17.2013 Former First Ladies http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x53008126 It would seem that even the Reagan's may be backing us, what are the odds? It would be nice if current politicians would take a page from some of the former ones on some of the issues. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563ayg6l.17c/UW8NU8JSzCMohfI6B<BR>9547 </link> Wed, 17 Apr 2013 19:43:25 EST 4/16/2013 - Dove's Real Beauty Campaign http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52994368 Gil Zamora is an FBI-trained forensics artist with over 3,000 criminal sketches under his belt. Dove and Ogilvy Brazil hired him to interview and draw seven different women—two sketches of each. The first sketch was based on each woman's personal description of herself. The second was based on a description provided by a stranger the woman had just met. Watching these women come face to face with the version of themselves in their mind and the version everyone else sees is extraordinary. They... Tue, 16 Apr 2013 19:27:35 EST Bombings and how they may effect you? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52991507 so with all the controversy about gay marriage, and the recent bombing at a RACE omg why a race is beyond me... but what are your thoughts about going to pride festivals now... I am kind of frightened. Not going to lie.. Tue, 16 Apr 2013 14:34:08 EST lesbian life http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52952845 dot about dot com led me here when I was researching my newly dx condition. Wonder if there are others of you who are going or have gone thru' this? <BR> <BR> <link>lesbianlife.about.com/cs/healthconce<BR>rns/a/brcancer.htm </link> Sat, 13 Apr 2013 16:22:25 EST 4.12.13: April Team Fitness Challenge - Check In http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52941426 Since I had forgotten about this month's team fitness challenge, and because I haven't been very consistent about exercising lately, I thought I'd check in and see how you all are doing! <BR> <BR> I can see some of us have been exercising really consistently! Really good work! <BR> <BR> BUT: It's not too late to join the challenge! Better half a month than none at all! <BR> <BR> You can track the minutes you've exercised this month so far, or just start with today. Go to the Team Challenge... Fri, 12 Apr 2013 16:55:47 EST Book Club http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52917162 Hey, I am starting over with sparkpeople including my book group this time I am adding all types of books I'd love to see some of you in there :) thanks everyone <BR> <BR> The Book Club Wed, 10 Apr 2013 21:29:32 EST 4.10.2013 Transgender Pioneers Of Our Time. http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52910467 Good afternoon everyone, I hope everybody is doing well. We have had many people who stand up and stand out in the community, but transgender pioneers are sometimes overlooked and should be considered very important. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563axyf4.18u/UWR6SsJS3iuZsIGrC<BR>02ab </link> Wed, 10 Apr 2013 12:02:55 EST The world lost 2 in one day http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52887756 Close on the heels of Roger Ebert, we have lost Margaret Thatcher and <link>www.cnn.com/2013/04/08/showbiz/annet<BR>te-funicello-obit/index.html </link> Mon, 8 Apr 2013 21:22:32 EST 4.8.13: Bumper Stickers on You Car? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52875926 I can hear the grumbles from here, but happy Monday. Hopefully, your weekend was a good one. Do you have any bumper stickers on your car? If so, what do they say. If not, what would you want on your car. I have the equality sticker on my bumper. What about you? <BR> <BR> Enjoy the day. Mon, 8 Apr 2013 04:47:47 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on DANAG22 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52875912 Meet Dana, <BR> <BR> She's ready for a new me. She has a great program in place to help her reach her health and fitness goals. <em>243</em> <BR> <BR> ************************* <BR> <BR> READY FOR A NEW ME <BR> <BR> Hello my name is Dana and Welcome to my Sparks Page. I am 31 yr old single lesbian. I am ready more than ever to lose the baggage.. I am determined to lose 50 lbs before my 32th bday . I have been overweight my entire life ; dating from when I was just 2yrs old. I am tired... Mon, 8 Apr 2013 04:42:43 EST GLBT Icon: Ellen DeGeneres: Comedian http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52875901 b. January 26, 1958 <BR> <BR> "For me, it's that I contributed . . . that I'm on this planet doing some good and making people happy. That's to me the most important thing, that my hour of television is positive and upbeat and an antidote for all the negative stuff going on in life." <BR> <BR> Popular comedian Ellen DeGeneres was the first openly gay actor to portray a gay character on a leading primetime television program. <BR> <BR> In April 1997, Ellen DeGeneres, the star of her own ... Mon, 8 Apr 2013 04:38:51 EST GLBT Icon: John Boswell: Historian http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52866107 b. March 20, 1947 <BR> d. December 24, 1994 <BR> <BR> "It is possible to change ecclesiastical attitudes toward gay people and their sexuality because the objections to homosexuality are not biblical, they are not consistent, they are not part of Jesus' teaching; and they are not even fundamentally Christian." <BR> <BR> John Boswell was an esteemed historian who argued that homosexuality has always existed, that it has at times enjoyed wide social acceptance, and that the Church historica... Sun, 7 Apr 2013 11:39:12 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on BELLEUOSUS http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52866042 Meet BELLEUOSUS, <BR> <BR> This member is looking to lead a healthier life. <em>306</em> <BR> <BR> *********************** <BR> <BR> Sweets Geek <BR> <BR> I've counted calories for years to keep my weight in check, but have gained 20 lbs back over the last year. I want that gone! I tried the gym and a personal trainer, but was paying big money for NO results! So I'm back to strictly counting calories like I did before and just trying to stay on track this time around. <BR> <BR> Prof... Sun, 7 Apr 2013 11:34:12 EST 4.7.13: What Did You Do This Weekend http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52865992 Good morning team. Sorry for the late post, I'm visiting relatives and time got away from me. <BR> <BR> What did you do this weekend? The weekend isn't over quite yet and hopefully you have some plans to get out in the sun, if the weather is nice your way. We're going to have a cookout later, yep, I'm doing the cooking and hopefully, we'll have a good time. <BR> <BR> What about you? Sun, 7 Apr 2013 11:29:56 EST Promises not Kept http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52858154 I promised the team I'd post a funny thing I saw on Huffington Post. Sorry, didn't pan out. It was a blog by Bill Maher on gay marriage. Turned out not so good after all. <BR> <BR> We have all different ages on the team, but I believe all of you are younger than I am. I've been thinking, though, about what we will do when I finally can retire. <BR> <BR> Probably it will be to stay where we are, cuz we have the kids and grandkids. I would love to retire to a GLBTQ community, though. You may ... Sat, 6 Apr 2013 19:45:46 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on DONTGOAWAYMAD http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52850123 Meet CJ, <BR> <BR> This guy says No. Mr. Fat Guy. This member has lost 20 pounds and is well on his way in reaching his health and fitness goals. <em>306</em> <BR> <BR> ****************** <BR> <BR> No More Mr. Fat Guy; Hello, Mr. Leee-ee-ee-ean! <BR> <BR> Hi, I'm CJ (Also correct: Cherry, Cereza, and "Hey, you"). <BR> <BR> I'm into: <BR> *Art (mostly painting, acrylics and oils on canvas) <BR> *Classic Rock <BR> *Old Chevy trucks (cars too) <BR> *Grilling <BR> *The occasional craft b... Sat, 6 Apr 2013 07:01:43 EST GLBT Icon: Volker Beck: German Activist http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52850056 b. December 12, 1960 <BR> <BR> "Human rights that do not apply to everyone are not human rights at all." <BR> <BR> Volker Beck is one of Europe's leading advocates of LGBT rights. A member of Germany's parliament, the Bundestag, Beck is the father of the German Registered Partnership Act. <BR> <BR> Prior to becoming politically active in the peace movement in the 1980's, Volker Beck studied at the University of Stuttgart. In 1985, he joined the Green Party. In 1987, he became responsibl... Sat, 6 Apr 2013 06:49:17 EST EARTH DAY -- April 22, 2013 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52841052 The first Earth Day celebration was in 1970 with approximately 20 million Americans participating. Now, Earth Day is celebrated by over a billion people in 180 nations around the world. <BR> <BR> In the 1960s, issues dealing with the environment were not considered political concerns. U.S. Senator Gaylord Nelson of Wisconsin had attempted to gather support to focus on the environment, but none of his efforts had been successful. People's frustrations grew as environmental conditions worsened... Fri, 5 Apr 2013 12:28:26 EST GLBTQ Team Spotllight is on FAVORITEAUNT84 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52835966 Meet FAVORITEAUNT84, <BR> <BR> This member wants to have more energy and confidence. So far, FAVORITEAUNT84 has lost an amazing 34 pounds! <em>243</em> <BR> <BR> *********************** <BR> <BR> One day at a time <BR> <BR> I want to have more energy and confidence. <BR> <BR> Profile <BR> <BR> Member Since: 1/21/2010 <BR> <BR> SparkPoints: 16,546 <BR> <BR> Fitness Minutes: 885 <BR> <BR> <BR> Spark Page <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/mypage.asp?id=FA<BR>VORITEAUNT... Fri, 5 Apr 2013 05:37:39 EST Debunking Reparative Therapy: Why It Matters http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52835892 <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/glenda-corwin<BR>/gay-reparative-therapy_b_3011456.html<BR>?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices </link> Fri, 5 Apr 2013 05:27:02 EST Now in Theaters: 4.5.13 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52835821 Evil Dead (2013) <BR> <BR> Certificate R 91 min - Horror <BR> Metascore: 69/100 (11 reviews) <BR> Five friends head to a remote cabin, where the discovery of a Book of the Dead leads them to unwittingly summon up demons living in the nearby woods. The evil presence possesses them until only one is left to fight for survival. <BR> Director:Fede Alvarez <BR> Stars:Jane Levy, Shiloh Fernandez, Jessica Lucas, Lou Taylor Pucci <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>www.imdb.com/title/tt1288558/?ref_=i<BR>... Fri, 5 Apr 2013 05:09:37 EST GLBT Icon: Jean-Michel Basquiat: Artist http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52824523 b. December 22, 1960 <BR> d. August 12, 1988 <BR> <BR> "SAMO© as an end to mindwash religion, nowhere politics, and bogus philosophy." <BR> <BR> Jean-Michel Basquiat was a graffiti artist whose painting became a major force in revitalizing American art in the late 20th century. <BR> <BR> Basquiat grew up in a middle class environment in Brooklyn. His father, an accountant, was Haitian and his mother was Puerto Rican. As a teenager, he left home to live in lower Manhattan, selling hand-p... Thu, 4 Apr 2013 10:06:33 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on LILLIAN9973 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52824334 Meet LILLIAN9973, <BR> <BR> I love her intro and the fact that specific, realistic goals are in place. This member will reach their goal weight in no time. <BR> <BR> **************************** <BR> <BR> Go away love handles and never come back <BR> <BR> Hi. I'm here to get serious about losing weight! <BR> <BR> I had struggled with weight my entire adult life (I'm 29 now) due to depressive binge-eating, peaking at around 225 lbs. It's only a matter of time until I reach my goal! <BR> ... Thu, 4 Apr 2013 09:53:20 EST 4.4.13: Did You Turn Your Facebook Page Red? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52824220 Good morning team. I hope this finds you in good spirits and that smile should be a bit brighter; tomorrow is Friday! <BR> <BR> Did you turn your Facebook Page Red? If so, are you going to keep it red until the final decision is made? Inquiring minds want to know. <BR> <BR> Whatever you have planned for today, make it a good one. Thu, 4 Apr 2013 09:46:42 EST Photo Record? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52814558 1) I hate my body and am almost never seen (even in summer) without at least shorts and a shirt. <BR> <BR> 2) I NEVER post pictures of myself online because I hate people to see how fat I am and because I've heard that any photo you put online can be viewed by anyone with a computer. <BR> <BR> With that being said. What do you think of keeping a photo record? Do you think it helps? Does it need to be w/ one's face showing? Wed, 3 Apr 2013 16:13:11 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on MISCHIEFBOI http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52803608 Meet MISCHIEFBOI, <BR> <BR> This member is a kid at heart and based on their latest thread post on the team, loves to play pranks and hasn't forgotten the joys of having fun. <em>334</em> <BR> <BR> **************************** <BR> <BR> Every day is a "Maxine" type of day :) <BR> <BR> WELCOME to My World. <BR> Grab a cold drink, pull up a chair, and let's visit :) <BR> Oh My Stars, I almost did myself a MISCHIEF!! The cat jumped on the chair I was tilting back in. :o <BR> <BR> Love i... Tue, 2 Apr 2013 21:47:10 EST 30 Taco Recipes To Get Excited About http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52803363 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/20/ta<BR>co-recipes-chicken-mexican_n_1612180.html </link> Tue, 2 Apr 2013 21:31:56 EST GLBT History: John Kander: COMPOSER WHOSE WORK CEL http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52803346 COMPOSER WHOSE WORK CELEBRATES THE POLYMORPHOUS PERVERSE, 1927 <BR> <BR> Composer John Kander and lyricist Fred Ebb are the musical poets of the polymorphous perverse. The stage (and, in two cases, subsequent film) versions of their commercially successful and critically lauded Cabaret, Chicago, and Kiss of the Spider Woman glorify the creativity inherent in sexual ambivalence and celebrate the social renewal fostered by unorthodox forms of political action. <BR> <BR> Surprisingly for many ... Tue, 2 Apr 2013 21:31:03 EST Coffee bad? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52797960 I've been reading on here that Coffee is bad. I drink a 1-3 mugs of coffee every day and I honestly don't know how I would get through a day without it. Seriously, I would be a slug without it. Tue, 2 Apr 2013 14:22:48 EST 4/2/2013 Some Criticisms of the HRC http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52796952 I have been reading some interesting "discussions" on the red equality symbol(s) that scattered FB this week. It's funny I didn't really link it to the HRC which I should have since I am very well aware of the HRC's symbol and some of the issues that many many LGBT folks have with the HRC. <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/derrick-clift<BR>on/human-rights-campaign-same-sex-marr<BR>iage_b_2973131.html?utm_hp_ref=fb&src=<BR>sp&comm_ref=false </link> Tue, 2 Apr 2013 12:56:03 EST Hello http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52796638 A friend of mine suggested I check out SparkPeople.com after I shared with her that I didn't know where else to turn to deal with my weight issues. <BR> <BR> I am almost 300 pounds and hate what I see in the mirror. I've tried just about every diet and fitness thing out there with little to no results in the end. Almost always I end up fatter and sicker and frankly I cannot take it anymore. I'd rather be dead that feel and look the way I do right now. Tue, 2 Apr 2013 12:27:46 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on KELLY122581 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52791064 Meet Kelly, <BR> <BR> This member has lost a whopping 50 pounds and is only 2 pounds away from reaching her goal weight. How cool is that? <em>243</em> She set reasonable goals and lost 50 pounds in 10 months. Very inspiring. <BR> <BR> ******************** <BR> <BR> Progress! <BR> <BR> I joined SP in 2008 when I needed to make a change and lose about 50 lbs. I did it! And I kept it off for several years. But recently i've let fitness and nutrition slip from my priorities list (plus I s... Tue, 2 Apr 2013 03:44:32 EST GLBT History: Wilfred Owen: ENGLISH WAR POET WHO P http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52791060 ENGLISH WAR POET WHO PRECISELY OBSERVED THE HORROR OF TRENCH WARFARE, 1893 <BR> <BR> (1893-1918) <BR> <BR> English war poet Wilfred Owen combined the homoeroticism latent in the elegy tradition with precise observation of the horror of trench warfare. <BR> <BR> Owen was born and brought up chiefly in Shropshire, England. After failing to get into university, he worked for a vicar and then in France as an English teacher before enlisting at the beginning of World War I at the age of 21. <B... Tue, 2 Apr 2013 03:38:44 EST March Stats: Final http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52775144 <BR> <BR> Fitness Minutes <BR> <BR> 1) TWEETYKC00 3,720 <BR> 2) DOLPHINSINGER72 3,642 <BR> 3) ANDREWSBEARD 3,572 <BR> 4) CORRALES_SCOTT 3,445 <BR> 5) GORDONFREECHMAN 3,098 <BR> 6) DCGUY72 2,937 <BR> 7) NODOOVERS 2,892 <BR> 8) REGULARSHOW 2,776 <BR> 9) SAMBIDEXTROUS 2,744 <BR> 10) KIERAE 2,700 <BR> 11) RIPPEDPAUL1 2,674 <BR> 12) CJOSTEDGAARD 2,640 <BR> 13) JENVAMPVEGAS 2,551 <BR> 14) CINCYDORA 2,503 <BR> 15) BONNIEMARGAY 2,400 <BR> 16) TENNISJIM 2,260 <BR> 17... Mon, 1 Apr 2013 06:47:03 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on LANNIEMANUEL http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52773347 Meet LANNIEMANUEL, <BR> <BR> This member is doing something right by losing 32 pounds. This member is learning to lead a healthier life and it shows. <BR> <BR> ******************* <BR> <BR> journey to healthier me <BR> <BR> Hello, I am on here to refocus myself in my goal to a healthier me. I had lap band surgery in 2010. and due to out side stress, fell off my diet. I am here to refocus myself and make the change for a life style and not "diet". I am on here to hold myself accountable fo... Sun, 31 Mar 2013 23:45:21 EST 4.1.13: April Fools Day http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52772944 Good morning team. Today is the first day of our April Challenge. If you haven't done so yet, please participate. It's good for accountability. <BR> <BR> Do you think you'll play a trick on someone today? <BR> <BR> Sun, 31 Mar 2013 23:11:28 EST The Best Smoothies for Every Season http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52772895 <link>www.rodale.com/smoothie-recipes?cm_m<BR>mc=TheDailyFixNL-_-1241010-_-03252013-<BR>_-The_Best_Smoothies_Every_Season </link> Sun, 31 Mar 2013 23:08:20 EST Your Diabolically Lazy Brain http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52762192 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/gayatri-devi-<BR>md/your-diabolically-lazy_b_2916724.ht<BR>ml?ir=Healthy%20Living </link> Sun, 31 Mar 2013 05:45:38 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on CINCYDORA http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52762143 Meet CINCYDORA, <BR> <BR> This member says it's time to stop treading water. Having already lost 20 pounds, this member is well on their way to reach their health and fitness goals. <em>224</em> <BR> <BR> ************************* <BR> <BR> Time to stop treading water <BR> <BR> It's been almost 2 years since I topped out at 300 lbs. I lost 15 lbs and joined Sparkpeople 3 months later. I've been losing and gaining the same 20 lbs ever since. <BR> <BR> Enough! This is my promise to mys... Sun, 31 Mar 2013 05:30:30 EST 3.31.13: www.lovingev erywhere.com http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52762123 When you get a chance go to the link below and follow the instructions provided. It's very important. <BR> <BR> <link>www.lovingeverywhere.com </link> <BR> <BR> This link will give you the names of those who will be making a decision on Marriage Equality and the address to mail your pictures and include a short letter explaining why Marriage Equality is important to you. This may make a big difference in the ruling. <BR> <BR> Finally, today is the last day of the month. If you haven't ... Sun, 31 Mar 2013 05:23:58 EST Question http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52760387 Do you plan to eat any Easter candy? I heard that over 90% of people eat the ears off of their chocolate bunny first! <BR> <BR> If you do, and I'm all for an occasional treat figured in, you might consider eating his tail <em>172</em> <BR> <BR> Another question is, "Does anyone know why Reese's eggs, hearts and jack-o-lanterns are better tasting than the regular cups?" <BR> <BR> Terrible questions I have! Be sure you figure your treats in...if you go a bit over with them or a holiday... Sat, 30 Mar 2013 22:39:31 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on TENNISJIM http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52753749 Meet Jim, <BR> <BR> The artwork on his Spark Page is his own creation. He is quite talented. An avid tennis player and a lover of Sex in the City series and movies, this member has achieved his health and fitness goals and is now in maintenance mode. <em>243</em> <BR> <BR> ************************** <BR> <BR> Jim's Diet Page <BR> <BR> I started SparkPeople in May 2008 because I saw a photo of me that wasn't very complimentary. So, I chose to change my eating habits and added exercisin... Sat, 30 Mar 2013 10:44:06 EST 17 Different Versions Of The Marriage Equality Sym http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52753684 17 Different Versions Of The Marriage Equality Symbol For Your Facebook Page <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/27/eq<BR>uality-symbol-facebook_n_2966141.html </link> Sat, 30 Mar 2013 10:38:38 EST Did You Turn Your Facebook Page Red? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52753650 I sure did. <BR> <BR> How The Red Equal Sign Took Over Facebook, According To Facebook's Own Data <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/29/re<BR>d-equal-sign-facebook_n_2980489.html?i<BR>r=Gay%20Voices#slide=more288799 </link> Sat, 30 Mar 2013 10:36:23 EST 3.29: Kansas to Allow Quarantine of HIV Patients?? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52743839 Disturbing news from Kansas: <BR> <BR> Kansas Law Allowing Quarantine of HIV/AIDS Patients Alarms Advocates <BR> <BR> AIDS and community advocacy groups expressed alarm over the passage of a public health bill in Kansas that could, potentially, allow the quarantine of people living with HIV/AIDS. The bill intent was a broad effort to bring all infectious diseases under one statute, making it easier for first responders to get a test after a potential exposure, rather than an attempt to quar... Fri, 29 Mar 2013 14:07:20 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on RACINGSLUG http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52737446 Meet RACINGSLUG, <BR> <BR> Based on her latest blog entry, she's eating clean and happy. WTG! She's also approaching her 6 wedding anniversary. <em>242</em> <BR> <BR> *********************************** <BR> <BR> Journey of a Thousand Inches <BR> <BR> ''What is to give light must endure burning.'' <BR> ~Viktor Frankl~ <BR> <BR> I'm 30, happily married, and very silly. <BR> <BR> I've been here a while. I'm getting older, and I'm starting to feel it. About two months ago, I asked a bu... Fri, 29 Mar 2013 00:45:35 EST New In Theaters: 3.29.13 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52736834 G.I. Joe: Retaliation (2013) <BR> <BR> Certificate PG-13 110 min - Action | Adventure | Sci-Fi | Thriller <BR> Metascore: 49/100 (13 reviews) <BR> The G.I. Joes are not only fighting their mortal enemy Cobra; they are forced to contend with threats from within the government that jeopardize their very existence. <BR> Director:Jon M. Chu <BR> Stars:Dwayne Johnson, D.J. Cotrona, Channing Tatum, Bruce Willis <BR> <BR> <link>www.imdb.com/title/tt1583421/?ref_=i<BR>nth_ov_vi#lb </link> ... Thu, 28 Mar 2013 23:30:58 EST Photos from this Week’s Gay Marriage Hearing http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52731484 <link>colorlines.com/archives/2013/03/10_p<BR>owerful_images_of_protesters_outside_t<BR>his_weeks_supreme_court_prop_8_hearing.html </link> Thu, 28 Mar 2013 15:50:05 EST GLBT Icon: James Baldwin: Author http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52724721 b. August 2, 1924 <BR> d. November 30, 1987 <BR> <BR> "I love America more than any other country in the world and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually." <BR> <BR> James Baldwin was an African-American writer whose novels and essays captured the conflicted spirit of late 20th century America. <BR> <BR> It is often the outsider who divines truth most clearly. James Baldwin, to whom many doors were closed by virtue of his poverty, his race, and his ... Thu, 28 Mar 2013 04:35:08 EST The Truth About Chicken McNuggets http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52724710 <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZjBs0PNDgvg&<BR>feature=em-uploademail </link> Thu, 28 Mar 2013 04:32:35 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on NIKKISCHROE http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52724703 Meet Nikki, <BR> <BR> A wife to a soldier, with 2 adorable children, this member is ready to lead a healthier life. She's looking for some Spark Friends to help each other along. <BR> <BR> *********************** <BR> <BR> Nikki's big adventure! <BR> <BR> I am a mommy of two, a wife to a soldier. I have been overweight my entire life, I'm 6'0 ft tall, that used to hide my weight but not so much now. I'm looking for lots of spark buddies so we can inspire each other. I work for the VA in t... Thu, 28 Mar 2013 04:29:43 EST 3.28.13: How We Got to the Supreme Court http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52724688 Good morning team. I hope this finds you well rested and ready to take on a new day. Don't forget about the April challenge, it begins Monday. If you have Facebook, have you turned it red? If not, feel free to go to my spark page and save my red equality sticker and upload it as your Facebook profile picture to show your support of marriage equality. <BR> <BR> How We Got to the Supreme Court <BR> Posted: 03/25/2013 10:17 am <BR> <BR> Twenty years ago this July, I went to Hawaii to cover th... Thu, 28 Mar 2013 04:22:17 EST 3.27.2013 Steven Simpson http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52719223 I just recently heard about this and was horrified. I am glad that the man who did this horrible thing was found and brought to justice. It makes me mad and sick to think of what some people are willing to do to hurt others. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563ax4ph.1as/UVBhVW-ogGUAOH4VB<BR>23f6 </link> Wed, 27 Mar 2013 18:03:24 EST 5 Common Spring Health Myths, Debunked http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52710190 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/john-whyte-md<BR>-mph/health-myths_b_2907928.html </link> Wed, 27 Mar 2013 02:26:20 EST 66 Inspirational Quotes About Gay Marriage http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52710187 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/25/ga<BR>y-marriage-quotes_n_2947825.html?utm_h<BR>p_ref=mostpopular </link> Wed, 27 Mar 2013 02:23:56 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on LIGHTNINGEYES http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52710179 Meet LIGHTNINGEYES, <BR> <BR> This Wisconsin native and their partner are on this journey together in learning to live a healthier life. Very happy to hear this. The journey is much easier with your partner on board. I love what is put down in "other information", " "a true friend can see that even if your egg is a little cracked it's still valuable." <BR> <BR> **************************** <BR> <BR> lightning eye's journey to a healthier life! <BR> <BR> Hello, <BR> <BR> I'm a fun loving ... Wed, 27 Mar 2013 02:21:01 EST 3/26 Prop 8 & Supreme Court http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52704882 Analysis, audio & link to the transcript of today's Prop 8 on Towleroad. <link>http://www.towleroad.com/2013/03/aws<BR>cotusanalysis1.html </link> <BR> <BR> Sucks that we have to wait till July for the decision. <BR> <BR> On another bit, I came across this change.org petition that a 16 & 17yo are petitioning Alabama legislators to repeal the law forcing schools to teach that being gay is criminal. I hope this one is successful. <link>www.change.org/petitions/alabama-sta<BR>te-legisl... Tue, 26 Mar 2013 17:47:55 EST Just click to sign http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52700276 <link>https://secure3.convio.net/hrc/site/<BR>Advocacy?pagename=homepage&cmd=display<BR>&page=UserAction </link> <BR> <BR> I deleted my id#, so I hope it will work! Tue, 26 Mar 2013 11:06:51 EST The Long Education of Daniel Radcliffe http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52695023 By Aaron Hicklin <BR> The young actor puts his decade-long stint as the world’s most famous schoolboy behind him with a career-defining turn as Allen Ginsberg. <BR> <BR> Photography by Kai Z Feng / Styling by Grant Woolhead <BR> <BR> Let’s be clear: It is perfectly possible to write about Daniel Radcliffe without resorting to Quidditch jokes or salty references to magic wands. It just doesn’t happen very often. We have, after all, watched him -- or a version of him -- grow up before our eye... Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:15:06 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on SAMBIDEXTROUS http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52694950 Meet SAMBIDEXTROUS , <BR> <BR> This member wants you to argue your limitations and has a very solid plan in place to reach their health and fitness goals. A lover of laughter and being strong during difficult times, this member can't be beat. By the way, SAMBIDEXTROUS lost a whopping 41 pounds so far! <BR> <em>244</em> <BR> <BR> ************************** <BR> <BR> Argue Your Limitations <BR> <BR> I used to take life waaayyy too seriously. And in the process, began my weight gain. <BR... Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:08:33 EST Make Your Own Non-Toxic Easter Egg Dye http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52694905 <link>www.rodale.com/easter-egg-dye?cm_mmc<BR>=TheDailyFixNL-_-1241010-_-03252013-_-<BR>The_Nickel_Pincher_Homemade_Natural_Ea<BR>ster_Egg_Dye </link> Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:02:47 EST GLBT History: Alice French: AUTHOR OF CODED STORIE http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52679520 AUTHOR OF CODED STORIES THAT CELEBRATE INDEPENDENT, FINANCIALLY SELF-SUFFICIENT, WOMEN-CENTERED WOMEN, 1850 <BR> <BR> (Octave Thanet) (1850-1934) <BR> <BR> Lesbian local colorist Alice French wrote coded stories that celebrate independent, financially self-sufficient, women-centered women. <BR> <BR> French, born in Andover, Massachusetts, moved with her family in 1856 to Davenport, Iowa, where her mother continued her staunch advocacy of Elizabeth Cady Stanton and her father became a wea... Sun, 24 Mar 2013 23:49:32 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on ZENANDNOW http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52679310 Meet ZENANDNOW, <BR> <BR> This Texas native has a diverse taste in movie genres, my kinda guy. He's also lost a WHOPPING 93 pounds! That's 325,500 calories gone forevah! <em>243</em> and very inspiring. <BR> <BR> ***************************** <BR> <BR> The Long Journey To A Thinner Me <BR> <BR> I weighed 185 in my senior year of high school. After graduation, I began to gain weight, and it continued to a high of 550-pounds in the early 2000s. Now I am making a difficult, yet important... Sun, 24 Mar 2013 23:36:07 EST 3.25: 50 Essential Gay Films http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52679214 Good morning team. I'm excited that so many of you have already committed yourselves to the April Fitness Minutes for Marriage Equality challenge. If you haven't already, jump right on in. <BR> <BR> Not everyone on the team is a movie fan; however, there are quite a few who are. What is your favorite "gay themed" movie. I'm going to have to go with "A Single Man." What about you? <BR> <BR> <BR> 50 Essential Gay Films <BR> <link>www.out.com/entertainment/movies/201<BR>1/02/09/50-essential-... Sun, 24 Mar 2013 23:28:31 EST Asparagus: A Spring Classic http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52679065 <link> <link>experiencelife.com/article/asparagus<BR>-a-spring-classic </link> </link> Sun, 24 Mar 2013 23:17:05 EST 12-Year-Old Gives Amazing Gay Marriage Speech In R http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52666413 12-Year-Old Gives Amazing Gay Marriage Speech In Rhode Island <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/22/ma<BR>tthew-lannon-gay-marriage-rhode-island<BR>_n_2932947.html?ir=gay-voices&utm_camp<BR>aign=032213&utm_medium=email&utm_sourc<BR>e=Alert-gay-voices&utm_content=FullStory </link> Sat, 23 Mar 2013 23:36:27 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on JPULLMAN813 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52666376 Meet James, <BR> <BR> Based on his latest blog, James is marching into spring. <em>67</em> So far, he's lost 26 pounds and is well on his way in reaching his health and fitness goals. <em>243</em> <BR> <BR> ****************** <BR> <BR> Jimmy's Page <BR> <BR> I'm James. I'm 26 from Hillsboro, Oregon. <BR> <BR> Profile <BR> <BR> Member Since: 4/20/2009 <BR> <BR> SparkPoints: 1,547 <BR> <BR> Fitness Minutes: 974 <BR> <BR> My Goals: <BR> To lose the weight I need to be healthy, a... Sat, 23 Mar 2013 23:33:05 EST 3.24: What Is Your Biggest Obstacle? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52666319 Good morning team. If you're in weight loss mode, what is your biggest obstacle in reaching your health and fitness goals? Poor planning? Not setting a specific goal? etc... I think I'm on the right track however, on special occasions, like holidays, I tend to over indulge. What about you? Sat, 23 Mar 2013 23:28:18 EST 5 Powerful Tools for Reflection http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52666104 <link> <link>www.dailygood.org/view.php?qid=4595 </link> </link> Sat, 23 Mar 2013 23:17:05 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on BONNIEMARGAY http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52658866 Meet BONNIEMARGAY, <BR> <BR> First of all, you need to see her wedding picture on her Spark Page. So beautiful. <BR> <BR> This member has slammed some serious fitness minutes for this month so far. <em>243</em> She also posts some very cool blogs. If you have the time, please visit her page to congratulate her on being in the spotlight today. <BR> <BR> **************************** <BR> <BR> Revolutionary Succulence <BR> <BR> I'm a creative spirit, I'm here to help! <BR> <BR> Profil... Sat, 23 Mar 2013 11:11:34 EST 3.23: A World Where Milk And Shepard Still Live http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52658804 Good morning team. For those of you who are off on the weekends, I hope this finds you enjoying the weekend. For those of you who are working, make it a great day. <BR> <BR> Be sure to check out the cool LINKS on this team at the link below: <BR> <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/groups_l<BR>inks.asp?gid=940 </link> <BR> <BR> If you can think of any other websites that are cool, feel free to post them in the team's link section. <BR> <BR> The April challenge will be posted soon to... Sat, 23 Mar 2013 11:06:28 EST GLBT History: Stephen Gately: SINGER, ACTOR, AND S http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52658699 SINGER, ACTOR, AND SONGWRITER, 1976 <BR> <BR> (1976-2009) <BR> <BR> Singer, songwriter, and actor Stephen Gately gained fame as one of the lead vocalists in the Irish pop group Boyzone. He came out publicly as a gay man in 1999 when the band was at the peak of their success. <BR> <BR> The singer was born on Saint Patrick's Day, March 17, 1976, in Dublin. The second-youngest of five children, he grew up in what he described in a 2003 interview with Jane Ridley of The Mirror as "one of the t... Sat, 23 Mar 2013 10:59:18 EST The Psychology Of Workout Music http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52658556 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/21/ps<BR>ychology-workout-music_n_2915511.html </link> Sat, 23 Mar 2013 10:49:44 EST Exercise hurts the heart... http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52654586 Recent finding: Marathon runners who were followed over three decades had a 19% lower rate of death than non-runners--but those who ran more than 20 to 25 miles each week ended up with the same risk as the couch potatoes in the study. Self defense: Exercise vigorously for no more than one hour a day. <BR> <BR> * Source: James O'Keefe, MD, head of preventive cardiology at Mid America Heart Institute at Saint Luke's Health System, Kansas City, MO, quoted at Today.com <BR> <BR> ** Articl... Sat, 23 Mar 2013 00:16:46 EST Team Stats for March So Far http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52642045 With 10 days left in the month there is still time to reach the team goals of 600 fitness minutes and 600 Spark Points. Kudos to those of you who have already reached this goal and some of you have already exceeded them. <em>345</em> Remember, if you reach or exceed the team goals you'll receive a team spark goodie the following month. <BR> <BR> <em>381</em> <BR> <BR> Fitness Minutes <BR> <em>182</em> <em>186</em> <BR> <BR> 1) TWEETYKC00 2,520 <BR> 2) DOLPHINSINGER72 2,... Fri, 22 Mar 2013 01:49:42 EST GLBT History: Rudolf Nureyev: THE GREATEST BALLET http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52642000 THE GREATEST BALLET DANCER OF HIS GENERATION, 1938 <BR> <BR> (1938-1993) <BR> <BR> Enfant terrible, monstre sacré, and dieu de la danse are just some of the terms that describe the incomparable dancer, choreographer, and ballet director Rudolf Nureyev. <BR> <BR> Rudolf Hametovich Nureyev was born on a train somewhere in Siberia, about 1900 miles from Vladivostock, on March 17, 1938. The son of Muslim peasants, he was a small, malnourished, and highly sensitive child, bullied and tormented ... Fri, 22 Mar 2013 01:35:48 EST GLBTQ Team Spotlight is on DOLPHINSINGER72 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52641957 In an effort to get to know our teammates, a member will be in the team's spotlight of the day. At the bottom of the page will be a link to their Spark Page. If you have time, please click on it and post a comment congratulating them on being in the GLBTQ Spark Network: We are Family spotlight of the day. It will make their day. <BR> ****************************************<BR>************************ <BR> <BR> Meet Linda, <BR> <BR> A lover of animals and she enjoys being an "Auntie." The b... Fri, 22 Mar 2013 01:26:05 EST 3.22.13: Sticky Topics http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52641873 Good morning team. Being Friday, I hope this finds you with an extra big smile on your face. With that said, I recommend that you subscribe to any thread that has "sticky topic" next to it. This way, when someone posts something you will receive an email notification of that post. A new Daily Chit Chat thread has been created by Kierae and it can be found at the link below: <BR> <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_mes<BR>sageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x5<BR>2637139 </link> <B... Fri, 22 Mar 2013 01:09:18 EST Now in Theaters: 3.22.13 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52641794 Olympus Has Fallen (2013) <BR> <BR> Certificate R 120 min - Action | Thriller <BR> Metascore: 48/100 (6 reviews) <BR> Disgraced former Presidential guard Mike Banning finds himself trapped inside the White House in the wake of a terrorist attack; using his inside knowledge, Banning works with national security to rescue the President from his kidnappers. <BR> Director:Antoine Fuqua <BR> Stars:Gerard Butler, Aaron Eckhart, Morgan Freeman, Angela Bassett <BR> <BR> <link>www.imdb.com/ti... Fri, 22 Mar 2013 00:52:00 EST How To Get Motivated When You Don't Feel Like Exer http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52641685 How To Get Motivated When You Don't Feel Like Exercising <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/james-clear/e<BR>xercise-motivation_b_2887701.html </link> Fri, 22 Mar 2013 00:33:52 EST Arizona http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52639117 <link>www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/03/20/arizo<BR>na-bill-would-jail-transgender-people-<BR>for-using-the-wrong-bathroom/ </link> <BR> <BR> At one point in my life I thought Arizona would be a lovely place to visit. But here is another political move that just scares the bejesus out of me...seriously! Thu, 21 Mar 2013 21:17:05 EST Life in a Hotel http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52636508 Wooooo I finally have a brain and I have my email down to 200! Back from my Washington DC trip/conference and playing catch up on email, sleep, email and more sleep. Oh and unraveling myself from a dog who won't let me out of her sight. <em>211</em> <BR> <BR> My diet took a hit being subjected to hotel food for a week. I did find a Jimmy John's (sub shop) that delivered AND did "unwichs" ie romaine wrapped versus using bread which they did to any of their sandwiches. Between that and ... Thu, 21 Mar 2013 17:23:09 EST Margaret Cho on hatred... http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52633542 I agree with the statrment, "God is Love." Period! <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/mobileweb/mar<BR>garet-cho/michelle-shocked-me_b_291892<BR>7.html?utm_hp_ref=daily-brief?utm_sour<BR>ce=DailyBrief&utm_campaign=032113&utm_<BR>medium=email&utm_content=BlogEntry&utm<BR>_term=Daily%20Brief </link> Thu, 21 Mar 2013 12:42:42 EST February Team Stats Final http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x52628655 February stats look good. For those of you who met or exceeded the team goals will receive a team spark goodie within 24-hours. Congratulations. <BR> <BR> Let's see what you can do this month. We're working on a new team challenge that will begin April 1st. Stay tuned! <BR> <BR> Fitness Minutes <BR> <em>186</em> <em>182</em> <BR> <BR> 1) DOLPHINSINGER72 3,360 <BR> 2) TWEETYKC00 3,360 <BR> 3) CORRALES_SCOTT 3,026 <BR> 4) DCGUY72 2,967 <BR> 5) CINCYDORA 2,877 <BR> 6) GORDO... Thu, 21 Mar 2013 06:23:30 EST GLBT History: Bayard Rustin: KEY AFRICAN- AMERICAN http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52625813 KEY AFRICAN-AMERICAN CIVIL RIGHTS ACTIVIST WHOSE LEGACY HAS SUFFERED BECAUSE OF HIS HOMOSEXUALITY, 1910 <BR> <BR> (1910-1987) <BR> <BR> One of the key African-American civil rights activists of the twentieth century, Bayard Rustin and his legacy have long been obscured because of embarrassment over his homosexuality and early involvement in the Communist Party. <BR> <BR> Bayard Rustin was born on March 17, 1910, in West Chester, Pennsylvania, a largely Quaker town that had played an impor... Wed, 20 Mar 2013 22:29:40 EST The 'Before I Die' Project http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52625725 <link>www.dailygood.org/view.php?qid=4695 </link> Wed, 20 Mar 2013 22:25:40 EST Another Slam For The Boy Scouts http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52623373 Yet another sponsor has pulled away from the Boy Scouts due to their ban on allowing gay boys in. Chipotle has backed off and I am proud. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563aws6u.1d6/UUog_MQcWFcz-zmFB<BR>7c76 </link> Wed, 20 Mar 2013 19:34:30 EST GLBT History: Alexander McQueen: http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52612955 BRITISH DESIGNER WHOSE FASHIONS ARE EROTIC, FANTASTICAL, AND OFTEN ANDROGYNOUS, 1969 <BR> <BR> Alexander McQueen, the youngest designer to achieve the coveted award "British Designer of the Year," was a fashion innovator and provocateur. His clothes were noted for being sensationally erotic, fantastical, often androgynous creations that were skilfully and precisely tailored. <BR> <BR> McQueen understood the importance of sensuality and eroticism in designing clothes. "Sex is a big part of w... Wed, 20 Mar 2013 01:55:15 EST GLBT History: Clay Shaw: HOMOSEXUAL WHO WAS FALSEL http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52597025 HOMOSEXUAL WHO WAS FALSELY ACCUSED AND TRIED FOR THE ASSASSINATION OF PRESIDENT JOHN F. KENNEDY, 1913 <BR> <BR> (1913-1974) <BR> <BR> People around the world know Clay Shaw as the only person ever tried for the assassination of President John F. Kennedy. Most, however, do not know that he was a highly decorated war hero, a prominent New Orleans businessman, a French Quarter preservationist, a valued civic leader, and, from age sixteen, a successful playwright. <BR> <BR> He was also a homos... Tue, 19 Mar 2013 00:29:00 EST GLBTQ History: Alice Austen: PHOTOGRAPHER WHO CHAL http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52581747 PHOTOGRAPHER WHO CHALLENGED STEREOTYPES IN NEARLY EVERY ASPECT OF HER LIFE, 1866 <BR> <BR> (1866-1952) <BR> <BR> Alice Austen, one of the first American women to become a photographer, lived the life of an independent, genteel woman during the Victorian age. She also defied conventions and challenged stereotypes in nearly every aspect of her life. <BR> <BR> She was born Elizabeth Alice Munn on March 17, 1866 to Alice Cornell Austen and Edward Stopford Munn, who married in 1863. The futur... Mon, 18 Mar 2013 01:17:33 EST hope for kids http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52557087 http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/dad-s-lov<BR>e-letter-to-gay-teenage-son-goes-viral<BR>-174541783.html Sat, 16 Mar 2013 08:55:09 EST Obama on gay marriage http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52536437 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/13/ob<BR>ama-gay-marriage-states_n_2866355.html<BR>?utm_hp_ref=daily-brief?utm_source=Dai<BR>lyBrief&utm_campaign=031313&utm_medium<BR>=email&utm_content=NewsEntry&utm_term=Daily%20Brief </link> <BR> <BR> We'll get there yet! Thu, 14 Mar 2013 19:18:41 EST Homophobic pope, no big surprise! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52534666 This is the new flavor of homophobic nonsense in a golden dress: <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/13/po<BR>pe-francis-gay-marriage-anti_n_2869221<BR>.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices </link> Thu, 14 Mar 2013 17:02:35 EST 3.13.2013 Live Longer Through Marriage? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52521920 In new studies, it seems that the Danes are proving that marriage can actually help you live longer. Any thoughts? It would be nice if it could be proven, huh? <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563awank.1di/UT-ZqW-ogrCVw9EDC<BR>b831 </link> Wed, 13 Mar 2013 20:17:05 EST 3/11 - KY seeks legal discrimination http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52486701 Man our country is so split these days. This is scary to even ponder: <BR> <BR> <link>www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/k<BR>entucky-seeks-legalize-discrimination-<BR>against-gays-based-religious-beliefs </link> <BR> <BR> *posting today vs tomorrow since I am on my way to Washington DC for a week <em>41</em> Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:24:02 EST Hi Everyone http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52486359 I am new here. I've just completed my first week and am quite happy with the results, down 7 lbs. Of course this weight loss will slow down now, the first week is usually the best week. I've joined Sparkpeople in hopes of finding some friends and some support. I believe that supportive friends around you make for much better outcomes, so here I am. <BR> <BR> More about me, I am happily married to a wonderful man who loves me no matter my weight. We will celebrate 10 years this fall, thank yo... Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:00:42 EST 3.6.2013 Open Athletes, How do you feel? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52418870 As being out and open is becoming more widely accepted, even in sports, more athletes are willing to be out and proud and even to support the LGBTQ Community as a whole. On the flip side, those athletes who are choosing to come out are also making major deals as well, how do you feel? <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563avyb6.1er/UTe1WsQcnlfKfzWbC<BR>6a58 </link> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563avyb6.1er/UTe1WsQc... Wed, 6 Mar 2013 19:39:38 EST Hello http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52417848 Hello I am new to the website, and this sparkteam. I just wanted to say hi, and tell you a little about myself. I'm a 21 year old female who loves to be outside. I'm also very artsy I could spend days do all sort of art projects. So yeah that's a little about me. Wed, 6 Mar 2013 18:27:17 EST Marriage and Surnames... Question http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52417114 Keri and I are both legally female. We have been engaged for a while now, but are stuck on the issue of last names despite talking about it at length many times. <BR> <BR> She wants to take mine. I'd prefer to take hers. We want to have the same last name. I don't want to hyphenate. We've been through every possible combo of the two surnames to make one, and they all sound worse than ridiculous. <BR> <BR> So, I'd like to ask y'all: What you would do or What have you done? Are there ... Wed, 6 Mar 2013 17:16:50 EST I am back http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52390350 So I came here in 2007 and lost 80 pounds, then I started slipping and sliding my way back to now, 2013, I have 40 pounds to lose to get back to where I was. <BR> Annoyed, ashamed, disgusted, and discouraged ... I have been all those things. But at this point ... I am just <BR> GLAD TO BE BACK!!! Mon, 4 Mar 2013 21:50:53 EST An adoption story http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52337482 Get out the tissue - this definitely is a sweet story: <BR> <BR> <link>opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/0<BR>2/28/we-found-our-son-in-the-subway/ </link> Fri, 1 Mar 2013 09:28:55 EST Gender & Sexual Diversity http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52279493 Think you are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender? Not any more, apparently you are a Gender and Sexual Diversity! <BR> <BR> <link>www.gaystarnews.com/article/therapis<BR>ts-rename-gay-bi-and-trans-people-gsds<BR>210213 </link> Mon, 25 Feb 2013 14:01:02 EST Arkansas' political climate is bad... http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52261674 <em>39</em> The state legislature is now controlled by right-wing GOP members who seem hell-bent on keeping Arkansas stuck in the 19th century. Already, one of the strictest abortion bills in the US has been passed and is waiting on the governor's desk for his signature. <BR> <BR> http://news.yahoo.com/arkansas-house-appro<BR>ves-bill-banning-abortions-20-weeks-04<BR>2044391.html <BR> <BR> http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/21<BR>/arkansas-abortion-ban_n_2735498.html <BR> =========... Sun, 24 Feb 2013 10:50:36 EST New here http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52215530 Hey! I just wanted to pop in and say hi. I'm new to the site and new to the group. I'm really bad at these introduction things because I never really know quite what to say but I hope to make some friends here and to get to know y'all! Thu, 21 Feb 2013 01:02:26 EST 2-19-2013 Supreme Court hearing March 26 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52206499 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/sarah-s-kilbo<BR>rne/the-supreme-kiss-lets-kiss-inequal<BR>ity-goodbye_b_2681723.html </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> "Kisses are free. Civil rights should be too." <BR> <BR> "March 26, 2013, inaugurates a historic moment in the history of the United States when, for the first time, the highest court in the land will hear arguments on the constitutionality of marriage rights for gay and lesbian Americans." <BR> <BR> I'm in - kiss and tell folks! On March 26th let's ... Wed, 20 Feb 2013 11:40:44 EST 2.20.2013 More support for the community http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52202506 It looks like even more people are ready to support us and our rights with the passing of legislature in Illinois. Most people in the state are willing to get behind us. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563av3ro.1hl/USPsgiuoATIl5GMFC<BR>4678 </link> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 07:19:02 EST Obesity Myths Exposed in new study... http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52184615 This paper raises serious questions about our understanding of obesity. Links: <BR> <BR> http://conscienhealth.org/2013/01/obesit<BR>y-myths-busted-in-the-new-england-jour<BR>nal-of-medicine/ <BR> <BR> http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/30<BR>/obesity-myths-debunked-sex-calories-s<BR>nacking-bad_n_2585332.html <BR> <BR> http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJ<BR>Msa1208051 (New England Journal of Medicine) <BR> Mon, 18 Feb 2013 22:44:02 EST 2.18.2013 - Pro Soccer Player Comes Out http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52171392 Correct me if I am wrong, but there has never been a pro athlete come out WHILE active in the sport - right? <BR> <BR> Robbie Rogers (U.S. National Team and Leeds United) came out on Friday, and in the same memo took a leave of absence from the sport. The response to his coming out, though, has been OVERWHELMINGLY positive from fans, and with coaches and teams standing up to say they would welcome Robbie on their team if he decides to go back to sports! <BR> <BR> I think this is the... Mon, 18 Feb 2013 05:28:04 EST Meteorite strikes Russia...heavy damage, injuries. http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52135987 A meteorite struck in Russia this morning, causing some heavy damage and injuring over 900 people. Incredible video footage: <BR> <BR> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2x3TMyDYU<BR>gM&feature=player_embedded <BR> <BR> http://www.etonline.com/dailyfirst/13059<BR>9_Meteorite_Hits_Russia_Shocking_Foota<BR>ge_Emerges/index.html?utm_source=ET+Da<BR>ily+First+Opt-Ins&utm_campaign=59492e5<BR>267-ET_Daily_First_02_15_132_15_2013&utm_medium=email <BR> ========================================<BR>=====... Fri, 15 Feb 2013 11:06:24 EST 2.14.13: Happy Valentine's Day! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52123831 A sweet, happy, healthy day to all -- whether you have a Valentine's Day sweetie or not. It's a good day to tell someone you love them! <BR> <BR> I hope this finds everyone doing well. <BR> <BR> May try to post another article or something later on... Sorry I've been a bit AWOL on the team lately! <BR> <BR> ~ ZENMIND7 Thu, 14 Feb 2013 12:56:59 EST 2/12/2013 Same-Sex Military Couples Benefit News http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52101621 Secretary of Defense Leon Panetta has announced that the Pentagon will start providing some benefits to same-sex couples in the military. The Pentagon hopes to extend these benefits by August 1st, but has committed to extending them by no later than October 1st, 2013. They also do a remarkable amount of realizing that not all states recognize domestic partnership or equal marriage, so they erase that location privilege by requiring same-sex couples to sign a military-created document called ... Tue, 12 Feb 2013 22:38:21 EST Indiana teacher says "gays have no purpose in life http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x52095483 right now there is a petition on Change.org for her removal <BR> On the topic of prom she join some students in forbidding LGBT students to go to prom saying they serve no purpose and comparing them to students with mental illness. <BR> <BR> if you want the full story her name is Diana Medley <BR> http://www.queerty.com/photo-in-teacher-<BR>nate-walden-tells-diana-gays-serve-no-<BR>purpose-medley-where-she-can-stick-it-<BR>20130212/ <BR> <BR> facebook page <BR> http://www.facebook.com/page... Tue, 12 Feb 2013 13:42:20 EST Recipe for ice cubes http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x52059321 ... just in case you need some help in the kitchen. <BR> <link>http://www.food.com/recipe/ice-cubes<BR>-420398 </link> <BR> <BR> Actually, the part of this recipe that is awesome is the comments. HILARIOUS! scroll down and see the reactions :-D Sun, 10 Feb 2013 02:28:56 EST Allow myself to introduce myself http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x52022385 Hi everyone! I'm Lillian and I'm a 28 year-old (29 in a few days) trans-woman currently living in SC due to grad school, but I've lived most of my life in the St. Louis area and still spend at least a couple months there every year. <BR> <BR> Although I'm attracted to men, I've been single my whole life and don't anticipate exploring relationships until I'm much further along in transitioning. <BR> <BR> From junior year of high school onwards, I've struggled with depressive binge-eating and... Thu, 7 Feb 2013 11:37:19 EST needing help and support http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x52018030 ok so my daughter is lesbian and dh and i are good with that. in fact the only reason I was upset when i found out is that it was from someone else and that she did not tell me herself. but that was more because she know i would not let her girlfriends stay the night any more. ok back to the topic at hand. my in-laws are comming for a visit and just dont know how to tell them. Should i be the one to tell them or should i make her. We live in Key West and they live in Plymouth MA so we d... Thu, 7 Feb 2013 06:38:16 EST Why not bi? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51928457 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/aj-walkley/bi<BR>-the-bi-why-would-someone-not-want-to-<BR>identify-as-bisexual_b_2550896.html </link> <BR> <BR> Great article by one of our own - way to go AJ! <em>345</em> Fri, 1 Feb 2013 11:59:34 EST Another gay I didn't know gets married! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x51903454 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/30/ji<BR>m-nabors-stan-cadwallader-marry_n_2579<BR>630.html?utm_hp_ref=daily-brief?utm_so<BR>urce=DailyBrief&utm_campaign=013013&ut<BR>m_medium=email&utm_content=NewsEntry&u<BR>tm_term=Daily%20Brief </link> Wed, 30 Jan 2013 21:54:37 EST "Freedom From the Bondage of Homosexaulity" http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x51831850 On my last blog i wrote about how i was trying to get over my best friend who Ive been in love with for years, she shares an attraction for me but she is not in love with me. I was writing about trying to move on from her and the first comment i got was from a lady who expressed concern saying i was heading down a dangerous path she left a link to : http://www.settingcaptivesfree.com/courses<BR>/door-of-hope/ <BR> <BR> I should be offended but im not, and im not really sure on how to respond Sat, 26 Jan 2013 11:10:32 EST 1.24.13 Trans Girl, 11, Responds to Obama's Speech http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51809640 Did you see this? <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/23/tr<BR>ansgender-girl-obama-speech_n_2533298.<BR>html </link> <BR> <BR> "Barack Obama made history on Monday when he became the first president to speak about the Stonewall uprising and the gay rights struggle during an inaugural speech. While many in the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community were thrilled with the mentions, an 11-year-old transgender girl named Sadie wondered why the President didn't directly... Thu, 24 Jan 2013 21:08:45 EST 1.23.2013 A First For The Inauguration http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51794443 Whoohoo, an openly gay preacher gave a prayer at the inauguration for President Obama! Time to celebrate. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>t.ms00.net/s/c?r.p86n.12.tsxl.ljsb </link> Wed, 23 Jan 2013 21:50:26 EST 1/22/2013 Evolution of "Gay" http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51772672 How fun is this: <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/20/ra<BR>ndy-rainbow-evolution-of-gay-_n_251638<BR>9.html </link> <BR> <BR> And add the fact that President Obama made history today when he mentioned both the Stonewall uprising and gay and lesbian people being treated "like anyone else under the law" during his second inauguration speech. <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/21/ob<BR>ama-inauguration-speech-stonewall-gays<BR>_n_2520962.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular <... Tue, 22 Jan 2013 15:12:31 EST Yoga and eating? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x51677473 I am thinking abt starting yoga but i haven never tried it in my life , i was wondering of anyone can enlighten me on this topic, abt the health benefit and everything else...Also i prefer to exercise in the morning on my days off but i usually dont eat breakfast till after workout...is it better to try to eat before or after workout? thanks! Wed, 16 Jan 2013 17:14:36 EST egg white patties http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51670708 I wanted to ask if anyone has ever looked at and/or tried frozen egg white patties? Subway uses them in their breakfast sandwiches and I had the thought this morning that I am always on the go and always rushed (especially in the mornings) and this could possibly be something to include in my freezer. Wed, 16 Jan 2013 09:52:35 EST 1.16.2012 Options On Television http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51667485 More and more we are seeing tv stations willing to have strong gay characters in the forefront instead of hiding us in the background if there at all. Even stations like ABC are more willing to stand up which is a shocker being a Disney owned company. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>t.ms00.net/s/c?r.p5ga.4.tnsq.ljsb </link> Wed, 16 Jan 2013 05:37:43 EST 1/15/2013 - Latest on marriage equality http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51663356 Latest news on marriage equality for this week: <BR> <BR> The Marriage and Family Protection Act" will be introduced for the fourth time in Minnesota this week.Illinois lawmakers are reintroducing marriage equality tomorrow. And even more cool is that a marriage equality bill has been Introduced in Wyoming and has bipartisan support. <BR> <BR> Today Rhode Island House Panel heard testimony on the same-sex marriage bill which is heatedly being protested by NOM RI. Check the video's NOM RI ... Tue, 15 Jan 2013 21:10:28 EST 1.14.2013 Opportunity of Adversity http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51632609 This woman has no apparent ties to the GLBT community (though I wouldn't want to presume anything), but I have been captivated by her story over the last few days - her "can do" spirit is something I struggle to posses everyday, and I even have both of my legs. <BR> <BR> I love her TED talk here about the opportunity of adversity, and I think it is a good reminder to all of us - amputees or not. I know I complain a lot about my arthritis and my other things that "hold me back" - but afte... Mon, 14 Jan 2013 07:40:08 EST Update from Tabby/Toby and Brie http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51609655 Nope, I'm not BACK but I've dropped in to say HELLO. <BR> The GOOD NEWS: A friend of ours sold us a good as new turbo diesel pick up truck <BR> It's official: Brie and I are now Diesel Dykes! <BR> The BAD NEWS: Brie and I spent a week in the hospital getting her gall bladder removed. <BR> She was admitted to the Army Hospital right after the stroke of midnight,with gall stone problems. Their specialist was on leave so the next day, they sent her to another hospital to get a non surgical treat... Sat, 12 Jan 2013 20:17:38 EST Greeting and salutations http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51579282 I figure it is about time I introduce myself around SparkPeople so here it goes. I am a single 20yo living in Marysville, WA. For the next 3.5 months I am a tax preparer with Jackson Hewitt. Then I hope to find a real job as I prep for the CPA exam.I admit I let myself go over the years am trying to get back in shape or better than before. Eventually I hope to hike the full PCT. Don't know what else to say so feel free to write me. Thu, 10 Jan 2013 22:42:05 EST 1.10.13: Great Resources on Bisexuality http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51566736 The Bisexual Resource Center (BRC), based in Boston, has a website with some really great resources. Here are a couple links. <BR> <BR> I think these are good things to check out whether you identify as bisexual or not. They touch on some of the controversy around the term "bisexuality" and why it's still a very useful term, they are affirming, and they acknowledge the diversity just within the bi community. <BR> <BR> What Is Bisexuality? <BR> <link>www.biresource.net/whatis.shtml </link>... Thu, 10 Jan 2013 07:58:41 EST New to The Spark Family http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51565266 Happy New Years Fam!!! Hello My name is Tonya.. I am new to the Sparks Family and I can't wait to start losing some of this weight and meeting new people. I live in SC ,I am a lesbian woman, mother of three teenagers and I have been with my partner for 9 yrs <em>381</em> Thu, 10 Jan 2013 04:10:58 EST 1.9.2013 A Loss For The Community http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51548868 It is a sad day for us as one of our straight allies has died. Jeanne Manford, founder of PFLAG, has passed away. She will be missed by all. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563asu40.1tr/UOyU1m-ojEKrKjkmB<BR>74d5 </link> Wed, 9 Jan 2013 05:20:04 EST 1/8/2013 -Great news for LGBT Military http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51539498 Under a legal settlement announced yesterday, military personnel who lost half of their separation pay because they were discharged for under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) will be compensated with the remainder. <BR> <BR> The total amount of pay owed to these service members is about $2.4 million, which “is small by military standards, but is hugely significant in acknowledging their service to their country,” said Joshua Block, staff attorney for the American Civil Liberties Union Lesbian ... Tue, 8 Jan 2013 14:24:35 EST 1/7/13 -- What to do about artificial sweeteners http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51532744 Hi team! I hope everyone is doing well in the new year so far! <BR> <BR> For awhile now I've known about the negatives associated with artificial sweeteners (for more info, here's a SP article: http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/nutrit<BR>ion_articles.asp?id=289). I've been trying to cut back on my intake of diet soda and have stopped adding sweet n low to my coffee in the mornings... but it's been hard to get rid of my afternoon pop/caffeine intake. I was reading some "helpful tips" blo... Tue, 8 Jan 2013 07:37:56 EST Team Check-In http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51532224 Happy Tuesday everyone!!! How is everyone doing?? Just wanted to hear what your plans are for today: <BR> <BR> What are your fitness plans for today? <BR> <BR> Have any interesting meals planned for the day? <BR> <BR> Also - just a reminder - it has now been a week since January started! If you haven't joined our January challenge/discussion, now is the time to do it! If you have already joined, stop back to that thread and tell us how you are doing! <BR> <BR> Keep on Sp... Tue, 8 Jan 2013 06:51:17 EST 1.7.12 Fitness Apps http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51513435 I found this great list of fitness apps. Some free, some paid. I particularly like the first one, Charity Miles which donates $0.10 for every mile biked and $0.25 for every mile walked or run to one of 9 charities (your choice)! <BR> <BR> <link>shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/10-be<BR>st-fitness-apps-144600157.html </link> <BR> <BR> I am going to sign up and have my miles donated to the Global Fund. <BR> <BR> I know not everyone has a smart phone, but for those that do... what ... Mon, 7 Jan 2013 06:00:16 EST 1.3.2013: A Story of Straight Allies http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51455839 "The Incredible Story of What Happened When Two Gay Men Were Harassed While Waiting for Pizza" <BR> <BR> Have you heard about this story from Ohio -- about straight allies and businesses standing up for LGBT folks? <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/joel-diaz/lgb<BR>t-tolerance_b_2397363.html?utm_hp_ref=<BR>gay-voices </link> Thu, 3 Jan 2013 16:42:39 EST New here and wanted to say hi! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51454273 My name is Amy and I am 37 years old living in Livermore CA with my partner Summer of 14 years and our 5 kids...Makenzie (6), Devyn (5), Lexi (2.5), and twin boys Ryan and Tyler 8 months. I carried all 5 kids and boy does it show. All in all I would like to lose 43 pounds and get back to my prepregnancy weight of my second daughter Devyn. I was rediculously fit before getting pregnant with my first so I want to be realistic with myself and not set myself up for failure. My main goals are ... Thu, 3 Jan 2013 14:41:37 EST Eat MORE! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x51446029 <link>www.sparkpeople.com/resource/nutriti<BR>on_articles.asp?id=1432 </link> <BR> <BR> How to reach your goals eating more, not less! Thu, 3 Jan 2013 05:26:31 EST Newbie Here! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51432339 Greetings everyone! <BR> My name is Lynsey and I have been a spark member on and off since 2011. I officially got my act together this past August, and have to date lost 17 lbs. I am working on eating properly, and toning my body for over all success. <BR> <BR> My partner(Tracie) and I have been together for 5 years this May, and hope to get married sometime this year, and start on a family. She has a 21 year old son and a 2 year old grand-daughter I have an 8 year old daughter, but we are o... Wed, 2 Jan 2013 11:17:53 EST 1.2.2013 More Marriage Equality On The Way http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51431463 State Rep. Arthur Handy will be sponsoring a marriage equality bill for the Rhode Island House. So far, Rhode Island is the only New England state to not have this in place already. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>www.advocate.com/politics/marriage-e<BR>quality/2013/01/01/rhode-island-marria<BR>ge-equality-bill-be-introduced-thursday </link> Wed, 2 Jan 2013 10:38:43 EST Hello today. http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51430070 <BR> <BR> Ok. Me in a nutshell. 40 yr old, 5'1, 250lb, mother of two, ABC preschool teacher for the Universities Early Childhood Dept. I love my job. Working with kids is awesome (can be very stressful at times). I Live in Arkansas. Have all my life. I have a wife of 13 yrs.....love her DEARLY!!!! Our kids are 21 (Josh) and 19 (Monica). Josh graduated culinary school (wonder where that love of food came from haha) and monica is in college for her communications disorders degree so she can w... Wed, 2 Jan 2013 09:43:49 EST How to come out to new friends http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51428918 I have a lot of difficulty letting people know that I'm bi/ lesbian because I either end up putting on a big bravado about it or getting all socially awkward if someone 'outs' me. I am an emotional eater so obviously this does not help my weight loss goals. I want new friends to know about my sexuality because apart from some work colleagues, I am 'out' and feel a lot happier than when I was in the closet in general. I am generally quite comfortable with my sexuality but have low points, part... Wed, 2 Jan 2013 08:46:08 EST 12.31.12 Making New Year's Resolutions Stick http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51407724 <link>www.apa.org/helpcenter/resolution.as<BR>px </link> <BR> <BR> I particularly like "start small" "talk about it" and "ask for support" <BR> <BR> We are all here to support each other!!! Check out January's Team Challenge below in the challenge forum below! Tue, 1 Jan 2013 06:32:37 EST January Team Challenge: Resolutions! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x51407365 Hi Team! I hope you had great holidays with lots of love from friends and family. Hopefully you were able to stick to your healthy lifestyle strategies through the holidays, but if you are like me and slipped up a little bit, now is the time to get back on track! <BR> <BR> For our January challenge we would like to invite you to list your New Years resolutions (if you didn't make any, think of some now!). Then over the next month, stop back in every week and tell us how it is going... Tue, 1 Jan 2013 05:05:54 EST Hi from Snowy NY http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51384397 Hi from Upstate NY. I'm a 50-something married grandmother, a pagan Goddess worshiping Sagittarius Capricorn Rising Taurus Moon bisexual-lesbian-leaning marginalized homebody. I'm a stress eater with multiple food allergies and lately I've put on 40 lbs. Time to take it off again. I'm leaning toward a modified Paleo Diet because it's one of the most natural food diets, but I'm not a fan of the low carb high fat thang. <BR> <BR> I'm rather terrified of my sexual orientation but I'm also ... Sun, 30 Dec 2012 14:44:58 EST Chicago Fire! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x51376261 Has anyone seen this new program? Around here it's Wednesday night with a previous episode shown on Friday nights... <BR> <BR> The actress Lauren German plays a lesbian. The character's name is Leslie Shay. I'm afraid she's 'under the knife' on the next episode. A truck rammed into the back of the ambulance where she was loading a victim... <BR> <BR> This show is different than the whodunits we usually watch (and I get tired of), and I am really hooked. <BR> <BR> Happy New Year all! <e... Sat, 29 Dec 2012 22:47:32 EST 12.29.12: Photos of Marriage in Maine http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51372990 PHOTOS: Mainers Finally Get Married <BR> <BR> "Today couples began marrying in Maine after a long campaign to make marriage equality legal there, including a loss at the ballot box in 2009 when voters banned gays and lesbians from marrying." <BR> <BR> <link>www.advocate.com/politics/marriage-e<BR>quality/2012/12/29/photos-mainers-fina<BR>lly-get-married </link> Sat, 29 Dec 2012 17:57:18 EST GLBTQ Businesses http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51336767 I found a great link to shop at 'family owned' businesses! <link>www.glbtguide.com/ </link> <BR> <BR> Sorry I haven't been around much. Between back problems and frantic holiday preps...the gift I really need no one could give me....TIME. <BR> <BR> Hope everyone's holiday was great. <BR> <BR> <em>247</em> Wed, 26 Dec 2012 20:02:28 EST Hey friends. http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51321624 My name is Garrett. I am 21 years old and trying to get my life in order. I have been battling with sexuality since high school, and now that i am in college things have gotten better for me. I am over weight, and need to get my health back on track. I am not happy with myself and i know it is time for change. I wake up every morning and put a smile on. My friend has me saying "I am beautiful" to my self everyday. It helps but not enough. Sorry for this depressing post. and Merry Christmas. Tue, 25 Dec 2012 06:47:49 EST Hello http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x51310456 Hello. I'm a 44 y/o gay guy and very overweight. I've lost weight in the past but always seem to gain it back. To be honest I am scared that if I don't get the weight off and keep it off, that i won't see 50. I'm real good about getting started with eating right and working out but within a couple weeks, sometimes even a full month I lose interest in both and fall back into bad habits. I have no idea how to break the cycle but I hope that SparkPeople.com is the answer I have been praying for... Sun, 23 Dec 2012 22:13:26 EST 12.20.12 - Holiday Check-In - How are you? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51276947 I thought I'd check in and see how people are doing right now. I have to admit, I haven't been super active in the threads lately, so I may have missed some of the discussion. <BR> <BR> How are your Decembers going? Sometimes the holidays are hard, especially if you don't identify with some aspects of the holidays or you are not close to your family of origin. <BR> <BR> What are you doing to enjoy the season? Are you celebrating with loved ones? <BR> <BR> Are you enjoying winter weather? D... Thu, 20 Dec 2012 14:48:02 EST 12.19.12 What Do We HAve To Say To The Vatican? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51268503 It seems that the Vatican has plenty to say to us right now and I am sure we have plenty to say back. What do you think about all of this? <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563arvos.20s/UNI93W-omGYQ3qJFC<BR>0338 </link> Wed, 19 Dec 2012 19:41:21 EST 12/18/2012 New Zealand's passport changes http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51253876 This rocks and why are we so darn slow to allow simple changes: <BR> <BR> New Zealand’s tiny transgender community is celebrating a quiet change that allows people to change their gender on their passports by a simple declaration. <BR> <BR> The change, which came into force on Friday without any public announcement, allows people to state their gender as male, female or “X” (indeterminate/unspecified), without the need to change their birth certificates or citizenship records. <BR> <BR> ... Tue, 18 Dec 2012 12:41:52 EST Coming Out on SP http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51242621 Well, there's no easy way to say this... <BR> <BR> You may or may not have noticed I've been AWOL for a long time. In all honesty, I've still been sparking, but under a different profile. I've made no secret of the fact that I am bisexual, but now it's time to drop another bombshell: I'm transgendered. I should not have hidden this for so long, but it's out there now. I consider myself a man. Don't get me wrong, my feminine aspects of my personality and self remain intact, but I will n... Mon, 17 Dec 2012 14:05:34 EST Kelly AKA SEASONS__CHANGE http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51191962 Hello Team, <BR> <BR> I am desperate to know if anyone has heard from Kelly (SEASONS__CHANGE) He has deleted/inactivated his facebook account as well as his SP account. I have sent him multiple text messages and he has not responded to any of them. Today I tried calling him (again) and his cell has been disconnected. I also have a few of his email accounts and have sent him emails with no response from him. <BR> <BR> If anyone has heard from Kelly or has any information on him- please r... Thu, 13 Dec 2012 03:11:05 EST 12.12.12. Lady Gaga Steps It Up For Us http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51188266 Lady Gaga was threatened with arrest in Russia while promoting gay rights. She was warned before her show in St. Petersburg that she would not be able to promote the LGBT community in any way or else she would face a substantial fine and arrest. <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563arhi6.26q/UMj-s2-o1RSA9N_KC<BR>9e33 </link> Wed, 12 Dec 2012 18:59:41 EST 12/11/2012 Boy Scouts of America lose sponsor http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51170807 Following in the footsteps of Intel and UPS, the Merck Foundation announced it would suspend all funding to the Boy Scouts until the ban on gay scouts and scout leaders is lifted. <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/10/me<BR>rck-foundation-boy-scouts-funding-gay-<BR>ban_n_2270863.html </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> Time to lose the archaic mentality! Tue, 11 Dec 2012 11:10:15 EST 12.10.2012 - Amazing Moments from Seattle http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51166675 Oh my gosh, check these photos out. Has anyone posted anything related to the first day of marriage equality in WA? <BR> <BR> 60 Moments That Gave Me The Chills During Seattle's First Day Of Marriage Equality <BR> <BR> "Relive one of the most emotionally exhausting days of my life, when 138 couples got married in downtown Seattle on the first day gay marriage was officially legal. Wow. " <BR> <BR> <link>www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/60-moments-t<BR>hat-gave-me-the-chills-during-seattle </link>... Tue, 11 Dec 2012 01:49:26 EST Interesting blog re prop 8 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51163948 I didn't read all of this yet. It's quite long, so instead of copying and pasting, I'm just including the link: <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/michelangelo-<BR>signorile/the-supreme-court-and-gay_b_<BR>2270641.html?utm_hp_ref=daily-brief?ut<BR>m_source=DailyBrief&utm_campaign=12101<BR>2&utm_medium=email&utm_content=BlogEnt<BR>ry&utm_term=Daily%20Brief </link> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 20:39:49 EST The Affordable Care Act and Us http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51113793 I'm finding more and more interesting government sites: <BR> <BR> I found this part interesting: <BR> <BR> <BR> The Affordable Care Act – The health care law is helping to improve access to care for all Americans, including individuals in the LGBT community. Studies have shown that health disparities related to sexual orientation and gender identity are due in part to lower rates of health insurance coverage and a lack of cultural competency in the health care system. As HHS implements the... Thu, 6 Dec 2012 19:18:00 EST 12.6 Mexico's Supreme Court Rules for Gay Marriage http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51112538 Mexican Court Rules Entire Country Must Recognize Gay Marriages Performed In Capital <BR> <BR> Mexico’s Supreme Court ruled that same-sex marriages performed in Mexico City must be legally recognized throughout the country. <BR> <BR> <link>www.queerty.com/mexican-court-rules-<BR>entire-country-must-recognize-gay-marr<BR>iages-performed-in-capital-20121205/ </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> Thu, 6 Dec 2012 16:48:39 EST 12.5.12. Where Will Equality Hit Next? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51098893 We are making good strides and it just seems to keep on coming. People in Washington and Maryland can get their marriage licenses this week. Where will the next place we break through be? <BR> <BR> <link>t.ms00.net/s/c?r.otow.4.t7fp.ljsb </link> Wed, 5 Dec 2012 15:41:05 EST 12/4/2012 APA changes http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51083837 American Psychiatric Association to stop classifying transgender people as having a mental illness: <BR> <BR> Until now “gender identity disorder” was used to label people who are trans and this has been used as a basis for anti-equality campaigners to argue against the rights of trans people. <BR> <BR> The new edition of Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders will label trans people as having “Gender Dysphoria,” a term to communicate the distress caused by “a marked incongru... Tue, 4 Dec 2012 13:33:25 EST 12.3.12 - Religion/Spirit uality/Faith/Or not? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51072205 Healthy lifestyles, we have often heard, involve a healthy "mind, body, and spirit".... But "spirit" can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Is it how you relate to god/God? Is it your state of being calm (or not)? Is it how you interact with others? <BR> <BR> And more importantly, how do we make it healthy???? <BR> <BR> So I thought it would be an interesting discussion to start have here, about just what this word "spirit" means to you, and how you ten... Mon, 3 Dec 2012 17:26:53 EST Great video from Lambda http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51042283 <link>www.youtube.com/user/lambdalegal?v=R<BR>EKoqEZatWM </link> <BR> <BR> This really touched me! Sat, 1 Dec 2012 14:13:58 EST 11.29.12 - World AIDS Day is Saturday http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x51017124 A reminder that World AIDS Day is this Saturday, Dec 1. It took me by surprise when I heard it mentioned on the radio this morning, so I thought others might also want a reminder. <BR> <BR> <link>www.worldaidsday.org/ </link> <BR> <BR> "World AIDS Day is held on 1 December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate people who have died. World AIDS Day was the first ever global h... Thu, 29 Nov 2012 15:56:43 EST 11.28.12 A New Nomination For Us! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50996500 President Obama has nominated Judge Nitza I. Quiñones Alejandro for Federal Judgeship. She is the first lesbian, hispanic woman to be nominated for this kind of position. What are your thoughts? There are plenty of inquiring minds that would like to know. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>t.ms00.net/s/c?r.oqwk.6.t37o.ljsb </link> Wed, 28 Nov 2012 05:52:30 EST 11/27/2012 Salvation Army http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50993125 Since we have entered the season of being greeted at the doors of our local stores with Salvation Army's bellringers, I am curious how people feel about their historically anti LGBT practices and donating to the bellringers. <BR> <BR> The community of course is quite divided with some folks stating that they do alot of good and because they are a church, they are just promoting their religion (which of course isn't LGBT friendly). There is a FB page titled Boycott the Salvation Army. <B... Tue, 27 Nov 2012 21:06:25 EST Found a great quote in my files! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50942297 The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just <BR> that they need more supervision. Lynn Lavner <BR> Fri, 23 Nov 2012 22:32:15 EST Check this out! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50937830 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/11/22/th<BR>anksgiving-calories-burned-exercise_n_<BR>2122463.html?utm_hp_ref=daily-brief?ut<BR>m_source=DailyBrief&utm_campaign=11231<BR>2&utm_medium=email&utm_content=NewsEnt<BR>ry&utm_term=Daily%20Brief </link> Fri, 23 Nov 2012 14:07:46 EST Today I will be active by __________ http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50935237 I have a full day planned. I'll be cleaning this morning, followed by a healthy lunch, then exercise, walking my puppy and later I'm going to see the movie "Lincoln". <BR> <BR> <BR> Fri, 23 Nov 2012 09:44:57 EST 11.22.12 - Happy Thanksgiving! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50927211 Hope today finds you feeling you have much to be thankful for! What are you doing today? Are you with family and friends? <BR> <BR> Here are a couple links about gratitude: <BR> <BR> Thanksgiving Quotes: 12 Sayings To Mark The Day <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/11/21/th<BR>anksgiving-quotes-appreciation-gratitu<BR>de_n_2168141.html?view=print&comm_ref=false </link> <BR> <BR> Thanksgiving Gratitude Guide <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/11/22/gp<BR>s-guide-thanksgiving-g... Thu, 22 Nov 2012 11:21:49 EST 11.21.12 Florida Finally Swears In Gay Legislators http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50920261 Florida has officially sworn in 2 openly gay legislators. Our leadership is really looking up! Are there any openly gay public servants in your state? <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>t.ms00.net/s/c?r.op6c.7.t15v.ljsb </link> Wed, 21 Nov 2012 19:20:06 EST 11/20/2012 - New Guidelines Recommend Routine HIV http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50906015 "New guidelines from the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force recommend all Americans ages 15 to 64 are screened for HIV as they are for cholesterol, the AP reports: <BR> <BR> The updated guidelines will bring this long-simmering issue before doctors and their patients again — emphasizing that public health experts agree on how important it is to test even people who don’t think they’re at risk, because they could be....And if finalized, the task force guidelines could extend the number of pe... Tue, 20 Nov 2012 15:52:24 EST Transgender Day of Remembrance http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50899286 So many beautiful angels lost for us to honor today. Dreaming of a world where no one is oppressed or because of their gender or gender expression. Tue, 20 Nov 2012 04:25:24 EST 11.19.12: 60 Second Fitness Booster http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50892724 So the theme of my own week is fitting more fitness in less time. I came across this article and LOVE the suggestions they give! And who can't benefit from being able to squeeze in some healthy activities?!? <BR> <BR> "When it comes to losing weight or making healthy choices, you probably think that it takes hours at a gym plus long nights preparing and planning nutritious meals. What you may not realize is that quick and easy changes can really improve your immediate health and wellness... Mon, 19 Nov 2012 15:53:34 EST Rally Time! Give Support http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50872404 Hi Wonderful Team! <BR> <BR> One of our fearless leaders, Kelly (A.K.A. SEASONS_CHANGE) is having a rough time in his personal life and has take a leave of absence from SparkPeople. <BR> <BR> He has taken his SP page down temporarily, but I have his personal email address. <BR> <BR> What I would like to ask is that you guys post some words of encouragement to him here and I will collect them on Tuesday and send screen shots of your support to him by email so that he knows we have his... Sun, 18 Nov 2012 06:02:45 EST Homes for LGBT Seniors http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50867439 I had no idea! Probably most of you are young, but this covers lots of cities...the newest seems to be my own: <BR> <BR> <link>www.theatlanticcities.com/housing/20<BR>12/11/housing-invisible-finding-homes-<BR>lgbt-seniors/3853/ </link> Sat, 17 Nov 2012 17:56:15 EST 11/16 Courage http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50857681 This is such a beautiful and moving piece by The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN)'s Andy Marra. It brought tears to my eyes. <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/andy-marra/th<BR>e-beautiful-daughter-how-my-korean-mot<BR>her-gave-me-the-courage-to-transition_<BR>b_2139956.html#slide=more263238 </link> Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:46:38 EST Stand Still http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50851436 I feel like I'm at that stand still spot. It doesn't seem to matter what I eat or do, nothing is happening. I have changed my exercise routine and i have been staying within or below my calorie range. I guess it's my turn to hit that "no movement" area. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Fri, 16 Nov 2012 10:43:58 EST For my GLBTQ friends with a great sense of humor.. http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50841734 I LOVE this video in support of gay marriage. I find it hilarious. I don't really see anything that could be perceived as offensive, but maybe I'm wrong. Only check it out if you have a sense of humor please. <BR> <BR> http://www.collegehumor.com/video/684685<BR>5/gay-men-will-marry-your-girlfriends <BR> <BR> <BR> <em>246</em> Thu, 15 Nov 2012 17:13:47 EST 11.15.2012 Security Cameras Capture Good Things http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50840926 This one made me smile!! <BR> <BR> Security Camera Video Captures Good Too <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player<BR>_embedded&v=C0fAnwX76aI </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> (I think it's an ad, but you can easily ignore that part!) Thu, 15 Nov 2012 15:45:00 EST Whoops! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50839896 Sorry for missing my day to post (Tuesday). I wasn't able to get to my computer until that evening and Sparks was down for maintenance. Then I got sick - got the crud from Ms Aliegh and spent the day yesterday in bed. Rude colds!! My head is full of crud and I am whacked on cold meds. Good times! <BR> <BR> Will do a catch up post! <em>334</em> Thu, 15 Nov 2012 14:00:40 EST 11.14.2012 Let's Show The World! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50821798 Let's show some Pride and support today and everyday! I found a video I thought was cute and creative, thought I would share. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>link.huffingtonpost.com/50602a13c91c<BR>45a22701563apwig.30m/UKF2ZJSOAB2_q9fNB<BR>611c </link> Wed, 14 Nov 2012 08:31:22 EST 10 Tips for Fall Fitness http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50807425 "How many New Year's Eves have you spent sipping champagne and vowing to get more fit in the coming year? And how many times have you failed to follow through? <BR> <BR> " 'December 31 over a drink is too late to set goals and make promises,' says Justin Price, owner of The Biomechanics, a personal training and wellness coaching facility in San Diego, Calif. <BR> <BR> "Fall, on the other hand, is a great time to start a fitness program because 'you're going to create good habits for the hol... Tue, 13 Nov 2012 07:06:36 EST 11.12.12: Beautiful Nature Video http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50800326 Ok.... I had a completely different thing in mind to post today - but this video has had me entranced since last night. I think this is the most beautiful nature video I have ever seen. Make sure you watch with the sound turned on - the music is beautiful too. <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/xHkq1<BR>edcbk4?rel=0 </link> <BR> <BR> So relaxing and captivating at the same time! Enjoy!!! Mon, 12 Nov 2012 16:52:11 EST 11.9.12 -- How MN Beat the Anti-Marriage Amendment http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50773520 Congratulations to folks in the three states (Maine, Maryland and Washington) who made history by approving same-sex marriage by popular vote on Tuesday! Here in Minnesota, we made history in a different way, by becoming the first of 31 states to reject a "marriage=one-man-plus-one-woman" amendment to our state constitution. Below is a link to an extended piece from Minnesota Public Radio on how we did it. What do you think? What, if anything, strikes you from this piece? <BR> <BR> *********... Sat, 10 Nov 2012 18:32:13 EST 11.9: Team Member Spotlight is on SPARKLEPIE http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50758518 Meet SPARKLEPIE, <BR> <BR> I lover her idea of "adventures." This member has taken a serious look at the the changes she wants to make in her life and has devised a solid plan for herself. She knows what works, what doesn't and she has already completed several of the list of things she wants to achieve. The best of them all is that she has lost a whopping 76 pounds!!!! That's 266,000 calories gone forevah! <em>243</em> Very inspiring! <BR> <BR> ******************************** <BR> <B... Fri, 9 Nov 2012 13:25:07 EST The Bad 'B' Word: A Need for Bisexual Acceptance http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50757127 by A.J. Walkley <BR> Author, 'Queer Greer' and 'Choice' <BR> <BR> Why, in this day and age, is the term "bisexual" still a bad word with negative connotations? Why do those who may have identified as bisexual in the past feel the need to find other terms for their sexuality today? It honestly may come down to ignorance, misinformation, and a general, overarching need for more education on the subject and the sexuality. <BR> <BR> Just last week Texas State Representative Mary Gonzalez came o... Fri, 9 Nov 2012 11:36:04 EST If only all exercise were this easy http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50757008 Lose Weight Without Moving a Muscle <BR> <BR> by Andrew Katz <BR> <BR> Need another reason to hit the snooze button? Your fat cells need sleep, too! <BR> <BR> The more shut-eye you catch at night, the easier your fat cells can prevent weight gain. In a new study published in Annals of Internal Medicine, researchers at the University of Chicago directly linked sleep loss to a decline in the cells’ ability to react to the hormone insulin. <BR> <BR> In the study, seven people slept for 8.5 h... Fri, 9 Nov 2012 11:26:01 EST 11.8.12: Pics of Folks Finding Out They Can Marry http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50744431 Election Night: Here's A Bunch Of Pictures Of Americans Finding Out They Can Now Legally Marry <BR> <BR> <link>www.upworthy.com/election-night-here<BR>s-a-bunch-of-pictures-of-americans-fin<BR>ding-out-they-can-now-l?c=ftm1 </link> <BR> <BR> Made me tear up a bit! <BR> <BR> <em>247</em> Thu, 8 Nov 2012 12:49:57 EST First openly transgender mayor http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50743848 First openly transgender mayor in the U.S., Stu Rasmussen, re-elected to fifth term in Oregon! <em>345</em> <BR> <BR> <link>lexiecannes.wordpress.com/2012/11/08<BR>/first-openly-transgender-mayor-in-the<BR>-u-s-stu-rasmussen-re-elected-to-fifth-term/ </link> Thu, 8 Nov 2012 12:04:53 EST GLBT Icon: Phyllis Lyon: KEY FOUNDER OF THE LESBIA http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50738728 A KEY FOUNDER OF THE LESBIAN LIBERATION MOVEMENT <BR> <BR> by Tina Gianoulis <BR> <BR> Lyon, Phyllis, (b. 1924) and Del Martin (1921-2008) <BR> <BR> Two courageous women who became lovers during one of the most socially conservative eras in American history, Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon were among the founders of a lesbian liberation movement that developed and enlarged the very definition of lesbianism. <BR> <BR> In their early influential book, Lesbian/Woman (1972), Lyon and Martin ch... Thu, 8 Nov 2012 02:19:40 EST Healthy Holiday Recipes http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50738252 I thought this was an appropriate post to the team to help plan some upcoming holiday menus from experiencelife.com <BR> <BR> Healthy Holiday Recipes <BR> <BR> We dug through our archives to gather some of our favorite seasonal recipes for your and yours to enjoy this holiday season. <BR> <BR> <link>experiencelife.com/newsflashes/healt<BR>hy-holiday-recipes </link> Thu, 8 Nov 2012 00:23:01 EST just wanted to introduce myself.... http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50730930 Hi there! My name is Laura, I am new to sparkpeople (tomorrow marks a week since I started my weight loss journey) and so far I absolutely love it (i've been tracking what i eat everyday & i found the whole experience so educational- who knew a 6in from Subway had half my daily recommended sodium allowance?!)!! I am committed to losing about 50 lbs (20 of them by february just in time for my 31st birthday) ! I am tired of yoyoing and binging/using food to deal with my emotions....I've lost ... Wed, 7 Nov 2012 13:04:40 EST 11.7: Team Member Spotlight is on MMEEAAGGX3 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50729607 Meet Meaghan, <BR> <BR> First of all, this member lost 137 POUNDS!!!!! That's 479,500 calories GONE FOREVAH! <em>243</em> Very inspiring Meaghan! More importantly, you're keeping it off. <BR> <BR> Check out her before and after pictures. <BR> <BR> ******************************* <BR> <BR> *140 POUNDS LOST!* <BR> <BR> Hi :) I'm Meaghan. I used to be on here as 'SummerLuvin_x3,' but took a break, and now I'm back. I've lost 137 pounds, 21 points off of my BMI, I've dropped 16 jean size... Wed, 7 Nov 2012 11:20:05 EST GLBT Icon: Brad Davis: HANDSOME BISEXUAL ACTOR AND http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50729389 HANDSOME BISEXUAL ACTOR AND GAY FILM ICON <BR> by Linda Rapp <BR> <BR> (1949-1991) <BR> <BR> Boyishly handsome Brad Davis rose to fame for his starring role in Midnight Express (1978). The homoerotic shower scene in that movie, along with Davis's performance as a gay sailor in Rainer Werner Fassbinder's Querelle (1983) and other homosexual roles, made him a gay film icon. After his death newspaper reports described him as "the first heterosexual actor to die of AIDS," but his bisexuality wa... Wed, 7 Nov 2012 11:06:35 EST 12 Must-Have Tools To Save You Money http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50728390 easy ways to save money <BR> 12 Low-Tech Tools You'll Always Use <BR> They're guaranteed to save you money, no matter how fast technology advances. <BR> By Alice Mangum Perry <BR> <BR> GPS, smartphone, laptop? Sure, they'll help you find your way out of an urban jungle or dig up a recipe for dinner. But they also cost big bucks and are major environmental downers, filled with toxic heavy metals and flame-retardant chemicals that leach into groundwater near landfills and poison children wh... Wed, 7 Nov 2012 10:08:03 EST 11.7.12 The Results Are In. http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50724888 As everyone knows, yesterday was one of our big days here, I hope all of you had the chance to go and vote. Not only do we have Obama back for another term to help support us, but we also have the first openly gay senator coming from Wisconsin, Tammy Baldwin. How did things turn out in your area? Any good news or surprises out there we would like to know about it. <BR> <BR> <link>www.yahoo.com/_ylt=AvKzdhfDCMaGh6J_N<BR>javUDGbvZx4;_ylc=X3oDMTl2aDdqZThxBF9TA<BR>zIwMjM1MzgwNzUEYQMxMjExMDYgb... Wed, 7 Nov 2012 05:02:46 EST 11/6 What is too young for a transition? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50714980 I came across this article about a young person who has been transitioning (since 15) and is scheduled for the actual surgery but now is wanting to stop. It's upsetting to me that they granted permission to actually start hormones at such a young age - one that is usually fraught with so many teenage conflicting emotions (and hormones). I guess I just kinda feel that if they had allowed her to transition (ie dress/live) without the actual hormones initially and/or used "blockers" (prevents ... Tue, 6 Nov 2012 11:20:58 EST 11.6: Team Member Spotlight is on PEBBLES706 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50710468 Meet PEBBLES706, <BR> <BR> I think we have a member who just might be a Disney fan. Very cool. PEBBLES706 has some great goals set for herself and is learning the tools to achieve them. She's already lost 43 pounds and I think she'll reach her goal before she knows it. Just never give up! <BR> <BR> ************************* <BR> <BR> Moving forward <BR> <BR> I found my way home. So much has changed since I was here last. I went out for surgery three times and could not get back on track. ... Tue, 6 Nov 2012 04:00:10 EST GLBT Icon: Michael Cunningham: ACCLAIMED NOVELIST http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50710412 ACCLAIMED NOVELIST WHO WON A PULITZER PRIZE FOR THE HOURS <BR> by David Garnes <BR> <BR> (b. 1952) <BR> <BR> The acclaimed novelist Michael Cunningham examines gay culture within the context of the larger society. <BR> <BR> Cunningham was born in Ohio in 1952. A graduate of Stanford University (1975) and the University of Iowa Writers Workshop (1980), he also studied under a fellowship at the Fine Arts Work Center in Provincetown, Massachusetts, where he has continued to teach; he is also... Tue, 6 Nov 2012 03:23:56 EST 11.5: Team Member Spotlight is on HERBALMIKE http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50699083 Meet Mike, <BR> <BR> He's lost a whopping 30 pounds so far and this member is quite the gourmet. He loves super hero comic books, which you'll see one of them on his spark page. <BR> <BR> **************************** <BR> <BR> Herbal Jinx <BR> <BR> Just your average guy, on the path to good health. I have tried everything to lose weight and nothing seem to work or I was in the yo-yo track until I stop trying less and started being smarter. This is my journey. Welcome! <BR> I live and swe... Mon, 5 Nov 2012 10:27:08 EST LGBT History: Rev. Robert Wood: Gay Pioneer http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50698136 b. May 21, 1923 <BR> <BR> “Is it proper for two of the same sex to enter the institution of marriage? To which I must reply, ‘Yes.’ ” <BR> <BR> The Reverend Robert Wood authored the first book in the United States on Christianity and homosexuality. He is the first clergyman to picket for gay rights. <BR> <BR> Wood was raised in Youngstown, Ohio. He enlisted in the Army and was severely wounded in the invasion of Italy. He was awarded a Purple Heart, two Battle Stars, a Combat Infantry Badg... Mon, 5 Nov 2012 09:36:17 EST Where is Danger Lurking in Your Kitchen? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50698060 Where is Danger Lurking in Your Kitchen? <BR> Stop Trouble Before it Starts <BR> -- By Mike Kramer, Staff Writer <BR> <BR> Anytime is a good time to give your kitchen a healthy inspection. Nasty foods and hidden pitfalls are just waiting to tempt you into reverting to bad habits. They may even be disguising themselves in a "healthy" cloak. To have healthy habits and a healthier lifestyle, you first must live in a healthy environment. <BR> <BR> Face it: No matter how motivated you are to get... Mon, 5 Nov 2012 09:32:04 EST 11.5.12: Famous lesbians want YOU...... to VOTE http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50694535 Famous lesbians want YOU to VOTE!!! <BR> <BR> The US election day is tomorrow! We talk a lot about exercise on this forum.... and tomorrow it is important that you exercise your voice! Make sure the government knows what is important to you! <BR> <BR> Jane Lynch (and an army of other celebrities) want you to vote: <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player<BR>_embedded&v=4AeRFhwSYVQ </link> <BR> <BR> Ellen Degeneres (and some friends) say that there is lots of stuff to car... Mon, 5 Nov 2012 02:28:34 EST A Gov't Sheet for Us http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x50690346 Learn something new every day - we're acknowledged! <BR> <BR> <link>womenshealth.gov/publications/our-pu<BR>blications/fact-sheet/lesbian-bisexual<BR>-health.cfm </link> Sun, 4 Nov 2012 19:04:39 EST New DVD Releases for 11.6.12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50682218 HORROR <BR> <BR> The Pact Starring Casper Van Dien and Caity Lotz (2012) ((looks good)) <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjBT7z3lhf8 </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> Rec 3 Starring Diego Martin (2012) <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6SPpN7nH7U </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> ********************************** <BR> <BR> Gay Themed <BR> <BR> Kiss Me Starring Lena Endre, Krister Henriksson, Liv Mjönes, et al. (2012 <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCIGwgntcD8 </link> ... Sun, 4 Nov 2012 08:22:56 EST 11.4: Team Member Spotlight is on PHILOSOPHER_GRL http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50681137 Meet Taylor, <BR> <BR> A very active team member with a heart of gold; and so happens to have lost a whopping 56 pounds! Check out the new Taylor: <BR> <BR> <link>photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/8/5/l85<BR>1300076.jpg </link> <BR> <BR> Way to go Taylor! <BR> <BR> ****************************************<BR>************* <BR> <BR> It CAN Be Done <BR> <BR> For myself, it's very important to have more than just a number on a scale to work towards. I need a little carrot to keep me going. S... Sun, 4 Nov 2012 07:03:44 EST LGBT History: Tom Waddell: Athlete http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50680881 b. November 1, 1937 <BR> <BR> d. July 11, 1987 <BR> <BR> “Winning is doing your best.” <BR> <BR> Tom Waddell was an Olympic athlete and founder of the international sporting event, the Gay Games. <BR> <BR> Born Thomas Flubacher in New Jersey, Waddell’s parents divorced. At 15, he moved in with his neighbors, Gene and Hazel Waddell, who adopted him. Waddell attended Springfield College, where he studied pre-medicine and was a star gymnast and football player. In 1960, he enrolled at New Je... Sun, 4 Nov 2012 06:34:35 EST Tennessee Gay Groups Battles Church’s Anti-LGBT Ad http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50680863 Tennessee Gay Groups Battles Church’s Anti-LGBT Ad With Food Drive <BR> <BR> Rather than let a nasty full-page ad in a local paper spark an in-kind retaliation, a group of Memphis LGBT organizations are banding together for a charity food drive. <BR> <BR> A spot paid for by a group calling itself the Memphis churches of Christ appeared in Sunday and Tuesday’s edition of The Commercial Appeal. Though made to look like a regular article, it quoted Bible verses and offered readers “a grim remi... Sun, 4 Nov 2012 06:31:06 EST Make Tastier Tacos in 5 Steps http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50680689 Yum, tacos! <BR> <BR> Tyler Florence's 5 Upgrades To A Tastier Taco <BR> Learn the chef's secrets for making a spicier, crunchier, fresher-tasting taco <BR> <BR> <link>www.menshealth.com/guy-gourmet/upgra<BR>de-your-tacos?cm_mmc=DailyDoseNL-_-107<BR>7758-_-10182012-_-TastierTacos-hed </link> Sun, 4 Nov 2012 06:03:43 EST 11.3: Team Member Spotlight is on SMBRYCE1 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50667043 Meet Sean-Michael, <BR> <BR> I love his name by the way. <BR> <BR> This team mate has lost 48 whopping pounds. That's 168,000 calories gone forever. Very inspiring! <em>243</em> He also wants you to try out this website: <BR> <BR> <link>www.freewillastrology.com/beauty/pro<BR>noia.therapy.html </link> <BR> <BR> ****************************************<BR>** <BR> <BR> Desert Food Lover <BR> <BR> Eating my way to better health through yumness and funness <BR> <BR> "One drop raises... Sat, 3 Nov 2012 01:27:30 EST LGBT History: Jon Stryker: Philanthropist http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50666930 b. 1958 <BR> <BR> “It’s about supporting people who are trying to live in peace as openly gay or lesbian or transgender people.” <BR> <BR> Jon Stryker is a philanthropist and leading funder of national and international LGBT organizations. <BR> <BR> Stryker was raised in Kalamazoo, Michigan. He earned a bachelor’s degree in biology from Kalamazoo College and a master’s degree in architecture from the University of California, Berkeley. He is an heir to the Stryker fortune and a major share... Sat, 3 Nov 2012 01:04:08 EST Video: Show Me How: Cutting Winter Squash http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50666713 I'm piggy backing off of Kierae. :o) <BR> <BR> Hard-shelled winter squash can be intimidating to cut, but not with these tips from chef and food stylist Betsy Nelson. <BR> <BR> <link>experiencelife.com/video/show-me-how<BR>-cutting-winter-squash </link> Sat, 3 Nov 2012 00:34:41 EST 11.2.12 Katherine Brooks Director and Activist http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50666388 Hello all! Sorry about the delay in posting for today, but we've been having power surges in my neighborhood all day and now I have power but no air. So on this lovely November Fall day, it is 84 stifling degrees in my house with no breeze in sight. To add insult to injury, my momma is currently in Alaska for a training class for her work and she had the audacity to laugh at me. Isn't that always the way?? <BR> <BR> But enough about that... <BR> <BR> Kelly122581 and I discussed things a... Sat, 3 Nov 2012 00:02:09 EST New Movies in Theaters 11.2.12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50656906 Wreck-It Ralph (2012) <BR> <BR> Certificate PG 108 min - Animation | Comedy | Family <BR> Metascore: 72/100 (27 reviews) <BR> A video game villain wants to be a hero and sets out to fulfill his dream, but his quest brings havoc to the whole arcade where he lives. <BR> Director:Rich Moore <BR> Stars:John C. Reilly, Jack McBrayer, Jane Lynch, Sarah Silverman <BR> <BR> <link>www.imdb.com/title/tt1772341/#lb </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> The Man with the Iron Fists (2012) <BR> <BR> Certif... Fri, 2 Nov 2012 10:27:37 EST 11.2: Team Member Spotlight is on DRAMAYA http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50656020 Meet Barbara, <BR> <BR> She's new to the team and new to Spark too and has already being active on the team threads, including cheering other team members on. <em>345</em> <BR> <BR> If you need any help, just reach out and we'll be there on the double. This team is full of very supportive, caring members. <BR> <BR> ********************************* <BR> <BR> It's time to get fit! <BR> <BR> I'm 23 years old girl from Poland who studies Information Science and Library. I also work in m... Fri, 2 Nov 2012 09:31:49 EST LGBT History: Billy Strayhorn: Composer http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50655574 b. November 29, 1915 <BR> <BR> d. May 31, 1967 <BR> <BR> “If you want something hard enough, it just gets done.” <BR> <BR> Billy Strayhorn was a celebrated composer and arranger. Best known for his collaborations with bandleader Duke Ellington, Strayhorn had an important influence on the American jazz movement. <BR> <BR> The youngest of five children, Strayhorn spent his early years in Hillsborough, North Carolina. His grandmother, who was active in her church choir, encouraged Strayhorn’... Fri, 2 Nov 2012 09:02:59 EST Movie Theater Snack Attack! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50654998 Movie Theater Snack Attack! <BR> Two Thumbs Up or Blockbuster Diet Disaster? <BR> -- By Leanne Beattie, Health & Fitness Writer <BR> <BR> The aroma hits you as soon as you walk through the doors of any movie theater…popcorn! For many people, a trip to the movies isn’t complete without a big tub of buttery popcorn and a giant cup of soda. But if you don’t choose carefully, that treat could be scarier than the next blockbuster horror flick! With a little planning, you can still enjoy a yummy s... Fri, 2 Nov 2012 08:26:24 EST 11/1 - Veggie Challenge is Winter Squash! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50646742 In honor of our veggie/fruit challenge, I shall be posting every two weeks a veggie thread with information on the veggie and challenging you all to TRY it! I will post a couple recipes that I have tried and hope you share yours too! <BR> <BR> So in honor of pumpkin season and how we are settling into winter veggie season: <BR> <BR> The squash family (Cucurbitaceae) includes pumpkins, summer squash and winter squash. They are really edible gourds. There are many varieties with a wide range... Thu, 1 Nov 2012 16:33:21 EST "Dear SparkTeam" ANONYMOUS advice column! http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50646606 Hello to everyone and greetings! <BR> I'm one of your team's co-leads, Jenna, better known as SanityDreamer. We are starting a lot of new things this month, to "reboot" the GLBT Spark Network. One new feature that I would like to introduce you to is the brand new ANONYMOUS ADVICE COLUMN!!!! <BR> <BR> We have different genders, ages, nationalities, the list goes on. But the one thing we do have in common is this group and our desire to live healthier. So many things factor into a healthy li... Thu, 1 Nov 2012 16:17:38 EST 11.01.12 - Marriage Equality on the Ballot http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50646156 First, I feel like mentioning how much I'm still thinking about everyone affected by Hurricane Sandy. I hope all of our team members are safe and sound. <BR> <BR> In other timely news, Election Day is coming up on Tuesday -- how did it get to be November already?! If you have the right to vote, I hope you will get out there and exercise your right on Tuesday (or before, if your state participates in early voting). <BR> <BR> If you are interested, here is a round-up from HRC (Human Rights Ca... Thu, 1 Nov 2012 15:33:35 EST October 2012 Team Stats: Final http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50641626 Thanks to those of you who participated in the October Challenge: <BR> <BR> KELLY122581 <BR> FAVORITEAUNT84 <BR> KELLYSWIMS12 <BR> SEASONS__CHANGE <BR> <BR> Hopefully, more members will join the fun this month. <BR> <BR> <em>211</em> <BR> <BR> <BR> Team Fitness Minutes <BR> <em>108</em> <BR> <BR> 1) TWEETYKC00 3,720 <BR> 2) FLUFFY83 3,231 <BR> 3) KIERAE 2,970 <BR> 4) BONNIEMARGAY 2,890 <BR> 5) DOLPHINSINGER72 2,702 <BR> 6) TENNISJIM 2,620 <BR> 7) PEBBLES706 2,251 ... Thu, 1 Nov 2012 09:51:23 EST LGBT History: Pierre Seel: Hero http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50639265 b. August 16, 1923 <BR> <BR> d. November 25, 2005 <BR> <BR> “I became aware that in spite of all that I had imagined, the true liberation was for other people.” <BR> <BR> Pierre Seel was deported for being gay from France to a German concentration camp during World War II. He is known for speaking out about his Holocaust experience. <BR> <BR> Seel was born to an affluent Catholic family in northern France, near the German border. In 1939, while in a public garden known for gay cruising,... Thu, 1 Nov 2012 07:03:45 EST 10.31: Team Member Spotlight is on ZOMBIEMOM1369 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50627563 Meet Zombiemom1369, <BR> <BR> What a perfect day for this member to be in the spotlight. Especially, being a fan of Zombie movies. This member has already lost 18 pounds in the short time that she's already been on Spark, <em>243</em> and she's very close at reaching her goal weight. She'll be in maintenance mode very soon. <BR> <BR> ****************************************<BR>**** <BR> <BR> Zombie Mom <BR> <BR> I'm a stay at home mom and wife to a disabled Navy Veteran. Turning over ... Wed, 31 Oct 2012 10:05:41 EST 10.31.12 Happy Halloween http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50627439 Good morning team and Happy Halloween. For those of you who celebrate(d) it, I hope you had a blast. <BR> <BR> Being that it's the last day of the month, be sure to log in your fitness minutes on the days that you may have missed to ensure all of your fitness time is logged and accounted for this month. <BR> <BR> If you've already celebrated Halloween, what did you do? Did you dress up? What did you dress up as. If you're celebrating it tonight, same questions. <BR> <BR> I do love Hall... Wed, 31 Oct 2012 09:58:11 EST LGBT History: RuPaul: Entertainer http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50627143 b. November 17, 1960 <BR> <BR> “With hair, heels, and attitude, honey, I am through the roof.” <BR> <BR> RuPaul is one of the world’s most famous drag queens. He is a successful actor, singer and television host. <BR> <BR> Born RuPaul Andre Charles in San Diego, California, RuPaul learned about fashion from his mother and three sisters. His parents divorced when he was 7. At 16, he moved to Atlanta to live with his sister and brother-in-law. <BR> <BR> In Atlanta, RuPaul studied acting, pe... Wed, 31 Oct 2012 09:39:10 EST 10 Anti-Gay Monsters Who Lurked In The Closet http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50627072 The Closet Monster <BR> <BR> While goblins and ghouls may frighten some, closeted anti-gay conservatives are waaaay scarier. Their lives of dishonesty, shame, self-loathing and hypocrisy cause them to lash out and harm as many gay people as possible. Such "closet monsters" have existed throughout history, but we picked out 10 from Salon.com's longer list of 21 and put them in this haunted hall of shame. Enjoy, but don't end up like them. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>www.gay.net/hot-topics/2012/1... Wed, 31 Oct 2012 09:35:45 EST Transgendered Ontarians can now change birth cert http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50621866 I came about this story via Lucas Silveira who talked about his journey when he fought to change his. <BR> <BR> <link>www.thestar.com/news/canada/article/<BR>1269454--transgendered-ontarians-now-a<BR>llowed-to-alter-birth-certificates-wit<BR>hout-sex-change-surgery </link> <BR> <BR> The new rules mean a transgendered person can apply to ServiceOntario for a new birth certificate with only a letter from a physician or psychologist. <BR> <BR> *side note* once again it's quite an eye op... Tue, 30 Oct 2012 21:46:33 EST 2 Pilates Moves for a Flatter Belly http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50612212 <link>www.dailyspark.com/blog.asp?post=2_p<BR>ilates_moves_for_a_flatter_belly </link> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 09:02:15 EST 10.30 Team Member Spotlight is on DUTCHDAVE1951 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50612109 Meet Dave, <BR> <BR> Yes sir, you definitely belong to the team and welcome. Also, welcome to Spark. I see that you are new to the website. If you have any questions, feel free to give a shout out. We have a lot of very supportive and friendly members here. <BR> <BR> ************************************** <BR> <BR> A NEW BEGINNING AGAIN <BR> <BR> I WAS ON THIS PROGRAM ONCE AND IT WORKED BUT GOT SIDETRACKED. I HOPE TO MAKE IT WORK THIS TIME <BR> <BR> <BR> Profile <BR> <BR> Member Since:... Tue, 30 Oct 2012 08:54:31 EST 10.30.12: Hurricane Sandy is Quite A Storm http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50611977 If you are impacted by this storm, please let us know how you are. We want to make sure that you're safe and sound.... <BR> <BR> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 08:43:58 EST LGBT History Month: Holly Near: Singer http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50611929 b. June 6, 1949 <BR> <BR> “I do not separate my music from my heart, nor do I separate my ideas from my daily life.” <BR> <BR> Holly Near is a singer, songwriter and activist for social change. She is an articulate political artist. <BR> <BR> She was raised in Ukiah, California, by politically active parents who were cattle ranchers. She began her show business career acting in films such as “Minnie and Moskowitz” (1971) and “Slaughterhouse Five” (1972), and in television shows including “... Tue, 30 Oct 2012 08:40:25 EST 10.29.2012: Hurricane Assistance http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50603746 Hi team, for those of you in the path of this week's big storm, I thought I would share some helpful links: <BR> <BR> If you are in need of shelter or help; <BR> <link>www.redcross.org/find-help/shelter </link> <BR> <BR> If you need to leave messages for loved ones that you are safe, or find loved ones that you have been separated from: <BR> <link>www.redcross.org/safeandwell </link> <BR> <BR> Be safe everyone!!!! <BR> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 16:48:54 EST 10.29.2012: Gay Republican Candidate Massachusetts http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50603699 "Richard Tisei could become the first openly gay nonincumbent Republican to be elected to Congress, giving a rare insight into what an out GOP politician believes on a wide range of issues." <BR> <BR> <link>www.advocate.com/politics/election/2<BR>012/10/29/richard-tisei-your-chance-se<BR>e-what-gay-republican-says-issues </link> <BR> <BR> ________________________________________<BR>________ <BR> The American election is coming up, so I've been reading a lot about politics. I came across... Mon, 29 Oct 2012 16:44:45 EST 10.29 Team Member Spotlight is on TENNISJIM http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50598803 Jim is a long time Spark member and his fitness minutes and spark points are high to prove it. He is an avid tennis player and he appears to be always on the go, go, go. Bonus, he's quite the artist. Check out his spark page; it's his own work. Very cool. <BR> <BR> ****************************************<BR>********* <BR> <BR> Jim's Diet Page <BR> <BR> I started SparkPeople in May 2008 because I saw a photo of me that wasn't very complimentary. So, I chose to change my eating habits and a... Mon, 29 Oct 2012 10:31:49 EST 10.29.12: Gearing up for the November Challenge? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50598706 Welcome new members, very happy to have you part of our family. Some of you are new to Spark, so if you have any questions about navigating the site or any other question(s) that you can think of we're here for you. <BR> <BR> If you haven't already done so, think about what goal(s) that you would like to complete or start next month and be accountable by posting in the November challenge thread, which is located under the Challenges Forum. <BR> <BR> Enjoy the day and do something fun for yo... Mon, 29 Oct 2012 10:26:33 EST Halloween pet hazards: What you need to know http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50597301 Halloween is a festive day -- and night -- for children, and a hectic one for adults: there are the decorations, the candy, pumpkin carving, crowds of trick-or-treaters to be lavished with seasonal treats, and generally good-natured mayhem. <BR> <BR> But for the family pet, there are some Halloween hazards to be aware of. Here's our list of the top five, with suggestions on how to keep your Halloween celebration pet-safe and pet-friendly. <BR> Halloween hazard #1: Chocolate <BR> <BR> With c... Mon, 29 Oct 2012 09:10:40 EST November Bi-Weekly Challenge: 11.18 - 11.30 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50585795 This challenge is to try a new healthy recipe 2-3 times each week. This challenge is later to allow you time to look for recipes to try and buy the ingredients for them. After you try it, post what you tried and whether or not you would make it again. If you choose a Spark Recipe, copy and paste the link to the recipe so we can try it too. That is, if it's a keeper. <BR> <BR> <link>recipes.sparkpeople.com/home.asp </link> <BR> <BR> Thanks Kierae for this baby. Sun, 28 Oct 2012 12:47:07 EST November Bi-Weekly Challenge: 11.1 - 11-17 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50585713 Get in those veggies and fruits. To make this challenge a little less mundane, out of the 5 servings of fruits and veggies each day, try one that contains one of the letters in November. If you have time, reply to this post with what you ate. <BR> <BR> Thanks Peggy, cool idea. <BR> <BR> This too begins on November 1st. <BR> <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/resource/perfect<BR>_prod.asp </link> Sun, 28 Oct 2012 12:41:31 EST November Monthly Challenge: Check it out. :) http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50585583 Thanks everyone who responded to some challenge ideas. This is always the hardest part since we're all at different fitness levels. <BR> <BR> The November challenge is listed below and will begin on November 1st. We're posting this now to give you time to really think about this, make a commitment and run with it. In addition to the monthly challenge, there will be bi-weekly ones as well. Don't be shy, give it a try. Whenever your ready, copy the template below, click on the Reply icon and ... Sun, 28 Oct 2012 12:32:13 EST ignore this post http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50585548 delete Sun, 28 Oct 2012 12:30:07 EST DO I BELONG ON THIS TEAM http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50585538 I am a crossdresser, do I belong on this team? Sun, 28 Oct 2012 12:29:28 EST New DVD Releases for 10.30.12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50581882 HORROR <BR> <BR> Rosemary's Baby (Criterion Collection) Starring Mia Farrow, John Cassavetes, Ruth Gordon, et al. (2012) <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5lxTx68Hlo </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> Sick Boy Starring Skye McCole Bartusiak, Marc Donato and Debbie Rochon (2012) <BR> <BR> ((gore warning)) <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3UIDTqKo3c </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> 666: The Ritual Starring Domiziano Arcangeli, Adriana Barrera, Zenova Braeden, et al. (2012) aka The... Sun, 28 Oct 2012 06:54:34 EST 10.28.12: Thank You http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50581087 Just a quick shout out to all of you who are part of the GLBTQ family and to those of you who are active on the threads and help each other out when times get tough and help celebrate when times are good. That's what it's all about. We have an awesome team and awesome team co-leads. We're working together on setting the November challenge; which will be posted soon. <BR> <BR> In the meantime, enjoy today and do something just for you. <BR> <BR> Sun, 28 Oct 2012 02:01:58 EST LGBT History: Katherine Miller: Activist http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50581065 b. November 13, 1989 <BR> <BR> “It’s about vocalizing what the voiceless cannot say and making visible those who are invisible.” <BR> <BR> Katherine Miller was the last West Point cadet discharged under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT). She is a 2012 Yale graduate. With the repeal of DADT, Miller enlisted in the Army as an officer. <BR> <BR> Raised in Ohio in a conservative military family, Miller’s dream was to become an officer in the Army. In 2008, she enrolled at West Point and excelled ... Sun, 28 Oct 2012 01:56:27 EST 10.28: Team Member Spotlight is on KELLYSWIMS12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50581044 Meet another Kelly, <BR> <BR> Kelly has lost a whopping 29 pounds so far and is well on her way in reaching her goal weight. <em>244</em> She has already laid out her plan of action and she's totally engaged in her health and fitness goals while cheering her team mates along the way. <BR> <BR> ********************************* <BR> <BR> Never give up. <BR> <BR> SparkPeople, we meet again. I've been on this site here and again for awhile now. Never really ready to commit full time. He... Sun, 28 Oct 2012 01:52:14 EST 5 Amazing Pumpkin Recipes http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50580768 Bake a Pumpkin Pie, and Try 4 Other Great Pumpkin Recipes <BR> <BR> Jack o' Lanterns are great, but this year try our easy pumpkin recipes and tips for cooking with this seasonal squash. <BR> By Amy Ahlberg <BR> <BR> This time of year, pumpkins are everywhere. But if all you do is make them into jack o' lanterns, you're missing out on a nutritional powerhouse. The versatile pumpkin is an excellent source of beta-carotene, which our bodies use to make the eye-protecting, disease-fighting a... Sun, 28 Oct 2012 00:49:58 EST 10 Healthiest Cities for Women http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x50576821 Ranked in 30 categories. I was going just to list them, but you might like the video on them from Good Morning America: <BR> <BR> <link>abcnews.go.com/Health/Wellness/healt<BR>hiest-cities-women/story?id=15557107#.<BR>UIxnn8VG9-M </link> Sat, 27 Oct 2012 19:04:26 EST my aha moment http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50576445 Growing up, i have always been fascinated with breasts and bra it started when i was about 10 yeras old./ At that time i thought it was just normakl cos all my friends are going through puberty and it was just me being a curious teenager. Well, I didnt really had a crush on a female till i was in college. I was trying to sell my microwave oven and my friend introduced me to her friend who ended buying the microwave. The day she came and pick it up we end up talking for 3 hours and went on to ... Sat, 27 Oct 2012 18:35:25 EST 10.27.12: Team Goal(s) for November http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50569323 Good morning team. I hope this finds you with your favorite beverage sitting next to you and enjoying some "me" time. <BR> <BR> We're currently working on some challenges for November. With the beginning of the holidays approaching, it's more important than ever to be strong and motivated to decrease the odds of getting off of your program. Do you have any ideas or suggestions that would work for the whole team? We look forward to reading your suggestions before we come together and post the... Sat, 27 Oct 2012 07:33:07 EST 10.27: Team Member Spotlight is on SHYDANDELIONS http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50569226 Meet Kimberly, <BR> <BR> Kimberly is getting it in gear and has already completed the 1st round of the Insanity program. She has the coolest name for a dog, Einstein, that helps her along the way. Way to go Einstein. She's lost 36 pounds already, which is 126,000 calories gone FOREVAH! <em>243</em> <BR> <BR> ************************** <BR> <BR> <BR> Kimberly is getting fit! <BR> <BR> I'm just trying to be happy and healthy. :) <BR> <BR> WEIGHT GOALS! <BR> <BR> 225 by November 1s... Sat, 27 Oct 2012 07:20:55 EST 10 Things You Should Have Learned in Home Ec http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50569177 10 Things You Should Have Learned in Home Economics <BR> <BR> Self-sufficiency can be simple, cheap—and rewarding. <BR> By Leah Zerbe <BR> <BR> Self-sufficiency is making a comeback. All around the country, people are banishing the use of dehydrated potato flakes, prefabricated pancake mixes, fast-food drive-through windows, and trips to the dry cleaner's because they yearn to make things from scratch again, just as our ancestors did. But unless you grew up with an ambitious Home Ec teach... Sat, 27 Oct 2012 07:11:53 EST LGBT History: Irshad Manji: Muslim Reformist http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50569166 b. 1968 <BR> <BR> “My journey is about speaking out against injustice, no matter who is offended.” <BR> <BR> Irshad Manji is an award-winning Muslim author, feminist and advocate for Islamic reform. The New York Times described her as “Osama bin Laden’s worst nightmare.” <BR> <BR> Manji was born in Uganda to an Indian father and an Egyptian mother. In 1973, when Asians were deported from Uganda, her family immigrated to Canada as political refugees. She attended public school during the we... Sat, 27 Oct 2012 07:09:47 EST 8 Things the French Taught Us About Love http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50569083 by Marilyn Yalom <BR> Senior Scholar at the Clayman Institute for Gender Research at Stanford University <BR> <BR> Love occupies a privileged place in the French national identity, on a par with fashion, food, and human rights. For hundreds of years, the French have championed themselves as guides to the art of love through their literature, paintings, songs, and cinema. <BR> <BR> What we now call romantic love can be traced back to the early twelfth century, when William IX, Duke of Aquita... Sat, 27 Oct 2012 06:54:42 EST EAT YOUR JACK O'LANTERN http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50561671 I FOUND THIS RECIPE ON SPARK PEOPLE! <BR> <link>recipes.sparkpeople.com/recipe-detai<BR>l.asp?recipe=1805616 </link> <BR> <BR> 4 ingredients, fast and simple! Fri, 26 Oct 2012 14:40:20 EST Question about SP site http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50561004 This isn't specifically related to the team, but I thought one of you might be able to help me. I couldn't find the answer in the SparkPeople FAQs. <BR> <BR> I remember there used to be a feature where you could see people who had added you as a friend who you hadn't added yet, and people who you had "friended" who hadn't added you. <BR> <BR> I can't find this now. Does anyone know if it's still available, and how to get to it? <BR> <BR> Thanks! <BR> <BR> <em>223</em> Fri, 26 Oct 2012 13:26:20 EST 10.26: Team Member Spotlight is on AJWALKLEY http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50557073 Meet AJWALKLEY, <BR> <BR> Based on her current status, she's getting ready to do some serious traveling. So far, she has lost 14 pounds! <em>243</em> She's going to look great for her trip to Aruba. <BR> <BR> *************************** <BR> <BR> <BR> Gettin' Fit! <BR> <BR> I'm a writer who spends more time sitting in front of the computer than I should. It's time to lose some weight and get more active! <BR> <BR> Profile <BR> <BR> Member Since: 10/14/2011 <BR> <BR> SparkPoints:... Fri, 26 Oct 2012 08:53:27 EST 10.26.12: No Labels, Please http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50557000 Good morning team. Another weekend is upon us, and hopefully, you have some fun plan in store. If not, change things up a bit and do something "fun" for yourself that's just for you. Your co-leads are brainstorming to come up with some good challenges for the month of November so stay tuned. <BR> <BR> In the meantime, enjoy the day! <BR> <BR> ********************************** <BR> <BR> No Labels, Please <BR> <BR> by Tiphany Adams <BR> Appears on 'Push Girls' <BR> <BR> Living with paraly... Fri, 26 Oct 2012 08:48:11 EST LGBT History Month: Federico Garcia Lorca: Poet http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50555844 Poet <BR> <BR> b. June 5, 1898 <BR> <BR> d. August 19, 1936 <BR> <BR> “To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves.” <BR> <BR> Federico Garcia Lorca was a celebrated Spanish poet and dramatist. He is internationally recognized as one of the most important poets of the 20th century. <BR> <BR> Born in Grenada, Lorca was the son of a wealthy farmer and a pianist. He attended the University of Grenada to study law, but soon abandoned his s... Fri, 26 Oct 2012 07:08:33 EST New Movies in Theaters: 10.26.12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50555770 Cloud Atlas (2012) <BR> <BR> Certificate R 172 min - Drama | Mystery | Sci-Fi <BR> Metascore: 52/100 (37 reviews) <BR> An exploration of how the actions of individual lives impact one another in the past, present and future, as one soul is shaped from a killer into a hero, and an act of kindness ripples across centuries to inspire a revolution. <BR> Directors:Tom Tykwer | Andy Wachowski | Lana Wachowski <BR> Stars:Tom Hanks, Halle Berry, Hugh Grant, Hugo Weaving <BR> <BR> <link>www.i... Fri, 26 Oct 2012 07:00:02 EST 10.25.12 Bi, gay, pansexual: What do I call myself http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50551387 <link>goaskalice.columbia.edu/bi-gay-panse<BR>xual-what-do-i-call-myself </link> <BR> <BR> An interesting Q&A on labels, bisexuality, and the word "pansexual." <BR> <BR> Go Ask Alice! is a health question and answer resource produced by Alice! Health Promotion at Columbia University. Thu, 25 Oct 2012 20:13:22 EST 10.25.12: Good afternoon http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50548319 I apologize for the late post. I've been having some computer issues. <BR> <BR> Anyway, this guy is a bit behind on my spark mail that I hope, if my computer cooperates, that I'll be caught up over the weekend. <BR> <BR> In the meantime, I hope you're having a good day and keep that chin up and smile bright. <BR> <BR> <em>386</em> Thu, 25 Oct 2012 15:38:01 EST 10.25: Team Member Spotlight is on A_BRICK http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50548266 Meet A_BRICK, <BR> <BR> Just recently earned her BS at 23, she feels as thought the world is at her fingertips. What a great place to be, right? She's ready to take on the world and help whenever and wherever she can. <em>242</em> <BR> <BR> ************************** <BR> <BR> A fresh start for life <BR> <BR> Hello everyone! Thank you so much for visiting my page! <BR> <BR> I am a 23-year-old college grad in Duluth, MN. I just graduated this May with a Bachelor of Applied Science in ... Thu, 25 Oct 2012 15:34:00 EST Allyson Robinson, Transgender Veteran http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50546960 <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/25/al<BR>lyson-robinson-transgen_n_2016086.html<BR>?ref=topbar </link> <BR> <BR> I wonder how this will play out if our administration changes hands.... Thu, 25 Oct 2012 13:39:59 EST Lana Wachowski http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50546927 Lana Wachowski, I sure do adore and admire you, lady. You are a heroine to me. Thank you for being brave. By being visible, you've helped make the future a little brighter for the rest of us who live apart from the more traditionally binary aspects of the actual gender spectrum. <BR> <BR> <link>www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/24/la<BR>na-wachowski-transgender-cloud-atlas-d<BR>irector-reveals-pain-suicide-attempt_n<BR>_2009112.html </link> Thu, 25 Oct 2012 13:37:24 EST New DVD Releases for 10.23.12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50530773 Horror <BR> <BR> Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter Starring Benjamin Walker, Dominic Cooper, Anthony Mackie, et al. (2012) <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=MyGIlUnX5yI </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> Wrong Turn 5: Bloodlines (Unrated) Starring Camilla Arfwedson, Roxanne McKee, Doug Bradley, et al. (2012) <BR> <BR> ((gore & profanity warning)) <BR> <BR> <link>www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeFylL3lLoU </link> <BR> <BR> <BR> 247 Degrees Fahrenheit Dvd Starring Scout Taylor-Compton, Tr... Wed, 24 Oct 2012 11:05:26 EST Ooh La La! 7 Nights of (Fit) French Food http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50529397 While a trip to Paris might not in be the budget, a few French-themed meals likely are. Put some Edith Piaf on the stereo, pour a glass of wine, and whip of one of these dinners worthy of a fancy bistro--but with less fat and fewer calories. (And this meal plan comes just in time for Bastille Day tomorrow!) <BR> <BR> <link>www.dailyspark.com/blog.asp?post=ooh<BR>_la_la_7_nights_of_fit_french_food </link> Wed, 24 Oct 2012 09:47:28 EST 10.24.12: Less Work, More Living http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50529288 Good morning team. Millions of Americans have lost control over the basic rhythm of their daily lives. They work too much, eat too quickly, socialize too little, drive and sit in traffic for too many hours, don't get enough sleep, and feel harried too much of the time. It's a way of life that undermines basic sources of wealth and well-being -- such as strong family and community ties, a deep sense of meaning, and physical health. Earn less, spend less, emit and degrade less. That's the formu... Wed, 24 Oct 2012 09:41:41 EST 10 Stories About Fighting Anti-Gay Violence, With http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50528741 10 Stories About Fighting Anti-Gay Violence, With Mixed Results <BR> <BR> The Chick Fil-A Vandal <BR> In August of this year, gay artist Manny Castro painted the words "Tastes Like Hate" on the side of a Torrance, California Chick-fil-A restaurant. <BR> <BR> He did so in protest of anti-gay donations and comments made by the restaurant's president Dan Cathy. Castro avoided criminal charges by offering to pay the $700 in re-painting costs. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>www.gay.net/hot-topics/news... Wed, 24 Oct 2012 09:11:59 EST 10.24.12: Team Member Spotlight is on BONNIEMARGAY http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50528502 Meet BONNIEMARGAY, <BR> <BR> You have to go to her page and check out her wedding picture. Absolutely beautiful. The spotlight is shining brightly on you and your partner today Bonnie. <BR> <BR> ****************** <BR> <BR> Revolutionary Succulence <BR> <BR> I'm a creative spirit, I'm here to help! <BR> <BR> Profile <BR> <BR> Member Since: 8/31/2011 <BR> <BR> SparkPoints: 41,748 <BR> <BR> Fitness Minutes: 36,780 <BR> <BR> BLOGS <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo<BR>... Wed, 24 Oct 2012 08:54:48 EST LGBT History: Don Lemon: News Anchor http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50527650 b. March 1, 1966 <BR> <BR> “If I had seen more people like me who are out and proud, it wouldn’t have taken me 45 years to say it.” <BR> <BR> Don Lemon is a primetime national news anchor. He received an Edward R. Murrow award, one of the most prestigious honors for broadcast journalists. <BR> <BR> Lemon was raised in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, by a single mother. He attended Brooklyn College and earned a degree in broadcast journalism. While in college, he secured his first job as a news ass... Wed, 24 Oct 2012 08:00:20 EST What Would You Do? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50515620 What Would You Do if Your Girl Wanted to be Spider-Man, or Your Boy a Princess for Halloween? - VIDEO <BR> <BR> Read more: http://www.towleroad.com/2012/10/wwydhallo<BR>ween.html#ixzz2A8VvNUNH <link>www.towleroad.com/2012/10/wwydhallow<BR>een.html </link> <BR> <BR> I loved the young couple's reaction and support. Kinda frustrating to see folks still have this "lets nip it in the bud right now" mentality. Tue, 23 Oct 2012 11:28:52 EST Do You Have Dating Deal Breakers? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=17939x940x50515080 Reason number 1, there has to be chemistry; however, if the person is rude towards others, that's a real turn off. Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:50:03 EST Cook Once, Eat Twice Meals http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13670x940x50515005 Super Meals for Big Batch Cooking <BR> <BR> By: Samantha Donohue <BR> <BR> Cooking in batches is one of the best kept secrets for saving time and money, while promoting good health at the same time. With three school age kids, time is a rare commodity. Instead of turning to processed and packaged foods, I take advantage of the days I can cook and select healthy recipes that I can easily double or triple the batch. We enjoy these meals the next night as leftovers or we take them to work or ... Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:45:43 EST What is Your Birthday & Anniversary Date? http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50514917 We would like to help celebrate your big day. Please reply to this thread with just the month and day of your birth date and if you are coupled, please provide your anniversary day. <BR> <BR> <em>437</em> <em>129</em> <em>410</em> <em>67</em> <em>408</em> <em>383</em> Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:40:14 EST 10.23 Team Member Spotlight is on DOLPHINSINGER72 http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50514810 Meet Linda, <BR> <BR> A huge animal lover and is currently going through a career change and getting on track in learning how to lead a healthier life. So far, she's lost 32 whopping pounds! <em>243</em> <BR> <BR> ********************** <BR> <BR> The Manatee to Dolphin Transformation <BR> <BR> Hello, my name is Linda. I am a 39 year old returning full time student. I am going to college to become a Registered Veterinary Technician. I absolutely adore animals, especially dogs. I have t... Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:32:47 EST 10.23.12: What the Wedding Industry Needs to Know http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50514644 Good morning team. Hey, it's one more day closer to Friday, right? For those of you who have committed yourselves as life partners, how did you celebrate? Civil Union, actual Marriage, had a few friends and family over to celebrate your special day or do you think it's not important? <BR> <BR> What the Wedding Industry Needs to Know About Gay Weddings <BR> <BR> by Bernadette Coveney Smith <BR> Gay wedding planner, educator and expert <BR> <BR> When I first started my company, which special... Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:21:26 EST LGBT History: Arthur Laurents: Playwright t/Direct http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50514504 b. July 14, 1917 <BR> <BR> d. May 5, 2011 <BR> <BR> “Entertainment is dessert. It needs to be balanced by the main course: theater of substance.” <BR> <BR> Arthur Laurents was a Tony Award-winning playwright, director and screenwriter. He wrote the scripts for “West Side Story,” “Gypsy” and “La Cage Aux Folles." <BR> <BR> Born Arthur Levine, Laurents grew up in Brooklyn, New York. Because of anti-Semitism, he changed his last name to the less Jewish-sounding Laurents. <BR> <BR> After gra... Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:10:47 EST Today is PHILOSOP ER_GRL's Birthday http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50505043 Let's sneak some birthday goodies her way. <BR> <BR> <BR> <link>www.sparkpeople.com/mypage.asp?ID=PH<BR>ILOSOPHER_GRL </link> <BR> <BR> <em>383</em> <em>383</em> <em>383</em> <em>383</em> <em>383</em> <em>383</em> Mon, 22 Oct 2012 18:37:14 EST A Covert Kiss http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50501056 Touching / sad / powerful: <BR> "An Illicit Photobooth Kiss From 1953" <BR> <BR> <link>www.buzzfeed.com/julianbrand/the-195<BR>3-illegal-kiss-6eof </link> Mon, 22 Oct 2012 13:24:10 EST 10.22.12: Team Member Spotlight =SAMBIDEXTROUS http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=-1x940x50496344 Meet Sambidextrous, <BR> <BR> Like a lot of us, we take laugh too seriously sometimes. It's good to see that this member has found a way not to. Check out this member's spark page as there is a really cool picture of a tattoo she got after her bff of 23 years finished her last chemo treatment. Now that's a true friend... <BR> <BR> *************************** <BR> <BR> Argue Your Limitations <BR> <BR> I used to take life waaayyy too seriously. And in the process, began my weight gain. <BR>... Mon, 22 Oct 2012 08:38:31 EST LGBT History Month: Christine Jorgensen: Transgend http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=13671x940x50495644 Transgender Pioneer <BR> <BR> b. May 30, 1926 <BR> <BR> d. May 3, 1989 <BR> <BR> “Nature made a mistake, which I have had corrected.” <BR> <BR> Christine Jorgensen was the first nationally known transgender American. She used her fame to speak out on behalf of transgender people. <BR> <BR> Born George Jorgensen Jr. and raised in the Bronx, she described herself as a “frail, tow-headed, introverted little boy who ran from fistfights and rough-and-tumble games.” In 1945, after graduating h... Mon, 22 Oct 2012 07:55:16 EST 10.22.12 - Lesbian Doctor President of CMA http://www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/team_messageboard_thread.asp?board=0x940x50493890 Anna Reid, MD, the first openly gay person to head the Canadian Medical Association, says her sexual orientation has never stood in her way. <BR> <BR> Read the entire article: <BR> <link>www.advocate.com/health/health-news/<BR>2012/08/26/lesbian-doctor-new-canadian<BR>-medical-association-president </link> <BR> <BR> GLBTQ people are associated with some increased physical and emotional health risks that not all doctors are aware of. So I think it is fantastic to have some GLBTQ folks ... Mon, 22 Oct 2012 02:05:10 EST