A friend recently had a baby, she has long been obese, actually lost some weight during the first 2 trimesters, and ended up only gaining 4 pounds total by the end of the pregnancy. She had good prenatal care and was assured by her doctor that she was losing/maintaining at a good pace, and that it was ok due to how overweight she is.
Long story short, have a conversation with your doctor and see what they recommend, and if they think it's safe for you to lose - HOW to safely lose.
Do something everyday that your future self will thank you for.
| current weight: 179.8