I think the OP needs to clarify, as several things make no sense as written!
"my MIL has mental problems, she gets very stressed and even banned the kids from going in their house. the last time we went over our 5 year old ended up locked in their bathroom "
If the kids are banned from the house, how is one locked in the bathroom? And if you are leery of the MIL, why was the 5 year old unsupervised?
"our beautiful lil girl ended up messing herself coz she was too scared to go to the toilet, even at home. it took months to get her clean again." What? Months to clean her up after a mess?
Things don't add up...
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7/8/14 10:49 A
my in laws havent really bothered with us or our kids, the kids are 5, 4 and 3. my MIL has mental problems, she gets very stressed and even banned the kids from going in their house. the last time we went over our 5 year old ended up locked in their bathroom and to this day she is adamant that my MIL locked her in( you can lock and unlock their doors from outside). our beautiful lil girl ended up messing herself coz she was too scared to go to the toilet, even at home. it took months to get her clean again. Now my other half is asking if we can go and see them again. Im torn, my in laws are always very cuddly with my nieces but our kids dont get that. Do i try again for my other half? What would you do?
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