When my DD tried this I told her that if she kept yelling I would take her phone, she kept yelling and I kept taking. The more she yelled the more I took. I took her phone, her books (avid reader), her ability to hang out with friends then I moved onto clothes. I told her I would take everything out of her room except 5 prs of jeans and 5 tshirts (this is where she stopped yelling). Her add'l punishment for disrespect was to clean her own bathroom and do her own laundry since she did not appreciate all I did for her.
I kept her stuff for WEEKS until she apologized and meant it. After that she had to keep washing her own clothes and cleaning her own bathroom and I checked it. If it wasn't done I took her phone and her books. It worked because her attitude did a complete turnaround. It was HARD to stick to my guns but she has never yelled at me again. She has gotten mad yes, rolled her eyes yes but she has never yelled at me again.
She is away at college now and I am still enforcing my rules. No job = no car. I drove 5 hrs to pick up her car because she did not get a job (or try).
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