He is an adult, I presume? Your job, as the primary cook, is to provide balanced, healthy nutrition for the both of you. HIS job, however, is to eat healthy on his own and provide the fuel he needs. He doesn't need you do take care of him; he needs to take care of himself! You need to tell him your concerns, and tell him that you'll help him do what needs to be done, but just as we can't make the people we love lose weight, we can't stop them from doing so, either.
Writer, mother, wife, and breadwinner. I love to run, but running doesn't love me, so I'm switching to my low-impact bike.
I'm not pregnant, just fat: My blog. fatnotpregnant.blogspot.com/
| current weight: 190.6