This is a vent.
I am 27 years old. In a stable relationship for 3.5 years. I own a house, I have a good job.. granted I JUST switched and have only been here for 3weeks now haha, but still. A good job. I own a car. My student loans are paid off. I'm a smart person. And I helped raise my sister when I was 16, because my mother had suddenly become a single mother with a newborn.
NO ONE is supportive. They tell me that I'm not prepared, not ready, can't handle this. And that they are saying this out of love and telling me that I'm not mentally prepared and all I can think of is cuddling a cute baby, and I'm not considering the ways my life will change. I KNOW my life will change. I have seen it first hand as a 16 year old, how my mother's life changed. And how mine changed by helping to raise it. I'm not going into this completely blind.
I just need some support, you know? Someone to congratulate me, want to talk baby with me, not shrug everything off as "morning sickness.. what did you expect? Butterflies?"
AGH. End rant. Just looking for some supportive friends to help me out through my first pregnancy.
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