WOW, this was totally unexpected and I bet you were livid and sooo shocked when you found out... nothing like stabbing in the back when they lie to your face about it esp. your own..
I am soo sorry you had to find out what he was doing...
I will pray for wisdom and understanding that will hit your son and open his eyes, unfortunately, he seems this wench is very important and has a huge hook in him "which he think is love"
He will learn this lesson only a few years too late, as I did with my EX as well....it takes maturity and it takes something in his life to break it..which can happen.
It took 15 yrs for me and my EX and my family kept telling me the same stuff...but ya know, It wasn't until I was ready in my own time that I was sick of his *blank* that I was ready to get out.. then my family was there for me...
Now, I am so much better off now than what I was. I finally married someone whom everyone loves .. my family and friends come over all the time now and everyone is content...it does happen, but hopefully not in years like mine...
huge hugs to you and so sorry to hear this.
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