I like that comment: "In reality, marriage is a process... I have to decide if this is worst part and if I don't lose my own sense of self, it will be okay."
Your husband loves his son, no doubt. My husband was a rebellious teenager, the same as your husband's son. His mother never stood for it. In the end, he is grateful for his mother keeping her foot down. Keep stating your standards, keep your foot down. Be patient. You'll see in the end, this can't end well, we all know it. You'll be grateful you stood your ground.
1/1/2013- 95 pounds to lose... wow
9/24/13- 41 pounds to go! Halfway there!
| Pounds lost: 47.0