Okay so I've been up and down with my weight since I was a teen. My first time I was like 17 and dropped 20 lbs. The second time I was 22 and dropped 38 lbs and now this is my third time dropping 35 lbs but this time I'm planning on how to keep it off. I'm getting married next year, I've been with my fiance for 6 years. We have talked about having children but at the same time we aren't sure if its right for us or not. If the time comes we will see how the first one goes. But if I really work hard at eating healthy and exercising, then I get pregnant, I feel like that will ruin my accomplishments and starting over to lose weight after the baby would be hard. I read somewhere that it usually takes a year to get your pre-pregnancy body back. I have low self esteem and confidence I think thats why I'm thinking about this.
I would like to know your opinions on this. Maybe I shouldn't get pregnant just take care of myself and do whatever I want in life OR get pregnant, be patient with the weightloss and enjoy the time with my newborn baby.
| current weight: 125.8