There are always going to be people who do more, spend more, party more....
Quit comparing yourself - and your events - to others.
You need to take care of you.
If this friends is causing you so much stress, step away. She really doesn't act like my close friends act, that's for sure!
“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.”
~ Randy Pausch
"There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results."
~ Art Turock
"We have a saying in Tibet: If a problem can be solved, there is no use worrying about it. If it can't be solved, worrying will do no good."
~ 7 Years in Tibet