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1/28/10 11:57 A

That is not a bad idea. She isn't in my line, but I am pretty sure I can find something for her to do so that she isn't feeling unnoticed. Thank you for the advice! I am a little less worried now that you have given me that great idea!

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1/28/10 11:45 A

IDSWEETHEART79

a word of advice for you hun , I'm dealing with someone like that too ... and instead of trying to keep them out of the spotlight i'm throwing them right in it so that there's no problems but the attention hogging is controlled! She is one of my bridesmaids, and is in charge of making sure everyone who can dances as well as initiating conversations and going round and socializing with neone not already chatting ... she's also gonna announce the end of the reception when we leave ... she's very happy to have all these social responsibilities.

enough responsibility for tasks that they can handle keeps neone in line!

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1/28/10 11:34 A

My biggest fear is his sister trying to be the center of attention. She is a drama queen and does anything she can to be in the spotlight. I just don't want her ruining my day because she isn't getting enough attention.

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1/26/10 6:59 P

I'm going to have to agree with the losing someone.

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1/25/10 5:11 P

Losing someone the day before or day of

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1/25/10 4:54 P

that no one will have fun at the wedding and that my parents will act like jerks and not let themselves be in a good mood and i also fear getting in a fight the day before the wedding so that i walk down to my groom pissed off!

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1/25/10 5:58 A

omg biggest fear i dunno but they're allll related

1.) coughing at the altar or other important moments i'm a bad smoker and trying to cut down follow by quit but my coughs are deep racking coughs that soemtimes make me vomit cause of how hard i coughso I MUST QUIT SMOKING! i fear i wont ....

2.) not having the stamina to keep up with my big day!

3.) Having a years worth of diet and fitness go to waste ..


4.) oh yeah and I'm terrified of the inlaws since i think they hate me and i KNOW they do not approve .... and my pervie socially in apt older brother and his gf who hates him, they argue over everything anywhere anytime even at x mas dinner ..... sigh ...

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1/25/10 2:02 A

I am worried that i won't meet my goal and that i will have flabby extra skin for the honeymoon

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1/24/10 9:30 P

oh boy-i'm half worried about the rain (since it's an outdoor ceremony), but mainly worried I'm going to look horrible on the day and that some estranged family members will show up and cause a scene!

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1/24/10 7:22 P

Relatives behaving badly!

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1/19/10 3:59 P

My biggest fears for my wedding are not losing enough weight in time and also looking horrid in the photos because of the weight i have lost.

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1/6/10 11:21 A

rain.... definitely rain =/

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1/6/10 6:18 A

I guess if anything that it rains, since we have opted to not hire a marquee for our outdoor reception. But its supposed to be good luck right? :)

We decided that what will be will be and the day will never be perfect if we nit-pick on the details or build it up to be the wedding of the century. It should be about 'us' and sharing the day with friends & family...which we will do regardless of rain or other details not going to plan. And if it rains, we will deal with it accordingly.

It will be memorable regardless and we are just going to enjoy it as it comes, rather than getting stressed over little things or having huge expectations.

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11/29/09 4:28 A

That since his family hates me they will ruin it somehow. At least his ex-wife is now allowing his son to be there. That is a relief.

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11/24/09 10:57 P

That I will faint while i'm being married or that I wont be able to stop crying and mess up my make up

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11/24/09 8:39 A

That I will regret not hiring a videographer.

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11/18/09 6:43 P

that we won't get everything done. the food in particular. we are doing it ourselves. yikes!

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11/9/09 4:07 P

that my maid of honor won't come through if and when I really need her to

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11/8/09 8:29 P

My biggest fear is that the pictures taken on that day might get lost or damaged or it will rain on my day.

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11/8/09 1:14 P

The weather is my biggest wedding fear! We have a great location and are crossing our fingers that the weather behaves and we can get married on the beach like we're planning for instead of in the ballrom that overlooks the beach.

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11/8/09 1:14 A

THATS FUNNY ! SEVENKITTY. BUT I BET IT WAS A BEAUTFUL WEDDING.

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11/7/09 5:48 P

I had a evening candle lit wedding and we had candles EVERYWHERE so I was so scared that we were going to burn the place down that I had someone designated as "the candle spotter" to keep an eye on things...lol

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11/6/09 2:05 P

not having enough time to get everything done

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9/21/09 3:22 P

Only one thing is my biggest fear and that is my paternal grandmother. She nit picks about everything. I should wear my hair up not down. I can't wear a white dress as I've had children out of wedlock and not with my husband-to-be. I have too many bridesmaids. My cousins should be in my wedding (I have 29 cousins!!! How am I supposed to find a job for everyone?). "Halloween? Really you're going to have a Halloween themed wedding?!?!" AGH!!! I've decided my grandmother is NOT invited LOL.

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9/17/09 2:30 P

1. Affording everything by next month.
2. My dress coming back all jacked up from getting altered.
3. My luck, something going wrong during the ceremony.

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9/17/09 8:47 A

my location has this beautiful staircase....think Beauty and the Beast...it has a middle staircase that divides into 2 separate ones. We want the ceremony on the landing (where the separate) so my biggest fear is tripping and falling down the stairs....geez that would just suck!

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9/9/09 5:42 P

I am having an outdoor wedding, I would say one of my fears is that I will spend all day getting ready and look really gorgeous and then get mud all over my white dress or get rained on. haha

Or trip. That would be pretty bad too.

=)

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9/9/09 5:13 P

TO GET TO MY GOAL SIZE AND THEN GAIN WIEGHT AGIAN... OR HAVING A CHILD AND NOT BEING ABLE TO GET BACK DOWN.... OH AND DYING

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9/9/09 2:58 P

My fear was that the planner wouldn't get everything done...she didn't but I just decided that it wasn't going to bother me...and no one else really knew how it was supposed to be anyway!

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9/9/09 1:58 P

My biggest fear for my wedding day is that I will forget to do something important like setting up something or forget something at my house!!!

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