It sounds like your cousin either has not yet created her SparkPage or she has it created but set to be offline or to only allow her friends to see it. If it is the latter, she can go to your SparkPage and add you as a friend. Then you should be able to see her Page and add her in return. If she has her Page set to be offline, no one can see her Page (nor a link to it) unless she changes that setting.
She can change her Page privacy settings if she wants to by putting her SparkPage in edit mode and then checking/unchecking the appropriate boxes in the upper right area of the Page.
Let me know if you need additional information....or have your cousin stop by if she has questions.
I hope this helps!
p.s. It's great that you have been spreading the Spark on FB and inspired your cousin to join.
I posted different articles on FB (via SparkPeople) My cousin asked if it was a game. I told her no and that it was a free site that she can track her nutrition and exercise and get support on challenges she faces. She created an account but I can't friend her. Other peoples spark page come up with a hyperlink to their page. Her's does not. So I can't friend her. Even in a search I can't find her. She posted to my site but I can't post to hers. Suggestions for her? Me?
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