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7/29/15 4:20 P

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Phone was supposed to be on today. I called and no answer.

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7/28/15 8:14 P

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Paper work must get done ASAP.

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7/27/15 9:17 P

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I will shut my mouth about Mom. I guess she complained to the workers that she had a migraine, didn't want to eat for a few days, complained to Sharon about various things hurting, didn't want to get out of bed this morning, but did. Therapy came this morning for the first time. Sharon made her go to lunch and said she ate well. Then they sat on the balcony and Mom said that it was really nice out there and she should have done it sooner.

Barb complains about who's going to clean the house, etc, I'm glad I'm not up there.

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7/26/15 7:12 P

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no news is good news

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7/25/15 3:53 P

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I would love to pick up the phone and call Mom. I miss her

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7/24/15 4:50 P

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Kayla posted a picture of Mom and Diamond. It's the best I've seen her look in a long time.

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7/23/15 10:23 P

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Mom is in American House officially. She walked in the door, grabbed Diamond and cried. Then she realized that her furniture was there.

Still no phone. I went round and round with them and got a date of Jul 31. Sharon called and got Jul 29 - at least she got 2 days earlier.

I want to call and see how Mom is doing, but without a phone, I can't.

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7/22/15 3:05 P

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Sharon and the kids worked very hard yesterday on setting up the apartment. Wish I could have helped more.

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7/21/15 7:37 P

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I believe that I have AT & T straightened out. They will call me back. The cable has been cancelled; I just have to get someone to take the equipment to a UPS store for them to box and send to Comcast. Heartland has the new address to set up therapy for up to 4 weeks. Some of Mom's stuff is packed and in the living room. It seems to be a long, slow process.

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7/20/15 4:41 P

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I am on hold with AT&T TRYING TO GET THE PHONE SERVICE TRANSFERRED. SHE CAN'T FIND THE ADDRESS AND IS CALLING AMERICAN HOUSE. YIKES. THEN I GET TO CALL THE CABLE COMPANY..

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7/19/15 3:12 P

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I had to direct Tim on where to find the VA and Diamond's paperwork. I hope he can find it.

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7/18/15 7:32 P

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Forgot to write yesterday.

Today I forgot I was supposed to fax papers to Sharon for American House. Thank goodness she texted and reminded me. I tried to find a Fed Ex on University but mapquest gave me weird directions. Called the store who gave me even vaguer directions. I stopped at Staples and did it. It took forever. But it's done.

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7/16/15 6:25 P

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I talked to Mom today. The lady in the bed next to her had visitors and they were really loud. Mom said something a couple times but they obviously weren't paying attention to her.

I was telling Mom about Helena and she laughed. She did sound more herself today, although it's usually not like her to complain about others loud enough for them to hear.

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7/15/15 4:51 P

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Mom will be released July 23. So there will be so many days at $15 and 3 days at $125. Sharon got her a place at American House so she won't even have to go back to the house. We both think it would be too hard for her. Sharon and Gary will round up some people this weekend to start moving things. This seems to work out good that it happened this way.

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7/14/15 6:48 P

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Sharon went down to therapy with mom today and said she was doing good. Her eating is another story. Sharon will be calling me back as the social worker came in when we were talking.

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7/13/15 4:54 P

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Shannon called and left a message that Heartland needed mom's dl and health cards. I called back and she was still with her. They said they went to bingo and when they came back, there were notes all over the place.

When I called admitting, the person said she had someone helping her this morning who was new and didn't know that they already had the information. I then asked how long she would be there. She said it depended on how long the insurance would pay and how therapy went. She transferred me to therapy who had me talk to two different people. The second said that she didn't know that person and was I sure that she was there? They are supposed to have someone call me tomorrow.

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7/12/15 8:36 A

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I finally talked to Mom about 7:30 pm when Sarah was here. She was happy that she got to talk to all of us. She was unclear as to where I was and what time of day it was. I told her to have a good night and she commented about it still being daytime because the sun was still out.

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7/11/15 4:06 P

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back to tracking her down

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7/10/15 5:07 P

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No one has called, including me

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7/9/15 11:01 P

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Harry upset Mom today by telling her that he missed his hearing for bankruptcy and has to start over. She gave herself such a bad headache that she got sent down for another cat scan.

The meeting went okay. Mom will be going to Heartland tomorrow. We're not sure for how long, but we do know that she will go to American House afterwards.

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7/7/15 9:59 A

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Okay, I've been a slacker. I haven't looked at the paperwork or called or anything.

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7/6/15 10:17 P

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19 JINUTES OF CALL WILL GET ME SOME ANSWERS

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7/5/15 9:15 P

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gotta make phone calls, plans, etc. tomorrow

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7/4/15 3:19 P

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I attempted to talk to the nurse. She handed the phone to mom. Mom says she'll be getting out on the 17th and wondered who would take her home. I said I would. I heard Barb in the background saying that I must need to sign papers or something.

So,,,I still don't know what doctors are saying. Harry says he can tell she's getting stronger. I will have to figure out when I am coming up and what all needs to be done.

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7/3/15 12:16 P

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I will supposedly get a break today. Hoping to get online and/or call until I get answers.

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7/2/15 7:02 A

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She probably thinks I forgot about her

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7/1/15 8:04 A

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I am determined today to reach someone.

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6/30/15 9:33 P

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every number I call is wrong

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6/29/15 4:30 P

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I will find the #

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6/28/15 8:45 P

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been o buy with Helena - will call tomorrow

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6/27/15 10:04 A

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must call

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6/26/15 3:58 P

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I got confirmation that she'll be in the hospital for 2 weeks. Then we will see where she goes from there.

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6/25/15 9:32 P

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mom was moved to a different room yesterday and was told she would go back to the nursing home today. Today, they decided to keep her for another two weeks because she's too weak. They want her to have more intensive OT and PT.

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6/24/15 7:00 A

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I never did talk to a nurse. I will try again today.

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6/23/15 9:51 P

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She complained all day of a headache She did eat a little. There was a little bleeding but the doctor wasn't worried. They told Harry that the headache was to be expected. She needs to rest and let the meds work

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Mom was in good spirits before the surgery, which went well. Barbara didn't come. Afterwards, she looked rough, but that was to be expected.

Edited by: PATTYKLAVER at: 6/23/2015 (21:53)
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6/21/15 7:23 P

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I brought the computer to the rehabilitation center to show mom pictures and videos. She enjoyed them.

She seems content and in a good mood. She talks a bit with her roommate and that sure helps.

Edited by: PATTYKLAVER at: 6/21/2015 (19:25)
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6/20/15 4:48 P

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Mom's in good spirits. She went to play bingo with Sandy and Brooke. She told Sharon that she is ready to go to American House.

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6/19/15 6:00 A

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I will get to see her tonight.

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today when I tried to call, it was busy. Will have to try again.

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Mom has it in her head that I am there already I tried calling every day and either there was no answer or she was headed somewhere.

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pcalled and she was headed to therapy

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Mom sounded good but the doctor was in the room with her. The operation is scheduled for 11 am Monday and we have to be there 2 hours early. It will be a day operation unless something unexpected happens.

Sharon is finding out if we can bring her back to Heartland or if we can take her to American House.

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I am starting to find out things after the fact. Not sure what's going on.

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sherry took some time for herself so I didn't get a chance to call.

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Sharon had been trying to get the social worker to get Mom transferred since 9 am. She called again at 2:30. The social worker called me when I was in Kroger's wanting to give me information on a rehab center Mom can go to. I told her to call Sharon. The nurse told Sharon before the social worker called that Mom is being transferred to Heartland.

I talked to Mom. She sounded good. I think this is the best thing for her.

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I tried to call the hospital and got no answer. no one has called me.

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The neurologist definitely wants to operate. He says it's simple. But she'd have to be off blood thinners for 10-14 days. So he has to talk to her heart doctor. There's a risk of a stroke.

I have a feeling of resignment; not one I'm liking.

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Dr. Barnett called to say Mom has a small blood clot on her brain. Sharon is taking her back to the hospital where she had it done. He said it was extremely serious but it needed to be looked at.

When I called Harry, he told me that Barb took Mom to a bank and got a cash advance on her credit card. She also said that she had scheduled an appointment for Mom for Monday but lost the paperwork.

I called the credit card and cancelled it. A new one will be sent out.

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Mom thought I had her hedge trimmer. I haven't see it since last year. She goes tomorrow for her cat scan.

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I haven't talked to her since the other night. The siblings haven't called either, except Sharon. ???

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I did talk to her. She's so confused as to where I am and if I am coming back. It sounded as if she was crying when I got off the phone with her,.

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will keep trying today to talk to her

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Sunday, Harry went down to Mom’s to find the house filled with smoke. She said she tried to cook something; she told Harry in the oven and Sharon in the microwave.
Monday, Barb decided that Diamond needed to be groomed. They borrowed a cage from Gail and drove to someone that does it. They must not have had an appointment because they waited a long time. By that time, the cat was a nervous wreck and the lady said she couldn’t do it because she was afraid to get bitten.
Tuesday, Sharon and Barb were to take Mom to the doctor. Barb cancelled because she was “too upset from the day before”. Sharon took Mom herself. The receptionist told them that Mom was listed as a patient of Dr. Ptsalis. She wanted Sharon to call. After all the trouble I had last year, Sharon made them call.
Dr. Barnett told them that he doesn’t say that people should go into assisted living. He took Mom off of cumidin and put her on aspirin at night. He was concerned about her falling twice in two months. He said she may bleed out. She goes for a cat scan next Tuesday. He wants to see if something is going on because of the falling (or is causing the falling.)
I tried for three days to call Mom and she hasn’t answered the phone. Sharon thought she and Barb were going to the casino today. But she didn’t ask Sharon or Harry for money. I suspect more was taken out of Comerica. I have to get back up there and close that account out.


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Mom caught some food fire on Sunday. On Monday, she decided to take the cat in to get her groomed and that didn't happen. Tuesday, she went to the doctor. He wants her to get a cat scan.

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I didn't talk to Mom yesterday. Today is her doctor appointment and I am anxious to see how it goes.

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I just talked to Mom. She asked if I was home. I told her I had to see what Sherry's schedule is. Then she asked a couple more times if I was home. But she sounded good.

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Mom went to the casino yesterday with Barb but I don't know how it went. My phone blew up when Sandy was there today - something about the pills being mixed up. When I called the second time, she said that she thinks it was straightened out.

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Harry called after I talked to Mom. He's worried about Barb taking things from the house.

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called mom to check on her. She was really confused as to where I was and where I would be living. Barb is over tonight and they will be going to the casino. No one asked for money. Harry thinks they went back to the bank.

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I stopped at Mom's and she was at the casino on Monday. I talked to her yesterday when Sharon was there. We told her I will be back next week. She asked if I was coming over later. She said I can't leave because she depends on me too much.

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I found out that Mom had an accident in church. She still forgets to put the pads on.

Harry called me yesterday afternoon and told me that Barb took mom to Comerica to take out money. When I called Mom, she gave me a lot of reasons and wouldn't say how much she took out. She said it was her rainy day money, it was to pay her taxes, etc. She then came out and told me that she could pay her bills. I know it's all things Barb told her. It bothered me and made me want to give up at the same time.

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Mom didn't look too great but she made it to church. She enjoyed herself.

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Mom went to the casino with Barb on Thursday. I stayed a few minutes and washed up the kitchen. I stopped by yesterday to bring the prescriptions. They were outside in the sun. I did vacuum, get some weeds up, etc. Barb dyed Mom's hair for her.

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Mom had her life alert unplugged two days in a row. Today it was plugged in. She also unplugged her phone one day. She didn't remember how to make pepperoni roles when Sharon was over there. I was talking to her yesterday and she didn't seem to be comprehending what I was saying.
Today she told me she was afraid to be there at night. But she doesn't want to move.

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I did talk to Sharon. I will try to make an appointment with Dr. Barnett to see if he will tell mom that she can't live alone.

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Guilty - haven't called her.

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I didn't call yesterday. I know she said something to Sharon that she thought I went somewhere.

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Mom will probably sleep until noon, so I will have to call after that.

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Sharon, Barb and Mom went to the casino yesterday and spent the night.

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I didn't go over yesterday or today. The girls are sick and I've been busy taking care of them and doing laundry. Mom is still picking at her head and making it worse. A lot of hair has been pulled out. I will call Dr. Barnett and see if we can talk to him, then make an appointment for Mom to go in.

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I got to Mom's yesterday and she was still out with Sharon. I haven't talked to either one of them to see what's up.

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I'm headed over

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Mom's been picking at her head. It looks like she's pulled her hair out. She asked me where her keys for the garage were tonight. (There are none. Harry had to help her find the remote opener.) She told Sharon that she's not moving; that she's the boss of herself. Gary, Mike, Joe and I all said at first that it was something Barb told her.

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I haven't talked to her.

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Must stop at pharmacy and check on her.

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When I talked to Mom yesterday and today, she was very clear headed.. She's wanting to move and get the ball rolling. Now to find out about Barb

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Mom called after 10 last night and didn't leave a message. Gotta call right now.

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Mom, Sharon and I went to lunch at American House on 13 Mile and Kelly. Mom seemed to really enjoy herself and I've got my hopes up that she doesn't give us a hard time about moving in. We all would feel better (well, who knows about Barb?).

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Mom did go to Michael's. It's good that she got out. But she just didn't look good to me and she's not getting around very well.

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I need to go over. I am hoping she's going to Michael's.

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I haven't seen Mom in a couple days. i called yesterday: Harry had just been down there and she couldn't remember who was there. Sharon mentioned that when they went shopping on Tuesday, they saw a little baby and Mom said that it had been too long since there was a baby in the family.

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I didn't get much of a chance again yesterday to stay very long. Babysitting and the time mom gets up coincide most of the time. At least I knew Kayla was there talking to her when I left.

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She enjoyed shopping. Sharon was putting up a new mini blind in the kitchen when I got there yesterday. The old bathroom carpet was out and she had blue rugs in. Her eye is looking better.

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