Are you an adult? If so, then your mother really shouldn't have any say regarding whether you see a doctor or not.
There seems to be some pretty serious boundary issues going on in your life. Why wouldn't your mother want you to be healthy? Seriously. Does she have a reason why she wouldn't want you to be healthy? (For the record, my mother doesn't want ME to be healthy. So the answer to that question is not always a simple one.)
As for your room, you have a couple of choices. You could try explaining to everyone that your room is your room. That's why it's called YOUR room. Their room is their room. That's where their stuff belongs. If their stuff doesn't fit in their room, then maybe they need to consider that they might have too much stuff. (Time for a yard sale!) OR if you are a minor, and your mother is setting requirements for your room, you can suggest giving up your room to someone else who would like the biggest room. Take a smaller one with less crap in it. See how THEY like it.
While it's best to consult a doctor before heading on the Spark People journey, there are things you can do to start making positive improvements in your life. Drink 8 glasses of water a day. Give up soda if you drink it. Start tracking everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) you consume during a day, to get an idea of where you are. Try getting a bit of exercise in. Nothing fancy. Try ten minutes. Make small changes. That's what pretty much everyone around here recommends.
Good luck to you. Be brave. You are obviously strong, because even though you're being told "no" by the people in your life, you are STILL here on SP! You can do this!
Edited by: LILLIPUTIANNA at: 3/19/2013 (19:32)
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