My Sweet, there is nothing like learning some patience. Unfortunately we can't start at the finish line - we have to take that first step (acknowledging and coming here is a good first step), and then the second step, and then third, and so on. There are no shortcuts, in spite of what some adverts may tell us. The person who succeeds is the person who takes it slowly - like the tortoise, as opposed to the hare. It is about making gradual changes, and accepting that there are times that we will fall down, but when that happens, we just have to learn to pick ourselves up again. The falling happens to us all - only some of us manage to pick ourselves back up - WE are the ones who get there!
I don't know what your past is, but try to NOT let it interfere with your future. (I know depression only too well, and the hurt that often goes hand-in-hand with it!) You DESERVE to have a healthy future - and you DESERVE to be so very proud of yourself when you get to where you want to be ............. heck, even BEFORE that :-)
Hang in there, and you WILL make it :-)
Edited by: SLIMMERKIWI at: 2/17/2013 (23:57)
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