Sometimes if the weight-loss is quite a bit, and/or very quick, it will leave a lot of loose skin. At times some of these people resort to having that excess removed surgically.
I strongly suggest that you DO NOT compare yourself to others. There is no 'normal' in that sense - everyone is different. It could also be that you are focusing on their good points, but focusing on your negative points. In other words, it may be more in your mind that in reality.
If you are concerned, I suggest that you talk with your Dr. It might be that therapy will help you through the emotional side, and your Dr will be able to refer you to one, but your Dr may also be able to give you qualified, constructive advice on the physical side.
I also have some loose skin, but it doesn't worry me. I kinda look on it as a 'badge of honour.' What I have done is to get a couple pair of the 'body control' garments - one is like a tube that goes from just below the bra to the top of the thigh. There are many other types out there as well. It smooths my abdominal area and helps improve the look of the clothes on me. It also enables me to properly fit into some clothes that are borderline too small. Is something like this appropriate for you?
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