Hi - I would suggest trying to focus on just one thing because anyone would be overwhelmed with everything you have listed.
Is your marriage in a place where it is beyond repair? My marriage also had some major struggles this year, but we both decided we were committed to fixing it and putting it back where it was and getting that right created a domino effect for other areas. So, if possible, maybe that would be the one place to start.
If that's not the place to start, then find the right place for you. And maybe finding a support group, marriage counseling, ect would help?
Just remember - your weight does not define you and is not the sole condition to define your happiness.
I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today? And whenever the answer has been no for too many days in a row, I k now I need to change something. ~ Steve Jobs
Everybody is a genius, but if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid. Albert Einstein
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