@Debra: I can imagine it's frustrating and that it may seem like that's how one is treated all the time but it isn't about "you", it's about the guy who is looking at the young attractive girl, this is HIS problem and has zero to do with you personally.
Next time you believe this to be true ask to talk to someone in-charge and let them know you noticed an error on an employees part, you may just find out that another had an appointment previously arranged or something to that effect.
You can only work on you like I did for myself and we are more than capable of making ourselves healthier looking and dress attractively. Mind set is key.
RE: looks of disgust
Oh yeah, when I was a lifetime member of the fat boys club women looked at me like I was a CREEPER if I would say Hi to them or look their way. I worked with a woman years ago who told my boss that I was creepy and she felt uncomfortable around me. I also use to get left out of the Friday after work bar scene by my colleagues (The same ones today)
It is not okay for an alcoholic to get drunk once in a while.
So do not tell a food addict it is okay to eat like sh*t once in a while