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2/2/16 9:34 P

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Hi, I am 54 and still haven't hit total menopause but I've been trying to eat better and have become a regular exerciser, enjoying it very much. I don't drink soda but rarely and then it's Sprite...maybe 6-8 oz once a month, if that much. I had lost 20 lbs previously ( I'm 5 ft tall) getting to 120 and I was pretty happy but about 3-4 months ago I put 10 lbs back on and despite watching calories and becoming an avid exerciser (at least for me) I can. not. lost. a single pound....a matter of fact after a particularly good day of eating good...I gained two more lbs!! It is somewhat annoying but I am feeling pretty good. I don't really have hotflashes (and I live in FL too ,lol) and I don't get depressed a lot although I do have my moments. I am using an all natural progesterone cream and using a company that has veggies and fruits in capsules (I don't know if I am allowed to mention the name) my only down side so far is that I can't seem to lose any weight. But i guess I am okay with it...but I won't stop trying and reading and of course exercising. I'd love to have a friend to go to the gym with...maybe some day. You all have been encouragement as I have read all your posts. Thank you



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1/22/16 11:36 P

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You know, I am really fed up with menopausal symptoms. Hot flashes, weight gain, sleepless nights, depression, irritability, mood fluctuations, emotions coming out of nowhere. or so it seems. I have been experiencing those things since 2008. I was on a very low dose of Premarin for almost a year when my sister was diagnosed with breast cancer. I stopped taking it. I tried so many OTC items in addition to home remedies to help alleviate symptoms all to no avail. I now receive acupuncture and have seen some results. I am making strides in making me better and healthier! So good to know that I am not alone in my journey and dealing with menopause.



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W will do this



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1/20/16 2:55 A

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Losing weight in menopause can be tricky but not impossible for sure. My aunt is 56 and in the last couple of years she gained a lot. She tried to eat healthier but that wasn't enough. She took Phentermine 37.5mg (that she bought online from allgenericmedsnow.com) for three months and managed to drop all that extra kg. She is very happy about the changes so she recommends it to all her peers.

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1/16/16 11:19 A

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THE SERVING SIZE IS 2 SOFTGELS AND IT SAYS 250MG. EACH SOFTGEL MUST BE 125MG. MAKE SURE ITS MAGNESIUM CITRATE.

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1/16/16 8:33 A

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How many milligrams is that, MRUTHIE? I have begun giving magnesium to one of my kids who suffers from chronic migraines -- it is supposed to help with that -- but never knew it could help you sleep. I usually don't have trouble falling asleep, but wake up often during the night.



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1/15/16 12:39 P

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Just make sure you get magnesium citrate, not just magnesium!

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Thanks MRUTHIE for the tip on sleeping. I will try that. You are the second person to recommend those soft gels. There must be something to that. emoticon

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1/15/16 11:18 A

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THANKS, I WILL KEEP AT IT.

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1/15/16 11:16 A

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I was having a hard time sleeping with menopause and then I started taking magnesium citrate. I take 2 softgels before bedtime and I really sleep well. I guess magnesium is one of those things that we are usually low on and we really need. I was taking all kinds of things before to help me sleep.

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MRuthie, I feel you but keep working it will fall off this I do know. Sometimes it can be slow or fast.



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1/14/16 7:50 P

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I AM 55 AND JUST RETIRED. I DO FIND IT ALOT HARDER TO LOSE WEIGHT AFTER MENOPAUSE. I HAVE BEEN WORKING OUT EVERY DAY AND HOPE TO GET BACK TO 140LB WHICH IS WHAT I WEIGHED AT 40 YRS. NOW I HAVE ALSO SHRUNK FROM 5'5" TO 5'4" SO THAT ALSO DOESN'T HELP WITH FAT IN THE WRONG PLACES!

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1/13/16 11:01 P

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Good for you for taking advantage of a health coach at your work! My office has a fitness center available so I make use of that for 30 minutes, 2-3 times a week. I, too live in the northeast, am short and didn't have an issue with weight until it slowly started creeping up when I hit my 40's. Now at mid 50 and post menopausal with some arthritis challenges, trying to change my lifestyle to get back to a reasonable weight is really, really tough! I also feel so alone on this journey - my spouse is not interested in improving their health and so far I can't find a friend or co-worker to be a regular exercise buddy. Being self-disciplined is hard, but I appreciate this website for all the features it offers! Best of luck to you on your journey!

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It does seem harder to lose during menopause. I used to be able to just keep an eye on what I eat and if I overindulged to the point that I started to gain, all I had to do was exercise a bit more and eat a bit less and all was well. Over the past couple of years however that hasn't worked. I'm 54 years old, 5 feet tall and weigh 135. 115-120 would be my ideal weight.

So I'm slowly accepting the reality that I must change my lifestyle. I've noticed that I've lost muscle so I'm going to have to be more diligent about doing muscle building exercises. I haven't yet gotten to the point where I've made it a priority or a habit.

Where I work, as part of our wellness program, we can meet with a health coach. We can meet as often as we like for any health issues. I chose weight loss. Together we have been trying to figure out what would work best for me. At one point I tried 6 small meals of 200 calories each. That actually was working but it was time consuming to plan those little meals.

Between Thanksgiving and Christmas I relaxed my goals but now I am once again focused and determined to make the necessary changes and be in control of my body and my life.

I have made a big change--for me. I love to eat and I love variety. But I've learned to love the fact that I can make a quick bowl of oatmeal each weekday morning. I put a bit of chia seeds, a pinch of powdered chaga, some pumpkin spice and sprinkle with a bit of brown sugar. Very tasty and filling. And low in fat and calories,

So now I'm working on snacks and lunches. I love the taste of weight watchers smart ones. I stock up on those. But I'm going to see if I can get used to having a slim fast shake for a few days.

Over the past few months I've been working on breaking the mindset that Friday night is splurge and treat night because I was undoing any progress I made during the week. Menopause is helping me with this. Alcohol brings on more hot flashes and if I have a couple of drinks the hot flashes bother me at night and I don't sleep well.

I have an appointment with my health coach at the end of the January. This is an especially challenging time of year in the Northeast because of the inclimate weather. The weather makes it more challenging to get out and walk.

I'm learning to accept myself while still determined to stay healthy and in shape.


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12/22/15 7:40 P

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I have found that drinking 8 glasses of water helps, plus lots of fruit. I don't do weight watchers because I am so much better at calculating fat grams and calories. The nutrition tracker on Sparkpeople helps!!! If you are stuck for ideas, you can use the meal plans that Sparkpeople has or just look up foods that you like on spark recipes. I have several favorites that I use all the time. One tip, I did learn from WW was to eat fruit or veggies anytime that I wanted a snack! Another tip is to avoid fast food!!! It is filled with sodium and that makes you retain water and it is bad for your heart!!! Keep it up, one meal at a time. Don't beat yourself up if you mess up, just eat better the next meal.

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12/17/15 9:46 A

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Hi CCPS61. I have had trouble losing weight for years. I am also 54 and have physical limitations so exercising is a challenge. I am losing weight slowly...15 lbs in 4 months. I reduced my calories to 1200 per day. I avoid processed foods, especially flour and sugar. How about other factors...are you under a lot of stress? One of my favorite de-stressers is yoga. Do you get 7 to 8 hours of sleep each night (this is now one of my goals)? I hope this helps...



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12/17/15 12:51 A

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Dear All. It's great to read your encouraging posts. I need help. I have been gaining weight weigh steadily when I should be losing it. I exercise, eat well. I am 54. what does one eat? What works? Can anyone recommend something. I am so sick of this. I can't bend over. I can't fit my clothes. My skin itches all the time. My dr. suggested Weight Watchers. I can't stand that food. HELP



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I just read many of these posts and can so relate to them! I have always been between 8 and 9 stone, all my adult life(am now 51) and this is the first time ever that over a period of 6 weeks i have cut out booze, reduced massively my intake of choc etc.....normally, even a year ago, this would have resulted in weight melting off me at a steady rate of 1lb a week. This time......NOTHING! not a single oz!!! it is hard for me to exercise as i have MS and fatigue but I have started to walk 30 mins, 3 times a week, and am cutting out processed sugar totally. I will let u know how it goes. Just felt soooo upset that my metabolism seems to have died!!! xxx

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9/3/15 7:15 A

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I have read your blogs and I thought I was the only one that gained the weight and now am having a hard time with it. About a year ago I put on 5 lbs. all at once and that was at a point when I was really trying hard to loose the weight. I gave up and have since decided that sloooooow is the only way. It has taken me two weeks to loose 1 pound. I eat right, I have been logging and I exercise. O well as long as I am not gaining it. I think I will watch the inches. Maybe that will help.

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Thanks for the post. I have begun to think the same thing.....o for the weights, if nothing else parts of me will look better. You said you have lost inches - does that include your middle? I have more than a muffin top- ( I look 7-9 months pregnant) I really want my middle to shrink down -



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I am 55 and I have never had any problems loosing weight until about 1 year ago. I can eat healthy all day, work out at the gym, hard, cardio and weights and I will wake up 2 lbs heavier.! Talking about frustration! Anyway, I have been on HRT on and off for the last couple of years and I was thin 2 years ago while on it but something happened 1 year ago…..I am currently on HRT and I'm desperate so, I started the Dukan Diet and it seems to be working. Look into the diet.
Don't loose hope. :-)

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Has anyone experience with HRT and menopause?

I am 48 and going through menopause.
Its been years of peri-menopause after a hyster in 1999.
Ive been on HRT for almost 5 years.
I cant lose weight! I can certainly put it on.
I went to a dietician 4 weeks ago. I stuck to the plan.
And Ive managed to put on 4kg!

It makes me wonder if HRT is the culprit because during that time, I added estrogen to the hrt. Is estrogen what makes the weight go on?
I am willing to stop it and just use progesterone if thats how it should be.
I just wish that someone would help me with understanding estrogen v progestrone and weight loss/gain.

Would I lose weight without hrt? I have a feeling this stuff is making me fat.



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8/10/15 11:00 P

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Yes, for sure. I have been on diet/exercise for over 3 months, and haven't seen any changes. I'm working out 6 days a week, intensely too and watching my calories very well. So frustrating. emoticon



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3/30/15 7:54 P

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You are doing better than me girlfriend, I just stay the same.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." Aristotle
"Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny." Tryon Edwards


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3/28/15 9:28 A

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I am 57 and in menopause and hypothyroid. It's been hard and I celebrate the one and two pound loss. I am determine I will meet my goal this year. Just keep plugging away.



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I also like beer. I have found a few non-alcoholic brands that taste like a crisp lager: Grolsch, Becks, Clausthaler. Clausthaler is a little sweeter. 500 mL of Grolsch have 90 calories and no sugar.

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emoticon We might be getting older but we are getting healthier.

Yay only 30 days til spring


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Thanks for these posts. I am 59 and also feel discouraged at times. I've managed to lose weight before, slowly and painfully, but have never been able to reach a maintenance level. As soon as I don't push myself anymore, the weight starts creeping back up.

It was an eye opener for me when we got our kitty - the one in my pic. She came to us as a rescue, an adult cat who had not been spayed. We took care of her surgery and almost immediately she started packing on weight. She however reached a set point at a fairly healthy weight - a little chubby but not a health risk. Anyway, discussing her with the vet I came to realize how important hormones are for regulating weight.

Long story short, menopause makes weight loss harder but it is still possible. I will keep your encouraging words in mind when I feel like giving up.

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3/27/15 11:59 A

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I agree about the calories also. I have been sticking with 1200 calories a day and my workouts and it seems to be coming off slowwwwly. I also feel so healthy and have more energy than I did. I take yoga twice a week and I am the oldest person in the class. I do feel good sometimes when I can hold pose longer than the younger ladies.



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I can relate! Menopause changed everything and I've felt utterly discouraged at times, almost giving up and accepting that I'll always be fat.

At my heaviest I was 200#. I went from 160 to 200 in about a year 3 years ago, then, a couple of years back, I managed to lose about 30, but the minute I turned my head almost all the weight came back!
Now I'm tackling the issue in earnest. I walk 30 minutes a day and get to the gym for about a half hour 3x a week. Trying to boost that metabolism! I have been between about 183-5 for about a month and have seen a .6 pound drop. Seriously??? I've cut out white flour, sugar, and my calories are at about 1200.
The only thing I can say is I feel so much better now that I'm eating healthy. That's what's keeping me going when I start to feel discouraged. I have way more energy and am much less down on myself for the weight issue. That, and I read as many of the success stories as I can from women who have faced the same challenge.

Hang in there. You're (we're) doing great!

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I am in menopause also and think it might kill me... I finally slept last night through the night that was amazing. In return for a good night sleep I did "Bob Harper's Cardio Workout" for 30 long hard minutes this morning. I have adjusted my eating over the last 9 months and have lost two pounds. My love is beer, I can give up sweets and salt, but I do love my couple beers each night. I have given those up as of last Friday. On the scale today down 1.5 pounds. It is a slow process, but I am determined to stick with it this time. I just turned 50 and signed up for a Muderella (7 mile Mud race) in September. I have to get fit for that. I workout between 400 and 500 minutes a week. I remember reading an article on SP last year about a women who swore the scales did not move until she worked out 500 minutes. At that time 500 minutes seemed impossible. I have been working up to that since last September. Now 30 minutes seems like a breeze. My advice keep working hard every day....every day....every day



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3/26/15 8:48 P

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So encouraging to hear your stories. I am 49 but haven't had more than one or two periods in the last two years. In January, I decided it's time to get serious about weight loss and decided to jump start with the Whole30 program (no sugar, dairy, legumes, or grains for 30'days). Would you believe after 26 days of near torture I only lost 5 lbs which promptly returned even though I was exercising and tracking my food every day!! I have either stayed the same or weighed more these last five weeks. I am beyond discouraged. BUT I have gone down a size and I have had inch loss, trying to focus more on this stuff and forget about the scales!!

Colossians 3:23-24 "And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."


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I wish I was through menopause I hate it. Cant decide if I am hot or cold, But I am losing weight but very slowly. emoticon

Yay only 30 days til spring


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Thankfully, believe i've finally passed through menopause. Losing weight at this point is hard (not that it was ever easy). Keep at it!

Never Give Up! Never Surrender!


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Found this board this morning and can I just say that I HATE MENOPAUSE!!! There. I was perimenopausal for years, now in menopause. Also with a hypothyroid and can't seem to stop the cravings for carbs! It has been a struggle with the hot flashes and I thought I was crazy. They say misery loves company and that is so true. I was so surprised to see so many women writing of their struggles which are the same as mine! I exercise 5 times a wk, all my lab values are great for a 57 year old, it is the scale that drives me crazy. Thanks for listening and hoping to share the struggles so I can truely enjoy this phase of my life!

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Hi everyone. I am 5 feet tall and I am in menopause. I am losing weight but I am losing it slowly. I am 57 years old

Yay only 30 days til spring


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Hell-0 to all.
Glad to find this website.
I too am in menopause. Age 60. But just recently managed to gain an Xtra 30 lbs...after I broke my leg this past Sept. Back to exercising 1 Mar along with keeping track of what I eat. But have only lost 2 lbs.
Had now have partially ruptured a disc in my back.
Afraid walking will be my only exercise for quite awhile.

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What are you doing for excersise? here in MTL we have a hefty winter which is in a few month coming to an end but i will persue through the snow.

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I think we do need less food, our metabolism absolutely slows down. From all the reading I've been doing, I think a big culprit is the fact that we lose muscle mass. At 50, we start losing it pretty quickly, but it starts before then, then we also have bone loss. My focus right now, though I do want to lose weight, is to really concentrate on building muscle and bone mass. I want to be able to do things and to be strong. The number on the scale isn't the whole story. I've been doing weight training and I have been doing a Paleo type of diet involving lower carbs, higher protein and have gotten some results...but, it takes longer at this point. When I was in my 20's, I could lose weight much faster...but, I also had more muscle mass...that burns more calories too, so you have a higher BMR working for you. As you get older the BMR is slower...hence, we gain weight. I'm not quite sure what the right number is for me on the scale, but I will know it when I see it! I've already lost several inches, but doesn't translate so much on the scale..and that's just fine.



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Hi i am perimenopausal too i piled on the pounds i started at 140 now i'm at 180 i've never been this heavy in my life i'm only gonna be 40 in march so i'm a bit worried weather i'll be able to lose my extra weight i'm also only 5 feet tall to boot.

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emoticon You lost 3lbs. As for losing weight in menopause, I find that many people gain because they just don't need the calories that they needed before, nor the high carbs, because they don't burn them off. You can of course see a doctor to see if there are any medical problems but aside from that, perhaps you just don't need as many calories as the next person or a different ratio of fat-protein-carb distribution in your diet than the next person. We're just all a little different, there is no one size fits all diet.

MAMA_CD...count your blessings!
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First, thanks ladies! I am new to this site and to message boards in general. Your friendly words make it less scary.

Something that seems to help me is raising my metabolism by working out twice a day (keep reading! Nothing extreme!). If I walk 20 mins. in the morning and 20 mins again at the end of the day, I seem to get more out of it than if I jog and walk for a full hour on the treadmill all at one time. It's like each time I get moving, my metabolism cranks up.

The challenge is finding the time--or taking the time for ME--more than once a day.

Wishing you all good luck and health...

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Yes, Goodwitch 333, you're right. With all the working out I'm doing.... as Tanjab4 and so many others are doing, we ARE fit. Between my jogging and strength training, I know I am in better cardiovascular shape than I have ever been. I think the 50 something woman of today looks very different than the 50 something woman of 1960. Oh, and, of course, beautiful!



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Losing weight during menopause is like picking up the same bag of sand over and over again...eventually, the sand starts to shift, some like a hour glass, and the rest takes hours to lose... emoticon



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5/1/13 9:49 A

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I am in my pre menopause since 2009 or even earlier. But the last 2 years it really hit me with the weight . i went to the GYN for a check up and then i had to wait for 9 weeks to so me PCP. At that time i gained 10 pounds. i am getting frustrated because i am going to the
gym 4 times a week for 1 1/2 hours , and i m really confused with what i should eat and not eat. in the last 1/12 year i gained 45 pounds. That is crazy, i never was that heavy, not even during my pregnancy . I am really on my end and dont know what to do. But reading your guys story gives me some hope that i will loose that weight



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1/23/13 8:27 P

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It IS harder to loose weight after menopause. Just keep working at it and exercising. Ignore all those glossy magazine covers that spew silliness like " Loose ten pounds this week!" They are lies created to sell the magazine. It's hard to remember what healthy weight loss really is when you see so many promises everywhere. Sometimes the scale won't budge for a few weeks, so measure yourself and look for improvements. And remember, your body isn't burning calories like it used to, so you might need to cut back a bit on what you used to be able to eat. Lastly, don't expect to be the same weight that you were when you graduated or you will probably feel disappointed. Tell yourself every single day "I AM BEAUTIFUL AND FIT!"



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I have been in menopause since 2007 when I had a total hysterectomy. I've struggled with my weight since then, but I've been fairly successful keeping my weight off. However, for the last couple of months I've been dealing with a host of other issues - pain, inflammation, and just general yuck. That's when I happened on a presentation on a PBS station by J.J. Virgin talking about the Virgin Diet. I bought her book and started her program on Dec. 24. It's about figuring out food sensitivities and how those play into our general health, inability to lose weight as well as gut issues, etc. since oftentimes inability to lose weight can be the result of food intolerances.

Here's how the plan goes - for the first 21 days you totally eliminate 7 foods - sugar and artificial sweeteners (including natural things like honey, molasses, maple syrup - you can use xylitol or stevia), soy, gluten, dairy, corn, peanuts, and eggs. Those 7 foods are the ones that cause the most intolerances in most people. It's only 21 days, but it's crucial to the success of the plan. At the end of my 21 days, I felt awesome - back pain I'd had for 2 months disappeared, digestive problems are gone, mood has improved, energy has improved, brain fog is better - suffice it to say, I feel so much better!!!

At the end of 21 days, you add one of four of those foods back in each week for 4 days and then pay attention the other 3 days to how you feel. The foods she has you add back in are soy, gluten, eggs, and dairy. The other 3 should only ever be eaten on occasion. Personally I never eat soy, so I did not add it back in - I started with gluten, which turned out to be a big problem for me, so I will be avoiding gluten as much as possible. This week I have added eggs back in and seem to be okay with them. Next week I will add dairy back in and see how I do with it, but past history tells me that it will likely be a problem as well.

If you are really at your wit's end, you might check this one out - I got her book - The Virgin Diet - off Amazon.

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1/23/13 12:54 P

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It's been one year for me and last period. I gained 30 lbs back. I went back to the gym recently and don't look at anyone smaller than me , lifting more or going faster. I am determined to get this weight off. I am tracking my food faithfully. Menopause is not going to take over my life anymore!



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It's been almost 2 years since my last period and I have stopped gaining, but struggling with loosing what I gained perimenapausal. The kids all moved out about the time I started to go down this journy which added to my struggle. I still cooked for the 5 of us, so now there was seconds for me! I quit the gym a year after my son moved out (9 years ago) due to lack of motivation. He would say "mom, take me to the gym to play basketball?" I would do a class or work out while he played. I am keeping track of my food intake better and have started to exercise at home more consistant. 50 pounds snuck up on me over the past 10 years and I do not want to carry it around anymore! I have 5 wonderful grandkids that I want to be an active grandma for. I'm looking forward to the motivation shared here and wish all of you the best!

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. Shari


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That's the beauty of the SparkPeople program for me-- it's not about a "diet" where you don't eat certain foods or eat only certain foods or whatever. It's about a way of life; eating healthy and getting some exercise. Sure, wanting to lose weight brought me here. But wanting to be as healthy as possible, is what keeps me coming back. I've hit the age where things start to really catch up to you, and I want to avoid as many problems as I can.

I think maybe (and this is true for me) we've spent years not getting much exercise, and meanwhile we've been losing a bit of muscle every year. I would encourage everyone who is not already doing so, to get some cardio 3 to 5 times a week. You don't have to join a gym or take a class, although that's fine too if you want to. I've used walking (and I'm not talking a leisurely stroll here) plus some walk away the pounds videos (too cheap for a gym). AND do some strength training. They recommend working each body part (upper body, abs, lower body) at least twice a week. This can be as simple as using your own body weight, to start. There are tons of video's and demo's right here on Spark, so you don't even have to leave the house or buy any equipment. I hate doing sit-ups (crunches) so I never do them; there are lots of other abs exercises.

What gets the metabolism going, is those muscles working. I had been so inactive for so long, whatever muscle I had wasn't just "at rest", it was downright comatose. Which may be why I lost weight so slowly, to start-- I needed to get those muscles working, and build them up with some strength training. (It does NOT make you look like a body builder.)

Ruth in Cookeville, TN Central Time Zone


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1/21/13 8:37 P

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Wow, I'm glad I found all of you. I'm so glad there is hope for us peri/post menopause people. It's not going to be easy is it?. If I could just stay strong for the long hall. I just don't seem to have the stick to it attitude I used to. I have lost weight so many times and I'm tired dieting and this is what happens. Gained a bunch of weight. I'm really trying to keep motivated and strong.
Thanks for all the encouragement sparkladies!



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I was very glad to find this board. I am perimenapausal. Had a period n December or I could have said finally I was post menopausal. My weight skyrocketed once this phase of my life started. I am 5 foot 2 and my weight topped out at 180 lbs in February of 2011. I found rolls of fat where there should never be rolls. My husband and I are missionaries in the country of Haiti. The first three months here in 2011 I got done to 160 lbs. No fast foods, cooking everything from scratch and living in a second floor apartment with no elevator helped a lot. But I have been stuck at 160, actually fluctuating between 160-166. I know all the nutritional things (I am a nurse and have taken several nutrition courses). I just hate to exercise! But I know that is what it will take to get the weight off. A friend told me about SparkPeople so here I am! Trying to get motivated, trying to get healthy . I will do this through Christ who gives me strength!



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1/21/13 6:33 P

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You've got some good motivators going for ya . . . so I know you can do it.

Just remember, we've gotta MAKE changes in order to GET changes.
The reason we became what we are/were is because of what we were doing.
We just have to decide if we want it badly enough to really do something about it.

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Thanks you two, I really needed to hear your encouraging words. I was so discouraged that I over ate and gained my lousy little 3 lbs back this weekend. I will get back to it today. I am hearing that I need to exercise more too. Well I will try harder. I just need to get into a better routine. I go to the gym twice a week and walk 30 min and then do strength training for 30 mins but maybe add another day. I will start my new linedance session next Monday.
I want to lose this weight so bad but it's so hard. Salt and carbs are my weakness and that's what I have to cut out. Plus I have hypertension so I shouldn't be eating that salt anyway.
I hit my low when I fell (twice) when I tried to get up from the floor. I just couldn't get the extra 30 lbs up. Then I started notice rolls where I shouldn't have rolls. Ugh. I never had that before.
Pictures don't lie. I saw one of me too and couldn't believe it was me. I want the old me back!!



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1/21/13 8:58 A

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Hang in there.... I will be 55 this year and started perimenopause in my early 40's and have been post menopausal now for 5 years. Even being post menopausal I have hot flashes that I have figured out are triggered by the food I eat. Salt, carbs and sweets (like cake) at my nephews birthday, my sister insisted I had to try the birthday cake, I took two small forkfuls and I immediately started turning red in my chest and neck - she finally believed me.
I also suffer from Graves Disease and they nuked my thyroid so I take replacement hormones and what a roller coaster it has been with getting my levels figured out during this time. I was on the same dose for 10 years, no problems until menopause started now I bounce between hypo and hyper thyroid symptoms.
The weight gain and not recognizing my body has been my issue. I had - had enough in 2009 when I saw pictures of myself at my son's 30th birthday party. I bought a Wii and Wii Fit, the EA Sports Active for the Wii and started using that and watching what I ate. From April to September of 2009, I went from 131 to 104.6 - from a size 12 jeans to a size 4. I am 4 foot 11 inches with a size 3 1/2 ring so I wasn't underweight I normally weighted about 100 pounds before menopause. It didn't last..... my thyroid levels went crazy, they started messing with my meds and well - I am at 124 pounds today and am starting all over as of yesterday.
On Saturday we found out we are going to be Grandparents for the first time, after a two year fertility struggle - what a blessing! Then it hit me....... I need to get back to feeling better and looking better. We live 1200 miles away from our DS and DIL and I will be flying in for visits to see the her progress, the baby shower and just wanting to be a fit and healthy Grandma.
Yesterday I did 26 minutes on EA Sports Active and 30 minutes on Wii Fit Plus, drank my green tea and watched what I ate. I was down 1.3 pounds today. I'm still in the overweight category on the Wii but hope to be in the high normal range this week. I changed Endocrinologist a few months back so I am hoping that even when I lose weight again, he will help keep my meds regulated.





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Most of my weight loss was half a pound to maybe one pound a week. So your 3 pounds doesn't sound bad at all. Yes it's true that when I was younger, I could easily take off more weight per week. But did it ever STAY off? No.

One thing I found (and this is just my personal experience) is that the longer I stayed within my calorie ranges and exercised consistently, the faster the weight came off. I know a lot of people have the exact opposite experience, and have trouble with the last 5 pounds or so, but those actually came off faster for me than the ones in the beginning.

The bottom line is-- it's working (maybe not as fast as you'd like-- but as they say, we don't have problems, we have preferences). They also say that the slower the weight comes off, the greater our chances of actually keeping it off. I've been at maintenance for almost a year now. BTW, I am 57 and most definitely past menopause.

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Thanks cat, I will hang in. Just so disapointed in my results so far. Trying to stay positive.



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1/20/13 11:56 P

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Yes, you can do it. Menopause is crazy, but if you keep on plan, track your nutrition and fitness, you will be ahead of the game, regardless what the scales say. I know my weight would fluctuate with water weight gain/loss sometimes more than 5 pounds a week. So the scales may frustrate you, but look for other "non-scale victories".

Tracking your food will help in more ways than one. When I went thru menopause, I found that some foods were triggers for mood swings, etc. So tracking how you're feeling, emotionally, (those hot flashes and temporary bouts of insanity!), everything, as well as what you're eating and drinking, just might help you pinpoint some of yours as well.

For example, I discovered one of the herbs in one of my OTC menopause health aids would send me over the moon.

Good luck!!!



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I need some serious advice. I started going through menopause about 2 years ago. slowly started the weight gain. I gained 30 since that time. On Jan 1st I started back on my diet that has always worked for me. No sugar or white flour. I eat whole grains, fruits and veggies, lean meats. I went back to the gym twice a week for one hour. Hope to add another day soon. 8 glasses of water a day. I was very motivated until I weighed myself and I have only lost 3 lbs. Really!? I heard it was hard to lose weight during and after menopause but this is ridiculous. Can anyone who has lost weight during or after menopause give me some answers that might help me?



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