There is no way to spot-reduce the parts of your body you don't like. Fat loss is a total-body process, and stretching won't burn fat, anyway. :) because your muscles take their energy from the bloodstream, exercising your calves won't help.
How you build muscle and lose fat is largely determined by genetics. They won't keep growing, though. I also bet you money they aren't as large as you think, no matter what your "friend" might think. You're looking down on them from a skewed perspective. I used to think the same thing about mine, until I saw them in a full-body mirror while working out. They're proportionate for my body. :)
Writer, mom, runner (ish), and computer addict. Still trying to run my first 5k.
I'm not pregnant, just fat: My blog. fatnotpregnant.blogspot.com/
| current weight: 186.0