Hi Dave, This is a good suggestion - that instead of the comment box, you get a notification that the user has set their page to private. SP has a suggestion feature here : www.sparkpeople.com/community/help_suggest
I am sure if you submit it someone will look at it and see if it is something they can change!
Kate in Indiana
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