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LOLEMA
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9/5/13 10:56 A

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weird people



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9/4/13 11:34 P

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What I don't know, however, God did not give us the Spirit of fear and I'm living on His promises! emoticon



 
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My impending lumpectomy.

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9/4/13 9:52 P

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My fear is that I will always be this way and never get to see the me I have always imagined being!




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I am afraid of dying and not existing anymore in any way, shape or form. I am also afraid of being like my mother and losing the respect and love of my children.



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9/4/13 7:58 P

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That I will not loose the pouch on my lower belly.



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MALICORNE1
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9/4/13 6:55 P

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Me too ! The wait is killing!

I wish I had a better answer but it basically boils down to the fact that we always expect the worse .... and most of the time, it isn't worse the anxiety!


If I don't know to swim,I'll drown in deep water.
Since I don't swim well I'll tread water until one day I l be able to do a few strokes and from then on, I'll progress.


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9/4/13 6:39 P

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See! Look at all of us ! we are all afraid of something..

Sometimes it is justified, sometimes it is just mundane , sometimes we are chasing after our own tail, and most of the time, we are just looking for a friend, who is going to share our anxieties and ease them by simple understanding.!

To all of you , who have answered this thread, I have a suggestion: Find your "kindred spirit", from all the former answers, bare your soul as to why you are afraid of that particular fear and solve it together.
What is that english saying: "A friend in need, is a friend indeed ( or is it a friend In deed)?
There are no fears, which cannot be blown to naught !


One more of my own: I am dead scared of...... obscurity...and I know why/!



If I don't know to swim,I'll drown in deep water.
Since I don't swim well I'll tread water until one day I l be able to do a few strokes and from then on, I'll progress.


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FAITHP44
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9/4/13 5:42 P

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heights - if I haven't got something solid to stand on.



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I fear quitting on myself and not going the distance, regaining what I have lost, and dying too soon.

Today I can do or undo; the choice is mine.


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being stuck at this weight.



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RENATA144
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What the surgeon will say today.

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Pretty much nothing. I've survived an aneurysm and three brain surgeries--it's hard to really be afraid of anything after that.

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Currently learning: Mexican cumbia, danzón, Cuban rumba

Dances to Learn in the future: flamenco, tango Argentino, samba, belly dancing, bhangra, ballroom rumba


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WLIBERTY
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9/4/13 11:55 A

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BLEGNER11, I am so sorry and I totally understand. I lost my husband 5 years ago to esophageal cancer. emoticon emoticon

Edited by: WLIBERTY at: 9/4/2013 (11:56)

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I don't know if I would call it fear, but more dread. I dread what I know lies ahead with my hubby in his fight against cancer especially since his options of treatment are becoming less in number all the time.



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Not truly embracing all that life has to offer, due to my weight.



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mirrors

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Giving up.

Though we cannot control the winds, we can adjust the sails.

Vic



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Losing my independence and mobility

My name is Carol I live in UK Leader of DISABLED/FIBROMYALGIA & MORE
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Not reaching my goal!!



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Not reaching my goal.

You NEVER regret a workout!
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MALICORNE1
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9/3/13 10:02 A

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Me too!
I try to avoid looking at myself in full. Mirrors the enemy!

If I don't know to swim,I'll drown in deep water.
Since I don't swim well I'll tread water until one day I l be able to do a few strokes and from then on, I'll progress.


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9/3/13 9:12 A

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Never being fully happy with myself when I look in the mirror.



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MALICORNE1
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9/3/13 8:20 A

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Let's keep going and face our fears !

I am afraid to go to the beach and show myself in a bathing suit !

If I don't know to swim,I'll drown in deep water.
Since I don't swim well I'll tread water until one day I l be able to do a few strokes and from then on, I'll progress.


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9/3/13 4:33 A

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Being the weakest link on the team



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that others will be able to make decisions for me

Moving in new directions.


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Not doing anything good with my life and get fat



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That I'm going bald!




 
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Not being invited to physically challenging events with friends because they feel like I would slow them down... brats...

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J2740LOU
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Climbing a ladder and heights.



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developing diabetes

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Putting it all back on.



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Not being able to zip line with my mom because I'm over the weight limit.

Be stronger than your strongest excuse.

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”
Dale Carnegie


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MALICORNE1
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9/2/13 7:30 P

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Let's see
! propose one instance and you can add up !

NO REPETITION , PLEASE.

Not doing everything I have planned to do...... because of my surplus weight .



YOUR TURN

If I don't know to swim,I'll drown in deep water.
Since I don't swim well I'll tread water until one day I l be able to do a few strokes and from then on, I'll progress.


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