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5/17/13 12:08 P

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I wouldn't shop at the store again. If that is the type of sales people they want to hire, then let that be the type of person who shops there.

I am a 40DD, at my heaviest 42DD and believe me, it is not pleasant. They are uncomfortable. They weigh a ton! The bras available are ridiculous. Even if you find a nice looking one, the cost is outrageous. When I was in my teens I was a 34B, as I have gotten heavier, so have they.

Although TV ads (Victoria Secret) want you to believe having enormous cleavage is what to aspire for...the TV ads also tell the men they have to have Cialis or Viagra to enjoy themselves....even if the side effects are deaf, blindness, dizziness, swelling of the tongue...etc. REALLY??????

We are all nationalities, races, body sizes, temperaments, but our breast size does not make us more or less women.

WE ARE FEMALES***WE ARE GIRLS***WE ARE WOMEN.....WE ARE NOT BREASTS!!!!!!!

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5/17/13 11:51 A

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Must be nice to be able to find bras in your size. I'm on the other end of the spectrum, and like plus-sized clothing, the bras that do fit me are like armored tanks! Can't find ones that are cute, different colors other than white, black and tan, or ones that have fewer than 4 hooks in the back. It's a real frustrating problem for me.

Be proud of what you have and who you are. If someone laughs, try asking them why they think that your size is so funny. Turn the tables!

Keep a sense of humor. Remember, laughing burns calories too!

Laugh until it hurts! It's one of the few things in life that's still free!!

Any effort is better than no effort!


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5/16/13 3:45 P

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I am also less endowed. And one time my sister wanted to know why I wear a bra. Well because even though I am a small B cup they still jiggle and I don't like the braless look.

You could have a negative A cup and still want to buy a bra. It was those sales peoples job to sell you a bra and not laugh because of your cup size.

My sister went swimming in the Gene Pool and took all the well endowed genes. Every single woman born before me is blessed in the bosom department. Me I got the leftovers

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5/16/13 2:12 P

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My gosh, why would you even think that? Age has nothing to do with it. I am also the same size as I was when I came out of puberty, and I am 50.
Breast size is related to basically only 2 things: hormones or fat gain/loss. If those things are stabile, breast size will be stabile for the most part as well.

EVERYONE knows EXACTLY what they NEED to do to be fit, healthy, and slim.
The problem is, nobody does it.


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5/16/13 7:08 A

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Well, I'm older than you, and I still don't have anything more than a "B" cup, either.

So - it's just the way my body developed.
Not something I'll change through surgery, so I'll live with it. At least I won't be having them drag on my waistband in the years to come.



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5/16/13 7:05 A

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My boobs have grown and deflated more times than a bouncy castle. I was a B36 in highschool and with two pregnancies and nursing they have ballooned up to a D then back down to a C while I was carrying extra weight after pregnancy. After my weight loss they are the smallest they've been since I was 11 years old, A34. They are flat and wrinkle and crinkle when I lift my arms and I'm only 30. I can't say I'm particularly fond of them but nothing a padded push up bra can't cure. With one of those babies I'm a full C cup and can even manage to squeeze out a bit of cleavage. My husband prefers small boobs and has even complimented me on their current size, he says he likes that I have small breasts now.

Everyone has different preferences and we all have areas of our body and features we wish we could change. I'm sure even Victoria Secret models have body image insecurities. I try to celebrate and accentuate my assets, I have nice legs and arms, rather than focus my attention on what I view as my less desirable physical traits.


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5/16/13 6:04 A

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Most 40 year olds wished they had boobs of a teenager. Gravity has it's affects on the well endowed and it's then that the older women think of breast reductions. It's true that many guys like large breasts but there is no guy that will reject you because of your breasts not being big enough! And if they do, they aren't the guy you want anyway.

What matters is that you realize that the scale of what you wish for and what you have can never match, unless you learn to love what you have. You will never be satisfied or happy if what you have has to be compared with what someone else has. We are not talking about just being a healthy you. You are talking about being a different you which is not healthy.

Photo-shopped pictures, hips in wrong proportion, breasts too young? Personality is really the greatest balancing factor for anyone. Personality will get you to healthy. Personality will make physical traits inconsequential. Self-confidence tells those who miss their chance to appreciate you that it's their faults that mattered, not yours. Insecurity is what says that you will never be good enough, not even for yourself! LOVE YOU and OTHERS will LOVE YOU TOO! LOVE THE WAY YOU LOOK and NO ONE will be able to tell you differently! AND if they have a problem, it's THEIR FAULT! Don't let it become yours!

The race to fitness is unending for when you reach your goals, it becomes a race to stay ahead of the temptations that seek to pull back to where you came from!


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5/15/13 10:11 P

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I am quite well endowed in the boob department, let me tell you the truth--I would trade for 34As in a heartbeat. So much cooler in the summer, so much easier to dress, so much easier on your back, cheaper cuter bras , I could do this all day......

Happiness is there if you chose it.


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5/15/13 10:10 P

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so while some of us have to look forward to wearing our bras around our waste
you will be looking just fine.
Don't worry be happy.
It's easier to buy a wonder bra than worry about breast reduction surgery.

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5/15/13 9:33 P

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It's the whole package, not just the breasts.



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5/15/13 8:18 P

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If a sales person laughed at me because the size of my chest or any part of my body, I would probably stop shopping there.





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5/15/13 8:04 P

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Boobs are not what makes a "real woman" a woman!!!

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5/15/13 6:35 P

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Just a guy's perspective. Only pigs look at your chest. When I look at a woman, I look at all of her. Whats under her shirt is her business and by no means is reflective of who she is. Big boobs small boobs. All that matters is that you are happy with the whole you.



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5/15/13 4:44 P

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Women come in all sizes and shapes. It doesn't make someone better or worse if they have larger or smaller breasts.

Breast size says nothing about a female's actual maturity because if they were truly mature women they wouldn't laugh make fun of someone for their breast size.



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5/15/13 2:55 P

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Wow, what salesperson would laugh at you for your bra size? That's incredibly rude and unprofessional.

I personally have always been a proud member of the IBTC (Itty Bitty Titty Committee emoticon). Boobs are boobs, big or small. If yours are small, you don't have to worry about them causing back pain or sagging as you get older. :)



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5/15/13 1:59 P

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Don't let anyone define you by your breasts. Breast size doesn't make you more or less of a woman and anyone who thinks it does is a shallow, shallow person.

Breasts come in all shapes and sizes. Sure, a lot of women would like to have bigger breasts but a lot of women with bigger breasts wish that theirs were smaller. Overall, I think it's not worthwhile to worry about breast size unless one is so large that it's uncomfortable.



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I have plenty of friends with smaller breasts. It has no effect on "how much of a woman" they are. That's ridiculous. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes. And if the sales girls are laughing at you, well, find another store. And if your friends are making fun of you to deliberately hurt you (versus just playful teasing) then you also need some new friends.

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That salesperson was wrong to laugh at you, there is nothing abnormal about your size. I was also a 36A before I had to have a bilateral mastectomy 10 years ago. I never minded being small, and my prothesises that I have now are also 36A. I'm short, so I feel being a smaller size is more in proportion to my body type. I also think it gives me more options when shopping for tops and shirts, I can misses or junior sizes.

Bra size has nothing to do with how "womanly" you are! I have no boobs, but that doesn't make me any less of a woman than I was before. Normal bodies come in all shapes and sizes. I think it would be a dull world if we all looked alike!


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5/15/13 8:49 A

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If you are happy with yourself then that is all that matters, and it seems that you're happy with that part of your body. I am on the other end of the scale with large breasts, I'm a 36F at the moment and even when I was at my healthiest weight I was a 36E so it's not because I'm overweight. I had 36B's at the age of 10 which was awful, I was bullied terribly for it. Everyone is different, we just need to embrace those differences and make the most of them. If you are confident and believe in yourself everyone else will too.

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5/15/13 8:25 A

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Sale girls need to not laugh, that is so unprofessional and can be hurtful, are you making jokes as to why they laugh, because sometimes people tell jokes about themselves that lead people to laugh.



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Hi, I'm going to be 41 this October but my boobs are still a 36A, the same size they were when I was 15! Even bra salesgirls laugh at me because I have the boobs of a teen!

My friends also make fun of me becoz I'm so less endowed than them.

Don't get me wrong, I like my boobs the way they are, and breast augmentation is out of the question. The only part of my body I don't like is my tummy! And for that I'll be doing lots of cardio, but not yet, becoz I still suffer from osteoporosis. Perhaps next month, when I've fully recovered (long story), then I'm going to really exercise!

So, am I not woman enough becoz I have the boobs of a teen?



 
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