ROXYZMOM's SparkPeople Blog ROXYZMOM's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community Metabolic Testing... Right before my son passed away, hubby and I had appointments to test our metabolisms. We had to cancel... Tomorrow morning I am getting it done. Even with food tracking and daily exercise, I find myself not losing weight. My metabolism is at a dead hault. I am looking forward to getting advice for a tailored pescetarian nutritional plan. Hubby goes next Tuesday. Today, in preparation for the test, I am not allowed to exercise. I will do regular pace walking to continue my 10000 streak. ... Thu, 4 Feb 2016 09:06:55 EST St Lucia... <img src=""> My parents paid for me, hubby, 2 brothers, and their wife, fiancé to go to St Lucia. We have been having a great time. We went on a boat tour of the island. We came up close to the Pitons, saw the volcano, took a sulfur hot mud bath ( I had a very hard time with the smell), ate an authentic lunch in an actual house (everything was delicious) and shopped (I stood there - hate getting hounded!). The... Sun, 31 Jan 2016 13:15:39 EST Redneck Sledding... <img src=""> I love where I live! Never know what is next! This is an ATV driver pulling someone in a boat. Sat, 23 Jan 2016 16:31:35 EST I Am Doing It!... <img src=""> Headed out for day 27 of my walk/run 5 mile streak! I have endured hot 85 degree days, rain, snow, and frigid temperatures! (Anything to avoid my treadmill!) My mind is a lot clearer, I am feeling better :) Thu, 21 Jan 2016 09:14:21 EST Hola!... <img src=""> Hi guys! I am enjoying Cancun. The resort has a lot of great choices for pescetarian and vegetarian diets. The above picture is of a Mexicana salad. Cucumber with red leaf lettuce, garlic, corn, peas, prickly pear, mozarella, red onion, avocado and tomato. Last night I ate a veggie cannoli (eggplant wrap with ground eggplant, portobello, tomato and mushrooms in the middle). Very yummy! And, I have lea... Fri, 8 Jan 2016 12:20:21 EST The Gift of Time... <img src=""> <BR> <BR> I decided to focus on my health - mentally and physically for 2016. I have been through hell the past three years and I just don't feel good. I am tired of feeling anxious and literally sick to my stomach. It takes way too much energy to get through the day. <BR> <BR> Most of the anxiety has left since hubby and I sold our business. There were several times in the past year that I felt... Tue, 29 Dec 2015 20:59:47 EST Merry Christmas... It was a hard day - I made it through! Holidays are so stink in' tough. They will never be the same... <BR> <BR> Merry Christmas! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> Fri, 25 Dec 2015 22:55:33 EST My Boys Are Taking Care of Me... The trip my hubby carefully planned to St Augustine, Florida was very nice. The house we stayed in was beautifully decorated for Christmas. The Fountain of Youth, St Augustine Light House, and the Great Cross were all filled rich with history. The Ghost Tour was fantastic! And the fish were delicious and so fresh! We wished we had booked a couple of more days - there is a lot to see. We were able to easily track more than 20,000 steps per day. <BR> <BR> I stopped working right before we... Sun, 20 Dec 2015 16:37:46 EST A great week can be a hard week... Hubby and I sold our business last Friday. I am getting paid as a consultant until Dec 4thish. <BR> I am used to a calm environment. This week it is total chaos. There is no organization. I see what should be done and it is not happening. This is why I am an entrepreneur. I could never work in the corporate world. Anyway, I am enjoying not being responsible. I am trying to coach the girls taking over. There has been a few ethical situations, I am training them on how not to budge the ... Wed, 18 Nov 2015 22:38:08 EST Checking In... Sorry I haven't updated sooner - I have been very busy at work. I am in the middle of training the person who will take over my job. She has worked for me for 18 years. I am really excited for her. Last week we had to go to Exton for a couple days for computer software training. I had to go in to work today to catch up with my normal job responsibilities. <BR> <BR> After dinner every night, I am researching eating disorder facilities, groups, and properties. I attended a meeting at th... Sun, 4 Oct 2015 16:23:02 EST 12:24 am - wide awake... I went to bed at 10:30 - woke up at 10:50 pm Hubby was sleeping soundly, <BR> I slinked quietly out of bed and snuck downstairs. <BR> <BR> I have been watching Back to The Future 2 and cruising FaceBook. Why am I up? I miss my son. <img src=""> <BR> <BR> I can now get through a couple weeks of distracting myself. I think and get upset as I think about him - I call it a "hiccup". I stop myself from going i... Thu, 27 Aug 2015 00:35:59 EST My Trip To Kripalu... I have been traveling steady up and down the East Coast, with not much time <BR> to blog. As I ride home from Vermont, I find myself having some time <BR> to share my experience at Kripalu. <BR> <BR> I have been receiving their catalogs for over ten years. This visit has long been a dream of mine. When I found out I would be traveling to Maine by myself for my Grandmother's memorial, I quickly figured a Kripalu visit into my driving route. It is located in Stockbridge, Mass. <BR> <BR>... Mon, 20 Jul 2015 19:52:01 EST Eat, Pray, Love... I have finished planning my trip! I am going to Maine - to the most Northern town in the US - Limestone - for my grandmother's memorial. Hubby has to work so I am on my own! After surfing the computer for hours and hours, I settled on an itinerary that has me pretty excited! It is a 12 1/2 hour drive and since I can go and do what I want, I broke the drive up nicely. I booked a beautiful bed and breakfast in Camden, ME (everyone is telling me it is a "must see" Coastal town). I am going... Sun, 28 Jun 2015 22:36:50 EST Therapy and Inspiration... Yesterday, when I went to my therapist, we dove into the last couple years of my son's life. I told her I want to get to the point where I am thinking about the rest - good parts of his life - not the last two tragic years. She had me hold something in each hand that was hooked up to a machine. It pulsated back and forth. We talked about something I remembered - Joey and I at a sushi restaurant and him not eating much, etc. We discussed the details, then I had to close my eyes and she sta... Wed, 29 Apr 2015 21:10:59 EST The Perils of the 9" Plate... Last week and this week, for the 5% challenge, we get points for using a 9" plate. Last week I didn't eat a lot during my meals on vacation, but was not supplied a 9" plate - so I marked "0" for points. <BR> <BR> This week I am home, so it is easy to use one. <BR> <BR> Tonight's supper was interesting. I baked salmon, coated in grey poupon and honey tossed in panko and crushed pecans. Yum - one of my favorite dinners. I also baked 1/4 cup sweet potatoes - from schwans - and 2 cups of ... Mon, 27 Apr 2015 19:05:28 EST Aruba, One Happy Island... This is a video I shot waves in a spring in Aruba. You can hear the wind! We hear this wind constantly. <BR> <BR> I am enjoying my time in Aruba - it is going way too fast! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> I have been getting a lot of exercise in. I run and/or walk every morning. I had to get up extra early to run 6 miles today, and it was still very hot. It is also EXTREMELY windy here all the time. I have sand burn!! I am seriou... Mon, 20 Apr 2015 21:30:39 EST What Are You Doing? This past weekend was a lot harder on me than I thought it was going to be. <BR> I planned on running, I ended up "running" in the form of errands Saturday. <BR> I decided it was too windy to run -- an excuse. Hubby and I went out to dinner with neighbors. On the way there, we called my parents to say "hi". Dad tells me he has B-Cell Lymphoma. He says it is not the aggressive type. - Still... <BR> I spend Saturday night alone upstairs reading, upset that my husband wanted to go out to b... Mon, 6 Apr 2015 11:40:43 EST Roxy and Mayzie and My Week... Just felt like showing them off, love them!! <BR> <BR> Right now we have two Bostons. Mayzie belonged to my son, Joey. Hubby and I are going to pick up my other son, Ken, this week from military training. He wants to take Mayzie with him. We are so excited to have him home! He is in the reserves, so he will go back to civilian life. He has been gone 7 months and is excited to get back. He is moving in with his two best friends, and going back to his job after we take a family vacation t... Mon, 30 Mar 2015 22:15:58 EST Trying To Get My Mojo Back... I seemed to always feel "yucky" especially after I ate. I thought about this a lot while I was in Jamaica. I was feeling "down" and noticed that I wasn't caring at all about myself - going out without make-up, eating whatever, not really exercising. I guess you could say I was really feeling down in the dumps. <BR> <BR> I was once again thinking about all this after I got seated on the plane for the flight home... <BR> That's when I observed an extremely heavy set woman boarding the pla... Sun, 15 Mar 2015 14:31:47 EST It Has Been a Very Busy Four Weeks... It's been a real busy month for me. <BR> <BR> Hubby and I went to visit my parents in Punta Gorda, Florida. We stayed for a week. My mother tells me it is the only warm week they have had this season, so I guess we lucked out. I especially liked when we rented a pontoon boat for the day. Got me excited for Spring at home :) <BR> We were back one week then took off for Grapevine, TX to attend my Aunt's funeral. We got to see my cousins and other relatives. When my cousin and I were 15... Fri, 27 Feb 2015 18:45:49 EST Ready For The Week... Sundays is my "soup day". I make a big pot of soup and put it in individual servings in the fridge. Every day I grab one and take it to work for lunch. <BR> This week I decided to make chicken noodle soup - I added broccoli, cauliflower, habanero, and cayenne to the main ingredients. I LOVE spice in my soup. I test tasted it tonight and it was delicious! I am looking forward to having it for lunch this week! I always make extra to hand out at work and to freeze for later. <BR> <BR> I g... Sun, 25 Jan 2015 20:56:32 EST Catching up... My hubby and I came down to Florida to visit my parents for a few days. It's in the 70s during the day here - quite a difference from the 29s we left at home. I am have been spending most of the days outside. I am getting a lot of walking in. Today I walked with my mom and husband. We spent the afternoon in Venice, Florida. I had never been but had heard a lot about it. It has a cute little town, we spend most of the time on the beach by a pier. <BR> Tomorrow my husband and I are going... Mon, 19 Jan 2015 22:40:38 EST On My Way Back... It's been almost 7 weeks since my son passed away. Last week I started thinking about how I felt...sick to my stomach as soon as waking up and after eating anything -- so, I could not eat breakfast. By night time I was hungry, it was the holidays, so I ate lots of junk. I felt like a cannonball had been shot through my middle. My upper back constantly ached, it slowly moved to my lower back, my hearing was all "foggy" and, in fact, I felt like I was in a constant fog. And there is the su... Fri, 9 Jan 2015 13:25:28 EST My Son's Funeral & Update... My son's funeral went as well as could be expected. It worked out good that we had 2 weeks to plan it. We wanted it to be a celebration of his life. Over 300 people came. It was held in a beautiful catholic chapel. My hubby, son and I stayed very strong throughout the visitation and funeral. <BR> We had a lot of pictures hanging of his life, and flowers with the Philadelphia Flyers and Baltimore Raven colors. <BR> <BR> Joe's portrait was of him with 3 Baltimore Raven cheerleaders... <... Thu, 1 Jan 2015 21:53:28 EST Tribute To My Son, Joey... Video of Joey's life span made by Joey's friend, Lindsie, for his funeral Thu, 11 Dec 2014 10:41:00 EST Going Through The Motions... It has been the longest week of my life. Funeral arrangements are just about finished. I have gone through thousands of pictures for the posters at the service and for the video one of my son's friends is making. <BR> <BR> Here is the link to his obituary: <BR> <BR><BR>nline/obituary.aspx?n=&pid=173316460&r<BR>eferrer=0&preview=True <BR> <BR> How do I feel? Everyday is different. Yesterday I woke up feeling like the left side of my body was to... Thu, 4 Dec 2014 07:22:47 EST My World Turned Upside Down In The Blink Of An Eye... My son passed away yesterday from anorexia. His heart stopped suddenly. He weighed 110 pounds. I have experienced such a wave of emotion. I go from shocked, to crying, to "ok", then back to shocked. Last night my husband and I moved from couch to couch and got maybe, 1 hour of sleep. <BR> <BR> We have awesome friends. They immediately came over and sat with us. Today, they brought over tons of food. I have no appetite. I never ate lunch or dinner yesterday. I thought I would get sick... Mon, 24 Nov 2014 22:05:09 EST Summary of my week... Here is a drill from my son's graduation. <BR> <BR> This was an awesome week! <BR> <BR> First, I found out Roxy had something in her paw. It wasn't cancer! Thank God! It has been a really hard 1 1/2 weeks with the cast. Bless her heart, she hasn't messed with it at all. So, no cone! I take her Wednesday to the vet to get #4 cast off... <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> I feel like she keeps getting more because they are enjoying... Sun, 16 Nov 2014 20:07:08 EST Exciting Week Coming Up... My husband and I are flying out to see our younger son graduate from Boot Camp this week. He called tonight and sounds relieved that he is done. A lot didn't finish. 10 quit after the first week. This stunned my Navy vet husband. No one was allowed to quit when he served. My son said another 35 dropped off along the way and others need to repeat. <BR> I had no doubt my son would complete it. He exercises regularly and I knew mature enough to handle it (and know when to keep his mouth s... Sun, 9 Nov 2014 21:16:14 EST Update On Roxy... I have to apologize. I wrote an update on Roxy's surgery and must not have saved it correctly - just realized it didn't go through! <BR> <BR> Roxy is healing nicely. The vet staff said she cried a lot and loudly when she woke up :(. I wish they hadn't told me. She was heavily sedated and also given Benadryl so she was out of it all day Thursday. I held her at work. She hates the cone - I think that's why she was crying so much. I took it off Thursday night and have been stuck to her li... Sat, 8 Nov 2014 12:36:33 EST Prayers Needed for Roxy... Hi guys! Please say some prayers for Roxy. She has a lump on her paw - vet isn't sure if a splinter, etc. is in it or if it is a Mast Cell Tumor :( She has been on antibiotic and inflamatories for 1 1/2 weeks and it hasn't gone down. An xray won't show splinters, ingrown hair, etc so I have opted to get it removed tomorrow. If it is cancer, she is going to lose a couple toes :( <BR> <BR> We walk outside everyday, so I am really hoping it's something that got stuck as she was walking out the... Wed, 5 Nov 2014 07:59:36 EST I am in limbo... Trying to come to terms with a 26 year old dying after an 8 year old fight with lymphomic cancer. Trying to "help" my unhealthy son comes to grips with his 26 year old BFF's death while my son is all the way across the country. And way too skinny! Trying to come to terms with my other son telling me his unit is one of first one's deployed while watching ISIS videos in the news. I not strong enough for all of this!! <BR> <BR> I feel like I am having an"out of body" experience. Ugh! <BR>... Mon, 3 Nov 2014 20:55:03 EST Happy Halloween!! <img src=""> Fri, 31 Oct 2014 19:25:03 EST Super hard, sad day... My son from California called me at 1:30 am crying. His best friend's dad texted him and told him Mike was back in the hospital and was dying. Mike has been fighting cancer for 8 years - since high school. He is 25 now. Needless to say, it was a pretty much sleepless night. My son asked me to go see Mike today. Mike's dad sent my son the information. <BR> <BR> My hubby didn't want to go - said it "wasn't his thing". I told him it wasn't "my thing" either, but it is life. I went up to... Sun, 26 Oct 2014 23:04:14 EST Summary of my week -- a little bit late!... Last week I didn't gain any weight, and I didn't lose any weight. <BR> Why did I not lose any weight when I exercised and stayed in my calorie range? All I can think of is my glass of red wine (or two) with dinner... <BR> <BR> And my weekend... <BR> <BR> Friday night was awesome. Hubby and I were invited to our neighbor's for dinner Friday night. The hubby of the household is an awesome cook. We had pork tenderloin sautéed in apple slices, onion slices and apple cider. <BR> <img src="h... Tue, 21 Oct 2014 21:56:55 EST Week 3 of the 5% challenge summary, jarring and my food plan... Last week we focused on our calcium intake. I was stunned that I did not achieve my daily allowance. I take a One-A-Day Woman's 50+ and "assumed" that it had more than enough so I would not have to worry about osteoporosis. I am going to go back to the drug store and re-evaluate my vitamin!! <BR> <BR> I stayed in calorie range everyday and lost 1 pound. My hubby talked me into going out to dinner too many times last week. I told him we are not doing that this week. I have been getting ... Sun, 12 Oct 2014 20:34:12 EST Quick Summary of Last Week, My Walk With Roxy & A High, High Tide... The second week of the Fall challenge got off to a shaky start. I battled bronchitis most of the week. I won! I am feeling a lot better now. I made and ate Split Pea Soup and Minestrone Soup every day for lunch and/or dinner. I also enjoyed my local farmer's eggplant with tomatoes from my garden: <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> I didn't get in as many exercise minutes that I had planned and didn't run. As the week progressed, I gained... Sun, 5 Oct 2014 20:58:09 EST A Powerful Image In So Many Ways... Earlier this week, I saw this post and picture on Chris Powell's (Extreme Weight Loss) Facebook Page. <BR> <BR> Chris wrote "Such a powerful image. We are all the same underneath it all! Body fat is just a 'blanket of energy' covering our bones, organs, and muscles. When we eat less energy (food) and move (exercise), the blanket of energy get smaller!!" <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> Even a week later -- I keep going back to this pi... Wed, 1 Oct 2014 21:25:40 EST Good News/Bad News... Good news: I lost another pound. <BR> Bad news: This bronchitis is getting old! Yesterday I went to work and felt fine until lunchtime. The tired feeling hit me all at once. I thought my split pea soup might uplift me - it did not, though it tasted quite yummy! I did a little bit of more work, then went home and took a nap! Later I made dinner then went back to the couch. <BR> <BR> This is driving me nuts! I not used to so much sitting. My doctor ordered me a refill on my antibiot... Tue, 30 Sep 2014 07:21:51 EST A Great First Week S-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g To An Awesome Second Week... I lost 2 pounds during week 1 of the 5% challenge. I have 6 more to lose (in 7 weeks) to hit my goal. I am feeling good and feel like I am going to do this! <BR> <BR> I was sick last week, and in fact, ended up with bronchitis. I still need a nap in the afternoons, but, I definitely feel better and am starting to get my energy back. I am not feeling body aches anymore. I am eager to run again - as soon as I get over my cough. In the meantime, I am walking and today I even tried hoola-h... Sun, 28 Sep 2014 21:56:01 EST A Doctor's Visit I Didn't Expect... Part 2!! <BR> <BR> So, earlier today I shared that I was avoiding my family Doctor because I was worried he was going to suggest medication for high cholesterol. I have been battling it for a while - I have bad genes!! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> But...after remaining sick for a whole week, I decided to bite the bullet and go. <BR> <BR> I found out I now have bronchitis, so it is good that I went. I am now armed with an antibio... Thu, 25 Sep 2014 20:51:29 EST Avoiding The Family Doctor... I have been fighting flu-like symptoms all week. And now I am having coughing fits. Guess I am going to have to wave the white flag and go to my Doctor. Truth is that I have been procrastinating because I know he is going to tell me I need to take cholesterol medication. Yes, I never went in to see him when they called me! I read up on statins, my brother had bad side affects when he took them - so, I don't feel comfortable about them. <BR> <BR> I have tweaked my diet more and am taking... Thu, 25 Sep 2014 07:34:57 EST Looking For Inspiration? There is Deena Kastor... <link><BR>-good-long-run </link> <BR> <BR> Deena Kastor, age 41 - crushed the Master's Half Marathon World Record running in at 1hr 09mins and 36 seconds this weekend at the Philly Rock-N-Roll HM. The article above is well worth reading - Deena lives through the same struggles we all do with balancing family, injuries, managing training time, and mother's guilt in reference to doing something for herself. She does not let her age define her! She has a... Mon, 22 Sep 2014 11:57:48 EST Day 2 - 5% Fall Challenge... Today I felt great when I woke up, then all of a sudden around 10 am things started going down hill. My throat was feeling a little "scratchy". I thought it was allergy related, but then, all of a sudden energy depleted my body and I was freezing, then sweating, then back to freezing. Ugh! <BR> <BR> One of my new Sparkbuds suggested ginger, water, cinnamon, lemon and honey. So I ran out this afternoon for ginger - found it in tea bags. It is steeping now, I am excited to try this out. S... Sun, 21 Sep 2014 18:23:16 EST My Roxy Turned 7 Today... <img src=""> <BR> <BR> She is such a sweet girl. She goes almost everywhere with us. <BR> <BR> I am blessed. <BR> <BR> Fri, 19 Sep 2014 18:41:54 EST Healthy vs Skinny and Our Kids...<BR>thy-body-image-its-not-just-about-the-<BR>pounds/ <BR> <BR> Everything out there is about LOSING weight. I never really noticed how bad it was until my son was diagnosed with anorexia last year. Our kids are constantly bombarded with unrealistic weight goals - thanks to the media and actors/actresses getting skinnier and skinnier. And all of their peers are in the same boat. <BR> <BR> As Heidi says - we need to role model being healthy and he... Thu, 18 Sep 2014 11:46:59 EST You Inspire Me... SparkPeople sent me an email yesterday that I have become a "SparkPeople Motivator" based on your votes. <BR> <BR> Thank you. I do have to say, I feel like I got to this place for selfish reasons! I love to read how you are all doing and am so motivated by all of you! All the different ways everyone exercises gives me ideas. Your recipes help me expand my kitchen skills. Your determination and persistence to obtain your personal goals, lose/maintain weight loss, fight diabetes, manage fa... Sat, 13 Sep 2014 09:15:24 EST My 27th Wedding Anniversary... Today is my 27th wedding anniversary. I married a great man. <BR> We have had our share of ups and downs - mainly because we have kids! - but we have always worked as a "team" and I am so grateful that he has chosen to be part of my life. <BR> <BR> Today, after driving across country for the past 4 days - with our son and his dog - in a Penske truck, while towing a car and then unloading the truck during a heat wave in San Diego, the poor guy is flying back to meet me in Virginia this eveni... Fri, 12 Sep 2014 08:07:49 EST Let There Be Peace On Earth... <img src=""> <BR> <BR> It many ways, 9/11/2001 seems like yesterday. I vividly remember that morning, how I was alerted, who I was talking to. The helpless feeling I had when a mother of one of my students - a Philadelphia air traffic controller - called me and warned me that they couldn't find a plane. She was worried it would crash into our school. (It later crashed into a Pennsylvania field). The media played the crashes over and... Thu, 11 Sep 2014 08:22:00 EST Checking In... It's been such a crazy week! Last Sunday we moved my younger son out of his townhouse. He left Tuesday for boot camp. Wednesday, Thursday and Friday I helped my other son pack up his townhouse and Saturday we loaded the truck. <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> That truck is packed! <BR> <BR> And, he left a lot!! So, now I am working on getting the house cleared so it can be rented. Yesterday was about cleaning - it wasn't real di... 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