MONIQUEDVA's SparkPeople Blog http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal.asp?id=MONIQUEDVA MONIQUEDVA's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community SparkPeople.com http://assets2.sparkpeople.com/assets/nav/logo_spark.gif http://www.sparkpeople.com/ Seasons http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6223103 Some of us are familiar with the Pete Seeger tune popularized by the Byrds sometime in the 60s. Others of us are familiar with the Bible verses found in Ecclesiastes Chapter 3. <BR> "To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven." Don't worry...I'm not setting up to preach here. That's not really my thing. The wisdom of this verse & even the popular song are just resonating with me right now. <BR> <BR> I find many of the stereotypes for women are true for me whe... Tue, 23 Aug 2016 11:44:51 EST Evolution http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6194836 Today is July 4th which is the USA's Independence Day. I have recently exited an 11 year relationship & I am once again learning to be independent. It's definitely a process. And it's definitely not a simple one. The thing I think I am having the hardest time coming to terms with is that there is no longer anyone else to blame but me. I'm IT. I'm the adult. I'm flying solo here. If it goes wrong, it's my fault. Whatever IT is, I bear the full weight of responsibility & I have to make the deci... Mon, 4 Jul 2016 20:34:48 EST 2016 Summer 5% Challenge http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6183440 You know how long winded I can be, right? This blog will probably be my shortest ever. I have joined the 5% Challenge team for the summer. I did the "Spring Challenge" & while I didn't lose ALL of the weight I wanted to lose (15 pounds) it did keep me accountable & keep me going. Just like at all of those Weight Watchers meetings most of us attended, there is something very mindful about knowing you will be posting your weight in a public place for others to see. There was no judgment or nega... Wed, 15 Jun 2016 13:21:28 EST Hunger http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6116470 I am once again experiencing hunger. And it's ok. In fact it's more than ok..I'm enjoying the feeling of being hungry. When I read or hear people saying they are emotional eaters, I nod my head in understanding but I'm not really sure I do understand. Some people are presented with a stressor. They react or they don't react. And then in private or later based on that stressful event, they eat their feelings. I mean...I grasp the idea. I just can't say that was me. Because of the hunger. <BR>... Fri, 11 Mar 2016 00:44:09 EST Progress http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6107626 I have been on SPARK since May of 2008. I was inactive for a time while I was battling cancer, but I've been back quite awhile. And in almost 8 years on SPARK, I've watched other people set goals & meet them. I've watched people come & go. And I've watched other people (myself included) stagnate. So what is the difference? Where is that (cliché) SPARK that makes some people DO IT & others NOT do it as well? Am I just stuck in a cycle of inertia? And if I'm not then what is holding me back? T... Mon, 29 Feb 2016 13:01:30 EST So...my Right Shoulder Hurts http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5855710 I should probably mention that "so" is one of my absolute favorite words & I tend to overuse it. That being said, I might also start ALL of my blog posts with it going forward. And then we can call a collection of my blogs "And SO on...". I'm witty this morning! <BR> <BR> I have gained weight since my hernia surgery back in Sept 13. It pretty much just crept up on me. Realistically, did I know it was happening? Sure I did. I had to stop going to my 3 times a week water aerobics class. I was... Fri, 16 Jan 2015 10:47:47 EST Finding my way... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5048550 I am not an athlete. Never was. And in all honesty, probably never will be. I have NOT yet hit that place where I LOVE exercise. I dream of that day. I wonder if and when it will come. And I do, in fact, envy those people for whom exercise is like air. For them exercise is a necessity, it's a non-negotiable. If they miss their exercise session, they truly feel like something is missing. For them, a day without exercise feels wrong. <BR> <BR> So what, I must ask, is the difference between th... Fri, 7 Sep 2012 13:02:05 EST Breast Cancer...more than one month http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=4912254 No, it's not October. It's not the official Breast Cancer month. You might have a different month where you are, but here in the States we pretty much PINK-OUT the month of October. You can race for a cure. You can make strides. You can do any number of things to be honest. But for some of us, men and women alike, breast cancer doesn't only happen in October. That's not the only time we urge our friends, our family, hell...strangers on the street to PLEASE get mammograms, please do self-exams... Mon, 4 Jun 2012 21:38:34 EST The Journey of a Thousand Miles http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=4850675 Begins with a Single Step. <BR> <BR> That's it. Focus!!! Tue, 24 Apr 2012 21:58:48 EST