MARYJEANSL's SparkPeople Blog http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal.asp?id=MARYJEANSL MARYJEANSL's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community SparkPeople.com http://assets2.sparkpeople.com/assets/nav/logo_spark.gif http://www.sparkpeople.com/ No one can top me at losing glasses and keys! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6389177 Sunday night we went to church, at which I had my prescription reading glasses. I even remember putting the case with the glasses in my purse as I was leaving the pew. I drove home in my car. I set my purse in the living room, stopped briefly in the kitchen, and went upstairs to read in my room. After about an hour, my son asked me to go with him to pick up some carryout pizza. We went to Domino's in his car. We came home. I discovered that my reading glasses were GONE. As in, vanishe... Tue, 18 Jul 2017 22:38:09 EST Thirty pounds down and an NSV http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6387941 I have lost another five pounds, and am now thirty pounds below my highest weight. I am pleased to see the number on the scale, but I also know that some of the lost weight may be water, and that weight always fluctuates. So tomorrow that number may be higher. <BR> <BR> However, one of my pairs of Capri pants had gotten so big on me that they were really annoying me. I had to keep hitching them up. Not fun, and really doesn't look good to anyone watching. So I set them aside in a give-... Sat, 15 Jul 2017 23:54:38 EST Twenty-five pounds down http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6379177 My incredibly slow weight loss has taken a more speedy turn of late. It took <BR> me eight years to lose twenty pounds (better than gaining twenty pounds, <BR> right?). Now in less than a year, I have already lost another five. <BR> <BR> I am happy about losing a few more pounds, but not really happy about the <BR> reason, which is stress. Normal everyday life stress, sadly, generally leads <BR> to my overeating. This stress is at a whole new level, and it is severe to the <BR> point ... Sat, 24 Jun 2017 15:53:52 EST Fleas - grrrrrrrrrrrr... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6376695 We spent last week at Canyon Lake, a beautiful small town between San Antonio and Austin. In the summer there are lots of tourists enjoying the lake with all that it offers (boating, tubing, fishing, etc.), so it's very crowded. <BR> <BR> We rent a small unit every year for a week, mostly just to get away. We do some mild hiking (I can't do anything strenuous because of my hip), but also watch TV (only have an antenna at home, and maybe five channels - I know, prehistoric), play miniature ... Sun, 18 Jun 2017 14:13:25 EST June 3 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6370436 I haven't had time for blogging lately. Haven't had time for much, really. Internet at home is down and library time is at a premium. However, I will be posting about Danny's recent doctor's visit when I can. Overall, it went well. <BR> <BR> I mentioned in a couple of places that Danny's father is taking me to court. He is asking that the amount of child support be lowered, for one thing. That has only to do with how much money he makes, and will be dealt with - hopefully - by the lawy... Sat, 3 Jun 2017 18:26:45 EST Just for fun - 40 things about me http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6367786 I don't usually do these types of questions, definitely wouldn't on Facebook, but I will here <BR> on Spark People, just for fun. <BR> <BR> 1. Do you like blue cheese? <BR> Yes <BR> <BR> 2. Have you ever smoked cigarettes? <BR> No <BR> <BR> 3. Do you own a gun? <BR> Yes <BR> <BR> 4. What is your favourite sweet drink? <BR> Diet Coke, though I am working on giving it up <BR> <BR> 5. Do you hold any diploma(s), degree(s) or certification(s)? <BR> BS in Chemistry, Georgetown... Sun, 28 May 2017 17:01:22 EST Good MRI Report and a Video http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6355715 Danny had his regular every-three-month MRI last Tuesday <BR> evening. It was the first time in a long time he didn't go in <BR> already accessed, and I was worried. The last time the MRI <BR> tech tried to put an IV in his arm, he ended up with huge <BR> bruises on the inside of both elbows. But, without a port, he <BR> didn't have a choice. <BR> <BR> Sure enough, the tech couldn't get an IV in. He finally <BR> decided to just inject the contrast directly once the initial <BR> scans wer... Sun, 30 Apr 2017 17:57:41 EST Port removal http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6353127 Just a quick post to say that the surgery to remove Danny's port last Thursday went very well. The whole surgery took 11 minutes, not counting the administering of and recovering from the anesthetic, which added an hour and a half. When Danny started coming out of the anesthesia, he first asked for underwear and secondly for French fries. So I knew he was OK. <BR> <BR> I will add that I was and am very annoyed that the anesthesiologist used general anesthesia instead of just sedation. Se... Tue, 25 Apr 2017 01:00:51 EST Reflections on Obesity, Love, and Rejection http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6348673 I have been so busy lately (what else is new?) that I haven't had much time for SP beyond checking in. Easter weekend gives me a bit of a break, and I wanted to put down some thoughts. <BR> <BR> Last weekend I went to a big family reunion in Wichita, KS. I may blog more about the reunion later, but now I am reflecting on something I learned there. <BR> <BR> In talking to relatives, I found out some things I hadn't known about other family members. Back in 1980, my grandmother died. At h... Fri, 14 Apr 2017 23:52:27 EST Happy Birthday to Danny http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6317193 This is a very special birthday for Danny; it is the year when his age and the day of the month of his birthday are the same. And it is special for other reasons, too; at one point I never thought we would see this birthday. I am so very, very grateful that he is still with us, and celebrating a birthday that might never have happened. Happy sixteenth birthday, Danny! I love you to infinity and beyond! Thu, 16 Feb 2017 22:16:24 EST For others it is a simple flat tire, but not me! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6316663 So my car had a flat tire yesterday evening, right when it was too late for any of the relevant repair places to be open. One of my neighbours kindly offered to put some air in it, although Henry and I both really thought it would be a waste of time. That was because the tire had been OK when I had driven it to work in the morning and back later on, but was totally flat a few hours later. <BR> <BR> In any case, I borrowed Henry's car to do the grocery shopping, and the neighbor put some ai... Wed, 15 Feb 2017 20:20:36 EST The Flu http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6316230 Well, I was about as wrong as I could have been in my last blog entry. What I had was not an allergy, although I did have an allergic cough last year. What this was was the flu, pure and simple. <BR> <BR> The coughing started last Tuesday evening, I was worse on Wednesday, and by Thursday I was pretty miserable and pretty sure it was the flu. I started taking Tamiflu on Thursday evening. Unfortunately, it didn't give me the miracle cure I would have liked to have. I stayed pretty sick... Tue, 14 Feb 2017 23:28:09 EST The Return of the Cough http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6313141 Yesterday afternoon I was at the library when I started in coughing. Not the best place for it, to be sure, but it wasn't too bad then. However, it got progressively worse during the evening, and I had a very disturbed night because my coughing kept me awake. <BR> <BR> I am pretty sure that this is an allergy, mostly because I had something similar happen last year about this time. I coughed and coughed and coughed, especially at night when I was lying down, but really didn't have any oth... Wed, 8 Feb 2017 23:44:20 EST Painful Day http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6311482 Yesterday was a really terrible day for me physically. I wasn't really feeling that bad in the morning, but after dropping Danny off at a service project, Henry and I went to a big Asian festival. That was my downfall. <BR> <BR> We weren't expecting a large crowd, but there was. In addition, the location was downtown, and I hate, hate, hate driving in any downtown. There are always one-way streets, zero parking, and random street closures. So I get lost, panic, and can't find a place to ... Sun, 5 Feb 2017 23:42:03 EST The Agonies of Shopping http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6306372 I *hate* clothes shopping! Today I was at Walmart, and saw some sweat pants. I needed another pair and they seemed to have a good selection. I don't normally consider myself to be hard to fit...however. I picked out a navy pair, women's petite 2X, and a women's petite 1X, plus a grey pair, petite 2X, loose style. I really wanted grey in the non-loose style, but they didn't have it in either 1X or 2X. The navy 1X was too tight and too short. It wasn't that short on me, and I would have b... Fri, 27 Jan 2017 18:46:19 EST Quarterly MRI http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6301671 Last night Danny has his regular three-month MRI. That is always hard on me in terms of stress. Yesterday I didn't do too badly, partly because we had a busy day, what with Danny's co-op classes and then having to drive all the way across town to the hospital. We got to the clinic in time for him to be accessed before the scan, but barely. <BR> <BR> Fortunately, Earlie was able to access Danny's port right away, while I spoke briefly to Dr. Whiteway about the upcoming port removal surgery... Thu, 19 Jan 2017 23:42:19 EST Successful Doctor's Visit :-) http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6297080 Today I had an appointment with my primary care doctor. I like the guy overall. He is nice, and he is willing to respect my wishes to avoid prescription meds. The appointment went better than I had imagined. He had my circulation tested in a way I wasn't familiar with, and I got a good score, 2 out of a max of 7, where the lower the score, the better. <BR> <BR> Then he told me the results of the ultrasound of my carotid arteries, which he said looked better than they had on the last scan... Fri, 13 Jan 2017 00:59:52 EST Family Pictures and Happy New Year! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6289197 Being a dinosaur, I still send out Christmas cards by snail mail, and I also, if I include a picture, send a real photo. This year, I got my behind in gear and actually had some pictures taken of our family. <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/57c4bf9f-fbea-4b7d-b5cf-e59c97d63095.jpeg"> <BR> <BR> My two sons. <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/1e9fd624-0714-4fa9-ab8c-b73d643daced.jpeg"> <BR> <BR> My three amazing and wonderful children. <BR>... Mon, 2 Jan 2017 02:15:12 EST Christmas Surprise http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6286246 When I opened my Christmas stocking, I was surprised to see something unexpected in it. Generally, I buy everything that goes in the stockings. I was further shocked to see a beautiful hand-painted ornament. <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/96ef854d-c3c1-47f6-a834-27b0a52e653a.jpg"> <BR> <BR> It was my Christmas present from Danny. He has been taking an art class this year, as part of a new homeschool co-op. Now, Danny has always hated anything remotely to do w... Wed, 28 Dec 2016 00:02:15 EST I was right....wish I hadn't been! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6272383 For a long time now, as long as I have had arthritis, I have been saying that I can't walk long distances, or run, period, because it causes severe pain. Yesterday I put it to the test. I am visiting my mom, who lives in a small town in Pennsylvania. It was very pleasant weather, cool but not cold. I walked all over town for an hour and a half, stopping at the post office to mail a letter, and at a small bookstore, where I bought a Christmas present for Danny. I like to support small busi... Sat, 26 Nov 2016 12:08:04 EST Sunday's Surefire way to lose weight! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6255959 If I had this kind of tech support, I would be at least twenty pounds lighter. Lol! <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/2351ca76-d92e-4fb5-8486-9bb494503060.jpg"> Sun, 23 Oct 2016 17:36:21 EST PSAT http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6254138 Since Danny has been doing so well, looking and acting just like he did before diagnosis, I decided that we would go back to living as normal a life as possible. And one of the things that is part of that at his age is standardized testing. If he were in the grade his age dictates, he would be a sophomore in high school. However, because of cancer and its treatment, he missed a full two years of school, so that, if someone asks me his grade, I say that 9th grade is the closest. Truthfully... Wed, 19 Oct 2016 18:44:39 EST MRI http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6248423 Well, this Thursday was MRI day. It was, as usual, a super busy day, and we got to the clinic closer to 2:30 than to 2:00, but that was OK from my point of view because I had allowed extra time. Nurse Earlie accessed his port, took some blood, and left him accessed. He has to be left accessed because the MRI techs are awful at starting IVs in his veins and using the port totally avoids the problem. They have to give him IV contrast as part of the procedure. <BR> <BR> We got to the MRI cli... Sat, 8 Oct 2016 16:36:12 EST Feeling Better! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6247385 Whatever I had the past two days, it must not have been flu after all. Not traditional flu, at any rate. I am feeling much, much better today. It's really funny, because the symptoms were typical flu symptoms - chills, fever, and body aches, nothing else. I was just about sure it was flu. But I never heard of flu lasting only 36 hours. <BR> <BR> In any case, I am so glad to be feeling better and just about back to normal. Danny can have his MRI, and I don't have to cancel or re-schedul... Thu, 6 Oct 2016 13:20:28 EST Probably the flu... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6247041 I almost never get sick, so that, on the rare occasions when I do, it hits me very hard. Last night, after a long and stressful day, I started to feel unwell. I had chills and body aches. Went up to bed, and piled the covers high. After a couple of hours, I started to feel hot and threw off the covers. Took my temp and it was 100.4°. The rest of the night I spent alternating between too hot and too cold, waking up every time I got uncomfortable. Most of the time I was barely dozing. Si... Wed, 5 Oct 2016 22:39:48 EST Hormone Testing Results http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6245432 Friday morning, I was in the middle of running a couple of errands when my cell rang. Like clockwork, important calls always happen while I am driving. I saw that the number was from the hospital, so I figured I had better answer it. Fortunately, I was able to pull into my bank's parking lot. It was Dr. Oberlin, the pediatric endocrinologist who had seen Danny on September 13th. He had called to give me the results of the hormone testing. <BR> <BR> Pretty much the first thing he said was... Mon, 3 Oct 2016 00:54:17 EST Neuropsych testing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6241383 Neuropsych testing includes a fairly substantial battery of <BR> tests that is used to evaluate brain function. Although I am <BR> sure that there are a number of medical conditions that <BR> such testing is used for, brain cancer is definitely one of <BR> them. <BR> <BR> Because a brain tumor can obviously have a significant <BR> impact on a lot of aspects of a child's life/health, as can <BR> the radiation and chemotherapy used to treat such a tumor, <BR> neuropsych testing is important... Sun, 25 Sep 2016 01:03:48 EST Appointment with the Endocrinologist http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6240254 <BR> <BR> <BR> I have been neglectful in updating about Danny's health, and I am sorry. <BR> The good news is that he is doing well. I did post about his most <BR> recent MRI, which was at the end of June. The MRIs are really the <BR> only way to be sure of what is going on in his brain. Obviously, we <BR> hope and pray that everything stays stable, as it has been. <BR> <BR> Since he hasn't had any treatments since December, Danny has continued <BR> to improve. His balance, which... Thu, 22 Sep 2016 16:47:22 EST Gold in September http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6228675 This is my profile picture on FB for the month of September. It was designed by a graphic artist in California who has a heart for children with cancer. <BR> <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/a9f8d073-44a8-4c8c-9395-498496457de8.jpg"> <BR> <BR> <BR> September is Childhood Cancer Awareness month. Of course I support this with all my heart, since childhood cancer is severely underfunded and off the radar of the majority of people. It was off my radar until it hap... Thu, 1 Sep 2016 23:28:09 EST Another Catch-Up Blog http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6227458 Life has gotten busier than ever lately, and I am just not doing well at catching-up on things like this blog. I wanted to go back to May and finish the story of our trip to Virginia. <BR> <BR> After we left Cecily's college for the last time, we drove to central PA, where my mother lives. It is always bittersweet to visit her, because she has Alzheimer's disease. She used to be such a smart, caring woman, always busy, and always doing for others, and interested in all sorts of things. N... Wed, 31 Aug 2016 00:45:38 EST I hate cancer! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6223318 I am very, very sad today. I lost another dear friend to cancer. She was one of the sweetest, kindest people I have ever known. She leaves behind a loving husband, three remarkable children, and scores of friends. If I hate cancer, she is one of the reasons. Rest in peace, Alice. <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/7f3f1fea-6a6c-4c9c-9ef0-38a3ce9dbd5a.jpg"> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> Tue, 23 Aug 2016 19:51:26 EST Non-Scale Victory http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6219843 All my small victories for the time being will be non-scale ones, since the scale I bought online a couple of years ago for cheap, recently reminded me yet again that you get what you pay for. It stopped working. Not the battery, since I tried replacing it. :-( <BR> <BR> I'll probably buy a new scale in the near future, but for now I have no idea of my exact weight. I think I am holding steady, since my clothes are still fitting the way they have been. <BR> <BR> So, today I stopped by a ... Wed, 17 Aug 2016 18:02:58 EST Dd's Graduation - Belated blog from May http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6209527 I got so caught up in life that I never blogged about a lot of things that happened between March and June. The main event of the period was my dd's college graduation. I had decided to do a road trip (from Texas to Virginia) for the occasion. I figured it was cheaper to drive and get inexpensive food and motels than pay for three round-trip plane tickets and one one-way plane ticket, plus the cost of shipping all Cecily's stuff back to Texas. <BR> <BR> It was, overall, a lot of fun, alth... Sun, 31 Jul 2016 00:39:16 EST Murphy's Law Strikes Again! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6204028 OK, this is a bit much. My AC has gone out, my refrigerator and freezer are both barely cooling the food (the water in the ice trays isn't even freezing completely!), there is a leak in the pipes under my front yard, I got hit by an uninsured driver and have a $250 deductible on the repair (if she had been insured, it would have been zero), and I found out yesterday that my roof needs to be replaced, with a huge deductible ($2280) on that repair. All I need now is for the washer and dryer to... Wed, 20 Jul 2016 22:09:53 EST MRI Results - Mostly Good News http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6193361 I had quite a day yesterday, waiting for the MRI results. I knew Dr. Hipp would call me, because he had said he would, but I also knew that he wouldn't be in any hurry to do so. Dr. Whiteway, for whatever reason, is much more understanding of the stress parents go through waiting for important results. <BR> <BR> I even had to call the clinic because I had lost some important papers, and thought I might have left them in the clinic. When I called, Mary, the receptionist, in addition to tel... Sat, 2 Jul 2016 01:00:42 EST Wrangler Day, MRI Day, and Scanxiety http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6191524 I keep wanting to blog more, but just have so much trouble making time for it. Today is the big day - Danny has his six month's post relapse treatment MRI, and I am a complete basket case, although I am trying not to let him know. Scanxiety has taken over my life. He is doing very well overall, and has no symptoms of a new tumour, but I know very well that bad things can be happening in his head long before any symptoms show up. Which is why they schedule an MRI every three months. <BR> ... Wed, 29 Jun 2016 01:36:29 EST Twenty Pounds Lost! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6174855 I haven't blogged in forever (well, two months and counting, but it might as well be forever), even though I have had a lot of things I wanted to blog about. I have just been swamped with things to do, and the funny thing is that I haven't even been getting them done. The list of phone calls I need to make (urgently!) never gets smaller, the piles of papers to file never shrinks, the dishes in the sink never disappear (I only wish!), and I continue to feel woefully inadequate to the job des... Thu, 2 Jun 2016 01:21:49 EST Mostly good news http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6125274 Last week Danny started randomly vomiting, while clearly not feeling sick. Monday he vomited twice. Luckily both times someone was quick with a bag or trash can. I had long ago stopped carrying blue hospital vomit bags in my purse. Tuesday we had gone out to dinner at Cracker Barrel (Danny's choice), finished eating, and were about to get up to leave. Danny had eaten something, but not a lot. He never eats a lot, unfortunately. All of a sudden, he leaned over and threw up everything in... Tue, 22 Mar 2016 16:33:59 EST Correction and Clarification http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6115492 I should probably know better than to post a blog, especially when irritated and upset, before I really have full information. Unfortunately, I did just that in my last blog. I found out yesterday that much of what I posted was wrong, if only in part. <BR> <BR> Yesterday Henry went in to repeat the measurement of his corneal endothelial cells. He had been told it would be a quick in and out, just for the measurement, so I didn't think I really needed to be there. Plus I had a lunch date ... Wed, 9 Mar 2016 20:49:30 EST Eye Surgery Blues http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6111360 Henry had to have some more eye measurements done today for the surgery his ophthalmologist has been talking about for some time. It is a relatively new surgery, involving putting a special lens in his eye without taking out the lens he has. Dr. Townley has been talking about it ever since it became clear Henry needed cataract surgery in his other eye. <BR> <BR> The situation is a bit complicated, but it plays out this way. If Dr. T corrected the cataract in Henry's right eye as much as p... Fri, 4 Mar 2016 18:42:33 EST Stomach Flu http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6110560 I am generally very healthy, and almost never get sick. Last year, just like everyone else in the city, it seemed, I did get the flu, as did Danny. He got a lot more attention for it than I did. (Appropriately) <BR> <BR> In any case, the last thing in the world I had been expecting was to get sick. Yes, I am under a tremendous amount of stress, and yes, I rarely get enough sleep, but still I didn't think I would get sick. I was wrong. <BR> <BR> So last night I started to feel unwell aro... Thu, 3 Mar 2016 18:45:52 EST Surgery follow-up http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6106264 Henry had a follow-up appointment yesterday, which was mostly memorable because the doctor told us a number of things that were in direct contradiction to what he had said before. One was that he was going to remove the stitch in his eye at the appointment. Nope. Another was that he was going to use a laser to take off some excess cells he hadn't been able to remove at the initial surgery at that appointment. Again, nope. Not really a big deal, but annoying to have wrong expectations. <BR>... Sat, 27 Feb 2016 18:13:16 EST Henry's Cataract Surgery http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6101450 Last Tuesday (the 16th) was a big day for Henry as well as for Danny. It was Danny's 15th birthday, which is a pretty special thing. Sadly for him, though, it was also the day of Henry's cataract surgery, which took precedence for most of the day. <BR> <BR> Henry had to be at the same-day surgery clinic at 10:30. Parenthetically I add that this was ridiculous. He didn't even get called back for pre-op until well after 12:30, and the surgery ended up starting at about 3:15. But. One doe... Sun, 21 Feb 2016 17:36:31 EST "Ash" Wednesday http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6097755 Last Wednesday I had a near escape from burning the house down. I also am now quite worried about my brain (or lack thereof). One would think that, having lived in the same house for more than fifteen years, I would know which burner on the stove goes with which knob. One would think...and one would be wrong. <BR> <BR> I wanted to make some tea, so I put the tea kettle on the stove, and turned the burner on high so it would boil quickly. That was the idea, anyway. However, the burner I ... Tue, 16 Feb 2016 23:11:03 EST Proud of my daughter again http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6095851 It seems to be a very special spring for my daughter. She writes a blog for a website called Catholic Stand. She doesn't get paid for it, but she enjoys writing, and she figures it is something good to put on her resume. One of her blogs was recognized by some columnist as 'best of the week,' along with fifteen others. For a beginning writer, it was a huge encouragement, and I don't know when I have seen her so happy. It made my day, too, especially since I had not had a great week. Sun, 14 Feb 2016 17:18:59 EST My Daughter's Dance http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6090167 My lovely daughter asked me to post a link to a dance she choreographed and performed. She has cerebral palsy as a result of bleeding in her brain because of her premature birth (28 weeks). Nonetheless, she has accomplished a great deal - she is a senior in college, set to graduate in May. She also was the first disabled student at her college to spend a semester in Rome her junior year. <BR> <BR> She has always loved dancing, and always wanted to dance. It has been her dream to choreo... Sun, 7 Feb 2016 15:58:38 EST More on surgery http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6085472 Henry and I saw Dr. Townley today for the real pre-surgery appointment. I'm not really sure what the other one was, when we spent most of a day going from pillar to post and having a bunch of eye measurements made, plus seeing an ophthalmologist he had never seen before. The whole thing seems to have been some sort of random error. <BR> <BR> In any case, today quite a few of the measurements were repeated, which seemed silly, but at least Henry did get to see Dr. Townley, who is the one wh... Tue, 2 Feb 2016 01:32:24 EST Eye Surgery http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6084352 Now that I have a brief break from dealing with Danny's medical issues, I get to start dealing with Henry's. Now, Henry, unlike Danny, is of age (heck, he's 25!), so technically I have no say unless he allows me one. However, he has always let me come to his appointments if I want to. <BR> <BR> Here's the history: back when he was 19, a month or so before Christmas, his eyes started bothering him - they started watering all the time, and I mean all the time. We figured it was allergies, so... Sun, 31 Jan 2016 22:21:12 EST THE Call http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6075750 Well, the pediatric urologist, Dr. Novak, surprised me, <BR> after I had decided that he wasn't going to call me after <BR> all. Yesterday (Wednesday), I made the mistake of <BR> answering the phone ;-) and there he was. I know he <BR> thought I was a total fool. Since I hadn't expected the <BR> call, I hadn't thought at all about what I would say. It <BR> was a very awkward conversation. <BR> <BR> I stuttered and stammered, and I'm very sure he could <BR> tell that I am on Danny's... Thu, 21 Jan 2016 20:49:36 EST Hives http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6073159 I think it was on Saturday that I first noticed some odd lumps (pimples? At my age?) on my <BR> arm and back, but it wasn't anything I paid much attention to. Then yesterday I realised <BR> that I had developed not just a few, but lots and lots of very itchy bumps all over, but mostly <BR> on my left arm. Some on my legs and back, a few on my face and stomach. <BR> <BR> I have had hives before, but not for many, many years. I believe the last time was in <BR> 1984 or -5. At the time I w... Mon, 18 Jan 2016 21:48:09 EST