MARYJEANSL's SparkPeople Blog http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal.asp?id=MARYJEANSL MARYJEANSL's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community SparkPeople.com http://assets2.sparkpeople.com/assets/nav/logo_spark.gif http://www.sparkpeople.com/ Thoughts on body shaming http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5987560 I recently read a very thought-provoking blog about body shaming. The person who wrote it mentioned an incident where she was wearing a sleeveless shirt because it was a hot day, Her cousin, with whom she was having lunch, was horrified and said that *she* would never wear such a shirt because a sleeveless shirt would allow people to see her fat arms. The blog writer, which what I consider to be a great attitude, simply stated that she was more comfortable that way. She wrote that, while ... Sun, 30 Aug 2015 18:12:35 EST Good news, with a bit of a caveat http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5986505 Danny's MRI shows no new tumor growth! That is the good news, and such a huge, huge relief. :-) We had to go in for chemo today, and I asked Dr. Whiteway first thing about the MRI. She said she had looked at it, and there was nothing big nor obvious, but that she isn't an expert and could easily miss something smaller. So that was a good preliminary report. <BR> <BR> She also said she expected that the official results would be available later in the day so that I could know for sure bef... Fri, 28 Aug 2015 19:39:31 EST MRI Blues... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5986101 ...Or, How to Control Scanxiety by Writing a Blog Update <BR> <BR> Danny's MRI was originally scheduled for last week, the 18th <BR> to be exact. It didn't happen then because there was a major <BR> miscommunication between me and the MRI scheduling person. <BR> Don't know how the mistake happened, but the scan did have <BR> to be re-scheduled, for tonight at 7 P.M. <BR> <BR> Fortunately, this time my calendar and the scheduling computer <BR> were in agreement. Unfortunately, the clinic... Fri, 28 Aug 2015 01:33:13 EST Always something http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5981960 Yesterday morning Henry woke me up to tell me that he was in severe pain and needed to go to the ER. Coming from Henry, who is like I was at his age, and avoids doctors whenever possible, that meant he felt very bad indeed. <BR> <BR> So I dragged myself out of bed and took him to Urgent Care, which is closer. In retrospect, he might even have been able to get a same-day appointment in primary care, given how early it was, but Urgent Care worked out well enough. <BR> <BR> It turns out th... Fri, 21 Aug 2015 08:55:46 EST Bad day at black rock http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5978544 When I was a little girl, I remember my mother talking about having a 'bad day at black rock.' I wonder if that was a common expression, since I have never heard anyone else use that term. And my mother has Alzheimer's, so she won't remember. <BR> <BR> In any case, a bad day at black rock is a very good way to describe yesterday. It started out bad, and got progressively worse. And, as usual, poor Danny got the worst of it. I admit that there have been worse days, but this one was right... Sat, 15 Aug 2015 18:44:28 EST How I Almost got a Med Student in Trouble and a Doctor Actually Did http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5976847 On the lighter side of doctors and treatments...a story no one but me may find amusing, but at least it made me smile. <BR> <BR> Danny and I arrived at the clinic a couple weeks ago for an appt., and were introduced to a very nice medical student. Now, my ex-husband is a doctor, and we were married while he went through med school. Thus, I know a fair bit about medical students and the military. In addition, Danny and I have encountered quite a number of med students in the course of his ... Wed, 12 Aug 2015 20:31:01 EST Counts and YL Convention http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5974462 I just lost a very long blog I was almost finished typing. It just vanished. I hate this computer!!! Otoh, it may well be that it was too long and boring. I'll see if I can do a short and sweet recap. Short and sweet isn't usually my style, but there's no way I am going to try to type that much again late at night. <BR> <BR> After the crazy day I last blogged about, we had a period of calm, and Danny continued to do well. Always good when I can say that. Then he had his next chemo, a ... Sun, 9 Aug 2015 00:55:13 EST Tough Day http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5969815 Yesterday was just one of those days. :-( Henry and Cecily had a 10:45 appointment to get new ID cards, which they both need for medical care. So this was a very important appointment. Meanwhile, Danny had an appointment across town at the clinic for 11:00. Since neither Henry nor Cecily could get on base for their appointment without me, short of waiting over an hour and undergoing a huge amount of hassle to verify their appointment at the guard gate, I had to take them. <BR> <BR> So I... Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:41:12 EST Bianka http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5968372 I usually try not to be a Debbie Downer, but this blog will be an exception. I am hurting badly for two of the strongest, bravest parents I know, and their beautiful daughter. <BR> <BR> One of the greatest supports I have found since Danny's cancer diagnosis has been a Facebook group for parents of children with his type of cancer. In addition, there is a listserv. I have electronically met so many amazing parents from these groups. They provide tons of useful information (things like av... Wed, 29 Jul 2015 02:38:17 EST No news is mostly good news http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5966248 Nothing too exciting has been happening with life lately, and that's a good thing overall. Last week Danny was in Florida with his father, stepmother, and stepbrother. They visited the Disney parks and also Universal Studios. Danny never likes being asked if he had a good time, or how he enjoyed something, or what was his favorite thing. However, I tried hard to keep him from being rude to people who asked him such questions, and I more or less figured out the answers. <BR> <BR> He enjoy... Sat, 25 Jul 2015 00:55:15 EST What else could go wrong? http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5958387 Danny had an appointment scheduled in Houston at M.D. Anderson <BR> this past Monday, the sixth. Dr. Mahajan, his radiation oncologist in <BR> 2013, likes to follow up yearly with the kids she has treated. She also <BR> wants them to have neuropsych testing yearly. Because of that, she had <BR> an appointment for that scheduled for Danny as well. <BR> <BR> Because of the two appointments, I had booked a room for us at the <BR> Ronald McDonald House from Sunday night to Friday morning, ... Fri, 10 Jul 2015 01:00:53 EST Pictures from camp in Colorado http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5957038 I think I am able to post a few camp pictures. Here is a chipmunk enjoying some sunflower seeds on the hand of one of the campers (not us): <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/e3117c2c-85e4-4ee9-afe4-3147c6487806.jpg"> <BR> <BR> Here is a picture of our group of whitewater rafters, those of us who went on the milk run: <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeople.com/guid/706f80fc-e75f-403e-8ab7-b7c47c4b635c.JPG"> <BR> <BR> Although Danny is in the picture, he... Tue, 7 Jul 2015 16:12:25 EST Catch-up continued http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5955186 The pictures from our summer camp appear to be too big to post on this blog. Oh well, I should have some others later that I may be able to post. <BR> <BR> Getting back to Danny and his treatment, we returned home from having been at camp Sunday night, June 14th, and a new chemo cycle started on June 15th. This was Danny's seventh cycle of this particular chemo regimen. Dr. Whiteway has said that each cycle is different, and she surely is right about that. After six cycles with greater a... Sat, 4 Jul 2015 01:02:36 EST Catch-up http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5955166 So much time has passed since I did a real Danny update that I am going to try to do a brief recap of just the main points. Given my propensity for long-windedness, I may not be successful in the 'brief' category, but I'll try. <BR> <BR> The previous blog entry went through May 26th, when Danny had some chemo, and, although it was a very long day, it didn't go too badly. After that, although his neutrophils (infection-fighting cells) dropped to a very low point, he didn't get a fever so no... Sat, 4 Jul 2015 00:03:28 EST Appointment with neuroophthalmologist http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5949386 Once again I am skipping quite a bit of Danny medical stuff in order to blog about the appointment he had today, which was pretty intense, for me as well as him. <BR> <BR> He had been complaining of double vision quite a lot recently. As it turns out, he says he has had double vision for years, but, until the last two or three months, he was able to control it by thinking about it. So much so that I had totally forgotten he ever said anything to me about double vision. <BR> <BR> However... Mon, 22 Jun 2015 20:35:38 EST Another Anxiety Episode http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5947321 I haven't posted a Danny update in a very long time, mostly because I always seem to be too tired in the evenings when I tend to have more time. I will try to do an overall update of the past few weeks, but for the moment, I will start up afresh with what turned out to be another major anxiety attack. <BR> <BR> Danny is nearing the end of a week of chemo every day. Actually this week has been going quite well so far. He is still eating, although not as much as I might want. Typically a w... Thu, 18 Jun 2015 16:14:19 EST Ankle update http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5944287 Well, I posted back in May (a month ago!), that I had been suffering with an injured and painful ankle. I saw the doctor, who ordered an x-ray and recommended pain meds, rest, etc. <BR> <BR> Well, pain meds didn't help much, and rest was pretty much out of the question. Whether my not following his suggestions was the reason or not, my ankle didn't get better; in fact, it got worse and worse and worse, to the point that I called for another appointment, since we were heading to a week of... Sat, 13 Jun 2015 01:41:49 EST Whew! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5934909 Today was one of those days when you pretty much come home, throw yourself in bed, and collapse, totally exhausted. It was a chemo day, slightly complicated by the fact that Henry was still in town for the long weekend, and he wanted to come to the hospital with us for Danny's chemo. <BR> <BR> I admit that I assumed that the day would go smoothly. Obviously, that was a bad assumption, but it wasn't an unreasonable one. Danny was scheduled for a lumbar puncture, so we got there early, at a... Wed, 27 May 2015 01:20:40 EST Low white cells http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5932199 Today Danny had a regular clinic visit for blood counts. I wasn't expecting anything too bad, since his counts had been fine on Sunday. In particular, his neutrophils (infection-fighting white blood cells) were relatively high. <BR> <BR> Well, I was wrong. Today his hemoglobin was fine and his platelets were pretty good for a chemo patient. However, his neutrophils were down in the basement. In only four days, they went from the higher end of normal (6700) to extremely low. This means ... Thu, 21 May 2015 20:40:17 EST Alexander has nothing on Danny http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5929928 That would be Alexander, he of the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. I actually thought we had had terrible, horrible, etc., days before, but I was wrong. They paled in comparison to the past three days. One day isn't enough to encompass all the horribleness. <BR> <BR> This past week was chemo week, meaning the one week out of every four during which Danny gets chemotherapy every day, M-F. But this one started out being better than all the past ones. Because Danny was taking Me... Mon, 18 May 2015 02:30:40 EST Bad Ankle http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5928387 I don't think I mentioned in earlier blogs that I had an appointment with my own doctor (how bizarre to go to any doctor other than my kids') last week. I really like this guy. He does a whole lot of blood work and then sees areas that might be concerning and encourages his patients to work on diet or exercise or whatever to try to improve the situation. <BR> <BR> I had actually had the blood drawn back in February, but I had had to cancel the original appointment to discuss the results be... Fri, 15 May 2015 01:17:45 EST MRI results http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5925123 I was quite nervous about Danny's MRI results. Dr. Whiteway had put the request for a scan in the system, but when I went in to schedule it a week ago, the first available opening was June 21st. I knew Dr. W wouldn't think that was soon enough, but there wasn't anything for me to do but tell her the date and let her deal with it. So I left a message with the clinic secretary and went my merry way. <BR> <BR> Monday I got a call from the MRI clinic asking me to bring Danny in on Wednesday a... Sat, 9 May 2015 00:49:17 EST Rocky start to the week http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5918584 After coming in for counts last Tuesday, and being started on Megace, Danny still had kind of a tough rest of the week. He was eating a bit more, but not enough more. We had to come in on Friday as well, since we had intended to go camping Friday, sleep out in our tent, and then return home late on Saturday. Dr. Whiteway wanted to make sure his counts were all right before letting us go out of town and probably out of cell-phone range. <BR> <BR> The first glitch in our camping plans came ... Mon, 27 Apr 2015 14:22:31 EST We have a plan http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5915509 Danny has been having quite a few nose bleeds the past several days. Having once been embarrassed by bringing him in to check platelets, only to find out that his platelets were fine and the nosebleed was caused by digital trauma, I wasn't going to call about it, although I admit I have been concerned. Today he got a nose bleed that did seem to take forever to stop, and I was worried, but I *definitely* wasn't going to call, since he had an appointment for bloodwork anyway. <BR> <BR> First... Wed, 22 Apr 2015 00:50:13 EST Last Day of Chemo... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5914050 ...for the week, at least. Friday was another horrible day. Poor Danny was just so exhausted and sick, and he wouldn't eat (sending me just about around the bend with worry). I had him on a schedule for anti-nausea meds, which actually worked reasonably well, but the whole schedule thing didn't last long. He got some of the meds IV instead of orally, and that made me forget to write down the next time the drug was due. In any case, he didn't need most of the drugs once he was done for th... Sun, 19 Apr 2015 16:34:52 EST Second two days of chemo http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5912560 Unfortunately, the second two days of chemo were not good ones. No two ways about it, the past two days have been horrific. <BR> <BR> The hospital was having a blood drive on Wednesday, and as soon as I saw the signs, I decided to donate. I used to give blood regularly back when I had a 'real' job (sarcasm here). I continued to donate sporadically once I had kids, when I wasn't pregnant or nursing. But I hadn't donated since I got cancer back in 2007. <BR> <BR> At one point I had been... Thu, 16 Apr 2015 20:17:54 EST First two days of chemo http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5911526 Yesterday Danny and I got up early for a looooong day of chemo. I gave him all the anti-nausea drugs that have been prescribed and are compatible with each other: Kytril, Marinol, and two Benadryl. I might not normally give him all four pills, but with four types of chemo, all of which can induce nausea, I figured it was appropriate. <BR> <BR> When we got to the hospital, Steve (nurse) asked what he had taken, and I told him. He recorded it. I was surprised that there didn't seem to be ... Wed, 15 Apr 2015 00:57:57 EST Week of Respite http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5909029 This has been a pretty good week overall. Monday we found out Danny wouldn't have chemo, and he and I have both been resting and recovering since. Well, sort of. I had mailed my taxes to my accountant last week, and this week I had to get my daughter's college financial-aid forms done. They are also due on the 15th. Her college uses its own forms, and I think they are better overall than the FAFSA, but the whole affair is almost as unpleasant as getting taxes done. I plan to get them in... Fri, 10 Apr 2015 17:49:25 EST Quite a Week http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5906141 After Danny had a fever caused by one of his chemo drugs last week (Wednesday night) and got checked out as OK on Thursday morning, I was asked to bring him in on Monday, March 30th for counts. <BR> <BR> His platelets had been fine on Thursday. They certainly should have been, since he had gotten a transfusion on Tuesday. I don't remember, and can't find, the exact number, but I think it was in the range of 60,000 (normal 142,000 to 362,000, and transfusion level below 30,000). Platelet... Mon, 6 Apr 2015 00:56:54 EST Neuropsych Testing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5902452 Last Monday, the 23rd, Danny was scheduled for a neuropsych evaluation at the hospital. This is a very thorough exam, usually taking all day, which includes, among other things, IQ testing. Kids with Danny's type of cancer are supposed to have one after surgery but before treatment, and then again after treatment. <BR> <BR> Danny had this exam done after his surgery, just about two years ago. (April 5, 2012, to be exact). The IQ result was uninterpretable. Which means that he scored v... Mon, 30 Mar 2015 16:23:19 EST Fevers and lawn mowers http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5900400 Danny had gotten his chemo on Tuesday. Wednesday we spent the day at Randolph AFB, where Danny was "Pilot for a Day." We brought two of his friends with us, and I must say that it was fabulous. They left no stone unturned when it came to fun and exciting activities. <BR> <BR> After that, however, when we got home, Danny was not acting well. He was very, very tired, and his cheek was very red. He asked for food for dinner, but then decided that he didn't want it after all. And he felt... Fri, 27 Mar 2015 01:40:17 EST Allergic Reaction to Platelets http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5899757 After Danny's panic attacks, which were a week ago, and after he recovered so completely, I wasn't expecting to come back to the clinic until Tuesday of this week, for regular mid-cycle chemo. However, about 6:30 Thursday morning, Danny woke me up because he had a nosebleed, which wasn't stopping. It didn't look like a bad bleed, in that there wasn't much blood, but I had it ingrained in me that a nosebleed that doesn't stop probably means low platelets. And low platelets means a trip to t... Wed, 25 Mar 2015 23:35:06 EST Why do I do this to myself? http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5897822 Every single year I vow that I am not going to let the grass/weeds grow too high over the winter so that I won't face a nightmare when I break out the lawn mower. And every single blasted year, I have an epic fail at keeping that vow. I mean EPIC! <BR> <BR> This year things were worse than ever, because we had a good bit of rain over the winter. For some reason winter rain doesn't seem to do much to encourage the grass <BR> to grow, but it does a great job with the weeds. And on top of t... Sun, 22 Mar 2015 23:00:35 EST On a lighter note... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5897023 So I was invited to my cousin's wedding in North Carolina. My inclination was to want to go, since family is important to me, and this family is scattered all over (one cousin in NC, one in Japan, one in Las Vegas, and one in Maryland). But the invitation was addressed only to me. My sister, who is more knowledgeable about doing things properly/politeness than I am, told me I couldn't assume Danny was invited. That made me hesitate. Danny's dad has recently moved to Longview, TX, which i... Sat, 21 Mar 2015 13:46:04 EST What next? (I did not want to know the answer to that question.) http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5896214 Danny had a couple of weird episodes yesterday that threw me for a loop, to put it mildly. It seems that we have another problem on top of all the other things he has been dealing with. It is an old saying that God never gives anyone more than he/she can handle...there are times, and now is one, when I am not so sure. <BR> <BR> We were at the hospital picking up a prescription when he suddenly doubled over in pain and almost started crying that his throat/esophagus hurt. He also said at o... Fri, 20 Mar 2015 00:17:31 EST So Very Proud of my Son! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5892929 The last three days of Danny's chemo went pretty well. I was astonished on Wednesday, when, during the chemo, Danny told me that he wanted to go bowling afterwards. And he wanted to bowl six games! <BR> <BR> Danny is in a bowling league on Saturday mornings. This is the third year he has done it. He isn't an especially good bowler, but he does enjoy it. He would have to, to persist as he has, through surgeries and chemo and missing many weeks. Last year he qualified for the Pepsi Tour... Sat, 14 Mar 2015 17:02:59 EST New Week of Chemo http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5891490 This week Danny is getting chemo every day, and we are sort of used to it by now, since this is the fourth cycle of this particular regimen. However, there have been some differences. No two cycles so far ever seem to be alike. <BR> <BR> Also, there were two funny incidents this week, and funny incidents are kind of rare. Monday morning, thinking we had to be there early for a lumbar puncture, we were heading up in the elevator around 8:30, carrying a bunch of stuff. I always come prep... Thu, 12 Mar 2015 02:21:09 EST Correction http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5890855 <BR> <BR> There's always something. Last Friday we went back to the clinic for counts and a talk with Dr. Whiteway. The first thing she said was that it hadn't been white blood cells in Danny's spinal fluid after all. Instead it was the liposomal medium used as a vehicle for the chemo drug (cytarbine) he gets. Thirteen days after it had been infused! <BR> <BR> I asked how on earth they could have thought it was white blood cells when it wasn't. That seemed a very bizarre mistake to ha... Wed, 11 Mar 2015 02:12:28 EST Delays and Ironies http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5885902 This morning Danny seemed to be feeling a bit better than he had the previous couple of days. We headed to the clinic for his scheduled chemo. Before anything else, I asked Dr. Gidvani to look at the bruise on his back where he had had six previous lumbar punctures. He looked at it, pressed it and made Danny flinch, and said that it shouldn't affect today's chemo, assuming his platelets were high enough. <BR> <BR> We had to wait a long time before the LP. Someone else was in the procedur... Mon, 2 Mar 2015 23:12:01 EST Back pain http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5884568 Not a great week for Danny, although it should have been. <BR> The first part of the week he was indeed feeling well, and <BR> back to his old self. Which typically means that he talks <BR> my ear off, usually about his games. And we were on a little <BR> 'staycation,' so we were able to relax a bit more than usual. <BR> However, the weather didn't cooperate. It was wet, cold, <BR> and generally miserable, so we didn't even feel like <BR> swimming in the *indoor* pool. I was also... Sun, 1 Mar 2015 00:57:32 EST Catching up http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5880261 I haven't updated much on Danny in awhile, just occasional status updates. After the long week of chemo every day, which I described in my last Danny update, he had blood counts done Monday and then Friday of that week. The counts were pretty good, given his situation. However, vomiting continued to be a major problem. We got in the habit of carrying blue vomit bags around everywhere we went. And I have many more horrible stains on my carpet than I like to think about. <BR> <BR> In ad... Sun, 22 Feb 2015 01:07:01 EST Vanity Sizing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5877737 An aunt of mine died last summer at age 102. I never actually met her, although I had met her husband (my father's older brother) once at my grandmother's funeral. They lived all the way across the country from us, and, for whatever reason(s), neither our family nor their family traveled to visit. <BR> <BR> At all events, she lived a very long and largely healthy life. Her granddaughter (my cousin's daughter) has taken on the task of going through her things. She has been posting about i... Tue, 17 Feb 2015 22:48:11 EST How Danny is doing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5873553 Still don't have the pictures on the computer, so that will have to wait. But I thought I would at least update on how Danny is doing. <BR> <BR> The treatment regimen he is on is very, very hard on him. I am not sure why, but it almost seems to be payback because the initial regimen (which failed, because his cancer recurred) was really very easy on him, and most children have many, many problems with it. I don't, of course, really mean that he is being paid back. Just that it is ironic ... Wed, 11 Feb 2015 00:34:33 EST Recent news http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5868315 Life has gotten away from me recently, such that my blog posting has almost stopped. I am unhappy with myself over this, but it has been tough. Good old Mr. Murphy also got involved...about two weeks ago, I had typed out a long blog and was almost ready to post it...when my computer suddenly decided it had to refresh the page. I lost the entire entry, threw up my hands, and went to bed. <BR> <BR> I hope to be able to update thoroughly sometime soon, but that isn't now. I can briefly say ... Tue, 3 Feb 2015 00:11:27 EST Danny treatment update, part 2 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5842356 Danny just couldn't seem to get a break. It was a real roller coaster ride for a while. He would seem to be doing well, and then crash back down. Then it would happen again. :-( <BR> <BR> Monday the 15th, when he had chemo again, he seemed to be all right in the morning, in terms of energy and appetite. We got to the clinic at a fairly early hour, I thought, but apparently I was wrong. Somehow they never got around to telling me that they wanted us there at 8 for the lumbar puncture an... Wed, 31 Dec 2014 22:40:44 EST Danny treatment update http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5842332 In the last blog I wrote about Danny and his treatment, I got to the end of the first week of the new chemo protocol. After that, I had high hopes that he would bounce back to his normal self quickly. Unfortunately, my hopes were not realized. <BR> <BR> He was sick and miserable, to varying degrees, every day of the week *after* the big chemo week. The biggest problem was diarrhea, which is a major side effect of one of the chemo drugs (irinotecan). He had taken an antibiotic the previou... Wed, 31 Dec 2014 21:47:15 EST Christmas http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5838578 A lot has gone on with Danny and his treatment since I last blogged about it. I will hopefully get caught up on what is going on with him next time, but I thought Christmas was a better topic today. <BR> <BR> This Christmas was a bit tough for me, since, for the first time since my ex-husband moved out in 2004, he asked to have Danny on Christmas Eve/Christmas morning. Of course I couldn't refuse. He is certainly entitled to have his son on Christmas once in ten years! (Actually, he is s... Fri, 26 Dec 2014 00:30:55 EST First Week of Chemo http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5834671 I have been very neglectful of this blog lately. Partly it's because I have had so much to do, what with Christmas, and partly it's because Danny's chemo hasn't gone smoothly at all, to put it very mildly. I will try to consolidate a whole lot of mostly unpleasant stuff just to start to get caught up. <BR> <BR> After a long drive back home from Dallas and a very late arrival at home, Danny and I had to be at the clinic very early on December 1st to get him started on his new chemo regimen.... Wed, 17 Dec 2014 23:31:32 EST Thanksgiving http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5826112 After an enjoyable, if brief, visit with our friends in New Jersey last Monday, Henry, Danny, and I drove to my mother's house on Tuesday morning. It was very good to see her again, even though she had aged in the two years since I had last seen her. I met her new part-time caregiver, Patti, whom I liked very much. I wasn't able to stay long, though. I had to gas up the rental car and drive to my daughter's college to pick her up and bring her to my mom's, too. <BR> <BR> The drive to her... Mon, 1 Dec 2014 23:55:32 EST Update from DC and parts beyond :-) http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5822199 I just realized I am a bit behind in updating. After the last blog, I did speak to Dr. Whiteway, who confirmed that our DC/PA trip was a go. I am so relieved and happy and grateful to God and to all who have prayed for us and for Danny. <BR> <BR> But I really had to scramble to get ready for the trip. We saved a ton of money by flying to DC from Dallas. Adding in the extra leg to the small airport really adds to the cost. So we packed up on Friday and drove in the intermittently pouring... Mon, 24 Nov 2014 10:45:26 EST