LOVELYSWEETNESS's SparkPeople Blog LOVELYSWEETNESS's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community Ex Narcissist Likes to use Smear Campaigns and Court Battles to Punish Me for Dumping Him You start out just trying to protect your children and get out of a marriage where the man hit the kid and had continual temper tantrums. <BR> <BR> Everything turns around months later where he projects, and accuses you of everything you know that he did. <BR> <BR> The only thing I can control is me. So today I am going to exercise and eat right and try to find joy in the small things and hope I get to sleep tonight. Mon, 24 Jun 2013 09:26:10 EST Feeling Punished by Narcissist... Making steps to not let it effect me These are someone else's words... but this is what I am dealing with this week. <BR> Profound sense of being continually punished even though I divorced the narcissist. <BR> Trying to free my life and my thoughts from the constant accusations. The ex drags me to court with false accusations. He smears me around both the friends and my career contacts. He lies and says I did terrible things in order to get people to feel sorry for him and testify against me. <BR> <BR> I don't have the answ... Mon, 24 Jun 2013 00:30:41 EST