FENWAYGIRL18's SparkPeople Blog http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal.asp?id=FENWAYGIRL18 FENWAYGIRL18's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community SparkPeople.com http://assets2.sparkpeople.com/assets/nav/logo_spark.gif http://www.sparkpeople.com/ my lyme is driving me nuts!!!!!!!!!!! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5733193 I've been so itchy lately I feel as if I could actually claw off my skin!!!!!!!!!!!! it's that bad! I've been taking Benedryl so I won't go crazy it's just been a nightmare. I'm getting the sensation of things crawling all over my feet,legs and hands and nothing is there hahahaha but the doc told me its the lyme..... Today I feel like my eye is as large as a basketball and as if my head was shaken for an hour, but other then that and all the other pains I'm still breathing. I so wish they cou... Sun, 6 Jul 2014 15:41:01 EST very painful day http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5732071 well we're getting that storm big time today, the rain wind have me feeling like crap with tears in my eyes. we planned on having a clam boil today and we did, I usually love butter but today I had some clams , boiled onions yummmmmmmmmmmm, potato (just put a tiny bit of butter on it (usually dunk clams, potato and onions in butter today I didn't). <BR> I had about enough energy to make the boil of course with help from darling hubby and now just resting up. <BR> I hope all my spark friends h... Fri, 4 Jul 2014 17:25:41 EST so excited son's pictures came in http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5731307 I've been waiting patiently (practically pulling my hair out waiting hahaha) for son's pics to come and finally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so proud!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <em>334</em> Hurting big time today eye feels as huge as a cannon ball , body killing me from the pool but somehow I feel so happy to see the pics!!!!!!!!!!!! Thu, 3 Jul 2014 12:14:09 EST Went for a test for my eyes today http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5729198 Well I went for a test for my eyes today, I'm sure it was super expensive only because it lasted all but 5 minutes and I just stared at a green dot. Hopefully it will give me some insight to what is going on with my eyes or if it is just from the lyme and fibro. <BR> It almost seemed a waste to get ready for this appointment it taking so little time, hubby is off this week from his regular job but will work some part time jobs this week. <BR> He has the pool up and going now and the gazebo is... Mon, 30 Jun 2014 16:16:17 EST Thanks for all the support http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5727806 During this bullying ordeal I have been so frustrated and at times it seemed like no one cared but us and then I had so much support from my friends at spark which really helped me to push on, because so many of you saw the injustice as we did. <BR> This has been such a hard rode, but it's really opened my eyes how people we vote for and are suppose to be working for us really don't care about the little guy with no voice. <BR> It may be a long time before you find me in a voting booth after ... Sat, 28 Jun 2014 15:02:23 EST Saw the State Rep http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5727460 What a nice woman first of all I thanked her for even meeting with us as no one else would and she was really sweet and down to earth and was very sympathetic to what we were going through as her daughter was bullied way before she ever became a state rep. <BR> I felt she really got it and knew what we were going through and she met with us for almost 2 hrs (she even kept another appointment waiting for a half hour to listen). <BR> She kept shaking her head as we told her things that were s... Sat, 28 Jun 2014 00:19:47 EST wish us luck going to see state representative about bullying http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5726992 my stomach is torn up, nerves are in an uproar glad we're finally going to meet face to face with someone but who knows what she is going to do if anything but please wish us luck! <BR> Fri, 27 Jun 2014 09:53:40 EST think I picked up a bug at that stupid courthouse last week http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5722607 I have been sick as a dog ! couldn't talk for 3 days, at first I thought it was my allergies but wow noway! I think it was being in the courthouse that did it we saw all kinds in there and didn't belong there at all..... I'm still not feeling great but better then last weekend, not sure if I mentioned that I have an appointment coming up with the State Representative, yes a FACE TO FACE!!!! <BR> My son went for his senior pics for yearbook and OMG!!!!!! we went day before yesterday and I can'... Sat, 21 Jun 2014 08:18:50 EST Went to court we were there for 9 am and we just got home! JOKE! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5716499 Again we went we didn't see the kid or his b#tch mother, god we so didn't belong sitting there with punks swearing the F word every 2 seconds and I mean you should see these people. we waited and waited and yet another prosecutor, what a joke he was! <BR> Oh well I think nothing is going to happen to him, I said so people can just threaten you and nothing happens? he was getting snarty with me well it's tough to prove that he threatened him I said he also hit him this time. Oh well there is n... Thu, 12 Jun 2014 12:38:10 EST This is a joke, 50,000 dollars if I want to retain a lawyer http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5715822 We went to court for the bullying... we got their at 9am sat around for about an hour or more and heard oh his lawyer can't possibly do it today he's very busy come back tomorrow. So go back for 9am and hear oh his lawyer can't make it here till 11am so we leave and come back around 1030am at 1115 my hubby goes to the advocate when is this going to happen oh the judge had to go home we'll see you June 12th. So tomorrow we go again, in the meantime we go see a lawyer he wants 50,000 dollars r... Wed, 11 Jun 2014 13:40:33 EST The school didn't report the bullying incident and they are suppose to http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5706805 I had got in contact with the ACLU way back in April and I finally got a response by mail, they looked into this and said that they believe the school didn't comply with the school bullying laws and report the incident!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and they are suppose to by law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <BR> This might be the ray of light we need. This has been a nightmare and this principal is leaving this year and I'm already thinking what is going to happen to my son at the start of next ye... Fri, 30 May 2014 12:53:20 EST The judicial system is a joke!!!!!!!!!!!! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5706067 We went to court again today for 9 am, we're told oh their lawyer can't get here till 11am so come back now my hubby works 3rd shift and has been losing a lot of sleep... Okay we leave and come back we're sitting there for about 30 minutes, oh the judge had to leave at 11am... WTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR>!!! are you kidding me? It's a gorgeous day out did he have to go do 9 holes at the country club? I mean there is no justice here! <BR> We ask if this kid had a no contact o... Thu, 29 May 2014 13:15:52 EST back to court tomorrow, more prayers needed http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5705638 So we went to court and their lawyer said he was to busy to deal with this today so here we go back tomorrow like we need this stress. We spoke to a lawyer and he said that we should say we want this kid to go to counseling, anger management and that he should get at least a full year no contact probation. <BR> We told him that at the last court hearing he was told not to say anything, get friends involved and then that Monday one of his friends was bullying my son, he said that he went agai... Wed, 28 May 2014 23:48:49 EST court at 9am about the bullying/ please say a prayer for us http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5704821 okay so here we go again, court actually it's suppose to be some kind of conference to bring bills in and talk. I'm not letting this kid get away with just a slap on the hand , this is the second threat made to my son in the last two years. <BR> I have no sympathy for this kid who has made our lives a living hell and I'm not having my son become a statistic because people don't want to do their jobs. <BR> I'm not sure what they can do to this kid, but maybe some anger management classes and ... Wed, 28 May 2014 00:04:32 EST Read your expiration date on food http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5702978 We were at Walmart and my husband saw Hostess apple pies the individually wrapped ones so he said you want one? I said okay, so we bought 3 one for each of us and well we started eating it I was eating mine in the living room of course with no light on because of my eyes I said boy this crust is thick, I swallowed and then my hubby bit into his and said what the hell, he went in the kitchen and said OMG there is black crap in this he looked at the expiration date and it was 2 months expired!!... Sun, 25 May 2014 18:57:54 EST Tonight is the prom bring on the tissues http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5700846 So went to pick up his tux OMG he looks so handsome in it and I'm going to take pics but last time I tried putting pics on here I had a hard time. he's got a black tux with black shirt, grey bow tie and vest with a white rose as a boudenier ( I know I didn't spell that right hahaha). <BR> He's going to wear his birthstone tie clip with his dressy watch , when did he grow up on me? just the other day he was going to pre school, this is his junior prom. <BR> I saved money in my can hahaha and i... Thu, 22 May 2014 14:03:21 EST Court and anxiety http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5700052 I'm not sure what is going to happen next week, but I feel bad that I have to bring the bills in for the parents to pay in one way and then I think of all the hell this boy has put not only my son through but my whole family. I have to keep thinking that we never would have these expenses if it wasn't for this boy, see for some reason I'm feeling like a bad guy , I know it's crazy! Especially when I think about the mother saying she was going to get all the mud she could on my son, but we're... Wed, 21 May 2014 13:35:34 EST Next week is court, eye doc results, western blot results etc..... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5699450 So today we called to ask about next weeks court date, I guess it's just a conference we'll present medical bills and some lost wages for my husband from the bullying. I don't know I knew the kid would have a lawyer but when the woman on the phone said he just got one it immediately turned my stomach and guess what the sick to my stomach nerve feeling is back! I've gone to the bathroom none stop since hearing the word lawyer. <BR> Son wants to go and the therapist said he should if that's wha... Tue, 20 May 2014 19:02:45 EST Lonely, horrible mother's day http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5692674 Well my son is doing his play today, I think it was not in good taste to even have this play this weekend , but who am I. We saw him perform yesterday he did awesome! I was so proud watching him and he's there right now. <BR> I'm a little hurt my husband I know has been working some over time and didn't have a chance to get me anything so he's been gone most of the day ( I decided instead of going out to eat because my son won't be back from the play till 5:30pm that we shouldn't go out just ... Sun, 11 May 2014 14:03:53 EST getting ready to see my son in a play http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5691893 God he has been doing so many rehearsals and the guy running the play isn't organized at all telling the kids last minute about rehearsals and running late with them but that's all in the past now he had his first performance last night and he said it was awesome and so today we're going to the afternoon performance because he said the night show is almost sold out so I want to make sure I get to see him today. <BR> I'm so proud of all the work he's done and one thing I loved is that the kids... Sat, 10 May 2014 11:32:32 EST eye appointment made and I really don't have old lady hair after all hahaha http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5689819 I made an appointment for my eye to be checked out with a specialist the secretary was stunned to hear how long I've been dealing with the pain, light sensitivity , feeling of my eye being the size of a softball, burning and the feeling of the fork in the eye, but I told her I do have lyme and fibro and it might be a symptom of that but I want it checked because it seems to be getting worse. So I go next Monday wish me luck! <BR> So I thought I had old lady hair because it seemed like it was... Wed, 7 May 2014 13:14:30 EST I think sil is sorry she got the surgery http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5687332 we went to see my mil and she looked good for the most part, she recognizes us still so that's good! I don't like what they do when we go visit they put the phone on speaker and my hubbys sister from Florida calls (she's always talking to my mil and other sil ) so I think it's kind of ignorant when we finally can go visit that we have to be on a phone and his sister from Florida talks about stupid things and hogs the conversation and we can't even have a proper visit with my mil. <BR> all we ... Sun, 4 May 2014 16:52:33 EST Today is a gorgeous day! I feel decent http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5686470 Yes I'm definitely going to go see a opthamologist, I never heard of lyme leading to MS, but the woman said that's what happened to her sister. I know lyme , fibro , cfs , lupus and ms all mimic one another. <BR> I'm really hoping it's not MS, but it's crossed my mind and then talking to that woman and seeing the doctors well everything was with the right eye and it's getting so bad with light sensitivity that at times I'm wearing a blindfold. <BR> Okay today is GORGEOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... Sat, 3 May 2014 12:32:15 EST Could I have MS? http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5686165 I saw the lyme doctor the other day during the rain storm my god it was hell to get there I was in vicious pain, the noise of the rain hitting the car was enough to make me want to jump out of it, it was just so intense ...... <BR> We get there and I always have my sunglasses on because of the sensitivity to light and I shut the shades in this secluded section I sit all the time because of my eyes and the doctor is looking at me and he's like so when did your eyes start like this? <BR> HAHAH... Sat, 3 May 2014 01:18:10 EST All those high hopes for nothing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5685797 Well as I said I called a lawyer haven't heard anything back after I was told I'd hear something yesterday... called congressman nothing!!!!!!!!!!!! <BR> I'm really P#ssed off, does no one really care about bullying? Is it just after a big event happens that they all show their faces at a funeral and speak out against bullying? <BR> Another kid was planning to shoot up and bomb his school in Minnesota but luckily someone saw something reported it and he was stopped. <BR> Aren't they wondering... Fri, 2 May 2014 13:10:13 EST More calls made today (congressman and atty) http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5684158 I called the Congressman's office today and spoke to such a nice man, his brother is actually head of the band (my son deals with the band for show choir and the play he's in) he said that if my son has any problems that he should go to his brother and tell him that he referred him. <BR> This was a intern I was speaking to and he was so distraught to hear what my son was going through, he said he couldn't imagine what my son was going through but that he had experienced some bullying in midd... Wed, 30 Apr 2014 15:34:07 EST Called the governor's office not his juristiction http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5683621 First of all let me say that I'm not holding my son back with negativity, we mentioned nothing about school while he was on vacation and it was he who came to me and said he was feeling sick last Thursday about going to school and we could already tell just by the way he was acting and the constant going to the bathroom and minimum eating that happened later on in the week. <BR> It's very hard to think positive when you've called all the high authorities in the state and everyone tells you we... Wed, 30 Apr 2014 00:26:03 EST court papers just came in http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5682312 We've been waiting for the court papers to come in for the criminal case against the bully and here they are and my stomach turned the minute I saw them. <BR> They are asking for doctor bills , any lost wages and my husband did lose wages over this and we do have doctor bills and I also want to give a character reference a teacher wrote about my son. The mother of the bully had said she was going to try and knock my sons name in the mud and so we wanted to get more but the principal put an e... Mon, 28 Apr 2014 11:06:26 EST not feeling good about sending son back to school after vacation http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5681616 okay it wasn't a good vacation but at least he was out of that hell hole and now nerves are in an uproar knowing I have to send him back. <BR> My son started getting sick to his stomach Friday thinking about Monday and well I started last night and now stomach is in a knot! <BR> Again my body feels like the switch is on and I'm so disgusted seeing Elizabeth Warren on TV promoting her book after I tried to get an appointment with her and they said she was to busy!!!!!!!!!!!!! to busy promoting... Sun, 27 Apr 2014 13:02:43 EST when it rains it pours http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5677172 a car broke, truck broke, hot tub leaking big time , now a hole in the pool.... turning 50 has been a nightmare so far.... <BR> my nerves are shot from all the events going on in our lives, still dealing with the bullying to lets not forget that... life really stinks right now, yes I have a roof over my head "FOR NOW" but that could change.... When are things going to get better? it's so depressing to get out of bed everyday it's something new.... Mon, 21 Apr 2014 14:55:40 EST Just found a message from the rehab on phone/dad was released today http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5675866 My son has been using my phone more then me since all the bullying started and so I haven't really been checking voicemails much I hardly get them so... <BR> But I thought I missed a call from my hubby just now so I checked as I saw a voice mail, listened to it I guess my dad got releasaed today and of course the visiting nurse can't get a hold of him... (glad I'm not dealing with that anymore he use to make me look like an A$$) but I found a message from a nurse at the rehab saying that my ... Sat, 19 Apr 2014 18:05:49 EST The chickadee's have decided to take the house http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5675843 I was concerned that we wouldn't have any little bird babies in the yard this year with all this wacky weather no one has made a nest in the archway and no one took up residency in our little bird house (last year these pesky little song birds took it over from the chickadee's and they were viciously noisy little birds). <BR> Well as I was preparing lunch I saw the cutest little thing, a female chickadee sat on the perch and looked at the little bird house as if she was a woman buying a real ... Sat, 19 Apr 2014 17:00:10 EST My birthday/ letters from dads rehab http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5675458 It was a nightmare, not the age part just all the other crap that's been going on. My poor hubby had to use the bike and go to the nearby city which isn't so nearby and I was so worried about him because he had to go across a major bridge!!!!!!!!!! <BR> I was praying that he'd make it to his destination safely and return safely (he had to run and important errand. On the way back he stopped and bought 3 little cupcakes and had to ride home with the little box so he drove the bike with one han... Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:13:33 EST Today is my 50th birthday what a nightmare http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5674970 today i turn 50, car is broke we have no vehicle, husbands job took double taxes out this week so small check, not sure how hubby is getting to work.... he's upset he can't get me anything for my 50th or at least bake me a cake... <BR> I swear someone has a hex on us this past month has been a living nightmare when I think we've already hit the bottom we manage to sink more... <BR> I'd say that we can only go up from here but that's what i've thought for a while life just keeps getting worse... Fri, 18 Apr 2014 09:57:08 EST I never thought this bullying situation would be this bad http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5666998 I never thought when first dealing with this current bullying situation that it would take the toll it has on us as a family and #1 my son. This has been such a nightmare and all I ever really wanted was justice for my son and to somehow report this school system by contacting something like the Dept of Ed or a bullying advocate but it's not that easy and it's a shame that unless your gay, lesbian, transgender, disabled or it's racist that you fall through the cracks. <BR> I the senator's off... Mon, 7 Apr 2014 23:48:01 EST It's Saturday so everyone's nerves are at rest http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5665211 Friday evening and Saturday everyone's nerves are at rest and we can all eat decent because we know no school Saturday or Sunday, but come Sunday evening it's a different story. <BR> The anxiety will start up again, pains in the stomach, the bathroom will be invaded countless times because we know come Monday morning he goes back to that damn school. Some kid wanted to talk to him Thursday but my son had to go cause my hubby was waiting and he just knows it's about the bullying, but the kid ... Sat, 5 Apr 2014 18:41:31 EST The meeting with the principal yesterday http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5664702 So we get there he wants the officer to come in the room , I said no that's okay we don't need him... so of course he had the VP taking notes again. <BR> My son spoke first, let me tell you something about my son he has been raised to be respectful not only to elders but to authority, he has manners beyond what you'd ever see in this day and age (manners were always something we were big on and showing respect to others). <BR> My son said before we left I'm going to tell this principal how I ... Sat, 5 Apr 2014 00:03:15 EST So principal called back http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5663100 I told him I knew nothing of a meeting this morning and looked on my phone history to see if a phone call had been made from them since last friday and guess what? mysteriously nooooooooooooooooo history of them calling! big surprise! <BR> I said you know I wouldn't of blown that meeting off since I'm the one who requested it and another thing my son was out of school today (let me just say I'm saying all this in a calm voice) he says yes I know. I said well he didn't go to school because the... Thu, 3 Apr 2014 00:23:08 EST The school called today http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5662638 So I woke my son up this morning to go to school again he was holding his stomach as he did last night (fetal position) and telling me mom honestly I'm sick to my stomach, I didn't sleep well and I'm getting pains in my stomach and they hurt bad. <BR> He ate no breakfast nothing, so I did keep him home this isn't a healthy environment for him physically / mentally. <BR> The principal calls me at 8 am I missed the call I had forgotten my cell upstairs, so I went back to bed around 840am, I li... Wed, 2 Apr 2014 12:36:43 EST Not a good day for my son/ bully won't keep his mouth shut http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5662222 Not a good day for my son again, this kid won't keep his mouth shut and my son has lost a few so called friends over this, but if they were true friends I tell him then they'd have your back. <BR> He's telling kids that we're suing him and that's simply not true and so a kid at school told him not to sit with him and the other friends because of what he's doing suing and getting the cops on the bully. The other kids (one who told my son that he's Switzerland) had my sons back, two kids told t... Tue, 1 Apr 2014 23:56:42 EST well heard from no one http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5661650 I had requested a meeting with the super and principal friday, he said he'd look at his schedule and get back NOTHING! but since I wrote that note about not being able to talk to my son without us, they haven't rerouted him. <BR> Heard nothing from the Senators office either , the girl was suppose to call yesterday, big surprise NO CALL... she honestly didn't seem like she wanted to help, the first girl did but not this one and the last one is the first ones boss (first one had been bullied h... Tue, 1 Apr 2014 10:44:22 EST The weekend with my family no bully talking allowed http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5660830 Everyone slept late Saturday, it was like our bodies were coming down from the stress filled week and knowing he didn't have to go to school Saturday was like a "AH" moment for our stress riddled bodies, my son who hadn't been sleeping slept till 1:30pm!!!!!!! I was even worried but let him sleep because he hasn't been sleeping. <BR> When he came down he said mom it was good just to sleep I said yes I know, even I slept decent. <BR> We even could eat this Saturday , I was living on dry toast... Mon, 31 Mar 2014 11:59:41 EST Thanks to all the support http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5660302 This weekend has been a weekend of not talking about what has been going on, so everyone can decompress. <BR> Thanks to all the support it's been greatly appreciated! <BR> As for a few comments about the SAFE PERSON that were left on my last blog, this safe person is someone that in the school policy for bullying is suppose to be provided without a parent having to go look up on the website to find what her child/victim is entitled to, <BR> This safe person was never offered to us before or... Sun, 30 Mar 2014 20:19:37 EST Superintendent turns cold http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5659673 Superintendent was a huge disappointment when we spoke yesterday, he had told me that he'd see what would happen at the hearing and then when I called him he said you know your acting like this kid murdered someone! I said and your acting like he's an angel! He said I'm blowing this out of proportion, because it's an inconvenience for THEM. <BR> I said I want another meeting with you and the principal and he said oh for what? very cold, I said because he wants my son standing outside in the c... Sat, 29 Mar 2014 23:40:09 EST Thanks to all who have supported me and my family, but this still isn't over http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5658261 I still have to deal with the school, principal who is being vendictive, but last night I wrote to two Senators and one of the offices called me back. The other listen to this sent a generated email saying thanks for writing, if you need a flag let me know and you can follow me on facebook. <BR> Let me just say HE'LL NEVER SEE A VOTE COMING FROM MY HOUSE AGAIN!!!!!!!! I wrote the same exact letter to the female Senator and I received a call from her office and the girl was actually bullied he... Fri, 28 Mar 2014 00:50:11 EST The hearing and the decision made by the magistrate http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5657934 Today was one of the most nerve wracking days as we had to go to the hearing, no one slept and my husband was so sick he came home early from work (he usually works the night shift). <BR> We all dressed up, my son in a shirt and tie with dress pants /shoes, we were all a little nervous because we didn't really know what to expect. I called my son out of school and we headed to the court. I was in so much pain all this stress with my fibro is killing me but I put a brave face on for my son and... Thu, 27 Mar 2014 15:33:02 EST Principal is being vendictive with my son http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5657418 You might think my son was a murderer the way he's being treated at school today he was finally given the nurse pass and then the principal pulled him in a room with 2 other VP and said they are going to make a route for him to walk, now my son takes short cuts to class so he can get there on time and short cut to cafeteria so he'll be able to eat they run out of food a lot. <BR> Now they want him to go a certain way, the old person that they gave him and I'm not kidding this guy looks older... Wed, 26 Mar 2014 23:20:33 EST I am just in tears, please say a prayer for us tomorrow as we go to that hearing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5657119 Today my son said that the principal called him into the office gave him the pass to go to the bathroom and said he has to follow a certain route and won't be able to go to homeroom everyday just 2 times a week. <BR> They are totally making him a social outcast, my heart is breaking I'm not sure whata more to do the needle in the hay stack I thought I found yesterday turned out to be nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <BR> I can't hold anything down but dry toast and gingerale just from yesterday to toda... Wed, 26 Mar 2014 14:48:14 EST Certain victims of bullying have no laws to protect them http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5656393 Today I spoke to many people about bullying, I called Boston and spoke to some civil rights lady and this is who the bullying law covers... <BR> 1. if your gay, lesbian or transgender <BR> 2. if you have a disability <BR> 3. racism <BR> Those are the big issues, so what if your child is just being bullied and he doesn't have a disability? or a racist slur wasn't made? or he's not gay , lesbian or transgender? THEY FALL THROUGH THE CRACKS! <BR> Today my son went to school , he had no "SAFE PER... Tue, 25 Mar 2014 17:39:14 EST saw the Superintendent ,doctors today, hearing Thursday..PLEASE KEEP MY FAMILY IN YOUR PRAYERS.. http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5655796 My son woke up today again sick with his nerves and didn't sleep, on the 14 th of this month he was joking with me (before all hell broke loose) and was saying mom look at the muscles in my arms and my son is slim and I teased him and said what muscles? he then went on the scale and said wow mom I weigh 136 which was shocking. <BR> Well since then and all this bullying starting up again I asked him to go on the scale last night and the scale read 130 that is a huge drop for my son, we brough... Mon, 24 Mar 2014 23:33:08 EST