ERINLINDSAY83's SparkPeople Blog ERINLINDSAY83's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community Prayers for Sis PLEASE! So in my previous blog I gave a bit of an update about Sis having a follow-up knee surgery to clear out infection and check on the cadaver graft in her leg. <BR> <BR> So she called Wed night after her surgery to fill me in. The surgery went well. The ligament graft itself was not damaged, infected or being rejected. She would need 3 days of IV antibiotics. This was the best possible outcome. We were all shocked. In our family, when it comes to anything health related, I literally cannot rem... Fri, 24 Feb 2017 11:05:03 EST Oh Just Life.... Emma (step-kiddo) had been sick for around a month. (Not uncommon. Poor kid is sick ALL THE TIME. Literally about 3 weeks a month. We really push the fruits, veggies, exercise, etc...but...we only have her about 30% of the time...) I've really been getting on her about covering her mouth when she coughs. She'd already given baby Ellie 2 colds since she was born. Not cool. Emma thinks covering her mouth when coughing is lifting arm to about 6 inches from face. Nope. Sorry kiddo. Unacceptable.... Wed, 22 Feb 2017 14:32:59 EST Book Review - "The Shack" "The Shack" - Wm. Paul Young <BR> <BR> <link><BR>-Tragedy-Confronts-Eternity/dp/0964729<BR>237/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1485977519&<BR>sr=8-1&keywords=the+shack </link> <BR> <BR> 5 out of 5 stars <BR> <BR> I read this book almost a decade ago when in first came out. I recall LOVING it. With the movie version coming out next month, I wanted to re-read it. Love it just as much this time around! This book is amazing.....especially if you have ever gone th... Wed, 1 Feb 2017 14:46:55 EST God Talks to Me When God talks to is QUITE evident. It is not in a way that makes me think "Hmm....I wonder if that message came from God." It is in a way that makes me think "Ok, God. I hear you. " There is no doubt. It's quite a blessing (even if sometimes I don't want to hear what He has to say. e.g. When hubs and I were dating, we were living together. God told us we had to stop with the premarital sex (yep tmi, deal with it, lol.) He told us over and over and we finally had to listen. So for th... Mon, 30 Jan 2017 11:53:43 EST High Functioning Migraineur and Goals! Sunday morning I woke up with quite a nasty headache. Not at all uncommon for me, as I have a headache every day/ (Going on for 18 years now. Seen every specialist, done every drug and every therapy.) Emma has been sick all week. (Granted she's basically always sick. 3 weeks a month, no exaggeration. Poor kid. But this seemed different.) I got the girls ready and we headed to church. Let me tell ya; driving in thick fog does NOT help a migraine. Ugh. <BR> <BR> We got to church and Emma de... Mon, 23 Jan 2017 14:12:54 EST Book Review - "The Secret Chord" "The Secret Chord" by Geraldine Brooks <BR> <BR> <link><BR>Novel-Geraldine-Brooks/dp/0143109766/r<BR>ef=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1484594257&sr=8-<BR>1&keywords=the+secret+chord </link> <BR> <BR> 3.5 out of 5 Stars <BR> <BR> This book is considered a historical fiction novel. It is about the life of King David (of the Bible.) Although it is about a Biblical person, I would not by any means call this a Christian book. As a Christian, it DOES help to lay ou... Mon, 16 Jan 2017 14:25:22 EST Ice Skating <img src=""> <BR> Maddie, Emma and Tyler getting ready! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> Sister Ashley and Baby Elleanor watching us skate! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> Emma and Maddie skating....they were naturals! <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.sparkpeop... Mon, 16 Jan 2017 10:47:42 EST Whiplash, Ehlers-Danlos, Ice-Skating So as an update to Wednesday's blog about pain.... I went to my PT appointment yesterday. After a thorough exam, the diagnosis is whiplash. Yup. No wonder I was in so much pain! Apparently, I fell down the stairs so hard, that I gave myself whiplash. Who does that!? So for now, mucho pain, additional daily stretches, and twice weekly PT. *sigh* <BR> <BR> Today my niece has her appointment with the geneticist to confirm that she has Ehlers-Danlos. It is a genetic disorder, and my Sis (her Mo... Fri, 13 Jan 2017 12:10:49 EST Pain So much pain...! (In addition to my daily pounding headaches....) <BR> <BR> Since baby was born in August, I've had a lot of severe wrist pain. Not constant, but at least once a week it would "pop" funny and give me super bad pain for a day or two, then be fine until the next "episode." Unfortunately, the episodes got more frequent and more painful. (Both wrist, btw...) I finally caved and went to the doc. Severe tendonitis. (Can pop up after pregnancy from all the relaxin hormone that was c... Wed, 11 Jan 2017 12:11:20 EST Weekend Friday hubs went to pick up Emma (after being told she was being dropped off....but this is no surprise. Pretty typical. *Sigh* ) Anyhoo.... I got home from work and we ate dinner together. (Normal...we eat as a family at the dining table.) Afterwards, Emma and I played some board games while hubs worked on some continuing education for his contractor's licensure. <BR> <BR> Saturday, hubs took Ellie after her morning feed so I could sleep as long as I wanted, since she turned nocturnal an... Mon, 2 Jan 2017 11:38:11 EST Christmas Pics! <img src=""> <BR> Christmas Tree 2016. Gold, Ivory and Navy Blue <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> Me and My Girls (Step-Daughter Emma, and Daughter Elleanor) <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> My Beautiful Family <BR> <em>26</em> <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosa... Mon, 26 Dec 2016 10:57:31 EST Book Review: The Harbinger "The Harbinger" by Jonathan Cahn <BR> <BR> 4.5 out of 5 stars. <BR> <BR> Written as a narrative, this book spells out the fulfillment of Biblical prophecies, mostly in relation to 9/11. Everything mentioned in the book is 100% fact, 100% researchable. It has BLOWN MY MIND. <BR> <BR> Normally in my book reviews, I add excerpts, but I can't really do that for this one. All I can do is recommend that you read it. The only reason it doesn't get a 5 out of 5, is that it was a little 'slow... Wed, 14 Dec 2016 16:42:34 EST God Never Ceases to Amaze Me! Just a quick little snippet here.... <BR> <BR> One of my friends has been having a bit of a rough patch. I sent her a card anonymously in the mail today to lift her spirits. It had the verse 1st Peter 5:7 on it. Today, she posted a verse on FB as encouragement to herself and others. I'll give you one guess what that verse was! <BR> <BR> <em>334</em> Wed, 30 Nov 2016 15:34:25 EST Weekend Recap Had a pretty uneventful weekend, so prepare for a boring blog! <BR> <BR> Friday I worked 8a-5p. (Although, didn't get out until 5:40...not happy.) I picked Emma up from day-care, then picked Ellie up from day-care. Got home and made homemade Cheesy Chicken Quesadillas for dinner. Yum! After that Sis and Maddie came over for some cake to celebrate my birthday (which was Friday.) <BR> <BR> Saturday I had to work 8a-12p (but didn't get out until 1p, grr!) Got home and made pancakes and sausa... Mon, 21 Nov 2016 11:17:37 EST Work Workout I work 12 hour shifts, have a 30 minute drive each way, and go home to a 3 month old. I don't always have the time or energy for a "real" workout. (Though on my days off, I love getting out for a hike and do my stationary bike when it's nasty out.) So, over the years I have cultivated a "work workout" for myself. <BR> <BR> Every time I get up to go to the bathroom, I do one set of exercises. (And really, that's quite a bit because I drink a TON of water throughout the day and have a tiny bl... Wed, 16 Nov 2016 15:15:50 EST Prayers for Pops My dad has lived his entire adult life in excruciating pain. In 1981, he hurt his back at work. The doctor recommended surgery. He went for it. It made things worse. Over the following decade he had 3 more surgeries, trying to correct what had made things worse. Each surgery made things worse. He was told he'd be basically paralyzed and in a wheelchair by age 30. <BR> <BR> Well, they didn't know my Pops very well. He is the most stubborn man I know. (Not always a good He basi... Thu, 10 Nov 2016 12:20:29 EST Weird Obsessions So I've really noticed lately about some weird obsessions I have. Some I've noticed for a while now, some are new to my observations. Thought I'd share, lol! <BR> <BR> I'm obsessed with the weather. I update my 'current weather' on my phone often. At least every hour. Even when I'm at work with no chance of going outside. Even at 4 am when I'm feeding baby then heading right back to bed. In addition, I also open the weather radar map at least a half dozen times a day. Even if there is nothi... Wed, 2 Nov 2016 18:55:41 EST Hike With Baby! <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> Tue, 1 Nov 2016 15:47:56 EST Life, Life, Life I imagine this will be rambly and in an order that doesn't make much bear with me! <BR> <BR> Well Sis Ali is still struggling with alcoholism. (Last update here: <link><BR>urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=6241657 </link> ) <BR> <BR> She sent my Dad a text saying that she didn't need any of us. We were too judgmental, yadda yadda (though no one had still said anything remotely mean or judgmental to her. I had still not said a single thing to ... Mon, 31 Oct 2016 17:02:34 EST Cuz I'm Bored.... <BR> <BR> 1 . If you could make a 30 second speech to the entire world, what would you say? <BR> ~Nothing. I HATE public speaking! Plus, anything I am passionate about needs a lot more than 30 seconds! <BR> <BR> 2 . If you were going to die at midnight, what would you be doing at 11:45pm? <BR> ~Passed out on Ambien, so that I wouldn't be panicking...? <BR> <BR> 3 . How do you really KNOW anything for sure? <BR> ~Simple. I'm brilliant! <BR> <BR> 4 . If you had all the money in t... Wed, 26 Oct 2016 11:51:19 EST Book Review - Sacred Marriage "Sacred Marriage" - Gary Thomas <BR> <BR> "What if God designed marriage to make us Holy more than to make us happy?" <BR> <BR> 3 out of 5 Stars <BR> <BR> Not a bad book, just a bit dry. Some great points and things to think about, but somewhat "boring." I love reading, and this book didn't get me at all excited about reading. <BR> <BR> Here are a few excerpts: <BR> <BR> "If you want to be free to serve Jesus, there's no question - stay single. Marriage takes a lot of time. But if you ... Mon, 10 Oct 2016 12:10:11 EST Song Ok, so I just have to post this..... Hubs is in an Irish Band. He is a brilliant musician. (Singer, drummer (was in the Marine Corps Band as a professional percussionist,) taught himself mandolin, bass, piano/keyboard.) He also writes music. So the band transitioned from a cover band, to also performing originals. Hubby wrote a song for me and it is beautiful. <BR> <BR> Lyrics: <BR> <BR> "Who I Am" <BR> <BR> I search for your face in my dreams <BR> 'Cause even there I want you next to ... Sun, 25 Sep 2016 17:13:25 EST Life Well, tomorrow Elleanor Elizabeth will be 7 weeks old. What?!?! How is that even possible?! Anyhoo, I have to go back to work in a week. Breaks my heart. I left Ellie with my Sis for 3 hours while I had a doc appointment and ran a few errands and I missed her soooooo much! I normally work 12 hour shifts, but I'm going back for half shifts for a few weeks just to ease into it. I can't imagine not seeing her for that long! (It's so weird... a few weeks before I had her, I was telling hubby tha... Sun, 25 Sep 2016 16:17:34 EST My Beautiful Baby! Miss Elleanor Elizabeth...aka, the Duchess! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.s... Tue, 20 Sep 2016 12:27:24 EST Labor and Delivery - What else can go wrong? Friday August 5th, I went to work. I was feeling pretty awful, but I'm never one to call in sick if I can avoid it. I was having contractions and a lot of back pain, but nothing 'regular.' I made it through my shift rather miserably. Went home and walked to the diner and store with hubs and kiddo (almost 2 miles,) having contractions on/off the whole time. <BR> <BR> Saturday I had contractions again all day, about 10-15 minutes apart, and still considerable back pain. Sunday we went to chur... Wed, 17 Aug 2016 18:23:53 EST Hopefully Last Update Before Baby! So last week, at 38 weeks, I had my cervical check with OB. I was barely 1 cm dilated, 50% effaced, baby at station -2. Not bad. I was happy with that. Yesterday I had my 39 week check, hadn't felt much over the past week to signify an dilating, but was still hopeful. I have been so uncomfortable and just want baby out. (Feet HUGE and swollen, all the way up to my groin, as well as face, fingers, etc. It's all super painful, and you'd never know that until you feel it. Only sleeping 4-5 hours... Fri, 5 Aug 2016 13:15:46 EST Camping, Kiddos, Life Well, at 37 weeks pregnant, I've been too fatigued to blog. Working 12 hour shifts (with some extra shifts thrown in there) is REALLY tiring, lol. (Not to mention ongoing daily migraines...especially bad the past few days.) <BR> <BR> So, last weekend, hubs and I took his kiddo and my niece camping for the last trip of the season. (Usually we go through end of September/early October, but camping at 36 weeks pregnant is pretty tough as it is, lol.) <BR> <BR> <img src="http://photosaws.spar... Fri, 22 Jul 2016 13:38:19 EST Book Review: "Dorie: The Girl Nobody Loved." "Dorie: The Girl Nobody Loved." - Doris Van Stone <BR> <BR> 5 out of 5 Stars. <BR> <BR> This was a beautiful book; heartfelt and well-written. It is relatively short (155 pages) and super easy to read, but well worth it! It is a wonderful story of hope. I didn't really underline anything, not for lack of content, so I can't share any excerpts. But, do take my recommendation and read this book! Wed, 13 Jul 2016 16:22:53 EST Book Review: "Unanswered" "Unanswered: Lasting Truth for Trending Questions" - Jeremiah Johnston <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> 1.5 out of 5 stars. <BR> <BR> <BR> So utterly disappointed with this book. When I saw this book (and accompanying study guide,) I was super excited. It seemed to fit me to a T! I am the one always asking the tough questions; the questions the we "aren't supposed to ask." The book touted answering those tough questions. <BR> <BR> Although the book brings up all the topics (Suicide, demon possess... Mon, 11 Jul 2016 16:00:15 EST Baby Celebration I HATE baby showers (and bridal showers, lol.) I had a few people who really wanted to throw me one, so I obliged, so long as it wasn't a "baby shower." We had a baby celebration yesterday. It was coed, just eating and visiting and NO awful baby shower games. It was lovely! Here are a few pics! <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> Sisters! <BR> <BR> <img src=" Mon, 11 Jul 2016 12:26:23 EST Weekend in Michigan My family headed over to Michigan this weekend to celebrate the 4th of July with my Aunties (and Uncles.) Dad, Sis and niece Maddie went over Friday morning; I had to work Saturday morning, so we left Saturday afternoon. It is about a 5 hour drive, but it's a nice drive. (I made Emma a huge road-trip scavenger hunt to try to keep her occupied a bit on the drive. Road trips are tough on 7 year olds!) <BR> <BR> We got there Saturday around 8:30 their time. We hung out at Aunty Pammy's house un... Wed, 6 Jul 2016 16:07:02 EST Book Review: "Everyday Blessings" Book Review: "Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting" - Myla and Jon Kabat-Zinn <BR> <BR> 1 out of 5 Stars (maybe 1 1/2 stars if I'm feeling generous...) <BR> <BR> I was literally counting the pages until I was done with this book. This book came as a recommendation (as most of my books do...) from the previous book I read about mindful birthing; which I really enjoyed. <BR> <BR> This book really did very little to explain the concept of mindfulness. So, unless you know a... Sat, 2 Jul 2016 11:49:20 EST Camping and Upcomings! So hubs and I went camping this past weekend for the last time (for a long time to come,) as just the two of us! We had stayed at this park in the past, but we had both come down with something and the weather was cold and rainy, so we ended up packing up and leaving early. We went to Wildcat Mountain State Park. <BR> <link> </link> <BR> it is a beautiful area, so we were excited to head back. Getting closer to the weekend, I noticed how HOT the temps... Wed, 29 Jun 2016 17:57:33 EST Weekend 32 weeks pregnant! Eek! Finished painting the nursery on Tuesday. I got impatient with hubby's busy schedule, so I put the crib together myself as well, lol. What can I say?? Nesting? lol. Curtains are on the way and the bookshelf is almost ready. Then, baby's room is ready for her arrival! Yay! <BR> <BR> Tonight after work were are headed up to lake Auburn. Our friends have a cottage there. We will have dinner together, then head out on the pontoon for a sunset ride with drinks and desser... Fri, 17 Jun 2016 14:10:12 EST Goings- On Just a quick update of what's been going on! <BR> <BR> I've still been working on my rock wall garden a TON. Those previous home-owners really made a mess of it. It is starting to look nice, but it has been a pain in the butt. (And back... hours and hours of weeding.) I planted some creeping sedum in the areas that I'm totally done weeding, that has already started spreading. I'm also working on an area that was just lawn/weeds and digging that up to make it a veggie garden. I won't get an... Wed, 8 Jun 2016 19:01:28 EST Book Review - " Before Love Dies" "Before Love Dies " - Larry J Russell <BR> <BR> 3/5 stars <BR> <BR> I'd call this a "basic guidebook to Christian relationships." It has some great info, but it also has a lot of common sense and fluff thrown in there. (Although, perhaps common sense to me, is not common sense to someone else.) Hubs and I have a wonderful, happy relationship; I can't imagine a better spouse for myself. But this book was quoted in another book I read, and as is typically the case, it instantly went on my Ama... Wed, 1 Jun 2016 20:42:03 EST Family Camping! Friday afternoon we picked kiddo up from school, and headed straight for the campground. It's about a 2 hour drive, so by the time we got there and got everything set up, it was basically time to cook dinner, then s'mores, then bed. <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> We woke up bright and early Saturday morning and cooked some yummy, hearty breakfast over the fire. We headed out to the West Bluff of Devil's Lake t... Mon, 23 May 2016 12:45:32 EST Book Review - "Mindful Birthing" "Mindful Birthing" - Nancy Bardacke CNM <BR> <BR> 4.5 / 5 stars <BR> <BR> I've been leaning towards a natural childbirth my whole adult life. (Yes, even when I thought there was no chance of conceiving, my daydreams of it included a natural birth.) I started reading online stories of natural childbirth, and in one story this book was recommended. When I read things and a book is recommended, it almost always ends up on my Amazon wishlist. ( I have soooo many books at home, and dozens more... Wed, 18 May 2016 18:21:03 EST Chaperoning Youth Camp (Pics) My friend runs a ministry in a near-by city. It is basically "Sunday School" (though on Wednesdays,) where she teaches unchurched kids from ROUGH homes and neighborhoods, about the love of Christ. Every year she takes the kids to a Christian Adventure camp (paid for completely out of her pocket. She just loves these kids.) This is the third year that hubs and I have been the chaperones. It is a very stressful, very exhausting, very trying, but very blessed experience. The kids really know ho... Mon, 16 May 2016 11:03:00 EST Just Dropping By I've been wanting to get started on my gardens at the new house basically since we moved in. There are a LOT of spaces to be worked on. (All of which were completely neglected by the previous homeowners so they are all in AWFUL condition.) I will have to completely dig up grass and weeds to create a new garden area for veggies, the rest will just all have to be redone. <BR> <BR> Yesterday after taking kiddo to school and helping MIL with a few things, I decided to tackle my rock wall. It is... Fri, 13 May 2016 13:14:53 EST Weekend Overview....cuz I'm Bored. :-) Friday I worked my normal 9 hour shift, then was planning on heading to Hubby's band gig. I don't get to see them often, and this pub is typically quiet and not drunk-people-filled. I got ready to head out after work, hopped in my car and about 10 minutes into my 30 minute drive, my normal headache turned into and an absolutely splitting migraine. I decided to keep going, since I'm pretty used to doing any and everything with a pounding headache. <BR> <BR> I got there, opened the door, and ... Mon, 9 May 2016 12:45:45 EST Mother's Day Mother's Day has been rough for me for my whole adult life. Originally, I had been told I wouldn't ever naturally conceive. (Ha! guess God showed them!) So Mother's Day was always a painful reminder that I would never be a "mother." (Granted, even before I got pregnant, I mothered my Step-daughter and somewhat my niece. But as anyone with fertility issues knows, that's just not the same.) <BR> <BR> Then my Mom got sick. She was diagnosed with Advanced Early Onset Alzheimer's at the age o... Sat, 7 May 2016 10:38:55 EST Ali Apologizing So you may recall me mentioning my older Sis, Ali. <BR> Link to last blog mentioning her: <BR> <link><BR>urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=6144155 </link> <BR> <BR> So although she is saying this nasty stuff about me to younger Sis, Ash, she has started texting me "happy" texts. I texted her Happy Birthday, and she texted me back "Oh thanks! Hope you and the baby are doing well! *heart emoji* *smile emoji* And a few more texts like that. <BR> <BR> ... Wed, 4 May 2016 11:07:12 EST Being Judgmental (And before I even start, just a public service announcement: It is spelled judgmental, NOT judgemental.) <BR> <BR> I think being judgmental is one of the easiest sins to commit. (Granted, I also think people often over -use this term. Disagreeing with someone's lifestyle or choices does NOT make you judgmental, unless you treat them differently or think they are a bad person for what they do. Just as an example...I've seen many people comment on pro-life articles, that the Christians are si... Mon, 2 May 2016 14:31:08 EST Eventful May We've got lots going on next month and are super excited! <BR> <BR> First off, hubs only has ONE band gig (and not out of state!) That in itself is like music to my ears. (Ha, that just cracked me up, him NOT playing music is music to my ears?! Hehe, though he still plays at church 2-3 times a month.) His band is usually booked at least one show every weekend, and usually one out of state a month. (Which steals him away Thur morning - Sun afternoon.) <BR> <BR> Plus, this one gig is one t... Fri, 29 Apr 2016 15:23:19 EST Walking and New Recipes The weather is FINALLY warming up enough for me to get out walking and hiking. It was a LONG winter. Being preggo made me especially antsy to get out and walk, too, to stay healthy for baby and myself. The first nice day I did a 3 mile walk to the store and back. Felt phenomenal! Since then, I take mile walks on my lunch breaks at work (when I actually get a set lunch break and can sneak away from my desk, lol.) Hubs and I also walk to the store rather than drive if we are craving a treat or ... Fri, 22 Apr 2016 15:19:01 EST I Am Not Strong... Small backstory... I started seeing a therapist about 9 years ago when I was in a terribly abusive relationship (physically, sexually, but terribly emotionally.) My employer pays for 10 free sessions a year, so since then. if I'm having issues, I'll go back for a few sessions. Throughout the 9 years, one major thing we've talked about and tried to work on was/is my reaction to people lying about me. (Not only in therapy but also with my friend/Bible Study leader/mentor, as she can also see h... Sun, 17 Apr 2016 10:41:09 EST Finally Some Nice Weather! Well we finally got some nice weather~! 72 and sunny! Woohoo! Spent a few hours in the morning raking by Grandma and Grandpa's house. It is truly a blessing to be able to help them. They mean so much to me. (Plus, I just love being outside.) I swear Grandpa would have me on total bedrest if he could paranoid, lol. Had lunch and some nice conversation then headed home. <BR> <BR> I did some extra laundry so I could hang it out on the line, lol. Yeah , I'm like that. Got dinner... Sat, 16 Apr 2016 19:28:46 EST Anxiety for kiddo Ok, so .... I feel like I NEED to blog, this has been holding my mind captive ALL DAY. (And as my status indicates, since it woke me up at 3:20 am and wouldn't let me go back to sleep.) However, I don't think it's 'safe' for me to blog right now. Kiddo is having an issue that she's pretty upset about. After getting her to talk to us about it, we finally got her to realize that who she needs to talk to is her Mama. And under the assumption that her Mama is checking up on me via SparkPeople (a... Mon, 11 Apr 2016 17:29:41 EST Cold Weather Family Hike Weather has NOT been cooperating at ALL in Wisconsin. Still snowing and miserable. Saturday I just couldn't handle being inside anymore so we bundled up for a hike! (32 degrees but sunny.) <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=""> <BR> <BR> <img src=" Mon, 11 Apr 2016 11:27:10 EST