4DOGNIGHT's SparkPeople Blog http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal.asp?id=4DOGNIGHT 4DOGNIGHT's Blog on SparkPeople, home of free diet plans and a healthy living community SparkPeople.com http://assets2.sparkpeople.com/assets/nav/logo_spark.gif http://www.sparkpeople.com/ Weight Loss Musing http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6351025 I've been following the Bright Line Eating plan since the first of the year and I've released 22 lbs. I havent followed the plan strictly and my loss has been slow but I continue to lose in spite of myself. Its got me thinking about all the different weight loss plans I've been on and things I learned about what to eat. Most of them have been healthy plans like WW. I tried to go back to WW but I just could not commit the points values to memory. I don't eat points, I eat food. <BR> <B... Thu, 20 Apr 2017 09:31:42 EST THE TWO POUND DANCE http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6342560 I weigh everyday even though most diets tell you not to. For me, it is helpful to keep me on track and any progress is a blessing. So, during the week, I will have a day when my weight dips to a new low. I will record that weight here on Spark. Then I will experience the two pound dance where the pounds creep back up depending on what I ate or didnt do or whatever. But I keep that low weight recorded as a goal to hit it again. And usually, within the week it happens. And stays there. ... Sun, 2 Apr 2017 07:57:31 EST APRIL JOURNEY, DAY 1 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6342098 I've decided to try to journal my progress on my recent weight loss journey. I have tried every diet in the book to no avail and I had reached a weight that just wasn't pretty! Something had to be done when I had to buy a size 16W jeans in December just to have something to wear on a trip north to visit family after Christmas. We have friends in Atlanta which is half way so we usually stop and visit with them on our way up to North Carolina and back. <BR> They had started an online diet ... Sat, 1 Apr 2017 08:22:35 EST STAYING IN TOUCH http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=6023022 I got a message from an old friend yesterday, Jenny888. I am a faithful follower of spark but spend most of my time on the Quilt and Lose page as I am a quilter now. So I decided a blog update was in order.I now have 5 grandchildren, a little girl born Jan 4 of this year, 3 boys and my 14 year old granddaughter. <BR> I recently started a new weight loss journey when my weight reached the point of no return, I don't want to go there weight. It was about 7 weeks ago and I've lost 9.5 lbs. ... Thu, 29 Oct 2015 07:36:36 EST YOGA AND ME http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5803852 So about 8 months ago I joined a Sverapa Yoga class. Not sure that is how to spell it but it is an unusual name. There are many types of Yoga and I've tried them. But this class is amazing. I have had back problems with a sore right hip for years. Sometimes just could not get comfortable when lying down. So I'm been to a chiropractor for about a year and then started this Yoga class. <BR> <BR> Sverapa involves lying on a blanket on the floor for at least half the class. I go on Thur... Fri, 24 Oct 2014 09:08:34 EST PROGRESS REPORT http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5802644 Well, I can honestly say that the Personal Trainer Food diet was a success. I've lost 10 lbs and it is still off! Weighed this morning and even though I was gone to a retreat this weekend. I've learned to eat more sensibly. I still have a freezer full of veggies and a few meats so I can still have lunches that are easily. So tired of eggs for breakfast. I think a veggie soup might be in my future. <BR> <BR> On another note, my sister had major sinus surgery a couple of weeks ago to ... Wed, 22 Oct 2014 08:42:11 EST PTF DAY 28 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5798700 Is it really 28 days and I still have a freezer full of food? Lunch is definitely from the PTF plate. I am cooking a pot roast tonight for my sister and her husband. She had major sinus surgery last week and hasn't been able to cook anything. We ate with them on Monday and first meal she had all week. She ate it all. So POt roast it is. Have to go shopping! Wed, 15 Oct 2014 11:25:16 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 27 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5798048 Well, the two lbs I lost is hovering, up and down but I'm confident it will eventually stay down. This is how I lose. I will say that the last three days have not been exactly PTF friendly. Hubby bought pizza home for lunch yesterday and then we took food to my sister who just had surgery and he bought a pecan pie. Not helping me a bit but holding my own on the weight. Back to the plan today. Most of the food is tasty but this morning I had butter chicken patty and don't like it much. V... Tue, 14 Oct 2014 11:55:48 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 24, PLAN EXPLANATION http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5796245 I decided that today I would explain this plan more thoroughly. Over labor day while on vacation, Amazon sent me a voucher for $99 to apply towards $200 worth of PTF food. I bought it and when I got back from vacation, immediately placed the order. The normal price is $324 for 28 days worth of lunches and dinners, 56 meals. You get to select 56 pieces of meat and 56 packs of veggies, each individually portioned. They have a LOT of choices, I mean a LOT> So I went through the list and se... Sat, 11 Oct 2014 09:17:01 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 23 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5795667 I got up this morning to a 2 lb weight loss! Total of 11 pounds since I started this effort in July. Had a major set back in August and over labor day but ordered the PTF after I got back from vacation. Last night, we had quilt guild meeting and didn't get home until 8:00. I really wasn't all that hungry and didn't feel like heating up food so I had a sliced red delicious apple with peanut butter. Perfectly fine it was. Early morning meeting today so moving on. Fri, 10 Oct 2014 07:26:47 EST Personal Trainer Food Day 22 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5795074 So far so good. Scale moved a hair to the left of 190 this morning. I lose so slowly. Maybe If I exercised it would go faster. Ate out for lunch and had a chicken salad stuffed tomato with fruit. Then for dinner, I cooked two pork chops I had in the freezer and veggies. I send my husband to the freezer to pick out his own veggies. Added applesauce to the mix and was very happy. Thu, 9 Oct 2014 07:18:43 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY21 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5794516 Wow, have I been doing this for 3 weeks already? I still have plenty of food left because we eat out so much but at least I am making better choices when I do eat out and not snacking or having dessert. Yesterday I did succumb to a McDonald's ice cream cone. I enjoyed it very much and am done with that for a while. Did I think about not having it, that it wasn't allowed. Yes, I did, but I decided to reward myself. Back on the gravy train today with a breakfast of an egg and 2 slices of ... Wed, 8 Oct 2014 08:10:48 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 20 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5794090 So this morning I was late getting out the door to a meeting and I grabbed a banana and a hunk of cheddar cheese. The banana is supposedly a no no as I'm only supposed to have apples, (I"ll address that in a minute) Yesterday I made some veggie soup with a Spark recipe, in the crock pot and we had that for dinner last night. And just had another bowl for lunch. I threw in the pack of fajita steak strips and a bag of veggies from PTF> The fajita seasoning made it real tasty. I also adde... Tue, 7 Oct 2014 13:52:44 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 19 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5793232 Time to get creative! I have lost a total of 9 lbs since July, 5 with PTF. The scale is firmly fixed at 190 which I am pleased about but would like it to move south. However, last night I tried on a dress I had bought earlier in the summer on sale and it now fits much better. I can even wear it to a ball in November so that is good. Would like to move a few more pounds. <BR> Now, PTF is getting pretty boring. My husband is balking so I must get creative in how to use it. I am glad to p... Mon, 6 Oct 2014 07:57:40 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 17 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5792141 Okay, so last night I gave in to two glasses of wine and crackers with my cheese. Those were two no nos but my excuse is, I just wanted the wine and crackers so had them. Hubby offered pancakes for breakfast and I started to say yes, then thought better of it. I have a lot of frozen food in the freezer so I am eating something from there. Eggs and bacon have become really tedious so veggies and meat might sound good. <BR> Today I am off to FSU vs Wake Forst. We park the car but must walk... Sat, 4 Oct 2014 08:59:54 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 16 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5791554 16 DAYS so far. Kind of settled in on the weight loss but if I can just stick to this for another two weeks, I should lose a few more. This is definitely the hardest time, the third week. Tomorrow we go to a football game, FSU vs Wake Forest. I'll be walking to the stadium but we will stop to eat somewhere for lunch. Will try to be thoughtful in my choices. Fri, 3 Oct 2014 07:46:36 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 15 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5790914 The video from PTF advised me that week 3 is the hardest. And last night I succumbed to onion rings and a coconut lenon bar. Oh, bad me, but jumping back on the bandwagon this morning with 2 eggs. I understand the video's words that I would be craving pasta and carbs and they are right. Not giving up though as I have a freezer full of food to eat. <BR> This morning I had my two hard boiled eggs and coffe. When I get home from my decorating appmt, I'll have a PTF lunch and then off to a... Thu, 2 Oct 2014 07:32:25 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 14 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5790222 Well I'm halfway in but haven't eaten half the food yet. Although my husband does get his share of the veggies when we eat at home. We did so last night with store bought chicken and frozen veggies. I messed up though when I brought a slice of cake home for my husband and he shared it with me. You know what? It didn't taste all that good and then it settled on my stomach. Got to stick with this. <BR> I'm at the point in any diet when I know the scale will slow down. I have yet to sta... Wed, 1 Oct 2014 07:53:03 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 13 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5789567 I'm getting real tired of all this protein and veggies and would love to add a half a bagel for breakfast. I will wait on that though. I am slowly searching for ways to spice up the food and found a recipe for Southern American Succotash Soup with Chicken at <link>www.norcalfoodies.com </link> . I made it last night as I had the ingredients at hand and was able to pull the lima beans from my stash. Had just purchased a rotisserie chicken from Publix and dismantled it to add to the sou... Tue, 30 Sep 2014 08:03:21 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 12 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5788908 Getting real tired of eggs and sausage for breakfast but hey, its allowed. I will say that eating all this protein keeps me full. I am allowed an apple but no other fruit. That seems silly but I'm sticking to it for the most part. Been experimenting with different apples. Tried an "envy" apple and I like it very much. Very crisp and not mushy. Today a friend is coming over to sew and I'll have chicken salad lunch! I love that chicken salad. <BR> I know one thing for sure, we are sav... Mon, 29 Sep 2014 08:45:31 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 11 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5788263 It's Working! The scale had landed on 190 hovering towards 189. Oh, I am so happy and my stomach definitely feels flatter. Last night we went to a party and I was able to wear a flirty skirt I hadn't worn in a while. Got lots of complements on how nice I looked. Even though my weight is up there, my frame allows me to carry it and I don't look as heavy as I am. Thus, wasn't that interested in losing. <BR> <BR> However, the PTF program is sooooooo easy. Just grab a meat and veg, heat i... Sun, 28 Sep 2014 08:04:44 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 10 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5787758 Ten days in and my stomach feels so much flatter. Such a good feeling. Had fajitas last night at the mexican restaurant, no tortillas, a few chips and salsa. Usually I eat the whole basket of chips so that was good. Water water everywhere helps you get up early to pee. <BR> Today is a home/sew/football day. Hubby has to work so I will be heating up something healthy to eat and watching FSU vs NC <em>281</em> STATE. <BR> Yesterday for lunch, I grabbed one of the hamburgers provided,... Sat, 27 Sep 2014 07:39:45 EST Personal Trainer Food Day 9 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5787233 So far so good. Yesterday I was at home most of the day so was able to eat my food. For dinner, I pulled two chicken breasts out to heat up. Then I shaved corn off of one ear and sauteed with 2 slices of diced bacon, some diced onion. I heated up my PTF lima beans and then threw them in with the corn for succotash. Tasty. It wasn't unlike a meal I might have made anyway, grilled chicken and a veggie, but I would have added spuds or bread and had a dessert. A friend had given us some c... Fri, 26 Sep 2014 08:30:09 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 8 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5786633 Today is the start of my second week with PTF and I am very pleased. I have a freezer full of food that I can just pull out and nuke and have a meal in minutes. I don't have to think about it. That is the biggest advantage of this program! I think we will save money on groceries too as I won't be buying much. We continue to eat out all the time though but I have it down to a science. I peruse the menu and pick the healthiest items that are allowable. I ended up eating out at lunch and... Thu, 25 Sep 2014 08:53:47 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 7 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5786018 Amazing, i've been doing this for 7 days today! And we've eaten out more often than we've eaten in. In fact, I've eaten out 5 days in a row and out again tonight. That is why I've always had so much trouble losing. We eat out so much. <BR> So today I decided to go to the website <link>www.personaltrainerfood.com </link> <BR> and watch the video for week one and week two. <BR> The number one goal each week is to: <BR> 1. Focus on routines, not weight loss. How many times do we get ... Wed, 24 Sep 2014 09:32:59 EST Personal Trainer Food Day 6 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5785288 Still plugging along. We ended up eating out with my sister last night at Ruby Tuesday's again. I went for the chicken fresco in the lemon butter sauce, green beans and broccoli. Not missing those spuds. Breakfast is difficult. So much sausage and eggs. I'm pulling a lunch sausage out of the freezer to try for breakfast. I like to steam spinach along with the sausage as the juice flavors the spinach. Sausage and spinach for breakfast, what a combo. <BR> The biggest advantage to this... Tue, 23 Sep 2014 07:33:58 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 5 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5784545 So yesterday, after a breakfast of eggs, sausage and bacon, I was not hungry the rest of the day. I had taken out a steak for my husband so he fixed steak and corn. At 6:00. I heated up italian chicken and Venice veggies. I included a daub of ranch dressing to dip the chicken in. It was tasty, as diet foods go. I enjoy the veggies because they are crisp and not soggy and boiled to death like they do here in the south. I am originally a Yankee and prefer crisper veggies. I'm looking fo... Mon, 22 Sep 2014 07:25:06 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 4 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5783916 It occurred to me last night that I haven't eaten much PTF food in the last two days. Went out to eat Friday and Sat nights but chose wisely, nixed the starches and ate veggies and meat only. Today we are out again for breakfast but I will eat plenty of eggs and bacon and sausage. Monday I am looking forward to the convenience of grabbing meat and veg from the freezer and heating it up for lunch. I am so wanting the scale to move south a few pounds into 180 ville. I would be so pleased. ... Sun, 21 Sep 2014 08:14:18 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD DAY 3 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5783367 Last night we went to the Yacht Club for dinner and I had salad with oil and vinegar, chicken marsala with mushrooms, spinach and roasted parsnips. No bread, no popcorn, no wine, no alcohol, no potato. I did have some cheese which is allowable. <BR> <BR> At lunch yesterday, I pulled two packs of steak fajita strips from the freezer, sliced green pepper and onion and sauteed the veggies and added the steak. And a bit of fajita seasoning. It was tasty and I shared with hubby but his was wr... Sat, 20 Sep 2014 07:35:47 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD, DAY 2 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5782810 So yesterday for lunch I had the buffalo chicken strips with mixed veggies and I thought it was a yummy lunch. And so easy. They recommend the heating up time but my microwave seems to want longer. For dinner, I grabbed a garlic butter chicken breast with Caribbean veggies. Wasn't as fond of it as I wanted to be and had to reheat it at least once. If I have another of these to eat, I will put a sliced tomato on top, bake in oven and then put a piece of cheese on top to make it chicken pa... Fri, 19 Sep 2014 08:23:29 EST PERSONAL TRAINER FOOD, DAY 1 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5782193 My word, where did the year go? Can't believe anyone will even read my blogs but I'm starting a new adventure today and I'm going to blog about it. <BR> Amazon had a deal where you could buy a voucher for $99 to use in purchasing a food plan from <link>www.personaltrainerfood.com </link> . Since I am at the point of desperation in my weight loss journey, I felt that something drastic like this was exactly what I needed. After reviewing the website and reading reviews, I decided to go fo... Thu, 18 Sep 2014 09:25:30 EST WEIGHT LOSS PROGRESS! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5597797 I vowed right before Christmas that I was going to join Weight Watchers online and get serious about losing weight. I had reached the point of no return on the scale, a place I never wanted to be and won't tell anyone about. And WW had sent me a special rate to rejoin so I did. <BR> Guess what, it hasn't been difficult and I haven't been hungry! I've lost at least 5 lbs. My scale is very iffy and I'm not buying a new one. It is inconsistent but I can see the arrow heading in the right ... Sat, 18 Jan 2014 09:45:17 EST 365 DAYS OF RECIPES http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5572841 I asked for, and received, a new cookbook of 365 recipes, broken down into months! Can't wait to try them all but probably won't get to do one everyday. I had gotten into such a rut but my sister advised me to cook something I hadn't tried before. What a great idea! I joined WW online on Tuesday and learning the point system. Let me tell you, if you eat everything they say you can eat, you will NOT be hungry. So we will see if it will work for me. <BR> Anyway, last night I made turkey... Fri, 27 Dec 2013 09:12:29 EST THE CHIROPRACTOR http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5562765 I've been to Chiros before but been avoiding it. It just seems like you can fix yourself. But I belong to a referral group for businesses and there is a very nice chiropractor in it, a female, and I've been hearing her talk for some months. So, she called me for a decorating appmt and purchased a sofa and I decided to give her a try. <BR> But you see, I have been having severe butt lock and one day, my lower back and across my butt on both sides felt like a washboard. It just wasn't movin... Thu, 12 Dec 2013 09:23:43 EST DECISION FATIGUE! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5478407 I've just read an article from Buffer, which is a web blog, about Decision Fatigue! What a light bulb is on event! I totally believe this is true, that I suffer from Decision Fatigue, too many to make in one week! I'm a pretty sharp woman but as I age, I find it more difficult to juggle multiple jobs at once. That was something I was pretty good at in my younger days. Now, I just want to dump it all out of my head. Today is a must day for me to head to the sewing machine, to mindlessly ... Sat, 7 Sep 2013 08:25:55 EST WHAT A DIFFERENCE A LITTLE PAINT MAKES! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5470908 <img src="http://photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/2/4/l244803160.jpg"> <BR> <BR> I have had friends here on spark ask me to post some decorating tips and info so here goes. I've been working with this client and created an amazing living room for her. But this sad dining room just needed something. It is visible from the living room and so we had to spruce it up. <BR> <BR> Add a little paint called Restful Green from Sherwin Williams and some amazing draperies and here you go! <img src="h... Fri, 30 Aug 2013 13:42:30 EST Mother IN Laws Things http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5469647 I lost my MIL in May after a prolonged illness. She was 94 and lived a good long life so no regrets. We had fixed up a room for her in our home and when I walked in there this week, I could smell and feel her presence. We have company coming on Saturday so it was time to make room. My husband took all of her clothing to a woman's shelter and they were thrilled to get it. She had a lot of nice clothing, some never worn and she took good care of her things. <BR> I kept a few things, a jack... Thu, 29 Aug 2013 08:30:16 EST Our vacation Day 2 and 3 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5466694 We had a full week on our vacation to New England. On the second day, we drove to Conway NH where we boarded the notch train and took the scenic route through the notch to Crawford and the mountain. Living in Florida, I rarely see any hills let alone mountains so it was a treat. We rode an old train and listened to stories on the way up. We had lunch in the dining car and then walked around the mountain top enjoying the scenery. A slow trip back down the mountain and our drive home. Din... Mon, 26 Aug 2013 10:53:53 EST SUMMER VACATION, DAY 1 AND 2 http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5455975 <img src="http://photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/7/3/l733767233.jpg">iTS time for me to sit down and tell you about my vacation so I won't forget it. We were supposed to arrive in Concord NH at about 3:00 in the afternoon on July 22. However, we had bad weather and the planes coming in from Atlanta that were supposed to carry us out, were cancelled due to the weather. So my husband, former travel agent that he is, managed to get us booked on a late afternoon flight which was the first one ou... Thu, 15 Aug 2013 09:57:44 EST YEA, A VACATION! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5427990 Tomorrow we leave for Boston, NH and Maine and we are so excited! I am particularly excited about the geneology part, even though it is my husband's family I am researching. When I was in high school, I hated history. It was so boring and when I went to college, could barely keep awake in history classes. Who wants to know about Machiovelli? <BR> <BR> I've been researching my husband's family for about 20 years and with the internet and ancestry.com, it has become easier to find out ab... Sun, 21 Jul 2013 07:34:55 EST A MUCH NEEDED VACATION! http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5387789 Yesterday, my husband and I booked our trip to New Hampshire to inter his mother's Cremains. We are going the third week of July and so looking forward to it. He hasn't been on a trip in 2 years while I have gone to two conferences and a trip with my sister last year to Delaware. There are so many things he wants to do while there, having grown up in New Hampshire. <BR> <BR> Of course we will have to visit his mother's sister who is 98 and the remaining sibling. And her family. She mi... Thu, 13 Jun 2013 09:00:14 EST FAMILY UPDATE MUSINGS http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5382246 People keep asking me how we are dealing with my MIL's passing. How is your husband doing? He's fine. We haven't been devastated or tearful, just relieved. Last night we were at dinner with friends commenting on it and we realized that we had the opportunity to say goodbye to her and make amends for several months. We read to her, sang to her, shared memories, took care of her, talked about heaven, brought the kids in to see her, took her out, etc. My friends parents died suddenly withi... Sat, 8 Jun 2013 09:19:49 EST A WONDERFUL MEMORIAL AND WEEKEND http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5369119 Friday was the service for my MIL and all of our family was here except my Sister and husband who had other plans scheduled to be out of town. One friend commented that it was the happiest funeral she had ever been to and we had numerous similar comments. We are so happy for my MIL that she is now at peace. Reality will set in I'm sure as I go through her things but that can wait. <BR> <BR> I had planned a quilt for her using handkerchiefs that she had collected over the years. Sad I did... Mon, 27 May 2013 09:40:40 EST MEMORIAL SERVICE TODAY http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5366458 Today is the day that we gather as a family to honor my MIL. Our sons and the great grandkids will be there and my MIL's niece and her husband who are both in their 80"s. My sister and her husband had another trip planned so cannot be here which is sad. Her son and family will be there. <BR> <BR> My husband has planned such a beautiful send off for her. He sings barbershop and we have an amazing gospel quartet coming to sing and many of his other friends will be there as well. Our churc... Fri, 24 May 2013 08:12:18 EST SO MUCH TO DO... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5360025 My mother in law passed away May 17, 2013. She would have been 94 in June. She certainly led a good and fascinating life, traveled in many countries and loved her 4 great grandchildren, her 2 grandsons and 2 wonderful great daughters in law. When you think about the life that these older citizens of our country have seen, the changes that have been made in the world since 1919, the year of her birth, it is amazing. <BR> <BR> She was my MIL for 40 years, longer than my own mother who di... Sat, 18 May 2013 09:01:46 EST My mother in law http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5359732 My mother in law, Marjorie, passed this evening at about 7:30 pm. We will miss her but she is now at peace. Thank you for all of your prayers and concerns and support during this trying time. Fri, 17 May 2013 22:01:25 EST TODAY IS SATURDAY ... OOPS, FRIDAY http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5359076 I got to sleep in today and I was in such a deep sleep I woke up thinking it was Saturday. Then the realization sunk in, another day to finish up the week. Yesterday I went to see my MIL and spent about an hour and a half with her. She is in some distress, moaning, eyes open, grabbing her sheet, uncovering herself. I got some ice water and I kept putting drops into her mouth. Then I put smaller pieces of ice into her mouth and she seemed to enjoy them, sucking them until they melted. I ... Fri, 17 May 2013 09:35:10 EST THE SMALLEST WINNER http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5357059 So I'm in this class at the YMCA, named above. Last night we had a briefing by a dietician. OH, I'd heard it all before but hey, if it works. She pretty much described the Sonoma or Mediterranean diet. Eat more protein, fruits and veggies. So today is day one all over again. <BR> Oh, and she also says, track your food. DUH! I hate doing that but there are only 6 more weeks of this and so I can do this. And exercise and more exercise. Yes, I can. Wed, 15 May 2013 07:02:49 EST When the going gets tough... http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5356031 <img src="http://photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/8/9/l892468922.jpg"> <img src="http://photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/1/9/l1927229321.jpg"> <img src="http://photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/1/6/l1694531220.jpg">When the going gets tough, the tough get going. Well I'm fixing to be tough because I have some stressors that are hard to deal with. My MIL is near death and my son lost his job again. It is just too much for me to bear so I am setting some goals I can deal with. <BR> <BR> First, I need t... Tue, 14 May 2013 08:55:46 EST UPDATE ON MIL http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journal_individual.asp?blog_id=5353464 Its after 8:00 p.m. and we just left the nursing home. It doesn't look good and it can't be long. At least we hope and pray that the Lord takes her home to be with the rest of her family. We have been away for 5 days and got back at 4:00 p.m. The nurse called at 5:00 and said that she hadn't eaten all day, was very unresponsive, wouldn't wear her teeth or her glasses. She wanted to run some tests and/or take her to the ER. We said no to the ER and yes to the tests. However, when we got... Sat, 11 May 2013 21:30:14 EST