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Great weekend wedding!

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

I started last week very down. I was going to a wedding that I had been trying to lose weight for. After months of trying I still weighed the same. On Monday I had a meltdown and cried to my husband that I was dreading the weekend with his very athletic and judgemental family. I didn't think He would understand (he has six pack abs and fitter than most men half his age) Instead he took me shopping (yes a man went shopping) to help me pick out a dress. We found one the was very flattering but IMO way too expensive. He bought the dress and took the receipt so that I could not return it.

The wedding lasted all weekend. The rehearsal was wonderful. I avoided all of the heavy foods and fortunately didn't care for the dessert. Saturday morning ate a breakfast that matched my SP meal plan and had a chicken cesaer salad for lunch. In between Hubby and I went to the gym with BIL and SIL. I didn't work as hard as I would at home cuz it was awkward not being at my gym. Nevertheless my ABS were sore the next day.

The wedding was amazing. It was in a castle. I felt good about myself in my dress. I haven't lost any weight but my arms don't jiggle so much anymore so I wasn't self conscious about them. For dinner I choose the sea bass instead of the less healthy other choices. All of the dancing we did(and we danced a lot) was a great cardio workout. I did cave at dessert with the most amazing dessert buffet I had ever seen. It took up two rooms in the castle.

Next day was back to the castle for brunch. SP has helped me make eating healthy a habit. I had a well balanced breakfast and the thought of eating the greasy bacon and sausage that I would have enjoyed in the past was very unappealing to me.

The next morning at home I weighed and I hadn't gained anything! I had even enjoyed being with my in-laws. MIL even said she really enjoyed spending time with us and our kids. She is much closer to her daughters than my husband sothey don't see us as much.

Sorry so long but isn't that what a blog is for
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    Dear PJP Mom,

    I know how you feel. Last year my son got married. I weighted the most ever. Nerves maybe? I still had a great time. I found that I can enjoy myself no matter how thin/fat I am. I want to lose weight to be healthy, not for others.

    3695 days ago
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