Why do I do this? I give my power to my husband. I ALLOW him to make me feel terrible. Last night and the fight I realized I allowed him to make me get depressed. Today that feeling still lingers. Tonight I told the kids to go to bed. He asked why are you in such a hurry to get them in bed? (it was later than I wanted them to be up). See I usually put them in bed then turn their TV on til they fall asleep and sometimes it takes them awhile to go to sleep. I explained this. He said we just talked about this the other night...We were supposed to discuss a regular schedule for me and the kids...BUT we didn't I don't feel comfprtable talking to him. No matter how big or small the problem is we get into an argument. I do not argue well. He says it's just because I can't articulate what I mean. Maybe it's true. I have got to stop this but do not know how...