Wednesday, July 23, 2014
I'll keep this one short and sweet.
Hubby and I had a long couple of days, and a night. We started discussing the reality. I need to be there for my child. If that means going, I was going. Hubby had no intention of moving. I know that. Even though this house is too small for both of us right now, he'll never move.
We seriously talked about me leaving. During that, we both realized I can't go. There has to be another solution. I asked him what to do. He finally realized I need to be there for her.
We don't have all the answers, but hubby is realizing he can't change who I am. If there's something I need to do, he can either support me through it, or I will do it on my own.
I don't know where we go from here, but we're not giving up on each other. I wish this meant we won't fight about these issues anymore. I really do. I hate conflict. But I'm at least hoping we can get through these things as a team now, and not battle each other on them anymore.