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Time can bring change....


Tuesday, July 22, 2014

When I was fifteen, crushed on my now honey HARD!! I would never have guessed after a decade, we would actually be dating. I actually got married for a two month brief period before we got together with an on again, off again high school boyfriend. Looking back, it wasn't the right thing to do and grateful don't have any children to tie us together. I did miss the friendship, but his wife had a whole set of rules for him......not so much for her, and with some bitterness on his part, we don't talk.

About seven years ago, one of the three Davids I used to hang out with in high school randomly got my number through an old mutual friend. I almost lost him once to drugs......and now just recently, his kidneys failed....and almost lost him AGAIN!! He lives maybe a few hours away from my sister in law(ex)....I had re connected with her a year or two later.....and now we are all connected on Face book. All but the ex.....he's still a little hesitant, but his now ex-wife was basically using him this whole time. I don't mind mending fences.....I was never out to hurt him, or his relationship with her, I feel bad he got used the way he did. She did give him something I wasn't willing to~three girls, she even took that away. I don't expect us to have a friendly reunion anytime soon, but at least we are talking. Just have to give it a little more time.

I can't say what the future holds......but I'm hopeful and excited to see. The documentary is still in the works and that means the band plays one more time. Honey got paid from the gig, in itself a surprise~and more than would think punk band would bring in......but the show was epic. Still get chills thinking about it, watching the videos of the show and pit.

My body isn't doing much in the way of changing lol I guess that is a good thing, not getting worse, but not as fit as I could be. For now, happy to be where I'm at.

Our princess kitten has kind of thrown a fit when adopted our new older cat, Brutus. She now wants to spend all her time outside, and catching her sleeping in my honey's car *like our missing cat Spazzy used to. I usually scoop her up and bring her inside. I want her to feel like she is still part of the family......

Brutus has turned into the lover I had hoped Tilly *our princess would be. He even loves up on our Turkey dog....who is not quite certain what is going on lol He has also adopted my girlfriends crafty pillow blanket as his own

such a curious cat!
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PATTYKLAVER 7/23/2014 9:03AM

    It's kinda ironic that cats are like people more than we give them credit for. The boys are "momma's boys" and the girls are "daddy's girls". When I met my boyfriend, he had a male and a female dog. I told him I'd win the boy over first. It didn't take long for him to be my "boyfriend". The female is so protective of my granddaughter but is definitely a daddy's girl.

I wish I could go back and pick up on some really good friendships that I had in high school. Alas and alack...

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NISSANGIRL 7/23/2014 6:50AM

    Tilly looks alot like the cat I used to have! so cute her holding the blanket!!! Hope u and the ex can make settle things and make peace. Have a wonderful day girl. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ERINLINDSAY83 7/22/2014 10:40PM

    Cute kitty! My oldest cat got used to her sister after about a year. Seriously...a year of hissing. She never (even after 4 years of living together) stopped hissing at her adopted brothers. Some kitty's are just like that, lol.

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BOLEBRON 7/22/2014 9:57PM

    Poor Tilly! She is jealous. Brutus is beautiful.

I hope you and your ex-boyfriend can become friends again.

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