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Fighting for her life


Tuesday, July 22, 2014

I began today at the gym with my best friend. We were doing circuit training. The last circuit was a boxing workout. I punched first, she held the mitts. She laughed as I began to punch. "Oh my God, you are punching so hard it's like you are thinking of someone in particular." I told her I was. I was, and am, thinking of my dear friend Bren aka Jitzuroe (on Sparkpeople). My best friend knows Bren's story. She knows Bren has arbitrarily and unfairly been hit by two vicious, debilitating conditions. I told Simone that "I am thinking of her illnesses when I am punching." For one thing, Bren would LOVE to be able to workout. She has a long history of fitness pursuits, including running marathons. For another thing, I know I am powerless to take her pain and suffering away and that makes me furious.

Bren and I and Jan aka Sparkfriend MamaDwarf, got together in the Bay area a couple years ago, when my son and I were on one of our giant roadtrips. It was such a good visit and I will always be glad we all made the effort to get together in person. Our bond formed over SP but strengthened in person. If you ever get the chance to meet up with either, or both, in person, jump at it!

Our dear Bren is strikingly, head-turningly beautiful. I know she thinks her beauty has been dimmed by all the mean symptoms and side effects but, actually, it hasn't been. I think physically beautiful women are ever more interestingly beautiful when the beauty is accompanied by something like a scar, or some other detail that tells a story. I never wish anyone pain, of course, but we all wind up with our bodies telling tales. Bren's tells a tale of a woman who has endured more than she should, and whose quirky, witty, sweet spirit just keeps showing up, no matter what. I have learned countless lessons from her, and been inspired daily, for years. I am honored to call her my friend. I adore her. Today is her 40th birthday and I, and a lot of people, truly celebrate the day that Miss Bren was born. She is a gem.
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Member Comments About This Blog Post:
JCARDINAL 7/23/2014 5:19PM

    I love Bren and her wonderful spirit too. I am glad she has you as a friend.

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JITZUROE 7/23/2014 10:17AM

    Oh my goodness. You've brought tears to my eyes... : )
I continue to thank God for bringing me such a wonderful friend I've found in you.

Some people dismiss certain areas of social media; refusing to believe that true friendships and authentic support can be created and can flourish. But Spark proves that you can in fact find true support, true friendship, true inspiration, and so much more!

You are amazing. And I am thankful to know you!
Bren

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SLIMMERJESSE 7/23/2014 12:07AM

    Life is not fair, that's for sure. What a wonderful friend you are.

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TIME4CARRI 7/23/2014 12:03AM

    Thank you for introducing me to Bren. She has been a most inspiring person to me and so many others.

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SIRENNEA 7/22/2014 4:28PM

    Very Moving.

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YVETTEB57 7/22/2014 2:37PM

    What a wonderful tribute to your friend. Thanks for sharing it with us!
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