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5 months late i think?

Friday, May 09, 2014

Well as many of you know my uncle killed himself last yr and my grandma lives with me and it hit her VERY hard to lose another child esp since it had been only 3 yrs since my mom died and grandma has been very depressed since mom died and my uncle killing himself made things worse for not knowing how to help her. things are better now but it hit hard because i had to deal with my own feelings of it and hers since i take care of her and be able to be a comfort to her and find hope.

We are trying really hard to find happiness again and keep our heads up and I've decided to try to lose the 20lbs i have gained in this bad time.
so hopefully by my 34th birthday in sept i can lose at least half of it.

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JUMPINJULIE 5/16/2014 3:55PM

    Sending Hugs.

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PATTYKLAVER 5/14/2014 9:20AM

    I am sorry that you and your grandma have had such terrible tragedies. I said a prayer for you that comfort will come soon.

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KATIBUG49 5/11/2014 9:36PM

    It's so hard when you lose loved ones, I recently lost my father & I still can't get it together, I think we have to take each day one minute at a time. You can do it!

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CTUPTON 5/11/2014 8:53PM

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Hugs and prayers for you and your family.


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HIKING-4-ME 5/10/2014 9:14PM

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NELLIEC 5/10/2014 4:15PM

    It is not surprising that both you and your grandmother are sad. But it is good that you are helping her.

I will be praying for both of you!

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SWEETNEEY 5/10/2014 11:29AM

    It's one day at a time. We have to feel the pain but continue on. A plan to lose weight is a positive way to move forward

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GARDENCHRIS 5/10/2014 8:12AM

    sorry for all the sadness, you need to care for yourself also, so do it because you matter.

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03191952 5/9/2014 4:57PM

  sorry for you loss, but happy for your devotion to your grandma, I know it's really hard to care for someone & take care of yourself at the same time, we know you lose your weight, we're cheering you on all the way

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KITT52 5/9/2014 4:18PM


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