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How Good Are You At Following Directions?


Monday, April 28, 2014

emoticon Are you the type of person who follows directions to a T, or do you think you know best and change things around a little? Well, if you're cooking from a recipe and you add a little something or maybe leave out a little something -- it may or may not turn out as you hoped. But -- if you've decided it's time to head down the trail to a Healthy Lifestyle the little changes you make could make a big difference.

I don't have a degree in this, but I've lived a long life and I'm pretty observant, so the things I tell you are pretty much the way it is. So let's say you've finally decided to get yourself healthy and in shape (after looking in the mirror -- or maybe you noticed your reflection in a store window as you were walking by -- and you didn't even recognize yourself?) Been there, done that!

The whole thing is a series of steps. That means it's best it you don't try to jump in with both feet and think you'll look like you did in high school, all in a month's time. The fact is, depending on how long you've waited to do this, you will PROBABLY NEVER look like you did in high school. Not exactly what you wanted to hear, is it? But if you've let your weight get up to say 280 and in high school it was 120 - 130, you'd probably look like a skeleton at that weight! I'm 75 years old, weighed 105 when in high school, and my goal is 125 - 130. So be practical, don't base your goal weight on your girlfriend, or some movie star, look at the charts and go from that.

First Step: You need to know just what and where you need to tone up. To do this it's best to stand (naked) in front of a full length mirror. Look front, side and back, even if you need another mirror to see how you look from behind. I know you'll want to do this while you're alone because this is more than you should share with your BFF.
By the way, there is no way to target just one exact area, so doing sit-ups thinking your stomach will disappear won't do anything except make you tired. You will lose inches everywhere; however some exercises do work certain muscles so you can concentrate on those.

Now that you've admitted to yourself just how bad things are, get out the tape measure. Measure upper arm, upper chest (that's above the boobs and under the arms with the tape), bust, rib cage (just under the boobs), waist, hips, thigh and calf. You might even want to measure your ankle. Now hide that list, but keep it in a place where you can look at it and add to it. Date it too, along with your weight. And speaking of weighing, always do it naked (or with panties) first thing in the morning before eating anything. Try to do it about the same time of day each time.

Make a journal of this, it helps to keep things in perspective if you are writing them down. And you'll find it is motivating and enjoyable to go back and look at your notes now and then.

Go by what the advice is on SparkPeople. This is what I mean by "following directions" because deviating can get you in trouble. And when I said don't jump in with both feet -- go slow. Weight that is lost slowly is more likely to stay off.

Be aware that it takes a combination of eating the right food and getting exercise to be successful at losing weight. I read that when you lose weight merely by cutting back on the food you eat, a large percentage of what you lose is not FAT, but LEAN MEAT AND MUSCLE. Believe me, you don't want to lose any of that!

Decide on three or four things that you will change as far as your diet goes, and with that in mind, try to track your food on a daily basis. For example you may decide to be sure to drink 8 glasses of water daily (8 oz each = 64 oz) It sounds like a lot if you haven't been doing it, but try drinking 2 cups of water with a lemon squeezed into it first thing in the morning, before eating. I like mine slightly warm so I nuke it for about 40 seconds. #2 could be to eat at least 4 fruits or vegetables per day. #3 go for more fish, chicken, turkey in your diet, no more than 2 servings of red meat weekly.

And decide on 20 minutes or more of exercise daily. Walking is by far the easiest to start out with, as no equipment needed except a pair of good tennis shoes. If you are handicapped and can't do that, there are lots of suggestions on SP for you too, which include chair exercises. Wall pushups are one of my favorites, and again, no extra equipment needed (I think you all have a wall somewhere). And as the weeks go by add some little thing each week or month -- the whole purpose is to get you a little bit tired so you know it's "exercise." Gardening is a good hobby, and it counts as exercise
as a side benefit.


Good luck to all of you, and comments are appreciated and welcome!
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OLDERDANDRT 4/29/2014 11:43AM

    Great blog, Eve! I've been in "hold"mode for so long, I feel like I am starting over, so this came at a great time! Yep, I have a wall or two, so will do some wall push-ups today! Got to start somewhere till this weather lets me go walking again!
Thanks for these words of wisdom! (((HUGS)))

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VITCHY-VICKI 4/29/2014 6:24AM

    I am the same weight maybe a little smaller then I was in High School I want to be the weight I was when I got PG with my kids which is 170 but I don't really look any different at that weight my clothes all still fit but I would just love the scale to be what I want it to say - so one day at a time and I hope to be at my goal - so need some directions again to stay with it - thanks for the blog
V

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ARTJAC 4/29/2014 1:47AM

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DALID414 4/28/2014 11:05PM

    Good thing I'll never look like I did in high school; I looked terrible!

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CAROLMAID 4/28/2014 8:20PM

    Simply great blog!
I so hear ya about the high school thing. That was way to many years and my body has done way too many things for it ever to go back to that. Nope! Not even gonna try...would be pointless for me to get back to 110 lbs. the dream 135...the realistic goal, back into the 140's!

Spark people's directions DO work. I got down into the 140's....barely! haha 149 but hey...it was in the 140's LOL by following the directions. That was an 18 lb loss and it took about six months to accomplish.

BUT then I got a little lazy and a lot creative as you say and low and behold most of it came back. But I'm sticking to the plan...all the plan, tracking, calorie range etc. It will work again, am seeing some progress now but it's slow! Rome wasn't built in a day...and neither is this chicks body! PATIENCE much Patience is required! That's where all my SP friends have been so helpful. Thanks guys! Just reminded me to stick with it.

I agree adding one good healthy habit and goal at a time (and a workable one such as some more protein everyday) is a good plan. A long while back I started with eliminating any creamer or sugar in my coffee. That's at least several hundred calories reduced right there. It's a habit I changed and its now STUCK! don't even like coffee w anything in it anymore. Little steps!!!

Bottom line...I follow directions! BUT when life gets stressful...and it did! I get creative! LOL consequences do follow :(

As always great insight Eve. I look to you for wisdom. to me you are a treasure trove of it! Thank you.

Your friend,
Carol

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ROSAMARCELLE 4/28/2014 6:19PM

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SKATER787 4/28/2014 5:07PM

    Forget the exercise. It's the sedentary behavior that matters. If people really want to get healthy, get rid of the sofa and comfortable chairs. Only sit when taking breaks. You'll get healthy, no question about it. But once you park your butt in those comfy sofa and chairs, it's adios Amigo! You won't move for hours.

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MPETERSON2311 4/28/2014 3:50PM

    this was great! thanks

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CATLADY52 4/28/2014 2:38PM

    Sound advice plus easy directions. I don't think anyone could get lost using them. emoticon emoticon

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VICKI-B-N-FLA 4/28/2014 12:30PM

  Very, very good advice. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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LOSE4LIFE47 4/28/2014 11:55AM

    Sometimes it is hard following directions for me but I do it the best I can.

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