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Feeling defeated...by life


Friday, April 18, 2014

I am by far a person who always "makes it work" come hell or high water, as the saying goes. But the man I am engaged to right now has me defeated. He has been living with me for 8 months and pays zero bills and I am paying his bills. I am broke! Completely. Not just financially but emotionally too.

I love this man but I cannot and will not live like this anymore. He is going to have to simply go back to his family. I am a single mom, I am a full time student and I now am working on my weekends to pay my bills, the house bills and his bills. I am done! Relationships are supposed to be about 2 people working together for a similar goal. This is me working and him not.

I am defeated......but I will change the situation this week because enough is enough!
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Member Comments About This Blog Post:
CLEARNIGHTSKY 5/1/2014 11:15PM

    I support you. You deserve the best.

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Maggie

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BEEANDHAM 4/18/2014 4:23PM

    I agree with Clesher! That is not okay! emoticon

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OTRADIOGIRL 4/18/2014 3:51PM

    Thank you all for the supportive comments. emoticon

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CLESHER 4/18/2014 2:21PM

    Trust your insincts here...no second guessing....you will do what is best...I have no doubt

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Cherrie

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GEMINICHIK 4/18/2014 2:02PM

    Its cheaper for you to move on before you say I do. Do not settle for anything OR anyone....you need to recognize & believe you deserve the best for you & your child. Your child that needs a strong, positive role models from both mom & the male you choose to bring into your childs life. Best of luck.
Blessings

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JOYCECAIN 4/18/2014 1:41PM

    Living together means sharing responsibilities. Of all things his own bills. Get rid of him, and if he gives you trouble, call the cops. No one should be living this way. emoticon

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LISASGONNADOIT 4/18/2014 1:38PM

    You can do it! Thankfully you realized what you need and what you deserve! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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