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I Can't Hear You

Friday, April 18, 2014

" Never pay attention to what critics say. Remember a statue has never been set up in honor of a critic." Jean Sibelius

People say mean things because they don't think or they don't care, Some do it because they are having a bad day and want to make sure you do right along with them. They don't like themselves .

We don't have to listen or believe them. Know deep down in your heart you are a good person. You are special and should be treated well. So never listen or take it to heart. Half the time they don't even know what they are talking about. Don't listen and walk away if you need to . Breathe , smile and say out loud sorry you feel that way . Inside say Jerk.

Everyone gets picked on now and then we don't have to like it or listen . Let's have a happy healthy Aloha Friday instead. Let's spread good cheer and sunshine . Who knows maybe the haters of the world will join in.

happy Aloha Friday , grab a Happy wave . Hugs Happiness and Healthy Living
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    I work as a cashier and I have come up on some really rude people. Basically I tell them what a pleasure it was to serve them, mouth and my face don't always say the same thing. They usually get the message and often the clients following are laughing at them. I have very expressive eyes, it seems, so you can imagine what the face says emoticon

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    I love your blog! Thanks for sharing! Sending you lots of hugs!
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  • JACKIE542
    Thanks for this, I try and smile and carry on, or I turn my music on and hopefully get a happy song and sing along, than I feel better, Have a happy and wonderful day. emoticon emoticon
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    Aloha Friday to you too my friend. emoticon
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    Have a wonderful day!! emoticon
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  • HOLLYM48
    You know, just this morning I was thinking along these very same lines and thinking that happiness is a choice and I am going to tell a person that one of these days because she is so negative. Life is to short to spend it going around being unhappy and negative, but as I said it is a choice! I choose to be happy and build other people up! Thanks for another great blog. Have a healthy and happy day and weekend!
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    Have a happy day, Jo.
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  • ROX525 your blog. Everything is so true. I like the walking away and inside saying "Jerk" also. Have a lovely weekend.
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    If I'm ever on the receiving end of an ill comment I try to remember that person may well be having a bad day............but plain rudeness is a bug bear of mine I'm afraid.
    politeness costs nothing,,,,,,,,,neither does a smile emoticon

    Great blog as usual Joanne......I call you my life coach emoticon
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    Comment edited on: 4/18/2014 5:38:03 AM
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