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Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Maybe this is self pity or maybe just that I am just so frustrated with things right now I am not sure where to turn. I have been working on healing myself layer by layer. Which has been working. Until last night. I thought my son and I were getting along better but boy was I played the fool. I was told last night that I am not invited to bridal showers, and that I can't go near his home. And that I am not invited or wanted at his wedding. It makes me feel sick that he feels that way, but as broken hearted has I feel I will make it. It just means another family member has turned their back on me. And on judgement day I hope he has a good answer for God.

Thank you for letting me vent. It has been a bad day, mild anxiety attack, tears, and just plain miserable.
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GEMINISUE 3/17/2014 8:29PM

    Debbie

I just found this blog, and I feel bad for you and also for him. He knows not what he is doing. Hopefully, soon this will be only a memory. For him he will live with what he has said to you, for the rest of his life. As he ages, he will know/learn what is right to do and say and what is best to hold in, stew over, and put aside until one is sure before speaking.

My thoughts are with you my friend, I am sorry I was not there for you when you may have needed me most. I am here now. Feel free to spark mail me. I am adjusting to my lost, and life goes on.

Hugs from your friend
Linda

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STEVEN2GO2 2/27/2014 2:35PM

    emoticon emoticon YOU can not control him, only the way you react. I

am emoticon that he made these choices and I hope you find the strength inside yourself to deal with this in time. Right now you must be extremely hurt, if you can for your own sake try to forgive him in his choices and I hope find peace!

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LJCANNON 2/27/2014 1:13AM

    emoticon Will be Praying for Peace, Comfort, and that God will heal your Relationship with your Son. And I agree with what others have said -- It is His Problem, NOT Yours. Take Care of YOU!!

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DEBIGENE 2/26/2014 7:55PM

    Yes dear friend it is difficult and sad that your son is treating you this way but you are strong and not the problem. Whatever it was that set him off it is his problem to deal with not yours. I have come to know that you are a loving kind caring woman of God and do not deserve to be treated in this way. He will have to look in the mirror and sleep at night with what he has done not you. Don't let him determine or change who you are !!! You are a beautiful woman.

You are right he is the one that will have to live with his decisions and all you can do is just love and forgive him regardless. Easier said than done and these are def hard things to do but you have God on your side and He will be with you and guide you along the way. Keep your faith strong and expect no less from God.

God bless and be with you my friend and know that I love and pray for you.

HUGS

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EVER-HOPEFUL 2/26/2014 7:53PM

    oh deb so sorry to hear that ove.did he say why?what does his wife to be say?when is the wedding?he might have calmed down by the wedding.and change his mind.i know that doesn´t help much now . emoticon

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IMPERIODEE 2/26/2014 7:48PM

  thank you for sharing your story. i will say a special prayer for you today. hope things will get better soon.

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SOFT_VAL67 2/26/2014 7:34PM

    so sorry to hear that you are dealing with this. i have had issues with my son, but thankfully since he got clean from drugs over 2 years ago, we get along better and we even help each other alot now.
my close friend is going thru the same thing right now, her stepdaughter is giving her and her husband, the bio dad, a very hard time while shes planning her wedding.
she is treating them as if they dont exist and using her mom and step dad as a way to cause friction with them.
my friends husband has told his daughter he will not even attend her wedding while shes behaving so badly.
i hope things get better for you soon, and like you said, we cant make people want us in their lives, they have to deal with their own issues.

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UMBILICAL 2/26/2014 7:28PM

  Gratitude

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