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GOOD BYE FAT GIRL

Sunday, February 16, 2014

"Dear fat girl in the mirror.I haven't been seeing you as much staring back at me in the mirror lately.I have the feeling that you soon will be leaving forever and so before you go I just wanted to say a few things to you.I have to tell you I have hated you a lot over the years,you have disapointed me,disgusted me,made me sad and made me cry.Please don't be upset by that,you have done good things for me too,you taught me to be compassionate to others because I have known the pain and hurt of others not showing it to me at times over the years.You have taught me that words and names hurt because I have felt that hurt and so would not inflict it on others.You have taught me not to judge anyone based on looks because I have been judged that way.You have taught me that people can and do love me for ME and so I will be forever grateful to you.Please don't take this the wrong way but when that day comes that you are gone for good I don't want you coming back ever again. The new girl I am starting to see in the mirror is who I want to be and who I need to be".
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FRIDA11 2/19/2014 4:10AM

    I was not a fat girl but got mobbed and couldnīt get friends anyway.
Once the whole class but me was invited to a birthday.
Luckily I am grown-up now and can choose who to be together with and do a job of having a life with good experiences.
I also try to appreciate myself - no matter what people think about me.

I have a goal of doing my best to be one of them who works for a better world within my resources - so I can look into the mirror and appreciate those pieces of me that are pretty and be proud that I am me.

Of course I would like to be slender again but I will not throw myself away because of my appearance

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PATTYCAKE17 2/17/2014 11:27AM

    emoticon You may have been a fat girl, but you don't have to be a fat woman. So happy for you that you are emerging into your new self. emoticon

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MRSCLARK 2/17/2014 12:24AM

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that was moving and true.We need to be looked at for what's inside us and not outside.

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TIME4DEE 2/16/2014 10:43PM

    WOW!! Your blog brought tears to my eyes! I think we have all been there at some point in our lives. emoticon This moved me. emoticon emoticon

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DOG_MOM 2/16/2014 6:56PM

    Wonderful sentiment

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GRANDMABABA 2/16/2014 6:31PM

    Beautiful!

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LJCANNON 2/16/2014 6:25PM

    emoticon Wonderful Letter Good-Bye!!
emoticon None of us would be who we are without Our Past Selves, so we should be Grateful for all they have taught us!!

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68ANNE 2/16/2014 4:27PM

    wow
just wow!

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COOP9002 2/16/2014 3:16PM

    Nice word.

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KNYAGENYA 2/16/2014 2:32PM

    I know these feelings so well.

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KANOE10 2/16/2014 12:30PM

    I did not like the weight I had gained,.,but still loved the person inside. Good for you ..done being the fat girl and staying on the healthy track to the thin you.

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PEGGYO 2/16/2014 12:10PM

    Amen to that!!

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NOCALORIES 2/16/2014 10:13AM

    I am so glad you are a team member of Prayer for Abundant Life. Each of your blogs has blessed me. Thank you for being willing to sit down and share yourself through a blog. This one has especially touch me. Enjoy today!

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