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I let go disappointing options and feel great now

Friday, January 31, 2014

Well my "friends" came by with what they said was the last of my belongings at their home. They lied and kept stuff I saw at their house. Now I have given my grief and disappointment over to the Lord and have cut them out of my life. I feel so much better now that I am not running over and over what I would say to them.
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  • GENRE009
    They say blood is thicker than water, but I found that family can hurt you just like anyone. and friends seem to be there to take , yet never give. even if it isn't something financially. I have rarely found that truly honest person. Just a few in my whole life. yet I do know a lot of good people, but maybe it's cause I am not that close to them to see their flaws. When I have gone out of my way to say a friend, or help a friend in need, their response to me was like they were waiting for the hammer to fall. So, I do realize that my friends have a different ethical system than me now. If you have that street mentality, you think everyone is doggy dog. if you don't step on someone, they will step on you. So acts of kindness, is a form of controlling someone to show you are the superior person! And that because of their thinking, they think you are going this to belittle them. So, I know do not have those kind of friends. People that when I try to help they think I want to hurt them in the future, because that's how they are, not me. I am happy that you survived you health. if you wanted the rest of your stuff you co evauld just pop in on those people, and then point out the stuff. but like I said before, it's only stuff, and your peace of mind is more important to your health. I had people steal my inheritance, and I had to let that go, because sometimes there just isn't much you can do but hurt yourself. take care sweetie. eva

    1476 days ago
    I'm very proud of you. Being disappointed by friends it always rough, but holding on to negativity and hurt feelings will just eat you up inside and draw you off of God's path. I'm praying that God will reach out and change their hearts.
    1478 days ago
    I am so proud of you for not returning evil for evil. This is so hard, especially when someone you trusted has hurt you so deeply. One thing I know is that Lord sees everything and He is your vindicator. I would hate to be in the hands of an angry God. His word speaks to us in many places of how he is jealous over his people.
    God is a God of new beginnings. As you have cut these people out of your life, may you move forward, into the promises He has for you. May he place better things into your hands than that which was lost.
    1478 days ago
    I'm proud of you for giving this whole mess to God. And like Paul, you can now be content in any situation. I will continue to pray for you. ((hugs))
    1478 days ago
    Glad you feel better. Things are just things. But as IGNITEME101 says Memories can not be stolen. Please, know that you can come to us at any time when you need to or is you just need to talk. Ok? We love you. Judi emoticon
    1478 days ago

    If this is what you feel comfortable with, then it's only stuff. Memories can not be taken!

    You still have the option to get a warrant if you can prove by pictures or anything else that the items belong to your estate. In VA it was $15.00 and a gripe to get a warrant to appear in court. Not sure in your state.

    I know God will see to it that they have their reward.

    1478 days ago
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