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10 Weight Loss Resolutions to Skip This Year

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Four out of five people who make New Year's resolutions will eventually break them, and a third won't even make it until February. According to experts, the real problem is that we make resolutions that are too vague or unachievable — so we quit. For your New Year's weight-loss resolution to work, you need to have accountability and chart your progress. Follow these tips from the experts on resolutions not to make:

'I'm going on a diet.' Don't set yourself up to fail before you even begin. Instead, pledge to make healthy low-calorie food choices. You'll see more weight loss and achieve greater fitness if you simply resolve to cut processed and refined foods from most meals.

'I'm going to the gym every day.' If you've never set foot inside a gym, don't declare that in January you're going to start working out every day. Start slowly and progressively add more workouts until you're exercising for about 30 minutes, five times a week.

'I'm going to skip breakfast.' Think you can save 300 calories if you skip your scrambled eggs and toast? Big mistake. There's serious truth behind what's become a cliché: Breakfast is the most important meal of the day.

'I'm Going to Weigh Myself Every Morning.'

For your New Year’s weight-loss resolution to work, you need to have accountability and chart your progress. However, the slow-to-move scale may not be the answer, says Jennifer Brango, a certified personal trainer and nutrition coach in Phoenixville, Pa. A better way to measure your weight loss: “Get a pair of jeans that you haven’t been able to fit into and use them as your scale," she suggests. "If you’re changing shape and losing weight, you’ll notice those jeans fitting better.” (This never worked for me, it set me up for failure when disappointed by the scale, I weighed in every 3 months at my doctors, now since I am so close to goal, I weigh myself at home every couple of weeks, but I also judge by the way my clothes feel. And when I get to maintenance I will weigh in once a week, just to keep tabs)

'I'm Never Going to Eat My Favorite Food Again.'

This New Year’s fitness resolution is doomed for two reasons, says Marjorie Nolan, MS, RD, a New York nutritionist and a spokeswoman for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. One is that you are saying “never,” which is an unreasonable restraint. The other is that you’re depriving yourself of the foods that make you happy. A better weight-loss resolution: “I’m only going to have a small piece of chocolate or a kid’s-size ice cream cone, once a week or when a strong craving hits.” Remember, if you really want something, it’s best to give into your craving in moderation — depriving yourself of the taste you truly want can often only lead to overeating later. (To add, only certain die hard people like myself can give up those foods, most go into the mindset of "I cannot" I just went in with "I can!")

'I'm Going to Lose Weight, and Exercise More, and Save Money, Etc.'

The problem here is making too many resolutions. You’re more likely to succeed if you make one New Year’s resolution rather than five. And, the more specific your resolution is, the better. It’s harder to achieve your weight loss goals when they’re too vague or too broad, Bauer says. Adds Amanda Sensabaugh, RD, who works with the N.E.W. Program, a weight-loss program in Newport Beach, Calif., “if you want your resolutions to stick, they have to be specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, balanced, and unrestrictive." (So true, I usually do this, and I fail miserably, this year I am adding 2 because last year I have already met my goals so I am stoked as far as being able to do it now)

'I'm Going to Lose Weight All By Myself.'

When you resolve to lose weight and exercise more, you don’t have to post it on your Facebook page or tweet about it daily. But you should find some support either through online diet groups or among close friends and family. “Weight loss buddies are great,” Bauer says. Brango agrees, saying that they can provide that extra motivation you may need, cheering you on when you’re feeling stressed at work or frustrated that the pounds aren’t coming off faster. “Your friend can hold you accountable — you’ll get up at 6 a.m. to go to the gym if you know she’s meeting you there," Brango says. (Some people are strong enough to do it on their own, I do better by myself)

'I'm Going to Stop Eating Out.'

True, weight loss can be harder when you’re ordering from menus rather than cooking for yourself. But Bauer says it’s not impossible to make healthy choices when eating out, even at fast-food restaurants. If you like to eat out and don’t, you’ll feel deprived and you may quickly abandon this New Year’s resolution. You can resolve to eat out less — pack a healthy lunch several days a week, for instance — but still dine at the same places you always have.
(I pretty much did, I don't trust what the restaurants may do with my food, one or two times a year is pretty much my limit, and it's usually no more than a salad or a cup of coffee, I bring my own coffee hoopla)

'I'm Going to Skip Breakfast.'

Think you can save 300 calories if you skip your scrambled eggs and toast? Big mistake. There’s serious truth behind what’s become a cliché: Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, Nolan says. If you don’t eat a healthy breakfast, it can sabotage your weight loss goals. Come noon, you’re starving, and you’ll overeat because you’re so hungry. Better to make a New Year’s resolution to eat smaller meals and healthy snacks throughout the day.
(Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, it gives you the power and the energy to get through the day, on Jan 1st I am going to do my green drink for breakfast)

'I'm Going to Find Time to Exercise Every Day.'

On the surface, this seems like an admirable New Year’s resolution. But it’s hard to keep exercise and fitness in mind when you don’t plan for it. Mark gym dates on your calendar, White says, and factor your current lifestyle into the equation. For example, if you’re a snoozaholic, don’t set yourself up for failure by scheduling early morning gym classes you’re bound to sleep through — go after work instead. If you miss one of your scheduled workouts, squeeze in a 30-minute walk — exercise isn’t confined to the gym. (2 things sedentary, and a high fat diet, being overweight is more at fault for my diabetes 2 diagnosis. Giving up the sugar and walking everyday helped me reverse it, I lost the weight, and increased activity. It works folks, it really does)

'I'm Going to Follow the Latest Diet.'

The caveman diet. The cookie diet. The grapefruit diet. Every few weeks it seems there’s a new fad diet book hitting the shelves. But weight loss plans that restrict you to any one food group are nearly impossible to sustain, Bauer says. Pledge instead to stick to a well-balanced diet that’s heavy on fruits, vegetables, and whole grains with some lean proteins, low-fat dairy products, and healthy fats, and you’ll find losing weight in the New Year may be easier than you thought. (This annoys me more than ever, but one plan I am going to work with for awhile, courtesy of the Eat to Live team, but only as a kick off for the year, not my lifestyle, because I do like my fish and poultry. Most of these fads are gimmicks and a way to get our money, but some of them do have great ideas and references and plans, it doesn't hurt to try different ideas, right? I have noticed this year, many who started have fallen away, it only tells me one thing, eat right and exercise daily, follow your own path, not someone elses.)

This information is a courtesy of Everyday Health. The comments (me) are my own experiences. This is my last blog for this year! Happy New Year, and I hope all of us reach our healthy goals!!

I think most people start on the 1st of the year because they liken it to a fresh new year and a new beginning in achieving their goals. This year I am given that luxury because my friends decided not to have New Years dinner (Thank goodness! lol) So I can chart my experiences and success's with a spring in my step, and happiness of heart. Thank you SPARKPEOPLE!
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  • SKATER787
    Let's see how I'm doing so far.

    I finally got batteries for my scale after a few weeks. So yes, I weigh myself everyday just to make sure that it doesn't run away. Not worry about losing. Worry about gaining.

    I eat my favorite foods everyday from young coconut to chocolate to peanuts and almonds, even apples have become a habit.

    Just started with 2 meals (feasts) a day. Skipping breakfast works well. No snacking even better. Eating twice a day works for me. Foods taste great when you're hungry and I get to eat a lot.

    Will join the gym shortly. Hope to use it 3 times a week for group-ex classes.

    1464 days ago
  • SEAGLASS1215
    Resolutions don't work for me. I need to set a goal and promise myself a reward - okay, I'm like a kid that way but it works!
    1487 days ago
    Thanks for sharing. I don't believe in resolutions myself, which are never kept.
    1488 days ago
    Thanks for sharing! I call resolutions "goals" which works better for me. Have a wonderful weekend, my friend! Let's keep Sparking!! emoticon
    1489 days ago
    Good stuff! Thanks MJLUVSANIMALS! Hope you have a very happy and healthy 2014.
    1489 days ago
    Happy and Healthy 2014.
    1489 days ago
    This is the reason I started in February- to really mean it- not just say I was going to and then give up.
    1489 days ago
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