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light at the end of the tunnel?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Ok.... sooooo today (day 3 of the most recent manfit my 6 foot 8 inch male counterpart is throwing) and he seems snapped back to normal. Conversing as normal... affectionate and happy.

What the heck is with this man. Issues? Um.... yeah

Can I love him thru yeah.

Do I want to love him thru it.... working on that.

I think I should manage my expectations a bit but I do not want to settle in a one sided relationship either... so today, I am home with my son who unfortunately has the flu (ick) and ive done some heavy soul searching.

I have decided to give myself a time frame. I have expressed my concerns to him clearly and he heard them. If he decides to address the behavior... great. If he doesnt, then yall are going to see a few heartbroken blog entries and we will just go from there. I will not push the issue nor will I let it ruin a single joyful day I have. I control my happiness. End. Of. Story.

Hopefully that story includes him but if it doesnt, I WILL write another one.
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    Love the confident attitude! I hope it works out the way you want it to!
    1550 days ago
  • LUANN7
    Hope everything works out alright!
    1551 days ago
    Thanks ladies. Its a gutsy day around here.... I even took a body pic to post but will habe to wait until I have more service to upload...
    1551 days ago
    I wish you lots of happiness and I hope he comes around
    1551 days ago
    AMEN! I love the way you are handling this. You of course can't just walk away, but you need to have what is best for you and your son in mind. I think you are doing just that. I hope you get the answers you are looking for, don't let him talk you into changing your mind once you have it made up. I am glad things are looking up (for now). You never know this may be the toughest thing you have to go through ever, but you will be stronger because of it. Trust me I know!
    1551 days ago
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