Getting to Yes
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
I really hoped my trip to see my daughter and meet her fiance would ease my mind about the upcoming wedding. OMG, I am so not there yet! I need a plan to get to yes and reach acceptance on this thing! I am going to speak with his mom and see how she did it.
Something my daughter said really bothered me, "things move fast in the military." You don't say? When you move in with someone shortly after your first date? Yes, that is fast. What bothers me most is that I know her. Her operating mode is to take the path of least resistance. I want her to find happiness on her own terms. I think she may sometimes settle because it is easier.
I have to come to terms with this...and soon. I fear for the worst because I want only the best.