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Dh needs patience to heal

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Dh has had some complications during and since the back surgery he had a week ago. I'm struggling to keep him from moving in ways he should not just yet. Mentally, he is not himself. So much is not as anticipated. His doctor wants to see him tomorrow. I'm glad. Hope to get some answers and advice as how to move forward. I need to get some exercise and some sleep soon or I'll go crazy. Right now I must stay near dh. Hopefully docs can help us put our fears aside. Meanwhile, we both need patience!

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LIKINMENOW 11/22/2013 10:51AM

    emoticon to me, husbands can be challenging when trying them to do something. So I am leaning to give it to God to handle. So happy he is going to the doctor. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SUGARSMOM2 11/20/2013 10:11AM

  prayer is part of the answer . I can imagine that he is restless . If he is like my hubby he is active and wants to resume the way he was before . I hope that you get the sleep you need fast . good luck tomorrow .

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SENTERSTOCK 11/19/2013 7:34PM

    Good luck tomorrow! Hope you get the zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz's you need!

Senterstock ~ Grandmother's Fitness Club, co-leader

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PEZCATHY 11/19/2013 4:51PM

    Will keep your husband in my prayers for quick recovery and you in my prayers for strength for dealing with this. Being sick can make us not ourselves, it's hard to remember to be patient sometimes. Hugs to you.

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EMMACORY 11/19/2013 2:46PM

    Hopefully DH can realize that taking the time now will be better in the long run. Hopefully you will get some answers from the doctor. emoticon

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SDEHNKE 11/19/2013 11:41AM

    Prayers for strength and patience as you deal with your husband's health concerns. emoticon


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CATLADY52 11/19/2013 10:14AM

    emoticon The hardest thing for anyone to do is be patient with someone who is having a hard time getting over an operation. emoticon

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KMVBBAM 11/19/2013 9:08AM

    Sending prayers for answers, patience, and time for you. emoticon

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JACKIE542 11/19/2013 8:59AM

    emoticon emoticon Hope the doctor can help, take good care! emoticon

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HIKETOHEIGHTS 11/19/2013 8:49AM

    emoticon emoticon best wishes for a full recovery for your dear husband

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NELLJONES 11/19/2013 8:48AM

    It's a tough one, and given my own hubby's illnesses, I understand. He has to be patient with his recovery, and you get to be patient with both him AND his recovery.

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LKWQUILTER 11/19/2013 8:30AM

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GRANJERRY 11/19/2013 6:43AM

    You are in our prayers. DH will be better keep the faith emoticon

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AKELAZ 11/19/2013 5:26AM

    Patience is so hard in cases of sickness. I'm very sorry you're both going through all this. Finding a line between caring for the person who is sick and caring for yourself is difficult too.
I hope you find a way through it all - and that the doctors find some answers.
Will be thinking of you emoticon

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LADYRH 11/19/2013 4:44AM

    Hope you get answers soon and he starts healing both body and mind.

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NASFKAB 11/19/2013 4:22AM

  hope your DH feels better soon Praying

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SLACHETKA103145 11/19/2013 3:46AM

    emoticon emoticon glad you are going to get some answers, hopefully!

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DJ4HEALTH 11/19/2013 1:51AM

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BTRX71 11/19/2013 1:24AM

    emoticon Hope you get some answers from the dr. Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. emoticon Best of luck!

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