Monday, October 21, 2013
I have this friend (had this friend) that is always wanting something from me but when I need her, she don't have time or changes the subject. You know the type? What bothers me most is that I realized or (felt like) I was being used so I confronted her and I was told that I was overreacting and pushing her away; that it was all ME! That she would be as close or as far away as I would let her be. So I unfriended her on FB and she ask to be my friend again, saying she will always be there for me. I decided to give it one more chance. Then I noticed things like when I get on Fb she gets off. When I would IM her just saying hi and asking how she was, she wouldn't answer. When she said she was upset I asked her to talk to me and she ignored me. This is one of those friendships where everything that has been asked of me I have done for 2 years but the minute I said no to one thing, everything changed. Now she's too busy to talk when we used to talk for hours. Now she ignores me on FB but when I used to get on FB, she would be waiting for me. We were so close at one time that at 3am I woke up feeling that she needed me and sure nuf I signed on and she was on waiting for me to sign on because she was in distress and needed me. I really felt our souls connected and I have cried so many times because she has hurt me by something she's done or said. Now I finally accept the fact that this relationship is hurting me and I don't need her in my life so I'm really done with her this time. Its not healthy for me. Not that she cares because I've tried to talk to her about this too. So I would love to know what you think because she says I'm imagining everythingand that we are still as close as ever but I know thats not true. Its not all in my head. Infact, I think she's playing with my head. Thats why I'm letting go. The question is do I unfriend her again or just ignore her from now on? I'd like your nice friendly advice please.