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MISSING MY DAD...RIP

Friday, October 18, 2013

woke up with such a vivid flashback as me as a little girl drinking cola and eating french fries with ketchup in the Black Lantern Restaurant in Hillsboro,NH sitting in the booth with my dad and Marion Duffield, the Avon lady putting my Avon order in and feeling happy. This flashback has really upset me and shaken me up.Missing my dad alot extra these days ó feeling sad.
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WRITEAWAY 11/3/2013 5:13PM

    Wow, I'm SO glad you got SO much GREAT support for this post.

Along with everyone, I'm sending comfort. emoticon

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-WISPY- 10/24/2013 6:44PM

    Just wanted to add my warm hugs and loving thoughts to your blog. Over time those very special memories which are devastating now , come to be deeply treasured and happy ones.

I feel you pain.
Love Wispy.

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NEWHEARTSTART 10/21/2013 12:54PM

    My dad has been gone for nearly seven years and I still miss him very much. It is somewhat comforting that my brother is restoring dad's old motorcycle in my garage. We have so many memories of dad to share over this.

The memories are bittersweet because if I hadn't loved him so much I wouldn't miss him so much.

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FISHER011 10/20/2013 7:20PM

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JTREMBATH 10/20/2013 2:17PM

    Sorry about your dad. emoticon

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SPARKFRAN514 10/20/2013 12:10PM

    Sorry you are missing your dad like those a head of me have said you never get over the loss you just move on and those memories are very special time its like going back .and watching home movies or slides. I am working on a project for my brother transferring family vacations to a DVD what fun memories . emoticon

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WORKNPROGRESS49 10/20/2013 9:42AM

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DANAPRIME 10/19/2013 9:18PM

    Sorry for your loss. I am missing my dad too!

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BLEEDINGROSES 10/19/2013 7:08PM

    today is my dad's birthday. we lost him almost 4 years ago. hugs emoticon

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WORKOUTWITHPAM 10/19/2013 6:12PM

    So sorry about the loss of your dad.

HUGS
Pam

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HAPPYJUNEBUG 10/19/2013 5:57PM

    That's alright, doll. Maybe your dad is missing you, too, and wanted to convey this message to you. Perhaps he thought about that particular moment.

Praying for you!

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USMAWIFE 10/19/2013 2:59PM

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GGMAKAT 10/19/2013 1:06PM

    I'm sorry you are so sad. But it is a wonderful thing to have had a father who can still bring you good, warm feelings. emoticon

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CSYOUNG1952 10/18/2013 10:10PM

    As someone who knows what it's like to grieve for a loved one, I know what your going through.

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I canít change my past but this is my chance to change my future.


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68ANNE 10/18/2013 9:29PM

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1CRAZYDOG 10/18/2013 8:47PM

    Hugs and your Dad will always be in your heart. That's a safe place.

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LILYDOG11 10/18/2013 7:13PM

    I have memories of my dad and avon too and so many more memories. Thanks for your blog.

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BEEJAY49 10/18/2013 6:22PM

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SAINTBERNARD6 10/18/2013 6:07PM

    Praise God that you have such happy memories of your Dad..

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PEGGYO 10/18/2013 3:21PM

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ALIHIKES 10/18/2013 12:24PM

    emoticon Your blog brought back fond memories of my dad making pancakes on Sunday morning, and making the drive to the city dump and adventure with a car full of kids

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COOP9002 10/18/2013 11:54AM

    Prayers heading your way today.

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MI-ELLKAYBEE 10/18/2013 11:19AM

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MOM2ACAT 10/18/2013 10:30AM

    emoticon I can relate; I lost my dad 2 years ago. You never know what is going to trigger a memory, but I have learned to treasure those; it means my dad will always be with me.

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PROUD-GRANDMA 10/18/2013 9:41AM

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TINY67 10/18/2013 9:18AM

    Enjoy the memories, they're of someone you loved and still love.

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PATTYKLAVER 10/18/2013 9:11AM

    I get flashbacks of my Dad. It's like someone sneaks up and hits me in the back of the head. Yeah, sometimes it makes me sad. But then I remember all the happy times and I know that he loves me and is watching over me.

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JULIA_211 10/18/2013 9:03AM

    I lost my parents within ten months of each other. I can relate how you're feeling. emoticon I still have vivid dreams of my mom. I created an autumn centerpiece with a candle holder, and when I'm missing them, I just light it up. Brings me some comfort. I hope you can find some comfort in his memory too. emoticon

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JEN169 10/18/2013 8:56AM

    I was struck by the title of your blog. My dad passed away 2 years ago on Monday, and for the last couple of weeks it has been overwhelming. I can empathize with you. Peace and blessings!

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COCK-ROBIN 10/18/2013 8:50AM

    Those are great memories, and you'll always miss him. emoticon

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KAMOFARRELL 10/18/2013 8:44AM

    emoticon I know how you feel. I will pray for you! Hold onto the memories

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NELLJONES 10/18/2013 8:22AM

    I miss my father every day. He was the one person who loved me completely. But he is alive as long as I remember him. I quote him every day about something. I see him in my tastes and choices. He isn't really gone as long as I keep him alive, and pass him along.

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NEVERORNOW 10/18/2013 7:44AM

    emoticon Praying God will comfort you.

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JSTETSER 10/18/2013 7:43AM

    I live in Hillsboro, NH. What a surprise! I added you as my new SparkFriend.
I have yet to meet. sparkler.

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GAYLLYNNE 10/18/2013 6:59AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I have similar memories with my dad and I miss him too. It's normal and we need to embrace the wonderful memories. Hugs!

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