Tuesday, October 08, 2013
Its been a week since my husband has quit chewing tabacco. He's been an absolute bear to deal with and has seemed to emotionally pushed us away. We've been through this before he gets so far and can't beat it. He ends up going back to it because he can't handle life without it. It drives me insane that he won't let me help him and he doesn't think I understand the burden he's under. Which isn't completely true because I do. I do as much as I can to help him but I'm at my wits end again and am struggling under my own weight of life and I'm trying so hard to be understanding and giving him the space he needs. I'm not sure how to help him or what to say to him any more. I know he's stressed, I just wish he didn't depend on the garbage to help him through his stress. I'm stressed too but I don't use anything to help me through it that would hurt me. I'm stuck....help! Am I missing something here? Its usually something so simple I don't see it...anyone else ever been through this? Thanks for the advise and help...its greatly appreciated.