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Thursday, October 03, 2013

Of no fault of anyones; it is very difficult 4 me 2 adjust 2 my dauhgter & her other 2 children living here with us. And as 4 LaLa I know its rough on her @ times having her mother here.

My dd gets stuck on the past & the person I was b4 I found peace & proper mental care. Things that would have had me snapping b4 dont bother me these days.

Although she is a mother of 3 beautiful daughters she is 25 & wants 2 b able 2 hang out w others her age. I guess I should b happy @ least the kids r safe here in bed & she does stay in the complex.

I just dont deal well w ppl being in my space ALL OF THE TIME; I dont like ppl being around much & between her ppl & hubbies there seems 2 b some1 hanging out front most of the time.

Adjusting 2 things just aint so easy 4 me

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SNOWYOGA 10/14/2013 8:52PM

    I know that's how I have felt lately Not sure if it's my age, or that I didn't have the same ability emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ONBEACHSIDE 10/6/2013 8:39PM

    Yes, it is difficult. I had the other end of the scale an 86 yo,92yo,96yo. They were certainly easier than little ones but I assume your dd and friends her age are more difficult being were they needn't be. The 96yo always tried to help and do laundry and she ruined my clothing, but she DID try to help and boy did I feel guilty telling her to leave our laundry alone.

Is there anyway to get your daughter to not have the hubbies and friends n the house but to rather do meetings out on the porch. You do have the right not to have your lives altered by adults. The kids need the supervision not the 25+.

Take care.

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BEEJAY49 10/4/2013 4:52AM

    It would be very hard to lose the privacy you're use to. Maybe set some ground rules or something? Hang in there! I'm praying for you! HUGS!

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MARTHAR3 10/3/2013 11:51PM

    It is so hard to deal with someone in your space I am a independent type person. After being sick my son moved back home so someone would be here it took a while to adjust to him being here. but it is just him with no extra...

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